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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Because you can't meet straight away or say you aren't into something, I've got the response your loss. I always respond with what you've never had to don't miss so no loss at all. Have others had this?

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By *rder66Man
over a year ago

Tatooine

I'll tell you if I ever meet anybody.

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By *alandNitaCouple
over a year ago

Scunthorpe


"Because you can't meet straight away or say you aren't into something, I've got the response your loss. I always respond with what you've never had to don't miss so no loss at all. Have others had this? "

No, but I agree... it's no loss at all.

Cal

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I'll tell you if I ever meet anybody."

Lol ok

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek

Yeah, only get it off men though.

I don't understand it at all. You don't get it in other situations for refusing something you don't want. That's like me saying " no thanks, I don't want leprosy" and they respond with "your loss"

How is it? I don't fucking want it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don’t really agree with the saying. That’s the rejected who speaking normally.

We shouldn’t assume it’s someone loss if they don’t want us, they don’t want us for a reason

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I just delete and block these kinds of childish responses. Its not worth wasting my time, energy and thought on. I move on to better messages.

Her x

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By *offiaCoolWoman
over a year ago

Kidsgrove


"I'll tell you if I ever meet anybody."

Oh bless

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don’t really agree with the saying. That’s the rejected who speaking normally.

We shouldn’t assume it’s someone loss if they don’t want us, they don’t want us for a reason "

Ego not who

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By *radleyandRavenCouple
over a year ago

Herts

Had it a couple of times after sending a polite "No thank you" to unsolicited messages.

We're not missing out when it's something we don't want?

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek

My loss would be misplacing a winning lottery ticket.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I don’t really agree with the saying. That’s the rejected who speaking normally.

We shouldn’t assume it’s someone loss if they don’t want us, they don’t want us for a reason "

Precisely

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes afew times. I add them to the block list of dooooom

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By *nabelle21Woman
over a year ago

B38

Nah...never had it and it would just confirm reasons why I didn't want to meet them in the first place

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I had someone use the phrase on me recently and it just made me laugh... I was sat there thinking 'well I'm not even slightly interested so how is it my loss?'

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By *eorge JetsonMan
over a year ago

Middlesbrough


"Yeah, only get it off men though.

I don't understand it at all. You don't get it in other situations for refusing something you don't want. That's like me saying " no thanks, I don't want leprosy" and they respond with "your loss"

How is it? I don't fucking want it "

But if you've never had it.... How would you know if you don't want it??

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"My loss would be misplacing a winning lottery ticket."

Lol

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By *eorge JetsonMan
over a year ago

Middlesbrough


"My loss would be misplacing a winning lottery ticket."

You didn't misplace that.

Its here for safekeeping. Let me know if you want it back.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No loss on my part at all. If the same about ‘its a shame’. Its not a shame for anyone. I suppose its just a retort to make ppl feel better

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"No loss on my part at all. If the same about ‘its a shame’. Its not a shame for anyone. I suppose its just a retort to make ppl feel better"

No loss for me either. You're right about it being something to say to make them feel better

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I get it all the time, usually followed by something derogatory about my age or body.. And that they aren't even interested in me.. Usually within the space of 10 mins. I'm too busy laughing to see if they blocked me.

Sometimes they forget and go through the same cycle rinse +repeat

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've not had this and I agree with the sentiment that if you don't want them, then there is no loss.

It is interesting though that when consoling a friend over a break up, the go-to line is alway usually "it's their loss anyway". Would the same not apply?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes we've had the your loss reply... Fucking arrogant if you ask us... Which you didn't... Your loss..

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By *ed VoluptaWoman
over a year ago

Wirral.


"Yes we've had the your loss reply... Fucking arrogant if you ask us... Which you didn't... Your loss.. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yip get it all the time

My best response to it is to screen shot my view count for the day and unread messages count and say really don’t think it is

They not so snappy or quick to say it when they see my viewer count is up in the 400-500 range and my unread messages are up in the 100s ha ha

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By *imi_RougeWoman
over a year ago

Portsmouth


"No loss on my part at all. If the same about ‘its a shame’. Its not a shame for anyone. I suppose its just a retort to make ppl feel better"

This. 2 of my pet peeves!

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By *uicy jugsWoman
over a year ago

Nottingham

Not quite that but what i do get is that i am rude for not accepting their invite to play as if they are the only man on the planet ... thank god for my lovely list of genuine friends who like me would rather wait and enjoy swinging instead of being impatient idiots

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Had a few.. those who don't understand ...

1. Single mums don't just leave kid to meet

2. Those who think you don't have a life

3. Those who truely don't understand school holidays either

4. Those who that meeting them should be my priority

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Had a few.. those who don't understand ...

1. Single mums don't just leave kid to meet

2. Those who think you don't have a life

3. Those who truely don't understand school holidays either

4. Those who that meeting them should be my priority "

5 those that don't understand a pandemic

6 the one sick fuck that when told we are shielding due to hubbies stage four cancer (fighting it doing well) said when he dies, call me, I'll fuck you.. And no, I'm not kidding....

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By *inkylipsWoman
over a year ago

Debauchery

Yes from a few couples

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By *airyfatmanMan
over a year ago

by 'ere


"Had a few.. those who don't understand ...

1. Single mums don't just leave kid to meet

2. Those who think you don't have a life

3. Those who truely don't understand school holidays either

4. Those who that meeting them should be my priority

5 those that don't understand a pandemic

6 the one sick fuck that when told we are shielding due to hubbies stage four cancer (fighting it doing well) said when he dies, call me, I'll fuck you.. And no, I'm not kidding.... "

That has got to be one of the sickest things I've read. Shameful...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Had a few.. those who don't understand ...

1. Single mums don't just leave kid to meet

2. Those who think you don't have a life

3. Those who truely don't understand school holidays either

4. Those who that meeting them should be my priority

5 those that don't understand a pandemic

6 the one sick fuck that when told we are shielding due to hubbies stage four cancer (fighting it doing well) said when he dies, call me, I'll fuck you.. And no, I'm not kidding....

That has got to be one of the sickest things I've read. Shameful..."

I know! It's not like he was even bi!!!! (sorry, hubbies sick sence of humour rubbing off on me

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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago

South Wales


"Had a few.. those who don't understand ...

1. Single mums don't just leave kid to meet

2. Those who think you don't have a life

3. Those who truely don't understand school holidays either

4. Those who that meeting them should be my priority

5 those that don't understand a pandemic

6 the one sick fuck that when told we are shielding due to hubbies stage four cancer (fighting it doing well) said when he dies, call me, I'll fuck you.. And no, I'm not kidding.... "

That’s truly awful. What a cockwomble!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its petulant, isnt it!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Its petulant, isnt it!"

The faxt is, he is the worst patient ever.. Turned up to his FIRST oncology appointment with a t shirt printed with the slogan cancer... Putting the die in diet.. The nurses actually fight over him... ... That's my boy

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By *airyfatmanMan
over a year ago

by 'ere


"Its petulant, isnt it!

The faxt is, he is the worst patient ever.. Turned up to his FIRST oncology appointment with a t shirt printed with the slogan cancer... Putting the die in diet.. The nurses actually fight over him... ... That's my boy "

Humour has to be the best way to deal with these situations though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Its petulant, isnt it!

The faxt is, he is the worst patient ever.. Turned up to his FIRST oncology appointment with a t shirt printed with the slogan cancer... Putting the die in diet.. The nurses actually fight over him... ... That's my boy

Humour has to be the best way to deal with these situations though"

Unless you're diabetic.. In which case, Insulin.....

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By *imbobaMan
over a year ago

Glasgow


"Its petulant, isnt it!

The faxt is, he is the worst patient ever.. Turned up to his FIRST oncology appointment with a t shirt printed with the slogan cancer... Putting the die in diet.. The nurses actually fight over him... ... That's my boy

Humour has to be the best way to deal with these situations though

Unless you're diabetic.. In which case, Insulin..... "

Insulting?

Jumping up though. That is a WTF message you got.

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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT

Yes iv had these

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By *ed VoluptaWoman
over a year ago

Wirral.


"Had a few.. those who don't understand ...

1. Single mums don't just leave kid to meet

2. Those who think you don't have a life

3. Those who truely don't understand school holidays either

4. Those who that meeting them should be my priority

5 those that don't understand a pandemic

6 the one sick fuck that when told we are shielding due to hubbies stage four cancer (fighting it doing well) said when he dies, call me, I'll fuck you.. And no, I'm not kidding.... "

Jesus Christ. Beyond words, that

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By *arte_Blanche_NECouple
over a year ago

Northern


"Because you can't meet straight away or say you aren't into something, I've got the response your loss. I always respond with what you've never had to don't miss so no loss at all. Have others had this? "

Yeah we have had this before amongst the “well I’ve fucked better looking women anyway” and “can I ask why” return responses. The can I ask why has been mainly from couple profiles x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It is not a loss if you not interested in the first place

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By *tephTV67TV/TS
over a year ago

Cheshire

Never (that I can remember) had a message saying ‘your loss’, so it’s either I never turn anyone down or I get the messages from people on here who are full of self awareness

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yeah, only get it off men though.

I don't understand it at all. You don't get it in other situations for refusing something you don't want. That's like me saying " no thanks, I don't want leprosy" and they respond with "your loss"

How is it? I don't fucking want it "

DYING! At Leprosy hilarious

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Because you can't meet straight away or say you aren't into something, I've got the response your loss. I always respond with what you've never had to don't miss so no loss at all. Have others had this? "

No, I have not had this. But, I wouldn’t respond if someone tries to make you feel bad.

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By *den-Valley-coupleCouple
over a year ago

Cumbria

The only thing I feel I have lost is 5 minutes looking at this shit..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As someone put it : it is my dick's loss not my loss

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’ve not had a ‘your loss’ - but I have just been ignored and conversation ceased when I wouldn’t meet up when lockdown was in full swing. Which was a tad annoying as one woman I though I’d got on with quite well

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its always there loss until one day it was mine

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Its always there loss until one day it was mine "

Sending you virtual hugs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I e heard people get your missing the best fuck of your life

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Its always there loss until one day it was mine

Sending you virtual hugs"
hope it doesnt give me a computer virus

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Its always there loss until one day it was mine

Sending you virtual hugshope it doesnt give me a computer virus "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Its always there loss until one day it was mine

Sending you virtual hugshope it doesnt give me a computer virus

"

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I've not had this and I agree with the sentiment that if you don't want them, then there is no loss.

It is interesting though that when consoling a friend over a break up, the go-to line is alway usually "it's their loss anyway". Would the same not apply?"

Slightly different scenario though as they have had a real relationship, so there is an actual loss

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