FabSwingers.com forum: Older man younger woman

By *urious1973 OP Man
over a year ago

angus

Maybe a female in there 20s is pushing but is it still manageable to attract a lady in there early to late thirties as I approach 50 or is that wishful thinking x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

definitely not wishful thinking

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

Do you mean messaging them on fab or sidling up to them in shops?

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

I'm in my 20s (just

) and I like men in their early to mid 40s so I don't see why not.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ha ha what about us chaps in our 50's

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By *arah_kieran_ukCouple
over a year ago

Greater London

For us it wouldn’t be a problem as it’s turn on for me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The other way around, as a guy in my 20's I liked women in their 50's.

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By *moothshaftMan
over a year ago

Coventry

Well I'll keep an eye to this, but for a chap in his 60's I won't hold my breath!

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By *ancer36Woman
over a year ago

Stirling

Not wishful thinking at all x

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By *arker secrets 321Man
over a year ago

West Bromwich

I would like 2 think I can but need 2 look my best 2 do so x

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By *AABMan
over a year ago

Not far

Mmm, I’m over 50 and would imagine 99% of women in their 30’s would rather have a bloke their own age.

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

My limit is 30 at a push which is a 17 year age gap, any lower than that and it would just feel wrong to me.

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By *heNYCSausageMan
over a year ago

Everton

"I'm in my 20s (just

) and I like men in their early to mid 40s so I don't see why not. "

*Waves* hi!

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

Older men with women who are younger than them by a couple of decades (I can't call late thirties younger sorry!

)? Not that odd at all Op.

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By *AABMan
over a year ago

Not far

"My limit is 30 at a push which is a 17 year age gap, any lower than that and it would just feel wrong to me."

Wow, how about 4 years and a gap of 300 miles?

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

"My limit is 30 at a push which is a 17 year age gap, any lower than that and it would just feel wrong to me.

Wow, how about 4 years and a gap of 300 miles?

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

"My limit is 30 at a push which is a 17 year age gap, any lower than that and it would just feel wrong to me.

Wow, how about 4 years and a gap of 300 miles?

Distance isn't a problem

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By *gent CoulsonMan
over a year ago

Secret hideaway in the pennines

My last long term partner was 20 years my younger, and I met her on here

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By *ancer36Woman
over a year ago

Stirling

"I would like 2 think I can but need 2 look my best 2 do so x "

Oh look your underneath me...how convenient x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My gym has a predominantly young clientele, it's just nice and local for me. Far more younger women, I would say early to mid twenties, flirt with me than those my own age.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think we you are open minded and have a good outlook on life then age doesn't really matter... Be it older or younger.. I prefer women around my own age but have chatted to a lot younger (and older) and it makes no difference whatsoever

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By *enninemarkMan
over a year ago

huddersfield/manchester

There is at least some hope then lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hii

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By *AABMan
over a year ago

Not far

"My limit is 30 at a push which is a 17 year age gap, any lower than that and it would just feel wrong to me.

Wow, how about 4 years and a gap of 300 miles?

Distance isn't a problem

I think I need to take a cold shower

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

"My limit is 30 at a push which is a 17 year age gap, any lower than that and it would just feel wrong to me.

Wow, how about 4 years and a gap of 300 miles?

Distance isn't a problem

I think I need to take a cold shower

Would you like some company

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By *d4funtimesMan
over a year ago

Cambridge

Does the age gap matter? Along there is a connection and desire, it opens up to plenty of mischief

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By *d4funtimesMan
over a year ago

Cambridge

"My limit is 30 at a push which is a 17 year age gap, any lower than that and it would just feel wrong to me.

Wow, how about 4 years and a gap of 300 miles?

Distance isn't a problem

I think I need to take a cold shower

Would you like some company

Oh yes, I would love to....

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By *AABMan
over a year ago

Not far

"My limit is 30 at a push which is a 17 year age gap, any lower than that and it would just feel wrong to me.

Wow, how about 4 years and a gap of 300 miles?

Distance isn't a problem

I think I need to take a cold shower

Would you like some company

Wouldn’t that be a wonderful thing

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

"My limit is 30 at a push which is a 17 year age gap, any lower than that and it would just feel wrong to me.

Wow, how about 4 years and a gap of 300 miles?

Distance isn't a problem

I think I need to take a cold shower

Would you like some company

Wouldn’t that be a wonderful thing

Extremely

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By *nnCeeWoman
over a year ago

East of Eden, West of Hell

Well, unfortunately, I'm now into my 40s, but looking at your pics from 2020, I'd say there'd be no trouble for you to attract a younger lady.

My largest age gap was 15 years....and that's been both ways, older and younger.

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By *orthern StarsCouple
over a year ago

Durham

Totally manageable.

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By *imi_RougeWoman
over a year ago

Portsmouth

In their 30's isn't really all that much of a difference, yes there might be a number of years, but 35+ we usually know what we want and what we like and appreciate someone our own age or a bit older.

I did at that age.

Can depend on your outlook, young at heart and all that!

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend

It can happen

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm 35 and at the middle stage. Not a cougar yet and not young either

so I don't know if 35 is in anyones ideal age range. I don't have an ideal age range particularly, there is either an attraction or there isn't I think. You have a good profile OP

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'll be 35 hubby will be 55 it does happen we been together for 10 years. Don't give up.

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By *urls and DressesWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere near here

I certainly don’t think it’s an issue

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By *rooperRedMan
over a year ago

Littlehampton

73, good year, although sometimes it feels like the warranty has run out.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends if you mean factually or appearances. Some women on here over 29 look amazing and younger. Some who fit your bracket look older. Age is just a number, as long as you fancy the person what does it matter?

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By *d4funtimesMan
over a year ago

Cambridge

"I certainly don’t think it’s an issue "

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By *gent CoulsonMan
over a year ago

Secret hideaway in the pennines

90% of the woman on here are younger than me. But many a great tune played on an old fiddle

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By *ilverjagMan
over a year ago

swansea

You are generally on a safe bet with younger women for many reasons. Most mature guys are usually quite intelligent, very secure, and well grounded in life, and therefore seen as a very safe opinion to play with before you even begin to explore eroticism together. I've also been told a few times by young couples that they always see a mature guy as being no threat to their relationship, whereas younger bulls have been known to try playing space invaders, and trying to get her on their own without his consent.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you wish they will come

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For me personally age doesn't matter. Personality is more important and that click.

Feeling relaxed with each other makes meets a lot easier and memorable.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Im 32. Hes 50.

Age isn't a factor for either of us.

I don't think either of us would be interested if it had been tbh.

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By *rder66Man
over a year ago

Tatooine

I can't get any women of any age and have taken up crying into my pillow as a hoby.

Even the cat lady across the street laughs at me.

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By *acDreamyMan
over a year ago

Wirral

"Mmm, I’m over 50 and would imagine 99% of women in their 30’s would rather have a bloke their own age."

That's great. 1 in a hundred want you!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When I was in late 30s I had a brief fling with 18yr old working in our offices.

Recently (2yrs ago) I had one night stand with 38yr old - again from work.

So experienced age gaps of 20yrs and 15yrs and don't think it's odd.

What is odd is I'm more attracted to older women, but always hook up with younger?

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By *layfullsamMan
over a year ago

Solihull

"For us it wouldn’t be a problem as it’s turn on for me

xx"

There is a god

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A few years ago, I was seeing someone in her early 20s. She had a thing for older guys. Was very flattering, but she so didn't have her shit together. There won't be a repeat performance ...

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By *elle xWoman
over a year ago

Doire Theas

I like men

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By *acDreamyMan
over a year ago

Wirral

"I like men

They like you!

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By *bwcumslutandhermanCouple
over a year ago

romford

"Well I'll keep an eye to this, but for a chap in his 60's I won't hold my breath!

You never know I'm 35 my partner is 65

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By *irebrand 1263Man
over a year ago

near you

I keep hoping

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By *dmundwilsonMan
over a year ago

Llandudno

Uplifting news!

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By *bi HaiveMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Cheeseville, Somerset

"Maybe a female in there 20s is pushing but is it still manageable to attract a lady in there early to late thirties as I approach 50 or is that wishful thinking x"

Nah.

Never happens......

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm 33 wouldn't mind a early early 20s

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By *irtydaddyreturnsMan
over a year ago

corby

It does happen

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By *TG3Man
over a year ago

Dorchester

Definitely wishful thinking mind you if you're a millionaire like me not too difficult

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By *ornyguy666Man
over a year ago

Nottingham

Love women all ages young or old

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I met my now wife when she was 19 I was 42 been together now for 29 years before I met her when I was in my forties I was going out with a 20 year old so it does happen if the attraction is there

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Age should never matter as long as it's legal lol

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By *arkus1812Man
over a year ago

Lifes departure lounge NN9 Northamptonshire East not West MidlandsMidlands

Away from Fab and in the real world I am currently meeting a 39yr old lady, 44 years my junior, on a monthly basis purely for naked romps in the bedroom.

Chat to a number of ladies on here in the 40 and 50 year old range but so far no meets, primarily due to geographical reasons.

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By *A11EYS DO66ERMan
over a year ago

Blaenau-gwent

I'm 46 & since I turned 40 I've noticed the change .

I seem to get more attention than I used to from younger ladies ( I'm not complaining )

When I was younger it was always older ladies I went for .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Maybe a female in there 20s is pushing but is it still manageable to attract a lady in there early to late thirties as I approach 50 or is that wishful thinking x"

Good luck fella for some of us there’s not a chance in hell

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Away from Fab and in the real world I am currently meeting a 39yr old lady, 44 years my junior, on a monthly basis purely for naked romps in the bedroom.

Chat to a number of ladies on here in the 40 and 50 year old range but so far no meets, primarily due to geographical reasons."

Fair play to you sir

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By *aughtyg69Man
over a year ago

Somerset

There is always hope out there! Nearly 50 and still get messages from younger women who prefer the older guy.

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By *ornym66Man
over a year ago

Col /ips

I'm 56 and I've got no luck at all on here

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By *etite_delightWoman
over a year ago

BunnyLand

Started my journey with younger or similar age guys/girls. Definitely leaning to older men/women who are experienced swingers in the last few years. They are something else

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By *icebuttnaughty4uMan
over a year ago

Portsmouth

If only. Did have one very young meet, she was nervous as hell but kept inviting me back as 8 treated her better than guys her age

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By *dward_TeagueMan
over a year ago

wolverhampton

I’m meeting my FWB later, she’s 34 years younger than me.

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By *ruceyyMan
over a year ago

London

"I’m meeting my FWB later, she’s 34 years younger than me."

Go on Eddie son! Give her one from me!

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By *ayHaychMan
over a year ago

Leeds (Home) / Sheffield (Work)

You just need to look for the Lana Del Rey fans.

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By *os19Man
over a year ago

Edmonton

I have been exchanging messages with a 29 year old via the dating site messenger service and we have met up for a coffee and maybe meeting up tomorrow. It’s a bit complicated and I am not sure which way to go but I figure it out at my own pace.

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

"You just need to look for the Lana Del Rey fans. "

Great, thanks for calling us out like this.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Maybe a female in there 20s is pushing but is it still manageable to attract a lady in there early to late thirties as I approach 50 or is that wishful thinking x"

I think as I got older I started to attract those older. People still seem young minded which is cool, but when I get along with younger women they don’t seem to be interested. Which is a shame, because I think some are amazingly sexy and a good laugh.

But don’t you think it’s s mindset more. There are some people who just feel a different age…it’s a thing with me.

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By *LiamMan
over a year ago

Midlands

When did I become 'older' to these late 20's women

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By *ayHaychMan
over a year ago

Leeds (Home) / Sheffield (Work)

"You just need to look for the Lana Del Rey fans.

Great, thanks for calling us out like this. "

In my early 20s I was really living the LDR vibe with a select few older men. Fun times!

“I got sweet taste for men who're older It's always been so it's no surprise”. Love her so much!

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
over a year ago

Reading

There are just too few younger women who must be bombarded.

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By *arkthespark1Man
over a year ago

coventry

Love a younger woman full of vibrancy but still a little bit to learn where the innocence shines through

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By *lint-EverhardMan
over a year ago

Perpignan and cap

I'm looking for a younger woman out there in the wild. It's about time I took a step back and let a youngster do all the heavy lifting. I "cut my teeth" on older women and although I do still have a soft spot for them I'm prepared to be tied up, whipped and called daddy.

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By *TG3Man
over a year ago

Dorchester

Young sexy women dont generally see older out of shape guys as attractive, those sexy young women maybe go for guys in their own age bracket........ So look, appreciate but don't touch

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By *avexxMan
over a year ago

cheshire

"Young sexy women dont generally see older out of shape guys as attractive, those sexy young women maybe go for guys in their own age bracket........ So look, appreciate but don't touch

"
.. this is true

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By *ickedwillyCouple
over a year ago

Bangor

Totally aggre with mackie we stay in our own age group

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By *TG3Man
over a year ago

Dorchester

"Totally aggre with mackie we stay in our own age group "
exactly

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By *oggoneMan
over a year ago

Derry

Can we make '60 is the new 40' a thing please?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Can we make '60 is the new 40' a thing please?"

So does 40 become the new 30? Asking for a friend

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By *ands151Couple
over a year ago

london

My girlfriend has always been attracted to older guys. I thought it was commen enough.

Obviously not, based in their thread

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By *A11EYS DO66ERMan
over a year ago

Blaenau-gwent

I bet there's a few shy lurkers on here .

Send us a message girls if u fancy an older guy (46)

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By *arriedUKCoupleCouple
over a year ago

Portsmouth

Age is not an issue to us more about the person and how you get on.

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By *hav02Man
over a year ago

Glasgow/London

Many younger women are interested in older men, just as many younger men are interested in older women.

The difference though, there are probably more older men interested in younger women than there are older women interested in younger men.

Supply and demand

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