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By *imi_Rouge OP   Woman
over a year ago

Portsmouth

Why do "some" men feel the need to put other women down to pay you a compliment?

Do they not realise it's not a competition?

I'm tired of hearing about the other crazy/demanding women on here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't like those clothes but on you they look great

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By *alandNitaCouple
over a year ago

Scunthorpe


"Why do "some" men feel the need to put other women down to pay you a compliment?

Do they not realise it's not a competition?

I'm tired of hearing about the other crazy/demanding women on here

"

Why does anyone feel that they have to put others down at all ever?

Cal

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't like those clothes but on you they look great "

Your beard would look better on me

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

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I'm not sure. I do think that people have a negative experience and that can colour their views of people of the opposite sex and then maybe they are so genuinely amazed that you're not going to start boiling their favourite bunny that they think you're wonderful.

Or...

It's just a line repeated ad infinitum.

Designed to make you think you're special and they recognise that uniqueness and value you and want you because you're you, not because you're just another quim when they've worked their way through most of the eligible women on here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think it is probably their strange attempt at making a women feel special. I have experienced women doing this as well though. But not often

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By *imi_Rouge OP   Woman
over a year ago

Portsmouth


"I think it is probably their strange attempt at making a women feel special. I have experienced women doing this as well though. But not often"

As you can probably tell, it failed

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"I think it is probably their strange attempt at making a women feel special. I have experienced women doing this as well though. But not often"

I think we've all gone through the "I'm not like other girls" phase. People pick up on that stuff.

I have no need to put other women down to assert my individuality.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think it is probably their strange attempt at making a women feel special. I have experienced women doing this as well though. But not often

I think we've all gone through the "I'm not like other girls" phase. People pick up on that stuff.

I have no need to put other women down to assert my individuality."

For me people that celebrate others are so attractive

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think it is probably their strange attempt at making a women feel special. I have experienced women doing this as well though. But not often

As you can probably tell, it failed "

We can only hope they see this thread and learn from it!

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