FabSwingers.com forum: Phobias

By *atricia Parnel OP Woman
over a year ago

In a town full of colours

What's yours...

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By *etcplCouple
over a year ago

Gapping Fanny

I don’t have any phobia’s just a healthy respect for things that can kill me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

clowns.

the dark.

spiders.

nightmares.

fire.

basically a big baby

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Balloons

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By *rHotNottsMan
over a year ago

Dubai & Nottingham

Flappy birds when they come into a house or building , pure evil, and ducks a s swans this time of year all that hissing and flapping, basically anything flappy..... well almost anything

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By *heVonMatterhornsCouple
over a year ago

Lincoln

Heights

LvM

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ghosts... Is that weird lol

I have tried to conquer it

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By *edeWoman
over a year ago

the abyss

Running out of Gin

I actually haven't found something I'm specifically scared of.... Yet!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

1. Butterflies

2. Moths

3. Spiders

In that order...

Her x

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By *aomilatteCouple
over a year ago

Midlands

Her - Spiders, Heights, Cracks in pavements

Him - Comedy pants

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By *AABMan
over a year ago

Not far

Lift doors. I step and out of lifts as fast as possible and try not to be the last person.

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By *ikesEmBigMan
over a year ago

Herts

The Internet going down so I can't watch porn

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Didn't have any but after being bitten by a poisonous snake and having to spend time in hospital, I now categorically have a phobia of snakes!

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By *ocksareoffMan
over a year ago

Out n About

Deep water

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By *oxy lady40Woman
over a year ago

bridgwater

Spiders and heights

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By *AABMan
over a year ago

Not far

"Ghosts... Is that weird lol

I have tried to conquer it

Just flatten them with a spirit level

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By *ssex_tomMan
over a year ago

Chelmsford

Clowns and the Dr Who music.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Moths

I'm over 6 ft 2 and I cant deal with a flying thing the size of my thumb nail

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By *aughty_Smooth_OperatorMan
over a year ago

Birmingham

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By *atricia Parnel OP Woman
over a year ago

In a town full of colours

"Her - Spiders, Heights, Cracks in pavements

Him - Comedy pants

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By *arlomaleMan
over a year ago

darlington

Confined spaces

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By *edeWoman
over a year ago

the abyss

"Ghosts... Is that weird lol

I have tried to conquer it

Just flatten them with a spirit level

love that!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This is a controversial one but I’m afraid of dogs. Instantly when I admit this, people are taken aback and look at me like I’ve pissed on their tree on Christmas Day

but it’s not to be confused with not liking dogs, I get the appeal of dogs, I’m just very, very anxious around them

I’ve considered therapy believe me...

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By *yrdsisWoman
over a year ago

Gleam Street

Clowns and heights... though on the 2nd I agree with Sir Terry Pratchett... it's actually the depth you drop to that I'm freaked out by..

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By *hortarseWoman
over a year ago

Norfolk

Never having sex.

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By *yrdsisWoman
over a year ago

Gleam Street

"This is a controversial one but I’m afraid of dogs. Instantly when I admit this, people are taken aback and look at me like I’ve pissed on their tree on Christmas Day

but it’s not to be confused with not liking dogs, I get the appeal of dogs, I’m just very, very anxious around them

I’ve considered therapy believe me..."

Not controversial at all (dog owner here) you can't help what upsets you in any way shape or form.

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By *atricia Parnel OP Woman
over a year ago

In a town full of colours

"This is a controversial one but I’m afraid of dogs. Instantly when I admit this, people are taken aback and look at me like I’ve pissed on their tree on Christmas Day

but it’s not to be confused with not liking dogs, I get the appeal of dogs, I’m just very, very anxious around them

I’ve considered therapy believe me..."

Have a look at pets as therapy dogs if you want some help with that, they are impeccably trained and can help with exposure therapy

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By *indergirlWoman
over a year ago

somewhere, someplace

Clowns and heights

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

Moths, wasps and heights.

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By *yrdsisWoman
over a year ago

Gleam Street

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By *yrdsisWoman
over a year ago

Gleam Street

"Clowns and heights "

Snap!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"This is a controversial one but I’m afraid of dogs. Instantly when I admit this, people are taken aback and look at me like I’ve pissed on their tree on Christmas Day

but it’s not to be confused with not liking dogs, I get the appeal of dogs, I’m just very, very anxious around them

I’ve considered therapy believe me...

Not controversial at all (dog owner here) you can't help what upsets you in any way shape or form."

Agreed! And it’s probably the fear of the unknown more than anything as I’ve never grown up with pets, friends have them bug the fear had already kicked in as a child. The amount of times I was chased by dogs because I couldn’t hide my fear as a kid

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

*but not bug

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By *inkerbell67Woman
over a year ago

Clacton on sea essex

Balloons, clowns ,birds coming to close ,

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

Needles and reliving some of my medical traumas

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By *phroditeWoman
over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland

A phobia of developing a phobia - does that count?

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By *atricia Parnel OP Woman
over a year ago

In a town full of colours

"A phobia of developing a phobia - does that count?

Essentially yes if it can potentially cripple you in fear of developing a phobia...

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By *ssex_tomMan
over a year ago

Chelmsford

"Needles and reliving some of my medical traumas"

What happened? Where you ever bitten by anything venomous or poisonous in Os. ?

What's the difference anyway?

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By *interfoxWoman
over a year ago

maesteg

Wasps and height's

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By *lice MaliceWoman
over a year ago

The Facility

Spiders. I don't like them at all.

However, if I'm with someone who is more scared of them than I am, I can pick them up in my hand and remove them.

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

"Needles and reliving some of my medical traumas

What happened? Where you ever bitten by anything venomous or poisonous in Os. ?

What's the difference anyway?"

No, and there's no way I'm talking about that stuff in public.

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By *lice MaliceWoman
over a year ago

The Facility

"Spiders. I don't like them at all.

However, if I'm with someone who is more scared of them than I am, I can pick them up in my hand and remove them.

That's the spider - not the friend/child/other

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By *yrdsisWoman
over a year ago

Gleam Street

"This is a controversial one but I’m afraid of dogs. Instantly when I admit this, people are taken aback and look at me like I’ve pissed on their tree on Christmas Day

but it’s not to be confused with not liking dogs, I get the appeal of dogs, I’m just very, very anxious around them

I’ve considered therapy believe me...

Not controversial at all (dog owner here) you can't help what upsets you in any way shape or form.

Dogs are buggers for that... my two know our "adopted" children are wary.... they stay away from them.. but the kids went out to play... my big dog thought she was included, knocked one them over... he's fine with her... but a tad wary

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Polystyrene

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By *ittle-Miss-Cunty-1Woman
over a year ago

Your basement, Cuntsville

Balloons

Clowns

Heights

All give me the fear

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Big spiders

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By *reason69Couple
over a year ago

Blackburn

Rats

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Old rusty pipes and those old style cisterns that are high up on the wall. Haven't a clue why

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By *phroditeWoman
over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland

"A phobia of developing a phobia - does that count?

Essentially yes if it can potentially cripple you in fear of developing a phobia..."

I was being half-serious as I know somebody who is worried about worrying in itself, thinks that her cleaning is becoming obsessive (it is not), her double checking the doors are locked before going to bed is weird (it is not!)

I think her worrying about developing a phobia (e.g. the house might be full of bacteria) is actually preventing her from living a normal life.

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By *nliveneTV/TS
over a year ago

Selby

Snakes !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

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By * and R cple4Couple
over a year ago

swansea

Rats mice and heights in that order..

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By *arker secrets 321Man
over a year ago

West Bromwich

I keep snakes yet terrified of spiders x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Trypanophobia

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

"A phobia of developing a phobia - does that count?

Essentially yes if it can potentially cripple you in fear of developing a phobia...

I think her worrying about developing a phobia (e.g. the house might be full of bacteria) is actually preventing her from living a normal life. "

Fear can be self perpetuating, and anxiety is quite often about maintaining a sense of control.

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By *uke OzadeMan
over a year ago

Ho Chi Minge City

Sydney University

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Reptiles

Snakes in particular, but also big lizards

Komodo Dragons scare the shite outta me

Thankfully, there aren't that many on the outskirts of Manchester

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By *heNYCSausageMan
over a year ago

Everton

Male cum

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By *aughty_Smooth_OperatorMan
over a year ago

Birmingham

Zero

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By *ustym30Man
over a year ago

Swinton

Unclean genitals

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Spiders

Her x

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By *istyblue1967Man
over a year ago

manchester

dogs and cats

im ok if they stay away from me

calm dogs are ok

cats are creepy

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By *hubaysiWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

Motorways

Spiders

The dark

Wasps

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Waiting for Ubereats to arrive not knowing if McDonald's have forgot to put my fucking mozarella sticks in the bag.

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By *elpful and caringMan
over a year ago

Scarborough

Patience

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have an irrational fear of dying during a cock fight

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By *EAT..85Woman
over a year ago

Nottingham

Just spiders. Though I've spent years trying not to show it in front of the kids. My daughter is pretty good at removing spiders for me now

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Heights - it's getting worse as well

It only came on about 10yrs ago - even going down a flight of stairs or an escalator gives me the fear now

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Balloons.. the anticipation waiting for them to pop makes my skin crawl

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am scared of sweet corn

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By *atricia Parnel OP Woman
over a year ago

In a town full of colours

"I am scared of sweet corn "

I am not making light of your phobias, but I am generally intrigued as to why....

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By *alandNitaCouple
over a year ago

Scunthorpe

"Moths

I'm over 6 ft 2 and I cant deal with a flying thing the size of my thumb nail"

The biggest moths have a 12" wingspan

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

Dont laugh but banana sandwichs i cant be in the same room as one

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By *atricia Parnel OP Woman
over a year ago

In a town full of colours

"Dont laugh but banana sandwichs i cant be in the same room as one"

I'm not laughing, what's the trigger of them to you

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

"Dont laugh but banana sandwichs i cant be in the same room as one

I'm not laughing, what's the trigger of them to you"
I dont really know as i love bananas i think its the smell and thought of them

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By *oxyVikingCouple
over a year ago

East Anglia

Lots of holes with things that pops out of them. Like the lotus flower seed head.. makes my skin crawl!!

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By *hilloutMan
over a year ago

All over the place! Northwesr, , Southwest

Not entirely sure I have one. Is that wierd?

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By *atricia Parnel OP Woman
over a year ago

In a town full of colours

"Not entirely sure I have one. Is that wierd? "

Not but I expected that from you tbf

Not much phases you

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By *atricia Parnel OP Woman
over a year ago

In a town full of colours

"Lots of holes with things that pops out of them. Like the lotus flower seed head.. makes my skin crawl!! "

Don't watch bot fly videos

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By *sLittleRedRidingHoodWoman
over a year ago

Magical Forrest

Liars and bad hygiene.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

spiders (getting better)

needles (force myself for medical reasons but ill have anxiety for weeks)

the dentist (because of the needles)

and a new one i just developed a few years ago when doing a stupid ropes course

i thought it was heights but then realised i feel the same when I’m on something steep but not necessarily that high, so think it must be about falling maybe

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By *oxyVikingCouple
over a year ago

East Anglia

"Lots of holes with things that pops out of them. Like the lotus flower seed head.. makes my skin crawl!!

Don't watch bot fly videos

Oh, no, now I feel like I have to watch one!! Just went and looked at lotus flowers and I feel like my skin is crawling lol!

why does our minds do this, almost forcing us to look at what makes us feel yuk?! Freya

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Lots of holes with things that pops out of them. Like the lotus flower seed head.. makes my skin crawl!! "

Eeewwww yeah

I really don't like clusters of seeds either like inside vegetables like peppers etc ..

I cant eat rice or quinoa etc .. because the look of it makes me feel weird

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By *abs..Woman
over a year ago

"Lots of holes with things that pops out of them. Like the lotus flower seed head.. makes my skin crawl!! "

I have that - trypophobia. Just awful.

Spiders. Seriously terrified of them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

trypophobia, crumpets are a real issue so are ryvita's. And lotus flowers... my god they make my skin crawl

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
over a year ago

North West

Not a phobia but I'm really not very fond of jellyfish. I'll get out of the sea if I see them...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"trypophobia, crumpets are a real issue so are ryvita's. And lotus flowers... my god they make my skin crawl

Google crumpet foot

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By *inkylipsWoman
over a year ago

Debauchery

Men’s briefs.... a weird one but I can’t physically be near them

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By *xfordshireCoupleMFCouple
over a year ago

Nr. Oxford

Clowns (sister let me watch I.T when I was 8)

Wonky floor boards in Old houses (makes me feel sick)

Small spaces (claustrophobic)

Spiders (Satan’s pets)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"trypophobia, crumpets are a real issue so are ryvita's. And lotus flowers... my god they make my skin crawl

Google crumpet foot

Noooooo

i saw a man on holiday with that last year, he was sunbathing on his front.. i had to move

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By *abs..Woman
over a year ago

"trypophobia, crumpets are a real issue so are ryvita's. And lotus flowers... my god they make my skin crawl

Sunflower heads

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Rats and mice. Absolutely terrified

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By *iaisonseekerMan
over a year ago

Liverpool

We're all scared; it's the human condition.

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By *elethWoman
over a year ago

Gloucestershire

I know someone who has a pea phobia. We're instructed to not even say the letter name around her.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"trypophobia, crumpets are a real issue so are ryvita's. And lotus flowers... my god they make my skin crawl

Sunflower heads

They do sunflower seed bread rolls in M+S the seeds are all clustered together

Shudder!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm afraid of the Dark and Ants ..

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By *ssex_tomMan
over a year ago

Chelmsford

My other phobia is snowflakes...

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By *abs..Woman
over a year ago

"trypophobia, crumpets are a real issue so are ryvita's. And lotus flowers... my god they make my skin crawl

Sunflower heads

They do sunflower seed bread rolls in M+S the seeds are all clustered together

Shudder!"

Nope. Couldn’t do it.

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