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"Could be just us If you look at a profile with athletic on does it put you off contacting them if your not ...? " Personally it doesn't put me off them.  | |||
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"Could be just us If you look at a profile with athletic on does it put you off contacting them if your not ...? " Not really, though in some cases pictures show amazing physiques, many don't. Athletic, along with the other body types are used somewhat liberally. What do people see in the mirror? I admire the effort people put into keeping in shape.... Good for them. | |||
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"Could be just us If you look at a profile with athletic on does it put you off contacting them if your not ...? Not really, though in some cases pictures show amazing physiques, many don't. Athletic, along with the other body types are used somewhat liberally. What do people see in the mirror? I admire the effort people put into keeping in shape.... Good for them. " The point is would you contact them .? | |||
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"Yes if they are looking for athletic or gym fit, I know im not what they are looking for so pass them by!" That’s what we feel  xx | |||
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"Could be just us If you look at a profile with athletic on does it put you off contacting them if your not ...? Not really, though in some cases pictures show amazing physiques, many don't. Athletic, along with the other body types are used somewhat liberally. What do people see in the mirror? I admire the effort people put into keeping in shape.... Good for them. The point is would you contact them .?" If I were looking and the words resonated, absolutely... Why not? | |||
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"Don't have an athletic body myself ...but sure know how to use my sexy curvy body.. Attraction is always first "And look very nice too but single women have more options on here anyway xx | |||
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"Could be just us If you look at a profile with athletic on does it put you off contacting them if your not ...? Not really, though in some cases pictures show amazing physiques, many don't. Athletic, along with the other body types are used somewhat liberally. What do people see in the mirror? I admire the effort people put into keeping in shape.... Good for them. The point is would you contact them .? If I were looking and the words resonated, absolutely... Why not? " It’s more like not sure they would be interested etc | |||
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"If they state they are athletic and are only looking for others who are also athletic it would most likely make me think nah if that’s all that concerns them But if it’s just their description of themselves ... it doesn’t mean they don’t find curves attractive too ... so I might x Lol your in xx ... only I’m not a fan of six packs n stuff anyway
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"Could be just us If you look at a profile with athletic on does it put you off contacting them if your not ...? Not really, though in some cases pictures show amazing physiques, many don't. Athletic, along with the other body types are used somewhat liberally. What do people see in the mirror? I admire the effort people put into keeping in shape.... Good for them. The point is would you contact them .? If I were looking and the words resonated, absolutely... Why not? It’s more like not sure they would be interested etc " you couldn't be more wrong lol. Most men like and prefer curves  | |||
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"Watching this thread. I self identify as athletic because I dress up in Lycra and go looking for hills to climb on my bike, but if it puts people off then I’ll consider letting my pictures describe me instead." What would you change it too though - the options are limited. I would put slim but I also have curves so I just picked the middle option which is “average” ... average sounds kinda dull though lol - I would imagine most look at the pics before the stats anyway | |||
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"Watching this thread. I self identify as athletic because I dress up in Lycra and go looking for hills to climb on my bike, but if it puts people off then I’ll consider letting my pictures describe me instead. What would you change it too though - the options are limited. I would put slim but I also have curves so I just picked the middle option which is “average” ... average sounds kinda dull though lol - I would imagine most look at the pics before the stats anyway "Sheepishly changes to ‘slim’ | |||
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"Watching this thread. I self identify as athletic because I dress up in Lycra and go looking for hills to climb on my bike, but if it puts people off then I’ll consider letting my pictures describe me instead. What would you change it too though - the options are limited. I would put slim but I also have curves so I just picked the middle option which is “average” ... average sounds kinda dull though lol - I would imagine most look at the pics before the stats anyway "Probably what we’re saying is if they looked at you first would you message them or are they different to others they do seem to stick together if you know what we mean | |||
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"Nope. Some athletic men like a tall fatty I consider myself part of their workout."best answer upto now xx | |||
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"I don’t know why it would OP tbh ? " Tbh your the one I mean | |||
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"Could be just us If you look at a profile with athletic on does it put you off contacting them if your not ...? Not really, though in some cases pictures show amazing physiques, many don't. Athletic, along with the other body types are used somewhat liberally. What do people see in the mirror? I admire the effort people put into keeping in shape.... Good for them. The point is would you contact them .? If I were looking and the words resonated, absolutely... Why not? It’s more like not sure they would be interested etc " Not everyone self identifying as athletic is looking for a gym bunny. Many adore curves. | |||
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"Could be just us If you look at a profile with athletic on does it put you off contacting them if your not ...? " It woundnt put me off despite my perfectly honed dad bod | |||
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"Could be just us If you look at a profile with athletic on does it put you off contacting them if your not ...? Not really, though in some cases pictures show amazing physiques, many don't. Athletic, along with the other body types are used somewhat liberally. What do people see in the mirror? I admire the effort people put into keeping in shape.... Good for them. The point is would you contact them .? If I were looking and the words resonated, absolutely... Why not? It’s more like not sure they would be interested etc " Well truthfully... In me.. Probably not but there is only one way to find out. | |||
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"Again your all getting this wrong everyone can be what they want to be, we’re just saying would it put you off meeting athletic people/couples when your not xx
This is a nice thread please don’t be nasty only a question "No. Again. I like athletic and I'm not. I won't meet chubbies | |||
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"Again your all getting this wrong everyone can be what they want to be, we’re just saying would it put you off meeting athletic people/couples when your not xx
This is a nice thread please don’t be nasty only a question "No. I'm a fat bastard and I've met a lot of athletic men. The most energetic ones were RM or ex RM. Those fuckers have unlimited stamina and energy. | |||
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"Again your all getting this wrong everyone can be what they want to be, we’re just saying would it put you off meeting athletic people/couples when your not xx
This is a nice thread please don’t be nasty only a question
No. I'm a fat bastard and I've met a lot of athletic men.
The most energetic ones were RM or ex RM.
Those fuckers have unlimited stamina and energy."And they’re usually right filthy fucks too | |||
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"Nope. I pay more attention to what a person looks like in their pictures than what box they've put themselves in in the profile
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"I've put slim in my profile as I've always thought it would be too arrogant for me to put Athletic. I also think I need to bulk up a little to come under that category "Yeh right  | |||
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"Watching this thread. I self identify as athletic because I dress up in Lycra and go looking for hills to climb on my bike, but if it puts people off then I’ll consider letting my pictures describe me instead. What would you change it too though - the options are limited. I would put slim but I also have curves so I just picked the middle option which is “average” ... average sounds kinda dull though lol - I would imagine most look at the pics before the stats anyway
Sheepishly changes to ‘slim’"Heyyy put it back ... athletic suits you ... I might have stared a bit to check x | |||
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"Again your all getting this wrong everyone can be what they want to be, we’re just saying would it put you off meeting athletic people/couples when your not xx
This is a nice thread please don’t be nasty only a question
No. I'm a fat bastard and I've met a lot of athletic men.
The most energetic ones were RM or ex RM.
Those fuckers have unlimited stamina and energy.
And they’re usually right filthy fucks too "*looks for RMs | |||
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I'm happy to message anyone who I fancy and their written profile doesn't sound like a request menu | |||
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"Nope. I pay more attention to what a person looks like in their pictures than what box they've put themselves in in the profile
LvM"The boxes are limiting ... they are on the other drop downs too 
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" What would you change it too though - the options are limited. I would put slim but I also have curves so I just picked the middle option which is “average” ... average sounds kinda dull though lol - I would imagine most look at the pics before the stats anyway "This... I have curves in the right places, but not what is defined as curvy currently in the media... Average sounds really rubbish!! Definitely not slim anymore... | |||
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"I've put slim in my profile as I've always thought it would be too arrogant for me to put Athletic. I also think I need to bulk up a little to come under that category ".. Oh no! I have athletic on my profile and after seeing yours I think i need to have a serious re think! Is there like an option for us guys to have "working towards athletic" or "athletic body in progress"  | |||
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"I've put slim in my profile as I've always thought it would be too arrogant for me to put Athletic. I also think I need to bulk up a little to come under that category .. Oh no! I have athletic on my profile and after seeing yours I think i need to have a serious re think! Is there like an option for us guys to have "working towards athletic" or "athletic body in progress" "See there you go dropped a size already lol xx | |||
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"I've put slim in my profile as I've always thought it would be too arrogant for me to put Athletic. I also think I need to bulk up a little to come under that category .. Oh no! I have athletic on my profile and after seeing yours I think i need to have a serious re think! Is there like an option for us guys to have "working towards athletic" or "athletic body in progress" "I think you should put whatever you're comfortable with. These sizes aren't set in stone a really, it's mostly up to the people looking at you to decide what they think you come under | |||
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"I've put slim in my profile as I've always thought it would be too arrogant for me to put Athletic. I also think I need to bulk up a little to come under that category
Yeh right "Sorry, I didn't mean for that to be a humble brag or anything. That's just genuinely how I perceive my body type to be which has pretty much been the case my whole life | |||
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"Again your all getting this wrong everyone can be what they want to be, we’re just saying would it put you off meeting athletic people/couples when your not xx
This is a nice thread please don’t be nasty only a question
No. Again. I like athletic and I'm not. I won't meet chubbies"Not far off you look very nice have fun xx | |||
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sometimes they carry on the conversation then I enjoy the opportunity to meet it it happens. Some very athletic guys are secret chubby chasers, lucky me! | |||
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"If 6' 1" tall, 34" inside leg measurements, 36" waist, and 46" chest, whatever that lot is in European union measurements, is not athletic is not athletic, then I'm here under false pretences. I wouldn't want to put anyone with those vital statistics. " Sorry to pop your cork but a 36 inch chest is not slim! Im a 32/34 and that average. Think you are being genorouse to yourself my friend. Slim is 28 30 waist | |||
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"If 6' 1" tall, 34" inside leg measurements, 36" waist, and 46" chest, whatever that lot is in European union measurements, is not athletic is not athletic, then I'm here under false pretences. I wouldn't want to put anyone with those vital statistics. Sorry to pop your cork but a 36 inch chest is not slim! Im a 32/34 and that average. Think you are being genorouse to yourself my friend. Slim is 28 30 waist "Bitch | |||
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"I always just thought of athletic as a body shape? In between slim and muscles that's the only way I've ever thought of it with guys. Dont think I've ever seen any women be referred to on here as athletic. " Loads | |||
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"If 6' 1" tall, 34" inside leg measurements, 36" waist, and 46" chest, whatever that lot is in European union measurements, is not athletic is not athletic, then I'm here under false pretences. I wouldn't want to put anyone with those vital statistics. Sorry to pop your cork but a 36 inch chest is not slim! Im a 32/34 and that average. Think you are being genorouse to yourself my friend. Slim is 28 30 waist
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"If 6' 1" tall, 34" inside leg measurements, 36" waist, and 46" chest, whatever that lot is in European union measurements, is not athletic is not athletic, then I'm here under false pretences. I wouldn't want to put anyone with those vital statistics. Sorry to pop your cork but a 36 inch chest is not slim! Im a 32/34 and that average. Think you are being genorouse to yourself my friend. Slim is 28 30 waist
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"If 6' 1" tall, 34" inside leg measurements, 36" waist, and 46" chest, whatever that lot is in European union measurements, is not athletic is not athletic, then I'm here under false pretences. I wouldn't want to put anyone with those vital statistics. Sorry to pop your cork but a 36 inch chest is not slim! Im a 32/34 and that average. Think you are being genorouse to yourself my friend. Slim is 28 30 waist
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I know im a bad guy for that but the truth hurts lol "Right then if you want the truth he’s coming round before you now for being nasty xx | |||
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"Again your all getting this wrong everyone can be what they want to be, we’re just saying would it put you off meeting athletic people/couples when your not xx
This is a nice thread please don’t be nasty only a question
No. I'm a fat bastard and I've met a lot of athletic men.
The most energetic ones were RM or ex RM.
Those fuckers have unlimited stamina and energy.
And they’re usually right filthy fucks too " not saying a word | |||
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"This sounds like catch 22, being amongst what is classed as old I feel it's important to make an effort to stay in shape in an attempt to attract at least some conversation on here, I have an eclectic taste in the opposite sex as far as body type goes and would not be so narrow minded to only like athletic females, of course I totally appreciate the effort it takes to have such a body but have had far better experiences with ladies with curves rather than abs. I think it's far easier for a woman to look sexy than a man so I think men have to resort to keeping as fit as they can to help attract attention, it would be a shame if others were put off." Lol have heard van dam were all the same | |||
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"This sounds like catch 22, being amongst what is classed as old I feel it's important to make an effort to stay in shape in an attempt to attract at least some conversation on here, I have an eclectic taste in the opposite sex as far as body type goes and would not be so narrow minded to only like athletic females, of course I totally appreciate the effort it takes to have such a body but have had far better experiences with ladies with curves rather than abs. I think it's far easier for a woman to look sexy than a man so I think men have to resort to keeping as fit as they can to help attract attention, it would be a shame if others were put off." I tend to agree. I personelly dont judge on looks etc as find it uncomfertable as people are people and you cant help how you look in life. If someone is a genuine person and not a timewaster that means so much more to me. Some of the ugliest as you would say folk have been the most decent non timewasters you could ever meet whereas the steriod types and beauty queens have been not very nice people and not very genuine. Just my experience. | |||
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"Yeah i would feel too self conscious with someone who was ripped" Athletic is toned, not necessarily ripped. | |||
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"No doesn’t put me off. " curvy doesn't put us off either x | |||
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"OP are you assuming because a profile has identified their body type as athletic that they are then looking for athletic body types? If they state they're looking for that then I wouldn't message them, if they've not stated a body type preference then I'll message them "Again not them it’s would you wink or massage them, what we’re saying is does it put you off xx | |||
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"OP are you assuming because a profile has identified their body type as athletic that they are then looking for athletic body types? If they state they're looking for that then I wouldn't message them, if they've not stated a body type preference then I'll message them
Again not them it’s would you wink or massage them, what we’re saying is does it put you off xx"Sorry meaning wow there nice but they wouldn’t be interested in us even if doesn’t says nothing like that on there profile x | |||
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"A few times for me it has done, especially if I've read the profile and it doesn't mention what type of person they are attracted too, then when I've looked at the photos and they are really fit and in shape and look bloody amazing. I have thought to myself they won't be interested in someone like me so havent bothered to contact them. That could come across as shallow on my part, but I think its more to do with me lacking confidence to go for it and looking stupid in the long run. " Well first of all you look amazing you will have no trouble and secondly that’s the sort of thing we meant not judging anyone more us xx | |||
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"I have an athletic physique. Sumo wrestling is an Olympic sport. "My nan use to fancy big daddy shame she’s not around anymore could have put your name forward | |||
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"I have an athletic physique. Sumo wrestling is an Olympic sport.
My nan use to fancy big daddy shame she’s not around anymore could have put your name forward "Just my luck. | |||
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"Could be just us If you look at a profile with athletic on does it put you off contacting them if your not ...? " No, doesn't mean they only like to be and play with athletic people, unless they mention it in the profile. | |||
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"Not in the slightest. It doesn't necessarily attract me to the profile either, though!" Agree with above. We prefer average over atbletic. Would find meeting athletic cpls intimidating as we are far from athletic ourselves. | |||
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"If 6' 1" tall, 34" inside leg measurements, 36" waist, and 46" chest, whatever that lot is in European union measurements, is not athletic is not athletic, then I'm here under false pretences. I wouldn't want to put anyone with those vital statistics. Sorry to pop your cork but a 36 inch chest is not slim! Im a 32/34 and that average. Think you are being genorouse to yourself my friend. Slim is 28 30 waist "Never had any complaints yet from the 80 plus verifications, not to mention those I could have posted. hows your luck??? | |||
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"What makes us laugh is women who put curvy when really they are just fat! Curvy is a body shape not a weight: since we?? are slim and average we love athletic and check out CURVY descriptions in profiles to see if they are really just little hobbies!! . You can even tell when photo a show chubby hands and feet! Why can't people be honest!! " Or why do peopme have to be nasty or cruel also | |||
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I admire athletic bodies they look amazing - but I doubt they would be interested in me.
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"Again your all getting this wrong everyone can be what they want to be, we’re just saying would it put you off meeting athletic people/couples when your not xx
This is a nice thread please don’t be nasty only a question
No. I'm a fat bastard and I've met a lot of athletic men.
The most energetic ones were RM or ex RM.
Those fuckers have unlimited stamina and energy.
And they’re usually right filthy fucks too " | |||
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"Again your all getting this wrong everyone can be what they want to be, we’re just saying would it put you off meeting athletic people/couples when your not xx
This is a nice thread please don’t be nasty only a question
No. I'm a fat bastard and I've met a lot of athletic men.
The most energetic ones were RM or ex RM.
Those fuckers have unlimited stamina and energy."this is true | |||
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"I'm old and chubby and it doesn't put me off
I admire athletic bodies they look amazing - but I doubt they would be interested in me.
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"Don’t forget guys we said would it put you off contacting them...? meaning as was said no point they wouldn’t be interested in us and with there veris you can normally tell who they have met before etc so not worth it And none of them are actually weight sizes athletic slim curvy ample large fabulous I suppose people have to be a little truthful but athletic and slim your not getting away with that one lol xx " I do think someone's veris can be a giveaway to the type of person they find more attractive/meet sometimes but difficult with social/club/party veris. I don't really message others often and for me attraction isn't aesthetic so their description of themselves wouldn't put me off no | |||
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"Don’t forget guys we said would it put you off contacting them...? meaning as was said no point they wouldn’t be interested in us and with there veris you can normally tell who they have met before etc so not worth it And none of them are actually weight sizes athletic slim curvy ample large fabulous I suppose people have to be a little truthful but athletic and slim your not getting away with that one lol xx I do think someone's veris can be a giveaway to the type of person they find more attractive/meet sometimes but difficult with social/club/party veris. I don't really message others often and for me attraction isn't aesthetic so their description of themselves wouldn't put me off no " Women do have it a little easier on here I mean regarding choice in theory they can have who they want xx | |||
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"Don’t forget guys we said would it put you off contacting them...? meaning as was said no point they wouldn’t be interested in us and with there veris you can normally tell who they have met before etc so not worth it And none of them are actually weight sizes athletic slim curvy ample large fabulous I suppose people have to be a little truthful but athletic and slim your not getting away with that one lol xx I do think someone's veris can be a giveaway to the type of person they find more attractive/meet sometimes but difficult with social/club/party veris. I don't really message others often and for me attraction isn't aesthetic so their description of themselves wouldn't put me off no Women do have it a little easier on here I mean regarding choice in theory they can have who they want xx"I wish that was true! I agree if I wanted to just have mediocre sex at best then could choose anyone but for me attraction really only happens with the brain and many many men leave theirs when they log into fab! Hahahahahahahaha equals very limited choice so very rarely bother! | |||
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"Don’t forget guys we said would it put you off contacting them...? meaning as was said no point they wouldn’t be interested in us and with there veris you can normally tell who they have met before etc so not worth it And none of them are actually weight sizes athletic slim curvy ample large fabulous I suppose people have to be a little truthful but athletic and slim your not getting away with that one lol xx I do think someone's veris can be a giveaway to the type of person they find more attractive/meet sometimes but difficult with social/club/party veris. I don't really message others often and for me attraction isn't aesthetic so their description of themselves wouldn't put me off no Women do have it a little easier on here I mean regarding choice in theory they can have who they want xx
I wish that was true! I agree if I wanted to just have mediocre sex at best then could choose anyone but for me attraction really only happens with the brain and many many men leave theirs when they log into fab! Hahahahahahahaha equals very limited choice so very rarely bother! "Ha ha they can be any shape on her and leave there brains behind that is for sure xx | |||
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"Women do have it a little easier on here I mean regarding choice in theory they can have who they want xx
I wish that was true! I agree if I wanted to just have mediocre sex at best then could choose anyone but for me attraction really only happens with the brain and many many men leave theirs when they log into fab! Hahahahahahahaha equals very limited choice so very rarely bother!
Ha ha they can be any shape on her and leave there brains behind that is for sure xx"Now that ^^^ is very true!! Hahahahahahahaha | |||
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"Silverjag: no way are you slim ; average at best It's all.lies on here people tell the truth people will see in your photos " Only If you have photos yes. Pictures can also be less than truthful too. Don't forget this is all a bit of fun and not a competition. | |||
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"Could be just us If you look at a profile with athletic on does it put you off contacting them if your not ...? " If they want to meet people with athletic builds, or who “look after themselves” or any of the myriad other ways people express their preference then it would not put me off contacting them as I wouldn’t be contacting them in the first place. If they are athletic but make no mention of body type preferences then I would like to think we have more to offer than our waist line and so would reach out. | |||
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"If 6' 1" tall, 34" inside leg measurements, 36" waist, and 46" chest, whatever that lot is in European union measurements, is not athletic is not athletic, then I'm here under false pretences. I wouldn't want to put anyone with those vital statistics. Sorry to pop your cork but a 36 inch chest is not slim! Im a 32/34 and that average. Think you are being genorouse to yourself my friend. Slim is 28 30 waist
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I know im a bad guy for that but the truth hurts lol "Disagree with you on that. No size can be be described as slim. I have a 42" chest and while I may like to tone up more (I just can't be bothered with gyms and weights etc) I certainly wouldn't say I'm over weight. My body is the way it as thanks to likeing food way to much but also enjoying running, cycling, hill walking, climbing etc. I also disagree with the poster above about needing to bulk up. Heavily muscled doesn't have a category on fab but it isn't (in my opinion) athletic. That said, given the options I understand why the gym bunnies use it. Mr | |||
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"If 6' 1" tall, 34" inside leg measurements, 36" waist, and 46" chest, whatever that lot is in European union measurements, is not athletic is not athletic, then I'm here under false pretences. I wouldn't want to put anyone with those vital statistics. Sorry to pop your cork but a 36 inch chest is not slim! Im a 32/34 and that average. Think you are being genorouse to yourself my friend. Slim is 28 30 waist
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I know im a bad guy for that but the truth hurts lol
Disagree with you on that. No size can be be described as slim. I have a 42" chest and while I may like to tone up more (I just can't be bothered with gyms and weights etc) I certainly wouldn't say I'm over weight. My body is the way it as thanks to likeing food way to much but also enjoying running, cycling, hill walking, climbing etc.
I also disagree with the poster above about needing to bulk up. Heavily muscled doesn't have a category on fab but it isn't (in my opinion) athletic. That said, given the options I understand why the gym bunnies use it.
Mr"And therein lies one of the issues... One person may believe an athletic body means someone who takes part in a sport... Eg...rugby prop or a gymnast... Or a marathon runner. We have the same with curvy which is a shape not a type... To mean mostly overweight or fabulous which can mean anything to anybody. All in all its probably taken a little too seriously by some though. | |||
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"Silverjag: no way are you slim ; average at best It's all.lies on here people tell the truth people will see in your photos Only If you have photos yes. Pictures can also be less than truthful too. Don't forget this is all a bit of fun and not a competition. " Not a competition | |||
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"I chose athletic for my profile simply because I've called myself average all my life and decided it was time to up my game. I don't go to the gym and couldn't run the length of myself but keep fit and healthy by hillwalking. If anything I'm underweight for my height and build but that option wasn't available. So athletic is as close to how I see myself as I could find. Others may say differently. " I also describe myself as having an athletic mind which is just as important as physical appearance. I'm surprised more people don't describe themselves as athletic when they spend so long jumping to conclusions and jumping through hoops.  | |||
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"The worse part of having an athletic body is women assuming I want an athletic partner. Im not into skinny or athletic. I’m into big thighs, big hips, stretch marks, wobbly parts. The more the better." But atheletic puts us off as with most average body people male or female we feel self concious about our bodies enough without a being naked around a athletic person naked  | |||
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"I chose athletic for my profile simply because I've called myself average all my life and decided it was time to up my game. I don't go to the gym and couldn't run the length of myself but keep fit and healthy by hillwalking. If anything I'm underweight for my height and build but that optionwasn't available. So athletic is as close to how I see myself as I could find. Others may say differently. I also describe myself as having an athletic mind which is just as important as physical appearance. I'm surprised more people don't describe themselves as athletic when they spend so long jumping to conclusions and jumping through hoops. "hahahahahahahaha made me giggle | |||
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"If someone has classed themselves as athletic it would put me off contacting them. I wouldn't feel that I was the type of person they would be looking to meet. Mrs" Same here with us. | |||
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"If someone has classed themselves as athletic it would put me off contacting them. I wouldn't feel that I was the type of person they would be looking to meet. Mrs Same here with us. " This is what we meant with the original post we think the same, it’s not to judge anyone other than us xx | |||
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"If someone has classed themselves as athletic it would put me off contacting them. I wouldn't feel that I was the type of person they would be looking to meet. Mrs Same here with us. This is what we meant with the original post we think the same, it’s not to judge anyone other than us xx" It's a shame to judge when the only people that are missing out are the judges! And unfair to impose your beliefs on the ones whose opinions you don't actually know! | |||
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"If someone has classed themselves as athletic it would put me off contacting them. I wouldn't feel that I was the type of person they would be looking to meet. Mrs Same here with us. This is what we meant with the original post we think the same, it’s not to judge anyone other than us xx It's a shame to judge when the only people that are missing out are the judges! And unfair to impose your beliefs on the ones whose opinions you don't actually know! " If a year on here has taught me nothing else... Its that this self labelled open and tolerant and non judgemental community can be very far from that at times. | |||
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"Who’s judging anyone not us, am sure your allowed to ask people’s opinions and wether they have similar or different views to you without the PC brigade making it out to be something it isn’t " And remember the original post “ it could be just us” so if anything were judging ourselves which again I think you will find we can | |||
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"Yes if they are looking for athletic or gym fit, I know im not what they are looking for so pass them by!" This, but that would be the case if they were asking for any physical trait I didn't possess. | |||
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"I’ve recently made a feature submission to hopefully help forum members with this somewhat - essentially a bunch of filters which allow each user to only receive search results that take their preferences as regards physical attributes of potential partners into account. Having read a TONNE of profiles in the few weeks I’ve joined, I’ve realised that a lot of the frustration I detect in the profiles of my preference (women) stems from them effectively having to spend hours filtering and writing and re-writing their profile to communicate EXACTLY what kinda man they’re looking for. It makes them sound negative when they’re absolutely not, and doesn’t allow them to express their characters as much as they could (if they were only ever shown results that factor in the attributes they prefer). There will always be liars but then they deserve to get InstaBanned™? from Fab; maybe an instant account cool-down that increases by say, a week for every time they’re accused of misrepresentation haha - I dunno! I’m also just a fat dude who probably sees the value in having an efficient way to increase my visibility to the women who ARE looking for their very own Michelin man "Maybe Michelin man could be in the body size tick box on profiles.  | |||
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"I generally look for athletic/average - but would never rule out someone who wasn’t. Unless a profile specified their preference for the same I don’t think you should assume that’s what athletic physiques want I (miss) struggled to decide if I was athletic or average so I occasionally change it depending on how I feel, may be moving back into average this week!" Amazing pics of the pair of you... Chapeau | |||
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"If someone has classed themselves as athletic it would put me off contacting them. I wouldn't feel that I was the type of person they would be looking to meet. Mrs Same here with us. This is what we meant with the original post we think the same, it’s not to judge anyone other than us xx" We would lack the confidence to meet athletic bodied people. I commened them for their bodies and how hard it takes to get to look that way. But we would feel more at ease meeting average body peeps personaly as we would not have the confidence to meet the toned up people. | |||
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"Silverjag: no way are you slim ; average at best It's all.lies on here people tell the truth people will see in your photos Only If you have photos yes. Pictures can also be less than truthful too. Don't forget this is all a bit of fun and not a competition. Not a competition "How would you know? Are you a blast from the past that I haven't seen for a while? Xxx | |||
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"I’ve recently made a feature submission to hopefully help forum members with this somewhat - essentially a bunch of filters which allow each user to only receive search results that take their preferences as regards physical attributes of potential partners into account. Having read a TONNE of profiles in the few weeks I’ve joined, I’ve realised that a lot of the frustration I detect in the profiles of my preference (women) stems from them effectively having to spend hours filtering and writing and re-writing their profile to communicate EXACTLY what kinda man they’re looking for. It makes them sound negative when they’re absolutely not, and doesn’t allow them to express their characters as much as they could (if they were only ever shown results that factor in the attributes they prefer). There will always be liars but then they deserve to get InstaBanned™? from Fab; maybe an instant account cool-down that increases by say, a week for every time they’re accused of misrepresentation haha - I dunno! I’m also just a fat dude who probably sees the value in having an efficient way to increase my visibility to the women who ARE looking for their very own Michelin man
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"Yes as they won’t want a fat twat like me "Underweight, lanky, skinny, skinny fat, average, athletic, chunky athletic, chubby, dadbod, proper overweight, obese.. Where would you fit here, in your opinion? | |||
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"Silverjag: no way are you slim ; average at best It's all.lies on here people tell the truth people will see in your photos Only If you have photos yes. Pictures can also be less than truthful too. Don't forget this is all a bit of fun and not a competition. " Oh dear, have I ruffled the feathers today of someone who knows that they are never going to be in my league. Like has been said, all good fun. | |||
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"I don’t know why it would OP tbh ? Tbh your the one I mean " don’t let me put you off lol .. I’m actually quite pleasant | |||
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