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Very Fit people are they better at sex ?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Looking at all them fit body's on TV do you think it makes them better and more staying power When it comes to SEX ? And people you meet of here, If they spend time keeping fit are they better and last longer and up for more them once and doing more thing if like the person. Do it make a difference ?

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By *G LanaTV/TS
over a year ago

Gosport

Could guess that Bolt would be finished in a few seconds.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

having stamina doesn't always equate to good sex

they might do it badly and for longer

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"having stamina doesn't always equate to good sex

they might do it badly and for longer "
ooo I was thinking maybe be like super man or super woman in bed , lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"having stamina doesn't always equate to good sex

they might do it badly and for longer ooo I was thinking maybe be like super man or super woman in bed , lol "

oh c'mon jo

you've been doing this longer than me

there must have been at least one shag that you were thinking 'oh c'mon now, get a shift on, coronation streets on in 10 minutes and i need a shower first' ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think it does to some extent... I've been pretty immobile for some time now, just starting to play again but it's embarrassing tbh, I get tired so quickly

so, a fitness regime is defo on the cards for me as soon as I get the OK from the doc

...although I agree with Bussy, I've played with some really gym fit guy who just go on and on and on... and it's been dull

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think it's more about technique than fitness and an understanding to each others wants and needs.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"having stamina doesn't always equate to good sex

they might do it badly and for longer ooo I was thinking maybe be like super man or super woman in bed , lol

oh c'mon jo

you've been doing this longer than me

there must have been at least one shag that you were thinking 'oh c'mon now, get a shift on, coronation streets on in 10 minutes and i need a shower first' ? "
only if boring i like it to last and its heven when it do ... see why some woman like alot of men Same time, lol

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By *he_original_poloWoman
over a year ago

a Primark shoebox in Leicester

If by better at sex you mean you have something pretty to look at whilst you finish yourself off... yeah they might be.

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By *atisfy janeWoman
over a year ago

Torquay

As far as the guys go I would say fitness goes a very long way....some women need their guys to be fit to keep up with them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

im not rippling with muscles and my ab's aint rock hard, but my cock stays hard and i can fuck forever. But most of all i have good hands, tongue, and lips love forplay and love to explore every inch of a womans body. You dont need to be super human to have hot hard intense sex xx

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"im not rippling with muscles and my ab's aint rock hard, but my cock stays hard and i can fuck forever. But most of all i have good hands, tongue, and lips love forplay and love to explore every inch of a womans body. You dont need to be super human to have hot hard intense sex xx "
I like the sound of that xx .. Just thay look like super humans some of them sports people .. but if lacking in skills maybe no good at sex some just look nice .

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By *ashful BazMan
over a year ago

poole dorset


"Looking at all them fit body's on TV do you think it makes them better and more staying power When it comes to SEX ? And people you meet of here, If they spend time keeping fit are they better and last longer and up for more them once and doing more thing if like the person. Do it make a difference ?"

It takes me all night to do,

what I use to do all night.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Looking at all them fit body's on TV do you think it makes them better and more staying power When it comes to SEX ? And people you meet of here, If they spend time keeping fit are they better and last longer and up for more them once and doing more thing if like the person. Do it make a difference ?

It takes me all night to do,

what I use to do all night.

"
Really wow , xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I believe that all that glitters is not gold.

Then again, I look like the Pilsbury dough-boy (so I have to believe that).

But I also shag like a minx!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well im not a bit fit...im over weight, i get out of breath walking upstairs...but boy i could win gold for my bedroom athletics! Worn a fair few men out, some half my age and fit as!!! Being sport fit and being sex fit are entirely different!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Us ugly mugs tend to try harder

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i could not agree more.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Well im not a bit fit...im over weight, i get out of breath walking upstairs...but boy i could win gold for my bedroom athletics! Worn a fair few men out, some half my age and fit as!!! Being sport fit and being sex fit are entirely different! "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i could not agree more.

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By *dinMan
over a year ago

Nr Biggleswade

Body of a Ferrari engine of a Lada...

Thats how some have described me...

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Well im not a bit fit...im over weight, i get out of breath walking upstairs...but boy i could win gold for my bedroom athletics! Worn a fair few men out, some half my age and fit as!!! Being sport fit and being sex fit are entirely different! "
lol So theres hope for everyone xx fit or un fit love it... xx

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Body of a Ferrari engine of a Lada...

Thats how some have described me... "
Well i was told them Lada are good work horses ,lol

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

I have found the super fit to be a tad disappointing. So much of their testosterone has been used up at the gym there is little left over for a good long sex session.

One really gorgeously rippling muscled man admitted he only really got the urge two or three times a year. And then it was mainly for the kissing and cuddling.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

just betterlooking

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By *evilwolfCouple
over a year ago

Leicestershire


"Well im not a bit fit...im over weight, i get out of breath walking upstairs...but boy i could win gold for my bedroom athletics! Worn a fair few men out, some half my age and fit as!!! Being sport fit and being sex fit are entirely different! "

and your phone number is....

Wolf

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

depends on what your training for.

each sport exercises differently and targets different muscle groups.

my training does build up a lot of stamina which is ok for them but deeply frustrating for me as i need to go longer.

i understand that and just had to accept it as its very difficult to find someone like that.

also if someone is over training then id say they are doing more damage to themselves than good.

only when i have a fight coming up do i train hard.

rest of the time i eat good and only work out 1 hour every other day.

3-4 weeks before competition i train 4-5 hours a day and sex is the last thing on my mind so it doesnt matter.

but it is important to stop now and then and turn off the petrol tap and relax.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Could guess that Bolt would be finished in a few seconds."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"having stamina doesn't always equate to good sex

they might do it badly and for longer "

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By *ENDAROOSCouple
over a year ago

South West London / Surrey


"having stamina doesn't always equate to good sex

they might do it badly and for longer "

That made me chuckle

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some fit guys are good some not but they do all have more stamina than someone who isn't. Techniques and touch are not connected to how fit they are or look.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Could guess that Bolt would be finished in a few seconds.

"
There i was thinking he may be a real gower , lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Definitely I am proof

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Definitely I am proof "
And you do look lovely xx nice body.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

just finished a workout, using fabpics as sparrers

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"having stamina doesn't always equate to good sex

they might do it badly and for longer ooo I was thinking maybe be like super man or super woman in bed , lol

oh c'mon jo

you've been doing this longer than me

there must have been at least one shag that you were thinking 'oh c'mon now, get a shift on, coronation streets on in 10 minutes and i need a shower first' ? "

Totally agree.... my last meet just kept going and was trying all my normal tricks and a few new ones to bring him off but nothing (and no before you comment I have never had any trouble making a guy come in the past)... got very boring indeed and I had to give up!

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By *unky monkeyMan
over a year ago

in the night garden

I'm very fit but shit at sex.

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By *arambarMan
over a year ago

swindon


"I'm very fit but shit at sex. "

Could be worse... I'm shit at sex and not even fit.

(I'm supposed to be at the gym now actually)

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"just finished a workout, using fabpics as sparrers"
LOL Was it working the hand and mind ... or full body work out ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

not always, have found fitness in people I have met to be varied and thats not always equated to better sex the fitter they are.

Technique and willingness to experiment and enjoy themselves has always been the key to better sex.

As a person who doesn't have a six pack but who plays sport regulary and I keep myself fit I find that the recovery period between each round is the key thing!! go for a while then stop then go again and again and again etc does require some level of fitness especially when doing everything and being flexible helps with different positions.

Also found that being able to hold my breath and breathe through my ears helps alot

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I'm very fit but shit at sex. "
maybe need some lessons , ..

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By *anSusieCouple
over a year ago

Midlothian

beeing fit helps me riding longer

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"beeing fit helps me riding longer "
yes me too .. is this men or riding ?

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By *unky monkeyMan
over a year ago

in the night garden


"I'm very fit but shit at sex. maybe need some lessons , .."

muhahahaaa you fell into my trap, now bend over!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I'm very fit but shit at sex. maybe need some lessons , ..

muhahahaaa you fell into my trap, now bend over! "
no i was going to show you how to ride with riding lessons.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm very fit but shit at sex. maybe need some lessons , ..

muhahahaaa you fell into my trap, now bend over! no i was going to show you how to ride with riding lessons. "

ride? free lessons? on bed?

what more could a man want.

book me in please

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I'm very fit but shit at sex. maybe need some lessons , ..

muhahahaaa you fell into my trap, now bend over! no i was going to show you how to ride with riding lessons.

ride? free lessons? on bed?

what more could a man want.

book me in please "
lol i may get you out there on my horses like to see how some of you can handle that sort of riding too , lol hay-loft after .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm very fit but shit at sex. maybe need some lessons , ..

muhahahaaa you fell into my trap, now bend over! no i was going to show you how to ride with riding lessons.

ride? free lessons? on bed?

what more could a man want.

book me in please lol i may get you out there on my horses like to see how some of you can handle that sort of riding too , lol hay-loft after . "

i rode a bull at a rodeo once.

still enough about my ex.

you woman only like horses because its all that muscle between your legs lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

who needs to be ripped and body beautiful to suck cock like a demon eh not i said the fly!!!

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By *uyuksno1Man
over a year ago

poole

weve had very fit beautiful guys that have been completely shit and cum really quick and weve had ripped older guys that have had stamina and been good fun and weve had normal every day guys that have been gr8 and had a sense of humour i think its all down to the individual

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I dont think fitness and good sex always goes hand in hand

For me someone needs more than good staying power to keep me happy in bed, infact the last thing i want is someone who just bangs away for hours

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Everyone sees fitness in different ways is it better to be fit and shit in bed or mr average and good

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Everyone sees fitness in different ways is it better to be fit and shit in bed or mr average and good "

nah fit as fuck and awesome

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ahh never thought of that

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By *phroditeWoman
over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland


"Looking at all them fit body's on TV do you think it makes them better and more staying power When it comes to SEX ? And people you meet of here, If they spend time keeping fit are they better and last longer and up for more them once and doing more thing if like the person. Do it make a difference ?"
I would like to say it does not but I think it does make a difference if you are fit. FOr starters your stamina is better, your recovery rate quicker and I think it is great when you can havea long steamt session without getting out of breath. Its is one reason why I exercise a fair amount, the other reason is that I actually enjoy keeping fit for the sake of it. But hey - we are all different and I have met some very sexy people who might not be classed as top fit

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Although not guranteed, exercise, as with most aspects of life, will have massive benefits in this area. It's almost a no-brainer!

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By *phroditeWoman
over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland


"Although not guranteed, exercise, as with most aspects of life, will have massive benefits in this area. It's almost a no-brainer!"

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By *ashful BazMan
over a year ago

poole dorset


"I dont think fitness and good sex always goes hand in hand

For me someone needs more than good staying power to keep me happy in bed, infact the last thing i want is someone who just bangs away for hours "

Sounds like my cobbler, He bangs away for hours.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Although not guranteed, exercise, as with most aspects of life, will have massive benefits in this area. It's almost a no-brainer!"

exercise dont give you better oral skills

Also dont give you a better imagination and willingness to experiment

Its not all about how long you can fuck for

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think the mind can be a more powerful tool in the bedroom. Obviously you don't want someone getting out of breathe within a couple of seconds though lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think the mind can be a more powerful tool in the bedroom. Obviously you don't want someone getting out of breathe within a couple of seconds though lol"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

someone with a fit body will turn you on more,there for you will be into more and this will fuel the both of you on.

seeing some unfit women isnt going get the blood flowing to even start good sex

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By *riskygazMan
over a year ago

birmingham

Mmm i tricky one, if the person has a hi sex drive and in good shape then i would say it has to be pritty good i workout and i can sertanly go a good few times threw the night, just give me a little breather in between sesions and i am up for a bit more hehe, on the other hand you could be fit as hell but have a low sex drive, then your partner will be disapointed

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


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seeing some unfit women isnt going get the blood flowing to even start good sex

"

i know many a man that will heartily disagree with that part of your statement

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Fitness does play a part when it comes to endurance but it doesn't mean they'll be any better or any worst.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think that in some ways being fitter, more able to continue a physical activity for a long time can help, but only if you have the other abilities too, such as being able to keep it up for the same amount of time you can physically fuck for, being able to not cum, or cum and keep it up, and also having the right equipment and personality to have good sex. so yes and no.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"someone with a fit body will turn you on more,there for you will be into more and this will fuel the both of you on.

seeing some unfit women isnt going get the blood flowing to even start good sex"

i rather think thats a matter of preference

i dont have a fit body and ive never had a guy have problems getting it on for me, or have to stop mind shag cause im not doing it for him

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Perhaps a better way of putting this is to think how much better and/or worse we would personally be if we were/are:

a) Athletic fit

b) Overweight couch potato

c) Chronically unfit and obese

Our own sexual performance and abilities would decrease in line with the decline in fitness and increase in body weight.

Sorry if that is UN PC, but let's not beat around the bush.

A fit and healthy body will enhance your stamina and mobility as well as giving you sexual confidence.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

the op asked 'do you think'

i dont find fat women attractive

nik doesnt find fat men attractive

so i will never find out about their staying power.

sex is an active past time,so obviously the fitter you are the longer you will go on.

granted some of those athletes might be shit in bed but thats nothing to do with fitness

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I really am in two minds about this subject, im not fit, far from it, but i have a great sex life, i dont just lay there, im very active sexually and i can go all night, infact i find it very hard to find guys who sex drive matches mine and have on many occasions carried on with my toys well after the guys burnt out, hoping that giving him a rest he will carry on later

Theres no possitions i cant manage, theres never been a point ive had to ask a guy to stop because hes wearing me out, its more offen than not the other way round, infact ive done gang bangs and could have carried on after all the guys have finished

So it cant all come down to fitness other wise id be a five min wonder lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Fascinating.

The assumption that sex is a merely a physical act of 'rigorous intercourse' and that there is sliding scale of BMI/Fitness versus performance is an interesting one.

You can have hours of fun and give many, many orgasms without having to 'fuck like a machine'.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"someone with a fit body will turn you on more,there for you will be into more and this will fuel the both of you on.

seeing some unfit women isnt going get the blood flowing to even start good sex"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Fascinating.

The assumption that sex is a merely a physical act of 'rigorous intercourse' and that there is sliding scale of BMI/Fitness versus performance is an interesting one.

You can have hours of fun and give many, many orgasms without having to 'fuck like a machine'."

ive already said this, i have already pointed out being fit does not give you better oral skills or a better inagination in bed

personally i think some of the best parts of sex are when your not fucking like you have a battery up your arse and anyone who does that for hours with me would bore me to death, i like variety in my sex, someone with the ability to read my body and know when im enjoying it and when im getting bored so move onto something else

not someone who just bangs away all night

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There are so many factors to the OP but personally I find that the fitter I am the better in bed I am .

I love having sex in a push up type position ,where I'm on my toes and not my knees, it puts my cock in at a whole different angle and it feels great but obviously I need a certain amount of fitness to perform that

On the flip side I've been with some ladies that would be considered unfit by people but they have bounced on me all night and a few that could hold there breath longer than most synchronised swimmers

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The real fit birds like Ennis I would think could go all night..the next day...and night! Not sure if i could keep up but I would try with her

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By *he_original_poloWoman
over a year ago

a Primark shoebox in Leicester

I have read some of the replies in this thread with interest.

Speaking as a former international athlete, who for a number of years represented GB at various events across Europe, I can say with great certainty……. I’m a way better shag now.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm totally unfit, which results in me being a crap shag!

Can never get a meet so obviously the word has got around!!! (

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Looking at all them fit body's on TV do you think it makes them better and more staying power When it comes to SEX ? And people you meet of here, If they spend time keeping fit are they better and last longer and up for more them once and doing more thing if like the person. Do it make a difference ?"

You been watching the darts again?

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