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Pervert vs voyeur?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Hi all. Hope you're all having a great day.

I have a question and would love input as I am new to the scene. I have always hated the term of being a pervert. I felt embarrassed and like I was doing something wrong for just watching porn or looking at my wife naked etc. I now class myself as a voyeur since I found the label. But I am curious what you believe is the difference? Sorry for long post. Thanks.

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By *ermite12ukMan
over a year ago

Solihull and Brentwood

If I'm caught, I'm a pervert. If I'm not caught, I'm a voyeur.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If I'm caught, I'm a pervert. If I'm not caught, I'm a voyeur. "

HAHAHAHAHAAAAAAA

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By *rder66Man
over a year ago

Tatooine

A pervert is someone whose sexual behaviour is regarded as abnormal and unacceptable.

I don't accept anything that I do as either.

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend


"If I'm caught, I'm a pervert. If I'm not caught, I'm a voyeur.

HAHAHAHAHAAAAAAA

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It’s a badge of honour being called a pervert. Wear it with pride brother.

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By *uenevereWoman
over a year ago

Scunthorpe

Voyeurs are watching with consent perverts aren't.

At least thats my interpretation.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"If I'm caught, I'm a pervert. If I'm not caught, I'm a voyeur. "

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"A pervert is someone whose sexual behaviour is regarded as abnormal and unacceptable.

I don't accept anything that I do as either."

Thanks. I don't feel I act or do anything unacceptable... I hope.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you're wanking in the bushes looking through someones window you are a Pervert

If you are wanking in the same room you are a voyeur

Unless you are hiding in the closet wanking then you are a pervert again

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Voyeurs are watching with consent perverts aren't.

At least thats my interpretation. "

Thank you for your veiw.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"If you're wanking in the bushes looking through someones window you are a Pervert

If you are wanking in the same room you are a voyeur

Unless you are hiding in the closet wanking then you are a pervert again "

Ha ha love the end part. You caught me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't really like either as the connotations of both just seem so seedy to me. I just like participating in all extreme kinks and when I can't,I sneak around and watch others do them....;)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Anything one does seems acceptable to oneself or one wouldn't do it. Other opinions may vary, however...

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By *affron40Woman
over a year ago

manchester

Consent.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well I've not seen you in the bushes anywhere local or caught you looking in my windows yet so I wouldnt go with pervert just now...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Whither or not your hands are down your trousers at the time

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Consent. "

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Well I've not seen you in the bushes anywhere local or caught you looking in my windows yet so I wouldnt go with pervert just now..."

Does that mean you've been lurking in the bushes also?? Lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Well I've not seen you in the bushes anywhere local or caught you looking in my windows yet so I wouldnt go with pervert just now...

Does that mean you've been lurking in the bushes also?? Lol "

Only when the sun's out

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Well I've not seen you in the bushes anywhere local or caught you looking in my windows yet so I wouldnt go with pervert just now...

Does that mean you've been lurking in the bushes also?? Lol

Only when the sun's out "

I'll keep an eye out for ya then lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm a pervert and a deviant.

I have no problem with being labelled either.

I'm not problematic. Consent is a huge part of life. I dont hurt others.

But I am perverted in my sexual desires. And that's ok. Nothing wrong with it.

Take voyeurism. It dovetails beautifully with exhibitionism. Two kinks that require each other. As long as everyone is consenting, you are fine. Peeping tom is not fine.

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By *allumUKMan
over a year ago

KingsLynn

We're all perverts when we're horny ain't we?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Voyeurs are watching with consent perverts aren't.

At least thats my interpretation. "

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