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By *bat OP   Man
over a year ago

Alicante, Spain. (Sometimes in Wales)

Got talking to a couple I met in a bar in a small Spanish village. I got the feeling I was getting discreet "swinger" messages from them.

Here's the question. How close to home is too close to home?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Whatever you feel comfortable with...

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By *orthern StarsCouple
over a year ago

Durham, North Yorkshire and can travel

We wouldn't play on our own doorstep. We live in a small community and everyone knows us. We wouldn't want the gossip and the glances and sneers.

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By *bat OP   Man
over a year ago

Alicante, Spain. (Sometimes in Wales)

I get where you're coming from about the gossip.

I suppose my reluctance stems from my concern over how it would fit with village life if we fell out.

On the over hand, I'd love to help him satisfy her!!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I get where you're coming from about the gossip.

I suppose my reluctance stems from my concern over how it would fit with village life if we fell out.

On the over hand, I'd love to help him satisfy her!!!!"

Living for part of the year in Rural France I would recommend that you suggest to them going to a weekend away - separate rooms ostensibly to see another area and see how it goes.

I would def not suggest swinging at home - bound to be tears before bedtime.

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

All my playmates were local. They visited sporadically so not a problem with nosey neighbours.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Did u meet my parents they live in Spain and are swingers

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's whatever you feel comfortable with really is the simple awnser.

We wouldn't personally play with anyone too close to home.

Her x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's whatever you feel comfortable with really is the simple awnser.

We wouldn't personally play with anyone too close to home.

Her x"

this

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By *ools and the brainCouple
over a year ago

couple, us we him her.

I wouldn't want to incase I die and my family are Holding a wake in the house neighbours are present.

One of my family casually ask

"How do you know (blank)?"

Reply

"Oh we are swinger's and we have fucked a few times and we are next-door neighbours"

Awkward!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Got talking to a couple I met in a bar in a small Spanish village. I got the feeling I was getting discreet "swinger" messages from them.

Here's the question. How close to home is too close to home?"

We live in a small rural area. Everyone knows everyone else.

We played with a neighbour. It was a great night but it was also uncomfortable. We trusted her and she never broke that trust.

But one day during a family event my brother in law shared news about a website for people who cheat on their partners and have orgies. AND they were in our area AND they even had a thing where you could drive around and see who was close to you. Him and his mates where looking to see who was around our area.

As he was telling us this I deleted our profile pics and I changed our location

I only tell you this to explain there are positives and negatives to playing in small communities. We could have been outted by our verification to a perfectly trustworthy play partner.

Be careful

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By *ogerroger69Man
over a year ago

West Yorks

Yes agreed it’s a dangerous game

We all have a private life

My wife and I made a promise, no neighbours, friends or family connections and it has served us well x

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By *an_LexaCouple
over a year ago

Sunderland

It’s your own personal judgement. I never want to come into contact with someone on a day to day basis and I make my decisions based on that.

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