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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

If you got invited to a house for a meet up, you then drive 45 Miles each way they don’t answer the door ?

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

Id be pissed off both at them and at myself for not doing all the proper checks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would be raging x i can't stand people that pull out of a meet at the last minute never mind going all that way and not answering the door x and i would be embarrassed for actually going without checking the usual run of the mill things

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If that's just happened, well done for trusting and following your impulse.

But yeah we've probably all done it at some point. Only to learn to be more thorough in preparation.

I drove from london to maidstone at 2am in the morning,on impulse, but it was a winner! So you just never know.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It happened me once. We had chatted a lot here and we arranged to meet. I drove almost 80 miles and then he said something else had turned up and he had to sort it, sorry. I left his house, immediately blocked him then drove home again feeling very pissed off. No second chance!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Has this just happened? If so did you discuss the current Covid restrictions that are still in place?

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By *ot - CoupleCouple
over a year ago

Glasgow

Chap the neighbours door and ask them if they wanted a 3sum.

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By *odgerMan
over a year ago

Coventry(ish)London


"If you got invited to a house for a meet up, you then drive 45 Miles each way they don’t answer the door ? "

In normal times it would be a bit of a pisser...if its happened during lockdown then I'm glad your selfishness jas been rewarded.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Dominic Cummings, is that you?

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By *riar BelisseWoman
over a year ago

On Holibobs

This is why I meet in hotels, if something happens with him I have a place to stay

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If you got invited to a house for a meet up, you then drive 45 Miles each way they don’t answer the door ? "

Drive home?

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend


"If you got invited to a house for a meet up, you then drive 45 Miles each way they don’t answer the door ? "
do the lateral flow test ...sit in the car for half hour waiting for the results...if negative ..post them through the letterbox ...if positive drive home

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By *renzMan
over a year ago

Between Chichester and Havant

I wouldn't have driven that far without being sure. There's ways and means. Have driven a two hour journey before now, but was confident she was going to be there when I arrived.

Impulsive, you tend to get what you deserve.

Due diligence, you always get what you deserve.

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By *2000ManMan
over a year ago

Worthing

Start shouting through the letter box "Hey you...where is my meet?"

Joking....probably go home and block them. I'd not contact them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends, we wouldn't travel that far without building up a connection and trusting them.

If it was genuinely an emergency then that's fair enough, can't be mad at that

However if the reason wasn't that "important" if you like (I know this will mean different things to different people) we would be pissed off yes

Her x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"If you got invited to a house for a meet up, you then drive 45 Miles each way they don’t answer the door ? "

No it has not happed ... for this who think I Would go during lockdown “ya all think I would risk that - nope”

I started by saying IF !

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

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By *aseMan
over a year ago

Gourock

Brick through the window, lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If I'd never met them before, there's no way I'd have travelled. I don't do impulse meets unless I know them and know they wouldn't pull such a crappy stunt

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By *orthern StarsCouple
over a year ago

Durham

We would be furious. Would you not do a social meet first to ensure they are genuine?

Many people are all talk and no action on this site.

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By *orthern StarsCouple
over a year ago

Durham

This didn't happen to you about 8 hours ago did it, when you were looking for a mfm party?

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

This is why I only do impulsive meets with guys I've met on previous multiple guys x

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By *rder66Man
over a year ago

Tatooine

How do you know it was their actual house. I would want to see a driving licence, DBS enhanced check and a utility bill before I went to a strangers house.

If I knew them and they did that without a very good excuse (death or they where in A&E), I would quicky unfriend them.

Luckily in was on a 45 minute drive.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"This didn't happen to you about 8 hours ago did it, when you were looking for a mfm party?"

I said IF.. no I often wonder some times you get folk inviting from areas beyond 45 miles each way

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I did this from Blackpool to Lancaster and then they wasn’t in.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"How do you know it was their actual house. I would want to see a driving licence, DBS enhanced check and a utility bill before I went to a strangers house.

If I knew them and they did that without a very good excuse (death or they where in A&E), I would quicky unfriend them.

Luckily in was on a 45 minute drive."

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"We would be furious. Would you not do a social meet first to ensure they are genuine?

Many people are all talk and no action on this site."

Valid point

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By *odgerMan
over a year ago

Coventry(ish)London

What rhe fuck is this thread all anout?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I did this from Blackpool to Lancaster and then they wasn’t in. "

What did you do after ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If it turned out to be a timewaster and I’d done all the checks, I’d block the person when I got home and chalk it up to experience.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Piss through the letter box

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Piss through the letter box "

Lmao ??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just don't do what one guy did with me

He was early

I was in the shower

He didn't get an answer cos I didn't hear the door or the mobile

So he climbed over the back wall and tried to force entry

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just don't do what one guy did with me

He was early

I was in the shower

He didn't get an answer cos I didn't hear the door or the mobile

So he climbed over the back wall and tried to force entry "

You have to admire his enthusiasm at least!

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek

Report the profile as a no show, explaining in the report that I drove 45 mins for the privilege of being left looking like a nugget.

I'd have also waited 15 mins and knocked again in case they were having a pre meet nerves poo when I knocked the first time.

I've been tempted to accept invites throughout lockdown and give fake details as a bit of a fuck you to people who were actively rule breaking, but didn't have the balls.

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

Use all contact methods I had to confirm details. Perhaps have a rest and coffee, whilst considering options of things to do, before going home. Report to Admin. Learn from the experience.

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By *ikesEmBigMan
over a year ago

Herts


"If you got invited to a house for a meet up, you then drive 45 Miles each way they don’t answer the door ? "

Poo on their doorstep

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just leave and realised I have been coned like a beginner

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

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By *gent CoulsonMan
over a year ago

Secret hideaway in the pennines

A few years ago, I booked and paid for a hotel for a meet halfway between each other, we had been chatting for a while, first on here, then on the phone. Everything was fine, I turned up to the hotel, checked in, sent her a message to say I was there and the room number. She didn't show, and blocked me from contact.

I was pretty pissed off at the time, but as has been said, people can change their mind. It would have been nice just to get an apology though

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