FabSwingers.com forum: What are we here for

By *gent Coulson OP Man
over a year ago

Secret hideaway in the pennines

Apart from the obvious, what are you here for.

Personally I am not into the random fuck, multiple bed hopping thing.

I believe that sex is better when there is a connection and you get to know someone taking time to learn about them and their body, and visa versa.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am here to talk to myself without the constraints of medication

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i'm just here for the long card number, expiry date, and those little 3 numbers on the back

i joke.

im here for whatever the hell takes my fancy

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

We're here for a bit of fun, a relaxed good time. We don't take it too seriously.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Here to chat and use the forums.

If anything would only be interested in a relationship with a swinger

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm definitely not here for what the website was designed for but I like what I get from it.

I'm mostly here for the forums and a place to share my photos. I'm open to meeting too if a strong connection is made with someone.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've been wondering that quite a bit lately. I enjoy the forums and chatting to people but when it comes down to it, I wonder if I'm really suited to this.

That may change when things begin to open up again but in the meantime, I can't help but having that bit of self doubt.

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

When a mummy and a daddy (in the constraints of marriage) love each other very much...

They find babies in cabbage patches.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Bit off everything to be honest

Long term friendship with a little extra

Maybe find someone a connect with on a level that makes it go further than just sex

And the one offs just to scratch that itch

They all have they place

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By *HaRiFMan
over a year ago

Beyond the shadows.

The more I think about it more I don't know why I'm here. Probably here out of habit I guess.

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By *ablo minibar123Woman
over a year ago

I'm here to keep in touch and socialise with old friends that I have made over the years, and to use the chat rooms. If I meet anyone new that fits what my profile is looking for then great, but I'm not holding my breath.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Making friends and socialising.

When it comes to sex I'm happy with a mix of FB/FWB where there is a connection and familiarity, and then some random hook-ups as well, both have their merits.

Cannot wait to get into the clubs too xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Fun and friendship while still in lockdown

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It saves me going up to strangers and giving them a Post It note with a random thought on it.

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By *ncutthickness13Man
over a year ago

newbridge

Im here to meet new friends and speak with like minded people and if I get a blowjob or more out of it well worth the membership haha

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By *hrista BellendWoman
over a year ago

surrounded by twinkly lights

I'm here for the social side of it, meeting lots of different people at fab social events which are often tied in with a visit to a club, oh and chatting shit on the forums

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By *wiftieeMan
over a year ago

near Glasgow

My profile says it all, I think.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"i'm just here for the long card number, expiry date, and those little 3 numbers on the back

i joke.

im here for whatever the hell takes my fancy

Don’t forget mother’s maiden name

Px"

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By *uke OzadeMan
over a year ago

Ho Chi Minge City

Malteasers. Still looking....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Captive audience innit

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm here for the shits n giggles

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By *otSoPoshWoman
over a year ago

In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon

"I'm definitely not here for what the website was designed for but I like what I get from it.

I'm mostly here for the forums and a place to share my photos. I'm open to meeting too if a strong connection is made with someone.

That's why I'm here too...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Fun,social and to make long term friends and connections mixed with a few erections

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By *rumpyMcFuckNuggetMan
over a year ago

Den of Iniquity

I'm currently here to make new acquaintances and the forum .

I've made a lot of new friends recently and would like to meet them in the near future ( not all sexually btw ) .

And another thing I've learnt recently is I can be a good friend and help people too . So that too

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By *ea monkeyMan
over a year ago

Manchester (he/him)

Currently, I’m here to waffle on the forums. There’s only some much that my partner can take in real life

In the future, we plan on meeting but at the moment we’re just hanging around the forums for chats and to possibly make connections

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

I'm not too sure currently.

It's interesting reading the forums and the various opinions/insights and getting attention through my posts.

I'm not averse to meeting soon but I'll be doing so in a friend capacity for the near future at least. So making friends, interacting with current friends? Or just passing time.

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over a year ago

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By *amie HantsWoman
over a year ago

Atlantis

Forums and to keep my thumbs busy

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By *lirty-CoupleCouple
over a year ago

Bexley

To find a likeminded guy who fits our requirements, shares our interests and isn't looking for a whole load of stuff we're not into. It takes time but we accept that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Good question. I primarily just look on the forums, join in with random threads, nothing more particularly. But I think a lot of people who use the forum do that, rather than those who don’t, I think they’re slightly different wants.

And just never taking it totally seriously, that’s also key

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We're here for a bit of fun, a relaxed good time. We don't take it too seriously."

100% agree! We have an amazing sex life away from the lifestyle anyway but this is extra fun for us which we don't take seriously

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's changed over time - I used to be here for the sex

Now it's mainly because I'm REALLY bored, the forums and the occasional shag.

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By *irtydevil666Man
over a year ago

bristol

No idea at mo but it kills time.......

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Came for the sex, stayed for the puns.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm here for NSA sex.

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By *VineMan
over a year ago

The right place

I’m here to spread the joy of me!

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By *olly_chromaticTV/TS
over a year ago

Stockport

I enjoy the discussions about cosmology, general relativity, quantum physics, computability, and whether squirt is really just pee...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I hear for bbw for fwb in south east personally

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By *edeWoman
over a year ago

the abyss

I'm here to hopefully find someone like minded that I can in time form a relationship with to enjoy this crazy worlds ups and downs.

But for now I'm happy to pass the time on the forums and chat some nonsense

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Here for fun meets and talk with people

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By *2000ManMan
over a year ago

Worthing

Being a single guy the chances of a meet are always remote and with covid impossible at the moment. I actually prefer the social interaction in forums and cam rooms. Jokes, ideas, thoughts etc.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ultimately i would just like some female friends to hang out with from time to time, go for walks etc. Just some company from time to time would be nice.

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By *omer47Man
over a year ago

leigh

I'm here for some xtra fun, fun that I cannot get at home. We all have our secret fantasies and im here to fullfill mine.

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By *orbidden eastMan
over a year ago

london dodging electric scooters

Im here to find someone to play Monopoly or twister with

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For the time being, it's mainly for the forums, get to know people a little and who knows, when a time comes when able to, have a social meet in person.

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

Just for the forums now, and not as frequent a visitor as I used to be.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Me? I am here to open doors to the possibility of sexy times with other people.

How’s that?

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