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By *averockrock OP   Man
over a year ago

swindon

I thought was a place for people interested in swinging and all the things around that!

What do you think?

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By *uscularLoveMan
over a year ago

london

Lool I think it's becoming more of a gathering in my opinion

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its whatever you make of it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think the time we are in now his making it a different sort of site . But not a dating site

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Its whatever you make of it. "

Exactly

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What is Swinging?

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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago

South Wales


"Its whatever you make of it. "

This

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod

over a year ago

East Sussex

We enjoy a date with another couple or a single man. I think it's more that dating sites are used by many to seek out casual sex and that attitude informs the way they interact on here

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

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No, I don't think so. I think more people are open about wanting relationships or at least being open to that which makes sense; on here you can find someone who shares at least some of the same ideals as you and if it's important to you to have a swinging one, then you're more likely to find one here.

I do think more are looking to have a decent conversation with another rather than very casual sex.

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By *orksRockerMan
over a year ago

Bradford

I think it's showing that more and more people just can't be bothered putting in any effort. Expecting people to flock to them and getting frustrated when it doesn't occur.

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek

Any future meets I have are gonna be date like.

I'm not looking for a relationship but I want more to a meet than cock meets cunt.

If all I wanted was cock meets cunt I'd still be with past boyfriends. They're cocks and I'm a cunt.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I use it to meet chess players

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"I thought was a place for people interested in swinging and all the things around that!

What do you think? "

Depends on how you define swinging, I guess.

I think some people think swinging is "you have the genitals I'm looking for and vice versa, let's meet now". They've always existed. Those people also tend to think that standards are only for dating.

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek


"I thought was a place for people interested in swinging and all the things around that!

What do you think? "

What's your version of swinging then?

What's the 'all the things around it'?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I thought was a place for people interested in swinging and all the things around that!

What do you think?

What's your version of swinging then?

What's the 'all the things around it'? "

Yes. What are the dating elements/signs you notice on here ? Or in your interactions?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It’s what people want to use it for it has many functions

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Its whatever you make of it. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Any future meets I have are gonna be date like.

I'm not looking for a relationship but I want more to a meet than cock meets cunt.

If all I wanted was cock meets cunt I'd still be with past boyfriends. They're cocks and I'm a cunt."

You should be a poet Peachy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I thought was a place for people interested in swinging and all the things around that!

What do you think?

Depends on how you define swinging, I guess.

I think some people think swinging is "you have the genitals I'm looking for and vice versa, let's meet now". They've always existed. Those people also tend to think that standards are only for dating."

Well said.

I keep hearing we’re not here to marry or date its a sex site. Agreed its what you make of it but at the same time i refuse to allow any old penis owner access to my body just because i’m on fab. Sometimes people want to skip the getting to know you bit and then wonder why they experience crap sex.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

All of my meets here have involved drinks and a social interaction, be it in clubs, bars or houses. Not sure whether they could be referred to as dates.

I view Fab as a swinging site rather than a sex site. I think it's more about mindset, rather than how a site is badged up.

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By *ustyshowoffCouple
over a year ago

Cyprus

It works just fine for us. We’ve chatted and or played on cam with some, had social meets with others and sex with the ones we’ve liked.

Lockdown in the U.K. has obviously created new limitations but it won’t be forever

Mark

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For me, this site is about getting to know someone and finding a connection. An attraction physically and mentally that leads to good fun, laughs, both socially and privately.

I don’t want a relationship, but I also don’t want lots of one offs with randoms.

So I guess in a way it is like dating, but with no prospect of a relationship and lots of guaranteed hassle free sex... if the chemistry is there!

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By *abioMan
over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead


"I thought was a place for people interested in swinging and all the things around that!

What do you think? "

3 words....... does it matter?

Swinging means different things to different people.... if the people you are looking at potentially interacting with dont have the same attitude as you..... walk on by! Simple as!

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By *rder66Man
over a year ago

Tatooine


"Its whatever you make of it. "
Well said.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I use it for both.

As a single swinger this is the best place for me to meet another swinger. I am non-monogomous in relationships and that is hard to find on normal dating apps.

I also use it for club meets and events. All in all, a swinger using a swingers site

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By *hetalkingstoveMan
over a year ago

London

"this place seems like it's about dating!" is a complaint that comes up fairly regularly on these forums.

Pretty sure it usually translates to "people aren't meeting me instantly like I want!"

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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago

East London

Unfortunately, most men I talk to think it's a hook up for sex when I'm horny site.

I'm not a fucking prostitute.

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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago

East London


""this place seems like it's about dating!" is a complaint that comes up fairly regularly on these forums.

Pretty sure it usually translates to "people aren't meeting me instantly like I want!" "

I translate it to "I'm horny and want sex now, I don't want a conversation first!-not unless it's one I can wank over".

That's pre-Lockdown too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

im here for one reason and one reason only to have sex with others i find sexually attracted to ie swinging .. what others do is none of my business

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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago

East London


"I thought was a place for people interested in swinging and all the things around that!

What do you think?

3 words....... does it matter?

Swinging means different things to different people.... if the people you are looking at potentially interacting with dont have the same attitude as you..... walk on by! Simple as!"

Yes, move along. Don't try to talk someone into meeting you ASAP and become annoyed with them when they won't.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes I do think over the years it has become more of a dating site. With a lot of people saying they need to socialise and get to really know the person before having fun. Which in my mind sounds a lot like dating.

I know the last year has been exceptional but I do hope it gets back to swinging.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Unfortunately, most men I talk to think it's a hook up for sex when I'm horny site.

I'm not a fucking prostitute.

"

so women using a swingers site to hook up for sex are now prostitutes ??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I thought was a place for people interested in swinging and all the things around that!

What do you think? "

Why can’t it be.

Finding someone with similar interests could happen anywhere why not a swingers site x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Swinging is shagging strangers. Sex and sex and sex.

Swinging is socialising, making friends, sharing the experience with people.

Swinging is fucking people with no names and no strings.

Swinging is couples fucking other couples who they are friends with and become a 4some couple sharing life experiences not just sex.

Swinging is couples shagging around where one only does it to try and stop their partner from cheating.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What is swinging?

I bet there's a hundred different answers to that question in this thread alone.

I call meets 'dates'. I have to like who I'm fucking, and I treat the interaction as the start of a new relationship with new folks and as friends who foowk with the ones I want to see again. x

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By *owhambamMan
over a year ago

clacton


"What is swinging?

I bet there's a hundred different answers to that question in this thread alone.

I call meets 'dates'. I have to like who I'm fucking, and I treat the interaction as the start of a new relationship with new folks and as friends who foowk with the ones I want to see again. x"

Yes this and more, I’d like to meet with someone that hopefully we will get along and have regular visits with. You socialise with outside of sex, so it is what you make it to be

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By *ancer36Woman
over a year ago

Stirling


"I thought was a place for people interested in swinging and all the things around that!

What do you think?

Why can’t it be.

Finding someone with similar interests could happen anywhere why not a swingers site x "

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


""this place seems like it's about dating!" is a complaint that comes up fairly regularly on these forums.

Pretty sure it usually translates to "people aren't meeting me instantly like I want!"

I translate it to "I'm horny and want sex now, I don't want a conversation first!-not unless it's one I can wank over".

That's pre-Lockdown too."

Yup.

I'm a frigid bitch because I delete "867 5309, 123 Example Street, That Town, now". I don't do the sex.

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham


"I thought was a place for people interested in swinging and all the things around that!

What do you think? "

What's the difference between finding someone to date or finding a friend?

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By *hrista BellendWoman
over a year ago

surrounded by twinkly lights

Its a multi layered site with something for everyone, you just have to find the person that suits you

I date on here and have sex with good friends, the fuck and go scenario doesn't satisfy me so I look for different men

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By *averockrock OP   Man
over a year ago

swindon

Wow a lot of answers and different opinions! thanks guys and girls!

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By *havennaturistsCouple
over a year ago

Banff

You should log into fabtimewasters.....it's full of swingers!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Its whatever you make of it. "
This winds me right up when people message saying "this is a sex site"... it's whatever you want to use it for

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its whatever you make of it. Some use it to swing some use it to date. Some use it to chat and some just use it to waste time. Who cares and what dies it matter. Use it for what you want.

I got told u was a fantasist cause when I had my veris displayed none were actual sex veris than when hidden I was told I'd fairly been around the block.

I'm here for my own reasons and to have fun

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I thought was a place for people interested in swinging and all the things around that!

What do you think?

Depends on how you define swinging, I guess.

I think some people think swinging is "you have the genitals I'm looking for and vice versa, let's meet now". They've always existed. Those people also tend to think that standards are only for dating.

Well said.

I keep hearing we’re not here to marry or date its a sex site. Agreed its what you make of it but at the same time i refuse to allow any old penis owner access to my body just because i’m on fab. Sometimes people want to skip the getting to know you bit and then wonder why they experience crap sex. "

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By *nterprizeABCMan
over a year ago

Aberystwyth

Some of us want to meet people and have fun. Whether that be naughty fun or just going for a walk, a pint, and having a laugh.

For me personally, I'm interesting in making new friends once lockdown ends, whether that be through a book club, sports club, or on here.

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By *heNYCSausageMan
over a year ago

Everton

In the grand scheme of things, swinging is dating.

Dating is getting to know each other, having drinks, having a laugh, hopefully spending time in bed

Swinging (when done properly) is getting to know each other, having drinks, having a laugh, hopefully spending time in bed

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Swinging means different things to different people. Some want hook-ups, some couple swaps in private, others clubs, others being taken in a carpark by strangers, gangbangs, BDSM, etc. All valid. Luckily there are plenty of members of here with varied interests. So hopefully someone for everyone, so to speak xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I thought was a place for people interested in swinging and all the things around that!

What do you think? "

Do you mean people wanting a date or a relationship OP?

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek


"I thought was a place for people interested in swinging and all the things around that!

What do you think?

Depends on how you define swinging, I guess.

I think some people think swinging is "you have the genitals I'm looking for and vice versa, let's meet now". They've always existed. Those people also tend to think that standards are only for dating.

Well said.

I keep hearing we’re not here to marry or date its a sex site. Agreed its what you make of it but at the same time i refuse to allow any old penis owner access to my body just because i’m on fab. Sometimes people want to skip the getting to know you bit and then wonder why they experience crap sex. "

Crap sex? Crap sex?

Naaaaaaahhhhhhh, he spat some baby batter out his bell end. That's all that matters right? Means to an end and if ya do it on a layby ya can fill the car with petrol on the way back. Winner winner chicken dinner

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By *ea monkeyMan
over a year ago

Manchester (he/him)

I think that for many and as there are lots of singles knocking around, the site has changed. It’s not just for swinging, it’s become more about anything within the Ethical Non Monogamy umbrella.

I know of poly people, open marriages, swingers, D/s dynamics and those looking for NSA casual dynamics, to name just a few.

It’s not about right or wrong, it’s about finding those that fit what you’re looking for. If that’s dating, that’s fine.

Dating used to be a dirty word around here, thankfully that’s no longer the case

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By *oncupiscence73Woman
over a year ago

South


""this place seems like it's about dating!" is a complaint that comes up fairly regularly on these forums.

Pretty sure it usually translates to "people aren't meeting me instantly like I want!"

I translate it to "I'm horny and want sex now, I don't want a conversation first!-not unless it's one I can wank over".

That's pre-Lockdown too."

This .... some ‘conversations’ go like this

Man - horny babe?

Me- no thanks

Man - why the fuck you online then time waster

..... that isn’t swinging

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By *ixen13Woman
over a year ago

Cowdenbeath


"Any future meets I have are gonna be date like.

I'm not looking for a relationship but I want more to a meet than cock meets cunt.

If all I wanted was cock meets cunt I'd still be with past boyfriends. They're cocks and I'm a cunt."

I nearly spat my coffee out reading that Princess, i love your way with words xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am still trying to start a gaming clan.

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By *htcMan
over a year ago

MK

No I think it's more of Facebook. No meets just chat. Even when was normal days everyone wants to chat than meet.

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham


"No I think it's more of Facebook. No meets just chat. Even when was normal days everyone wants to chat than meet."

Winder who I was fucking before lockdown then

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No I think it's more of Facebook. No meets just chat. Even when was normal days everyone wants to chat than meet."

Is that so bad though?

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By *entleman JayMan
over a year ago

Wakefield


"Its whatever you make of it. "

I’ve met a lovely walking friend on Fab. It can be whatever you like!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Its whatever you make of it.

I’ve met a lovely walking friend on Fab. It can be whatever you like! "

Can it be a supersize fruit and nut Chocolate bar?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think that for many and as there are lots of singles knocking around, the site has changed. It’s not just for swinging, it’s become more about anything within the Ethical Non Monogamy umbrella.

I know of poly people, open marriages, swingers, D/s dynamics and those looking for NSA casual dynamics, to name just a few.

It’s not about right or wrong, it’s about finding those that fit what you’re looking for. If that’s dating, that’s fine.

**Dating used to be a dirty word around here, thankfully that’s no longer the case**

"

** I agree. There does seem to have been a shift but perhaps that's a year of lockdown and maybe also only on the forums. But it definitely seems more popular.

I suppose the people predominantly looking for a shag left the site in lockdowns because no point chatting if they only want a shag.

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By *om and JennieCouple
over a year ago

Chams or Socials

We both joined as singles. Neither expected a relationship but we are now happily married.

J x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Any future meets I have are gonna be date like.

I'm not looking for a relationship but I want more to a meet than cock meets cunt.

If all I wanted was cock meets cunt I'd still be with past boyfriends. They're cocks and I'm a cunt."

Love it, and totally agree

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Any future meets I have are gonna be date like.

I'm not looking for a relationship but I want more to a meet than cock meets cunt.

If all I wanted was cock meets cunt I'd still be with past boyfriends. They're cocks and I'm a cunt.

Love it, and totally agree "

Oops, wrong emoji

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We both joined as singles. Neither expected a relationship but we are now happily married.

J x"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like to get to know awesome people, to meet, share a part of my awesome life and if it all gels then have awesome sex together ... not interested in meeting randoms for mediocre sex!

Here is a good place to do this ... very much about getting to know people who are looking for similar to yourself.

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By *ea monkeyMan
over a year ago

Manchester (he/him)


"We both joined as singles. Neither expected a relationship but we are now happily married.

J x"

I adore your story!

So much so, I went and got one just like it!

In reality, a lot of couples have met because of fab.

I know that emotional attachment is seen as contrary to the swinging ethos but if people are open, available and it happens, then why not go with it?

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By *gent CoulsonMan
over a year ago

Secret hideaway in the pennines

Does it really matter you get out of it what you want

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By *om and JennieCouple
over a year ago

Chams or Socials


"We both joined as singles. Neither expected a relationship but we are now happily married.

J x

I adore your story!

So much so, I went and got one just like it!

In reality, a lot of couples have met because of fab.

I know that emotional attachment is seen as contrary to the swinging ethos but if people are open, available and it happens, then why not go with it? "

And you’ve been there with us through it all xx I’m so glad you found your special someone too - you are both so lucky xxx

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By *averockrock OP   Man
over a year ago

swindon

Some interesting points of view! Thanks everyone

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I thought was a place for people interested in swinging and all the things around that!

What do you think? "

But what if you're a single and want a swinging partner? Where would you go for that?

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By *den-Valley-coupleCouple
over a year ago

Cumbria


"I thought was a place for people interested in swinging and all the things around that!

What do you think? "

Social network pal get on with it.

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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago

Up on them there hills


"Unfortunately, most men I talk to think it's a hook up for sex when I'm horny site.

I'm not a fucking prostitute.

so women using a swingers site to hook up for sex are now prostitutes ??

"

Can’t be, you don’t get payed.... Joke!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I met my last partner here, before the whole covid thing. Neither of us were expecting it.

It's like every part of life, sometimes it happens when you're least expecting it x

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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago

Up on them there hills

It’s a place where people who live in a domestic world, let go of their domesticity and have fun.

Or according to Freud, a site to cast-a-side the super ego and explore the sexual i.d.

Problem is, to me, there are those on here who don’t understand superego.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It’s a place where people who live in a domestic world, let go of their domesticity and have fun.

Or according to Freud, a site to cast-a-side the super ego and explore the sexual i.d.

Problem is, to me, there are those on here who don’t understand superego."

The only way is ethics.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It’s a place where people who live in a domestic world, let go of their domesticity and have fun.

Or according to Freud, a site to cast-a-side the super ego and explore the sexual i.d.

Problem is, to me, there are those on here who don’t understand superego.

"

Have you just learnt about the superego today ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It’s a place where people who live in a domestic world, let go of their domesticity and have fun.

Or according to Freud, a site to cast-a-side the super ego and explore the sexual i.d.

Problem is, to me, there are those on here who don’t understand superego.

The only way is ethics.

"

People just want The Simple Life

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By *ea monkeyMan
over a year ago

Manchester (he/him)


"It’s a place where people who live in a domestic world, let go of their domesticity and have fun.

Or according to Freud, a site to cast-a-side the super ego and explore the sexual i.d.

Problem is, to me, there are those on here who don’t understand superego.

"

I think that this is true for some, others don’t live in a world where it’s necessary to cast one part aside or split.

Also, Freud was a hack whos work has been moved beyond. He also believed that women suffered from penis envy, so... yknow

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By *isfits behaving badlyCouple
over a year ago

Coventry

Always seen it as a site for all aspects of the swinging community, including swingers who want to date, go camping, who ride motorbikes etc. Maybe I've got it wrong?

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By *rNaughtyNickMan
over a year ago

Birmingham

There's no harm in getting to know someone and finding others that share similar kinks and interests rather than just have a wham bam x

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By *edeWoman
over a year ago

the abyss

I wouldn't say do although I do state I am looking for a relationship because I would like to find someone to enjoy this life with. Trying to explain swinging or D/s to someone on a generic dating site is often pointless in my experience

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"For me, this site is about getting to know someone and finding a connection. An attraction physically and mentally that leads to good fun, laughs, both socially and privately.

I don’t want a relationship, but I also don’t want lots of one offs with randoms.

So I guess in a way it is like dating, but with no prospect of a relationship and lots of guaranteed hassle free sex... if the chemistry is there!"

I agree

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By *averockrock OP   Man
over a year ago

swindon

Wow! Thank you all for all your views. Can't believe this post got so much attention! Xx

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By *nked_kittenWoman
over a year ago

Ankh Morpork


"Unfortunately, most men I talk to think it's a hook up for sex when I'm horny site.

I'm not a fucking prostitute.

so women using a swingers site to hook up for sex are now prostitutes ??

"

I agree with that....not because women are prostitutes on here but because a lot of guys don’t think we should be allowed to choose partner, time scale or type of meet.

That’s how I read that comment and I agree with it.

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By *illy_the_tvTV/TS
over a year ago

hoorn, Netherlands


"Any future meets I have are gonna be date like.

I'm not looking for a relationship but I want more to a meet than cock meets cunt.

If all I wanted was cock meets cunt I'd still be with past boyfriends. They're cocks and I'm a cunt."

I'll take you on a date

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By *wiftieeMan
over a year ago

near Glasgow

It might be different for couples, but I've always seen it as a site for NSA sex.

Having said that, personally, it has been that, but also fortunate to have had 2 'relationships' as well.

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

Make of it what you want from it and let others do the same. Thousands of people and interests

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Met friends, and swingers

Met boyf in the past..

Chat to great friends who never met.. Had dvice and support.

Fab is whatever you want it to be.

Be good if a dating /singles section

Fab is fab

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By *lueEyesEnigmaMan
over a year ago

Dublin

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Fab can be anything you want it to be if your open to possibilities that may arise from using it

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By *r TriomanMan
over a year ago

Chippenham Malmesbury area

Are dating sites becoming more like Fab? See how my friend used them, several women on the go all NSA, it makes me think that they are.

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By *lueEyesEnigmaMan
over a year ago

Dublin


"I thought was a place for people interested in swinging and all the things around that!

What do you think?

Why can’t it be.

Finding someone with similar interests could happen anywhere why not a swingers site x

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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT

It was you want out of it

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By *iscoman7771000Man
over a year ago

birmingham

In short no we will have to see how things go after lockdo

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By *layfullsamMan
over a year ago

Solihull


"I thought was a place for people interested in swinging and all the things around that!

What do you think? "

It's whatever people want it to be, if you want just sex without the banter, friendship etc try easyshag.com

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Do you want my number

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By *idzguyMan
over a year ago

coventry

No but LinkedIn is turning into Facebook lol

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By *averockrock OP   Man
over a year ago

swindon

Thanks again for the extra msgs!

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By *iddle ManMan
over a year ago

Walsall

It's definitely becoming more pic orientated. I just think that is where society is heading. With the pa demic and lack of meeting up I can see how this is working at the moment though.

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By *harisajidanWoman
over a year ago

london

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No.

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

Swingers date too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Life's what you make it

Talk Talk said that

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By *harisajidanWoman
over a year ago

london


"Swingers date too"

Yep!

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By *harisajidanWoman
over a year ago

london

People date generally because they came across eachother at a place or point of interests...

If swinging is one of your interests.. why wouldn’t you find someone to date who is also into it...on a social networking site for swingers?

Same as if you were into rugby or volleyball or a book club...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think theres a minority,I've came across a handful of female profiles stating this.

And they acknowledge that they unlikely to find it on this site.

One of the great things about this site is no strings,a place to meet people with similar interests in sex.

It makes me get the hell out of a profile fast when see that kind of talk haha.

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