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"Its whatever you make of it. " This | |||
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"I thought was a place for people interested in swinging and all the things around that! What do you think? " Depends on how you define swinging, I guess. I think some people think swinging is "you have the genitals I'm looking for and vice versa, let's meet now". They've always existed. Those people also tend to think that standards are only for dating. | |||
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"I thought was a place for people interested in swinging and all the things around that! What do you think? " What's your version of swinging then? What's the 'all the things around it'? | |||
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"Any future meets I have are gonna be date like. I'm not looking for a relationship but I want more to a meet than cock meets cunt. If all I wanted was cock meets cunt I'd still be with past boyfriends. They're cocks and I'm a cunt." You should be a poet Peachy | |||
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"I thought was a place for people interested in swinging and all the things around that! What do you think? Depends on how you define swinging, I guess. I think some people think swinging is "you have the genitals I'm looking for and vice versa, let's meet now". They've always existed. Those people also tend to think that standards are only for dating." Well said. I keep hearing we’re not here to marry or date its a sex site. Agreed its what you make of it but at the same time i refuse to allow any old penis owner access to my body just because i’m on fab. Sometimes people want to skip the getting to know you bit and then wonder why they experience crap sex. | |||
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"I thought was a place for people interested in swinging and all the things around that! What do you think? " 3 words....... does it matter? Swinging means different things to different people.... if the people you are looking at potentially interacting with dont have the same attitude as you..... walk on by! Simple as! | |||
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"Its whatever you make of it. " Well said. | |||
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""this place seems like it's about dating!" is a complaint that comes up fairly regularly on these forums. Pretty sure it usually translates to "people aren't meeting me instantly like I want!" " I translate it to "I'm horny and want sex now, I don't want a conversation first!-not unless it's one I can wank over". That's pre-Lockdown too. | |||
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"I thought was a place for people interested in swinging and all the things around that! What do you think? 3 words....... does it matter? Swinging means different things to different people.... if the people you are looking at potentially interacting with dont have the same attitude as you..... walk on by! Simple as!" Yes, move along. Don't try to talk someone into meeting you ASAP and become annoyed with them when they won't. | |||
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"Unfortunately, most men I talk to think it's a hook up for sex when I'm horny site. I'm not a fucking prostitute. " so women using a swingers site to hook up for sex are now prostitutes ?? | |||
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"I thought was a place for people interested in swinging and all the things around that! What do you think? " Why can’t it be. Finding someone with similar interests could happen anywhere why not a swingers site x | |||
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"What is swinging? I bet there's a hundred different answers to that question in this thread alone. I call meets 'dates'. I have to like who I'm fucking, and I treat the interaction as the start of a new relationship with new folks and as friends who foowk with the ones I want to see again. x" Yes this and more, I’d like to meet with someone that hopefully we will get along and have regular visits with. You socialise with outside of sex, so it is what you make it to be | |||
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"I thought was a place for people interested in swinging and all the things around that! What do you think? Why can’t it be. Finding someone with similar interests could happen anywhere why not a swingers site x " | |||
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""this place seems like it's about dating!" is a complaint that comes up fairly regularly on these forums. Pretty sure it usually translates to "people aren't meeting me instantly like I want!" I translate it to "I'm horny and want sex now, I don't want a conversation first!-not unless it's one I can wank over". That's pre-Lockdown too." Yup. I'm a frigid bitch because I delete "867 5309, 123 Example Street, That Town, now". I don't do the sex. | |||
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"I thought was a place for people interested in swinging and all the things around that! What do you think? " What's the difference between finding someone to date or finding a friend? | |||
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"Its whatever you make of it. " This winds me right up when people message saying "this is a sex site"... it's whatever you want to use it for | |||
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"I thought was a place for people interested in swinging and all the things around that! What do you think? Depends on how you define swinging, I guess. I think some people think swinging is "you have the genitals I'm looking for and vice versa, let's meet now". They've always existed. Those people also tend to think that standards are only for dating. Well said. I keep hearing we’re not here to marry or date its a sex site. Agreed its what you make of it but at the same time i refuse to allow any old penis owner access to my body just because i’m on fab. Sometimes people want to skip the getting to know you bit and then wonder why they experience crap sex. " | |||
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"I thought was a place for people interested in swinging and all the things around that! What do you think? " Do you mean people wanting a date or a relationship OP? | |||
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"I thought was a place for people interested in swinging and all the things around that! What do you think? Depends on how you define swinging, I guess. I think some people think swinging is "you have the genitals I'm looking for and vice versa, let's meet now". They've always existed. Those people also tend to think that standards are only for dating. Well said. I keep hearing we’re not here to marry or date its a sex site. Agreed its what you make of it but at the same time i refuse to allow any old penis owner access to my body just because i’m on fab. Sometimes people want to skip the getting to know you bit and then wonder why they experience crap sex. " Crap sex? Crap sex? Naaaaaaahhhhhhh, he spat some baby batter out his bell end. That's all that matters right? Means to an end and if ya do it on a layby ya can fill the car with petrol on the way back. Winner winner chicken dinner | |||
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""this place seems like it's about dating!" is a complaint that comes up fairly regularly on these forums. Pretty sure it usually translates to "people aren't meeting me instantly like I want!" I translate it to "I'm horny and want sex now, I don't want a conversation first!-not unless it's one I can wank over". That's pre-Lockdown too." This .... some ‘conversations’ go like this Man - horny babe? Me- no thanks Man - why the fuck you online then time waster ..... that isn’t swinging | |||
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"Any future meets I have are gonna be date like. I'm not looking for a relationship but I want more to a meet than cock meets cunt. If all I wanted was cock meets cunt I'd still be with past boyfriends. They're cocks and I'm a cunt." I nearly spat my coffee out reading that Princess, i love your way with words xx | |||
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"No I think it's more of Facebook. No meets just chat. Even when was normal days everyone wants to chat than meet." Winder who I was fucking before lockdown then | |||
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"No I think it's more of Facebook. No meets just chat. Even when was normal days everyone wants to chat than meet." Is that so bad though? | |||
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"Its whatever you make of it. " I’ve met a lovely walking friend on Fab. It can be whatever you like! | |||
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"Its whatever you make of it. I’ve met a lovely walking friend on Fab. It can be whatever you like! " Can it be a supersize fruit and nut Chocolate bar? | |||
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"I think that for many and as there are lots of singles knocking around, the site has changed. It’s not just for swinging, it’s become more about anything within the Ethical Non Monogamy umbrella. I know of poly people, open marriages, swingers, D/s dynamics and those looking for NSA casual dynamics, to name just a few. It’s not about right or wrong, it’s about finding those that fit what you’re looking for. If that’s dating, that’s fine. **Dating used to be a dirty word around here, thankfully that’s no longer the case** " ** I agree. There does seem to have been a shift but perhaps that's a year of lockdown and maybe also only on the forums. But it definitely seems more popular. I suppose the people predominantly looking for a shag left the site in lockdowns because no point chatting if they only want a shag. | |||
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"Any future meets I have are gonna be date like. I'm not looking for a relationship but I want more to a meet than cock meets cunt. If all I wanted was cock meets cunt I'd still be with past boyfriends. They're cocks and I'm a cunt." Love it, and totally agree | |||
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"Any future meets I have are gonna be date like. I'm not looking for a relationship but I want more to a meet than cock meets cunt. If all I wanted was cock meets cunt I'd still be with past boyfriends. They're cocks and I'm a cunt. Love it, and totally agree " Oops, wrong emoji | |||
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"We both joined as singles. Neither expected a relationship but we are now happily married. J x" | |||
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"We both joined as singles. Neither expected a relationship but we are now happily married. J x" I adore your story! So much so, I went and got one just like it! In reality, a lot of couples have met because of fab. I know that emotional attachment is seen as contrary to the swinging ethos but if people are open, available and it happens, then why not go with it? | |||
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"We both joined as singles. Neither expected a relationship but we are now happily married. J x I adore your story! So much so, I went and got one just like it! In reality, a lot of couples have met because of fab. I know that emotional attachment is seen as contrary to the swinging ethos but if people are open, available and it happens, then why not go with it? " And you’ve been there with us through it all xx I’m so glad you found your special someone too - you are both so lucky xxx | |||
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"I thought was a place for people interested in swinging and all the things around that! What do you think? " But what if you're a single and want a swinging partner? Where would you go for that? | |||
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"I thought was a place for people interested in swinging and all the things around that! What do you think? " Social network pal get on with it. | |||
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"Unfortunately, most men I talk to think it's a hook up for sex when I'm horny site. I'm not a fucking prostitute. so women using a swingers site to hook up for sex are now prostitutes ?? " Can’t be, you don’t get payed.... Joke! | |||
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"It’s a place where people who live in a domestic world, let go of their domesticity and have fun. Or according to Freud, a site to cast-a-side the super ego and explore the sexual i.d. Problem is, to me, there are those on here who don’t understand superego." The only way is ethics. | |||
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"It’s a place where people who live in a domestic world, let go of their domesticity and have fun. Or according to Freud, a site to cast-a-side the super ego and explore the sexual i.d. Problem is, to me, there are those on here who don’t understand superego. " Have you just learnt about the superego today ? | |||
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"It’s a place where people who live in a domestic world, let go of their domesticity and have fun. Or according to Freud, a site to cast-a-side the super ego and explore the sexual i.d. Problem is, to me, there are those on here who don’t understand superego. The only way is ethics. " People just want The Simple Life | |||
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"It’s a place where people who live in a domestic world, let go of their domesticity and have fun. Or according to Freud, a site to cast-a-side the super ego and explore the sexual i.d. Problem is, to me, there are those on here who don’t understand superego. " I think that this is true for some, others don’t live in a world where it’s necessary to cast one part aside or split. Also, Freud was a hack whos work has been moved beyond. He also believed that women suffered from penis envy, so... yknow | |||
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"For me, this site is about getting to know someone and finding a connection. An attraction physically and mentally that leads to good fun, laughs, both socially and privately. I don’t want a relationship, but I also don’t want lots of one offs with randoms. So I guess in a way it is like dating, but with no prospect of a relationship and lots of guaranteed hassle free sex... if the chemistry is there!" I agree | |||
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"Unfortunately, most men I talk to think it's a hook up for sex when I'm horny site. I'm not a fucking prostitute. so women using a swingers site to hook up for sex are now prostitutes ?? " I agree with that....not because women are prostitutes on here but because a lot of guys don’t think we should be allowed to choose partner, time scale or type of meet. That’s how I read that comment and I agree with it. | |||
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"Any future meets I have are gonna be date like. I'm not looking for a relationship but I want more to a meet than cock meets cunt. If all I wanted was cock meets cunt I'd still be with past boyfriends. They're cocks and I'm a cunt." I'll take you on a date | |||
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"I thought was a place for people interested in swinging and all the things around that! What do you think? Why can’t it be. Finding someone with similar interests could happen anywhere why not a swingers site x " | |||
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"I thought was a place for people interested in swinging and all the things around that! What do you think? " It's whatever people want it to be, if you want just sex without the banter, friendship etc try easyshag.com | |||
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