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By *ittle_brat_evie!! OP   Woman
over a year ago

evesham

So another thread has sparked this query.

Is it OK to use the forums for profile views?

Surely any time we post anything we are doing so for attention?

Does it bother you if people from the forums look at your profile?

If you look at a profile from a forum post, are you bothered if they look back?

Are people cm scared it's gonna wear out their profile of people look at it too much? I really don't get why it's an issue lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Did you start this thread for profile views ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I agree.

Now... Look at my profile.

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By *ittle_brat_evie!! OP   Woman
over a year ago

evesham


"Did you start this thread for profile views ?"

A the time. Never bloody works though

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By *ittle_brat_evie!! OP   Woman
over a year ago

evesham


"I agree.

Now... Look at my profile."

Ok

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's not so much the question of "Is it bad" but more the question of "Does it work"

Otherwise I have some threads to start

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By *rumpyMcFuckNuggetMan
over a year ago

Den of Iniquity

I'm in ninja mode permanently anyway so nobody would know

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

I never take notice

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By *oncupiscence73Woman
over a year ago

South


"So another thread has sparked this query.

Is it OK to use the forums for profile views?

Surely any time we post anything we are doing so for attention?

Does it bother you if people from the forums look at your profile?

If you look at a profile from a forum post, are you bothered if they look back?

Are people cm scared it's gonna wear out their profile of people look at it too much? I really don't get why it's an issue lol "

If blokes post that they’re not getting any attention then people say post in the forums ... makes sense to me as people can also see what kind of person you are too....

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By *oncupiscence73Woman
over a year ago

South


"It's not so much the question of "Is it bad" but more the question of "Does it work"

Otherwise I have some threads to start "

I ninja loads of profiles from threads ... fabbing away haha

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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago

South Wales

I think it’s fine to do so

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This looks awfully familiar lol

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By *ubal1Man
over a year ago

Newry Down

There are many intelligent, educated, experienced and discerning people on this site; it is interesting to get some feedback on one's opinions, and to comment on the views of others.

If they look at my profile, it's a bonus!

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By *rder66Man
over a year ago

Tatooine

I do and don't mind people viewing mine.

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By *iamondCougarWoman
over a year ago

Norfuck! / Lincolnshire

I’ve never really thought about it and likewise I am in ninja mode, as no doubt are thousands of others.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Is it okay to use the forums to ask how to get the most out of a Bet your mail sauce ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So another thread has sparked this query.

Is it OK to use the forums for profile views?

Surely any time we post anything we are doing so for attention?

Does it bother you if people from the forums look at your profile?

If you look at a profile from a forum post, are you bothered if they look back?

Are people cm scared it's gonna wear out their profile of people look at it too much? I really don't get why it's an issue lol "

It bothered me because I've always been against people who ask for views in the forums...so when I get a lot of views I felt like a hypocrite

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

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Of course it's okay to do so, we are all looking for some form of attention by posting a thread.

Some posts and threads are more obviously looking to attract views to their profile and that's fair enough, that's what makes them happy.

I don't mind people viewing my sexiness off the back of my beautifully crafted posts. I don't blame them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Is it okay to use the forums to ask how to get the most out of a Bet your mail sauce ? "

* bechamel sauce

Fucking dictaphone

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By *ittle_brat_evie!! OP   Woman
over a year ago

evesham


"So another thread has sparked this query.

Is it OK to use the forums for profile views?

Surely any time we post anything we are doing so for attention?

Does it bother you if people from the forums look at your profile?

If you look at a profile from a forum post, are you bothered if they look back?

Are people cm scared it's gonna wear out their profile of people look at it too much? I really don't get why it's an issue lol

It bothered me because I've always been against people who ask for views in the forums...so when I get a lot of views I felt like a hypocrite "

But why are you against it? Surely this is a site that is all about getting interest in your profile?

This is why i started a new thread and didn't carry on on yours lol

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By *gent CoulsonMan
over a year ago

Secret hideaway in the pennines

I never took you for an attention seeker

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

I don’t mind if people look.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

does it matter?

i post on the forums because i want to interact with the people in them.

Px

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By *gent CoulsonMan
over a year ago

Secret hideaway in the pennines

I always take a peep, but then I am a nosey ninja

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So another thread has sparked this query.

Is it OK to use the forums for profile views?

Surely any time we post anything we are doing so for attention?

Does it bother you if people from the forums look at your profile?

If you look at a profile from a forum post, are you bothered if they look back?

Are people cm scared it's gonna wear out their profile of people look at it too much? I really don't get why it's an issue lol

It bothered me because I've always been against people who ask for views in the forums...so when I get a lot of views I felt like a hypocrite

But why are you against it? Surely this is a site that is all about getting interest in your profile?

This is why i started a new thread and didn't carry on on yours lol "

Because I've always used the forums as entertainment and not a way to find someone... ill go now and leave your thread to you x

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By *ittle_brat_evie!! OP   Woman
over a year ago

evesham


"does it matter?

i post on the forums because i want to interact with the people in them.

Px "

It doesn't matter to me. Just a topic of conversation that piqued my interest lol

Do you mind if the people you interact with view your profile? Do you view the profiles of those you interact with?

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By *heNYCSausageMan
over a year ago

Everton


"So another thread has sparked this query.

Is it OK to use the forums for profile views?

Surely any time we post anything we are doing so for attention?

Does it bother you if people from the forums look at your profile?

If you look at a profile from a forum post, are you bothered if they look back?

Are people cm scared it's gonna wear out their profile of people look at it too much? I really don't get why it's an issue lol "

You can look at my profile any time. I need to get past 0 views for the day haha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's not so much the question of "Is it bad" but more the question of "Does it work"

Otherwise I have some threads to start

I ninja loads of profiles from threads ... fabbing away haha "

True, the forums are definitely good for fabbing lovely pics, the only difference is I'm no ninja

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By *ittle_brat_evie!! OP   Woman
over a year ago

evesham


"So another thread has sparked this query.

Is it OK to use the forums for profile views?

Surely any time we post anything we are doing so for attention?

Does it bother you if people from the forums look at your profile?

If you look at a profile from a forum post, are you bothered if they look back?

Are people cm scared it's gonna wear out their profile of people look at it too much? I really don't get why it's an issue lol

It bothered me because I've always been against people who ask for views in the forums...so when I get a lot of views I felt like a hypocrite

But why are you against it? Surely this is a site that is all about getting interest in your profile?

This is why i started a new thread and didn't carry on on yours lol

Because I've always used the forums as entertainment and not a way to find someone... ill go now and leave your thread to you x"

There really is no need to exclude yourself. It just caught my attention.

You've never looked at a profile of someone on the forum?

I looked at yours when you posted that beautiful people thread.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Surely if someone doesn't want to be viewed they'd just hide their profile?

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By *idzguyMan
over a year ago

coventry

Dear Lord lol could you imagine the headline in ‘The Sun’ ‘I became a millionaire influencer and reality tv star thanks to Fabswingers’ lol

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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago

South Wales


"Is it okay to use the forums to ask how to get the most out of a Bet your mail sauce ?

* bechamel sauce

Fucking dictaphone "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So another thread has sparked this query.

Is it OK to use the forums for profile views?

Surely any time we post anything we are doing so for attention?

Does it bother you if people from the forums look at your profile?

If you look at a profile from a forum post, are you bothered if they look back?

Are people cm scared it's gonna wear out their profile of people look at it too much? I really don't get why it's an issue lol "

L

A

M

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By * Sophie xTV/TS
over a year ago

Derby

Look all you like, I've got my filters set so it's only if you want to message me that you find you either can or you can't

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So another thread has sparked this query.

Is it OK to use the forums for profile views?

Surely any time we post anything we are doing so for attention?

Does it bother you if people from the forums look at your profile?

If you look at a profile from a forum post, are you bothered if they look back?

Are people cm scared it's gonna wear out their profile of people look at it too much? I really don't get why it's an issue lol

It bothered me because I've always been against people who ask for views in the forums...so when I get a lot of views I felt like a hypocrite

But why are you against it? Surely this is a site that is all about getting interest in your profile?

This is why i started a new thread and didn't carry on on yours lol

Because I've always used the forums as entertainment and not a way to find someone... ill go now and leave your thread to you x

There really is no need to exclude yourself. It just caught my attention.

You've never looked at a profile of someone on the forum?

I looked at yours when you posted that beautiful people thread. "

If someone says something i find interesting then yes I look regardless of what sex they are...just to put a face to the voice really...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Is it okay to use the forums to ask how to get the most out of a Bet your mail sauce ?

* bechamel sauce

Fucking dictaphone

"

Still doesn’t understand my thick Westcountry accent!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mine's hidden most of the time so mainly they cannot! Definitely doesn't bother me if they do as I don't check to be honest

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By *edeWoman
over a year ago

the abyss

I'm always looking

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit


"Of course it's okay to do so, we are all looking for some form of attention by posting a thread.

Some posts and threads are more obviously looking to attract views to their profile and that's fair enough, that's what makes them happy.

"

My turn for some gosh, shock, horror and agreeing with Meli (well apart from the bit I took out as it doesn't apply to me)

If it wasn't for the forums, and being active on them enough for people to view my profile, I doubt very much that I'd have met anyone, let alone made some of the friendships I have - in fact I suspect I'd have UNLOS'd a long time ago.

So of course it's ok to use them to attract attention to your profile - although I do think there is a fine line between attention seeking and "attention seeking"

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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago

South Wales


"Is it okay to use the forums to ask how to get the most out of a Bet your mail sauce ?

* bechamel sauce

Fucking dictaphone

Still doesn’t understand my thick Westcountry accent! "

Me neither, I thought you were Irish

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It doesn't bother me if people do that in the forums x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We’re all here to perv & chat..

No issue to me if people post to to attract attention. They may get it, they may not, but I’m not bothered about what their reason is to post.

No different from all the Instagrammers who all post content online specifically for likes.

It’s the modern t’internet world

I’m now going to stealth perv all the profiles on here.

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By *heNYCSausageMan
over a year ago

Everton


"Is it okay to use the forums to ask how to get the most out of a Bet your mail sauce ?

* bechamel sauce

Fucking dictaphone "

I still don’t understand what this is haha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Is it okay to use the forums to ask how to get the most out of a Bet your mail sauce ?

* bechamel sauce

Fucking dictaphone

I still don’t understand what this is haha"

It’s a white sauce, put equal parts butter and flour, then whisk, that’s called a roux, then slowly add warm milk, all the time whisking, it will slowly thicken into a bechamel sauce, it’s used in many Italian dishes like lasagne.

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!


"Is it okay to use the forums to ask how to get the most out of a Bet your mail sauce ?

* bechamel sauce

Fucking dictaphone

I still don’t understand what this is haha

It’s a white sauce, put equal parts butter and flour, then whisk, that’s called a roux, then slowly add warm milk, all the time whisking, it will slowly thicken into a bechamel sauce, it’s used in many Italian dishes like lasagne."

Don’t trust any men on here who offer it to you fresh.

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By *heNYCSausageMan
over a year ago

Everton


"Is it okay to use the forums to ask how to get the most out of a Bet your mail sauce ?

* bechamel sauce

Fucking dictaphone

I still don’t understand what this is haha

It’s a white sauce, put equal parts butter and flour, then whisk, that’s called a roux, then slowly add warm milk, all the time whisking, it will slowly thicken into a bechamel sauce, it’s used in many Italian dishes like lasagne."

Actually sounds nice! Never heard of it before though lol

Also sounds a little like how I make custard. Milk and flour with sugar

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My existence on fab is purely for attention and an occasional ego boost

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By *oxyVikingCouple
over a year ago

East Anglia

I love looking at profiles. Am incredibly nosey and just can’t help myself from browsing personally don’t look at profile views as anything else but being nosey? Nothing wrong with that Freya

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By *heNYCSausageMan
over a year ago

Everton


"I love looking at profiles. Am incredibly nosey and just can’t help myself from browsing personally don’t look at profile views as anything else but being nosey? Nothing wrong with that Freya "

And that’s exactly what I’m doing right now does photo browsing count as being nosey?

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By *lhr1061Man
over a year ago

Warwickshire

[Removed by poster at 01/04/21 22:11:18]

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By *hubaysiWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

I mind very much if someone on the forum isn’t being nice to me and then looks at my profile and sends me a nasty message. So now if someone is an arse to me on the forum I just block them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Doesn't bother me at all if people look. I change everything on it regularly. Height, location, body type, everything that I can change I do. One day I'm a heavy drinking tattoed 4'8 athletic in Scotland. Next day I'm a sober smoking 6'7 ample in Norwich.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Doesn't bother me at all if people look. I change everything on it regularly. Height, location, body type, everything that I can change I do. One day I'm a heavy drinking tattoed 4'8 athletic in Scotland. Next day I'm a sober smoking 6'7 ample in Norwich. "

Can you tell me when the wee Scottish lady is back on, I’d like to look at her profile and speak to her

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Doesn't bother me at all if people look. I change everything on it regularly. Height, location, body type, everything that I can change I do. One day I'm a heavy drinking tattoed 4'8 athletic in Scotland. Next day I'm a sober smoking 6'7 ample in Norwich.

Can you tell me when the wee Scottish lady is back on, I’d like to look at her profile and speak to her "

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By *atenaWoman
over a year ago

Hyde

I purposely look through kink telated threads to find kink related ppl

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By *heNYCSausageMan
over a year ago

Everton


"Doesn't bother me at all if people look. I change everything on it regularly. Height, location, body type, everything that I can change I do. One day I'm a heavy drinking tattoed 4'8 athletic in Scotland. Next day I'm a sober smoking 6'7 ample in Norwich. "

And what are you today? Lol

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By *ancer36Woman
over a year ago

Stirling

Someone may catch my eye in a forum and if they do I’m going for a nosey at there profile - why wouldn’t I perv further?

Doesn’t bother me if people view mine either, as long as no nasty messages are exchanged there’s no harm done

X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yea always have a look at people and dont mind people looking at mine you never know who may catch your eye

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