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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

As a newbie on here I’d like a little advice on how to make myself stand out from the crowd a little, it’s obvious that men far outweigh women on here, so how do I go about making myself a little more noticeable? Thanks in advance

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Be yourself

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend

Just don't stand owt

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By *affron40Woman
over a year ago

manchester

Maybe write a profile OP? Not much to go on there.

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By *inister_SpinsterWoman
over a year ago

Manchester(ish).


"Be yourself "

Sound advice.

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By *affron40Woman
over a year ago

manchester


"Just don't stand owt "

Ha was sooooo tempted to use that word!!

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!


"Be yourself "
this. You’re unique, so it’s enough. It’s what you say, how you say it, profile and a million things we won’t think of. It will happen.

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By *inister_SpinsterWoman
over a year ago

Manchester(ish).


"As a newbie on here I’d like a little advice on how to make myself stand out from the crowd a little, it’s obvious that men far outweigh women on here, so how do I go about making myself a little more noticeable? Thanks in advance "

There's nothing about your preferences on your profile.

Use profile text and some good tasteful pics to show yourself.

Good luck

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By * Sophie xTV/TS
over a year ago

Derby

Get a wig and wear a dress, it works wonders let me tell you

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend


"Just don't stand owt

Ha was sooooo tempted to use that word!!"
sorry..it had to be done

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By *gent CoulsonMan
over a year ago

Secret hideaway in the pennines

Be yourself, be respectful, don't take it too seriously, most of all say nowt about shagging owt

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By *inger_SnapWoman
over a year ago

Hampshire/Dorset

Liking the photos of the tats, but they need to be clearer/better posed. Use your timer, better than photos taken in the mirror.

Make an effort and fill in your profile, what you enjoy, like, find attractive, kinks, fetishes, what you're looking for etc etc

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By *inister_SpinsterWoman
over a year ago

Manchester(ish).


"Be yourself, be respectful, don't take it too seriously, most of all say nowt about shagging owt"

Is there shagging? That wasn't in the welcome brochure

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By *ot - CoupleCouple
over a year ago

Glasgow


"Maybe write a profile OP? Not much to go on there. "

This.

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By *ikerdude2017Man
over a year ago

Rotherham

If you want to find a lady forget it. Too many men on here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Decent profile is a good start NSA tells us absolutely ziltch

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks for the advice everyone, really appreciate it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If you want to find a lady forget it. Too many men on here. "

Glass half full tonight

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By *oelDorianMan
over a year ago

vanaheim

Maybe write a bio

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!


"If you want to find a lady forget it. Too many men on here. "

How many men is the optimum number?

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By *gent CoulsonMan
over a year ago

Secret hideaway in the pennines


"Be yourself, be respectful, don't take it too seriously, most of all say nowt about shagging owt

Is there shagging? That wasn't in the welcome brochure "
you mean there isn't any, I've been diddled

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By *amie HantsWoman
over a year ago

Atlantis

Maybe write something in your bio that is a good reflection of your personality. There’s nobody more youer then you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Use the timer on your camera and get some pics of your bum!

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By *inister_SpinsterWoman
over a year ago

Manchester(ish).


"Be yourself, be respectful, don't take it too seriously, most of all say nowt about shagging owt

Is there shagging? That wasn't in the welcome brochure you mean there isn't any, I've been diddled"

I haven't!!

Is there a customer services dept ?

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend


"Be yourself, be respectful, don't take it too seriously, most of all say nowt about shagging owt

Is there shagging? That wasn't in the welcome brochure you mean there isn't any, I've been diddled"
you was lucky... there's loads of fellas queuing up to get diddled ...or do some diddling

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By *gent CoulsonMan
over a year ago

Secret hideaway in the pennines


"Be yourself, be respectful, don't take it too seriously, most of all say nowt about shagging owt

Is there shagging? That wasn't in the welcome brochure you mean there isn't any, I've been diddled

I haven't!!

Is there a customer services dept ?"
I don't think so, I must be one of the lucky single guys, got diddled and didn't even feel it

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Profile updated now, I’ll work on getting some better quality pictures on soon, appreciate everyone’s advice

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By *inister_SpinsterWoman
over a year ago

Manchester(ish).


"Be yourself, be respectful, don't take it too seriously, most of all say nowt about shagging owt

Is there shagging? That wasn't in the welcome brochure you mean there isn't any, I've been diddled

I haven't!!

Is there a customer services dept ? I don't think so, I must be one of the lucky single guys, got diddled and didn't even feel it "

I feel deprived.

All these days, undiddled.

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By *gent CoulsonMan
over a year ago

Secret hideaway in the pennines


"Be yourself, be respectful, don't take it too seriously, most of all say nowt about shagging owt

Is there shagging? That wasn't in the welcome brochure you mean there isn't any, I've been diddled

I haven't!!

Is there a customer services dept ? I don't think so, I must be one of the lucky single guys, got diddled and didn't even feel it

I feel deprived.

All these days, undiddled. "
I would gladly share a diddle with you x

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek

Show a bit of personality.

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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago

East London

Don't come across as a noob.

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By *gent CoulsonMan
over a year ago

Secret hideaway in the pennines

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By *gent CoulsonMan
over a year ago

Secret hideaway in the pennines


"Be yourself, be respectful, don't take it too seriously, most of all say nowt about shagging owt

Is there shagging? That wasn't in the welcome brochure you mean there isn't any, I've been diddled

I haven't!!

Is there a customer services dept ? I don't think so, I must be one of the lucky single guys, got diddled and didn't even feel it

I feel deprived.

All these days, undiddled. I would gladly share a diddle with you x"
looks like my fiddle is out of date

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

OP

Have some interests, the ones you're interested, don't tick everything unless you're into everything.

Put a bio up! How are people supposed to know what you're after or a hook to start a conversation if its blank etc

Participate in the forums, there are lots of different threads, join in and show yourself that way

Try and avoid dick pics, we all know what they look like!

Be respectful, be nice and have fun

It is unlikely to happen over night but with restrictions lifting, its a good time to make friends and maybe find a social when they are running again

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By *inger_SnapWoman
over a year ago

Hampshire/Dorset


"Profile updated now, I’ll work on getting some better quality pictures on soon, appreciate everyone’s advice "

Much better!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thank you!

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By *affron40Woman
over a year ago

manchester


"Thank you! "

If you click on reply and quote it will post your response to the person you’re talking to

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Thank you!

If you click on reply and quote it will post your response to the person you’re talking to "

Thank you! I’m useless at times hahaha

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By *ilverjagMan
over a year ago

swansea

Have a read of mine for what it's worth. I know that it's a bit like a CV, but say it as it is, please or offend, and it usually works.

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By *affron40Woman
over a year ago

manchester


"Thank you!

If you click on reply and quote it will post your response to the person you’re talking to

Thank you! I’m useless at times hahaha"

Nah youre new and it’s quite hectic on here sometimes. Just helps when there are lots of comments coming at you.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Thank you!

If you click on reply and quote it will post your response to the person you’re talking to

Thank you! I’m useless at times hahaha

Nah youre new and it’s quite hectic on here sometimes. Just helps when there are lots of comments coming at you. "

Really do appreciate the help, I’m a fast learner so I’ll be up to speed in no time hahaha

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