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By *iddlesticks OP   Man
over a year ago

My nan’s spare room.

I like caring thoughtful people.

Cheeriness and tolerance are high on my list.

Physically it manifests itself in happy eyes and a smile.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nice personality, good natured personality.

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By *acDreamyMan
over a year ago

Wirral

Positivity, generosity and a beautiful smile.

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By *iddlesticks OP   Man
over a year ago

My nan’s spare room.


"Positivity, generosity and a beautiful smile. "

Ooh add these to mine.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Humility, compassion, thought for others, sense of humour

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nicr smile.

Little bit of grey hair is hot.

Big hands

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod

over a year ago

East Sussex

Appropriate positivity, kindness, a sense of humour and cynical realism.

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By *luebell888Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish

Tall, confident men with a kind face.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In a man or woman, non sexual.

Integrity

Compassion

Intelligence (in all forms)

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By *gent CoulsonMan
over a year ago

Secret hideaway in the pennines

A pulse is usually a good start.

Honesty, open minded , none judgemental, compassion, I don't really care as long as they are beautiful on the inside.

Oh yes forgot, smoking come to bed eyes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Tolerance, patience, a sense of humour.

Someone that listens, really listens, that’s one of the most important for me.

Positivity, conscious and aware, sex positive

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By *etcplCouple
over a year ago

Gapping Fanny

Being able to put up with me.

A decent person, that has morals and follows them.

Compassion, empathy, healthy cynicism, a sense of humour (the darker the better), a can do instead of a can’t do attitude.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Smart enough to have a proper conversation cheeky and ultimately open minded (kinky!)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Tolerance, patience, a sense of humour.

Someone that listens, really listens, that’s one of the most important for me.

Positivity, conscious and aware, sex positive "

Pardon what did u say

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Tolerance, patience, a sense of humour.

Someone that listens, really listens, that’s one of the most important for me.

Positivity, conscious and aware, sex positive

Pardon what did u say "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Compassion integrity positivity and a good sense of humour. I like a little cheeky too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Tolerance, patience, a sense of humour.

Someone that listens, really listens, that’s one of the most important for me.

Positivity, conscious and aware, sex positive

Pardon what did u say

"

I'm all ears

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By *tephTV67TV/TS
over a year ago

Cheshire

Empathy if you have this quality in abundance, then you’ll definitely appeal to me

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

Compassion, intelligence, humility, creativity

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By *heonixRaven 777Woman
over a year ago

Guildford

I like the old fashioned values

Honesty, respect, integrity, compassion, kindness and sense of humour.

Someone who doesn’t take themselves to seriously.

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By *0astMan
over a year ago

Discovering

A sense of humour when they are grumpy, it’s so endearing. Honestly, compassion, empathy and the ability to make someone laugh when they really need it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Fun a bit mad

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By *imiUKMan
over a year ago

Hereford

A nice smile and a nice arse.

Order of preference may vary.

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By *issChief 200Woman
over a year ago

South West

Someone that is caring, thoughtful, definitely a good sense of humour, love a bit of cheeky banter tho! Intelligence is attractive. Certainly someone who is respectful & responsible in these current times....

Physically - beards, tatts & muscles mmmmmm xx

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By *imiUKMan
over a year ago

Hereford


"Someone that is caring, thoughtful, definitely a good sense of humour, love a bit of cheeky banter tho! Intelligence is attractive. Certainly someone who is respectful & responsible in these current times....

Physically - beards, tatts & muscles mmmmmm xx"

I'm seeing this as an opportunity to show off my lockdown beard.

A look that I shall entitle: "sexy Gandalf"...

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By *rumpyMcFuckNuggetMan
over a year ago

Den of Iniquity

A decent human being first ...

Then Happy, Kooky , A wicked sense of humour, kind with a perverted streak to them .

I'm open to applications

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By *iddlesticks OP   Man
over a year ago

My nan’s spare room.


"Someone that is caring, thoughtful, definitely a good sense of humour, love a bit of cheeky banter tho! Intelligence is attractive. Certainly someone who is respectful & responsible in these current times....

Physically - beards, tatts & muscles mmmmmm xx"

Tick, tick, tick, tick, tick, tick.

Tarts and muscles

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Do they make me laugh? Do they engage in conversation? Do I see a sparkle in their eyes when they smile at me? Do I get a stir in my pants when I look at them?

Eyes and smile will always win over any other physical feature.

And then it’s boobs and bums.

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By *hrista BellendWoman
over a year ago

surrounded by twinkly lights

I look for cheeky eyes and a mischievous smile as I'm looking for someone to have a good time with, over serious people find me immature

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By *indergirlWoman
over a year ago

somewhere, someplace

Nice eyes, nice smile, makes me laugh, kind heart...

And I'm a sucker for a beard and tattoos on a guy, and some killer curves on a girl

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Make me laugh and have great teeth...winning!

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By *acDreamyMan
over a year ago

Wirral


"Tolerance, patience, a sense of humour.

Someone that listens, really listens, that’s one of the most important for me.

Positivity, conscious and aware, sex positive "

I can just picture Bill Murray in Groundhog Day saying, "me, me, me..."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For some reason today my brain just keeps popping things I do NOT find attractive.

I'll get back to this.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Personality matters. The ability to have a conversation and communicate ideas. I am a sucker for a wicked sense of humour and eyes that sparkle with mischief. Mr

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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago

East London

Integrity, empathy, compassion, a bright smile that lights up his eyes.

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By *isAdventure69Woman
over a year ago

Hampshire

Confidence , empathy , tolerance , sense of humour, resolved and reliability

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By *xydadbodMan
over a year ago

Milton keynes

Sense of humour is a must for sure. If you can make me laugh, you're in lol

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By *uriousscouserWoman
over a year ago

Wirral

Kindness, humour, intelligence, curiosity (someone who is genuinely interested in the world and in other people), honesty (though tempered with compassion).

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By *an_LexaCouple
over a year ago

Sunderland

Someone who is open and honest. Someone who is thoughtful, inquisitive and passionate about stuff.

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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago

South Wales

I like positive upbeat people who are just lovely to be around and who are fairly outgoing and laidback and who have a dry sense of humour.

They bring out the best in me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Someone who is open and honest. Someone who is thoughtful, inquisitive and passionate about stuff. "

I am Think I am Honestly Passionate about finding the perfect Cheese. I am not sure I am still trying to find out

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By *ltra72Man
over a year ago

edinburgh

Sense of humour

Laid back

Honest

Carefree

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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT

Honest

Decent

Good

People

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By *an_LexaCouple
over a year ago

Sunderland


"Someone who is open and honest. Someone who is thoughtful, inquisitive and passionate about stuff.

I am Think I am Honestly Passionate about finding the perfect Cheese. I am not sure I am still trying to find out "

See, man on a mission, that’s what I like

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By *ohnywrongunMan
over a year ago

Epping

big fruit pastel nipples, all lovely and wrinkly

Women's calf muscles ,tight in high heels

When you catch the light from the slot between a women's thighs

A wicked smile and a knowing look

The view of a woman from behind on all fours head down and bum up in the air ready to receive

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Bank accounts.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Geeky looks

Guitar playing

Cheeky smile

That's my shallow list!

Caring

Tactile

Humble

Trustworthy

That's my ideal list

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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT


"Bank accounts."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nice smile, Sexy eyes, Honest and funny too

Healthy too

Smells nice and clean too definitely

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Geeky looks

Guitar playing

Cheeky smile

That's my shallow list!

Caring

Tactile

Humble

Trustworthy

That's my ideal list "

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By *ed VoluptaWoman
over a year ago

Wirral.

Smiley, happy people, as Michael Stipe once sang.

Funny, kooky, weird, generous, vicious wit, tall(ish), bearded.

Oh, and bum dimples.

(Extra points if you're Scottish or French..)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Must like bingo

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By *iddlesticks OP   Man
over a year ago

My nan’s spare room.


"Must like bingo "

Game changer.

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By *xhibitionistbenMan
over a year ago

Ware / Kings Cross

Confidence; but not arrogance. Someone not afraid to smile!

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By *ed VoluptaWoman
over a year ago

Wirral.


"Must like bingo "

One fat lady here, with her legs eleven wide open hoping for one little duck. Do ya want the key to the door?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I could echo many of those, but I will stick with...

Someone with who connection makes you feel empowered. In many aspects.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

sense of humour, glint in the eye, and somebody who knows their own mind and opinions for me!

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By *eachPreacherMan
over a year ago

Kent/London

I like big butts

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Intelligence, integrity, positivity and fun

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Those with no axe's to grind. Being in their company requires no effort...

..and oh yeah, a hairy vagina and bum crack

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By *iger1980Man
over a year ago

cambridge

High emotional intelligence.

Compassion.

Laugh at my crap jokes.

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By *andonmessMan
over a year ago

A world all of his own

Honesty, integrity, sympathy, empathy, kindness, intelligence, awareness, humour, not necessarily in that order.

Hard to find though.

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By *ancer36Woman
over a year ago

Stirling

Someone who is like a best mate, you can have a giggle and be silly with but you want to rip there clothes off when they give you that certain look...flirtatious, confident, charming and intelligent!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Someone who is like a best mate, you can have a giggle and be silly with but you want to rip there clothes off when they give you that certain look...flirtatious, confident, charming and intelligent! "

Oh I second that! Someone with a sense of humour, who is humble and kind.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In terms of a sex meet on here, be physically attractive (to me), be available and just don't be a cunt

In terms of a social meet, a similar outlook, a sense of humour, an easy way about you

In terms of a partner, loving and open to being loved, strength of character but with an ability to be vulnerable, not lazy, values security and save for tomorrow as well as living for today, good with animals and old people, kind, understanding, funny, sarcastic, intelligent, empathetic, steady emotionally, I don't need an overthinker either - I can manage that on my own

There's shit tons of other stuff too

The ability to put up with me 24/7 is pivotal though. I'm not easy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Someon who can make me laugh xxxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Someone who is laid back, can see the brighter side of things in a bad situation and someone who is content in themselves without needing to talk down about others.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I like big butts"

... I am holding back from singing the rest of this...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sense of humour and humility

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

At the end of the day it all depends on their ability know where to look when they eat a banana.

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By *uriousscouserWoman
over a year ago

Wirral


"At the end of the day it all depends on their ability know where to look when they eat a banana. "

I eat it horizontally because that's what good girls do.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

everything he is.

Px

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By *ex HolesMan
over a year ago

Up North

Tits.

I

Like

Tits

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Confidence not arrogance x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"At the end of the day it all depends on their ability know where to look when they eat a banana.

I eat it horizontally because that's what good girls do."

You know all fab ladies are taking notes now.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Thoughtful, humble and not afraid to show emotion are high on my list.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Kind, thoughtful, funny, good listener and calm. Intelligence is important too, love a good post sex convo, being able to set the world to rights is lovely.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Reverse parking is an attractive quality.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Kind, thoughtful, funny, good listener and calm. Intelligence is important too, love a good post sex convo, being able to set the world to rights is lovely. "

...Clint Eastwood...

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