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Has this site made you more open minded?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

As a gay male on this site I’ve noticed I’m getting more messages from “straight” guys. I’m not complaining about this at all, I believe sexually is a spectrum...and besides, im always up for some good fun. But it did make me curious as to how many people on here have become more open minded since joining this site? How many guys have become more open to an experience with another guy or girls have become more open minded to experience another female etc. Have you enjoyed the experience and would continue or have you tried it then decided it wasn’t for you? Happy to hear some details/experiences. What have you tried different since being on here?

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

I’d say more educated

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’d say I’ve definitely become more open minded since being on this site

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

More aware

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

I don't know about more open minded as I always have been inquisitive to all things sex and sexuality wise - but would say there are things I now understand their appeal better having talked to people who are into them, and as a result would be open to them when I previously wouldn't have been.

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By *irtydevil666Man
over a year ago

bristol

More experimental I would say.......

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!


"I don't know about more open minded as I always have been inquisitive to all things sex and sexuality wise - but would say there are things I now understand their appeal better having talked to people who are into them, and as a result would be open to them when I previously wouldn't have been."
‘open to them’

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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago

South Wales

I think so, with the “kink” side of things anyway.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think it has, I’m a bit sheltered where I live and when I compare myself to workmates etc I realise I’m a lot more liberal than they are.

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By *illy76Woman
over a year ago

in the west

It's frightened the life out of me! What some men will/ do say to get a fuck. I think I was pretty opened minded to begin with x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd have to say more experienced in certain things. I always knew I wanted to try things that I'd been curious about.

It's maybe opened my mind on a few things such as going to clubs. I would have never done that before joining Fab x

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By *offiaCoolWoman
over a year ago

Kidsgrove


"I’d say more educated "

I agree, and having the opportunity to ask questions and hear experiences that I wouldn't be able to do in the vanilla world.

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By *abs..Woman
over a year ago

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It has been like a world of discovery in many respects.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Equally aware an open mind and that which is narrow and selective.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!


"It's frightened the life out of me! What some men will/ do say to get a fuck. I think I was pretty opened minded to begin with x"
I like your knuckle

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!


"I’d say more educated

I agree, and having the opportunity to ask questions and hear experiences that I wouldn't be able to do in the vanilla world."

Although, I wish I’d never heard of the term ‘dredging’ when not to do with ships.

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By *uscularLoveMan
over a year ago

london

Yes, psycho-analytically it has gave me the physiognomic tools to be able to look at people now and determine their sexuality/ preferences and likeness due to the things they say and how they act becuase I have now have a wider resoviour of sexual information also it has gave me the terminology to use in conversations, things like top/bottom or dominant/sub/master etc, and has diversified my overall sexual intelligence

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!


"Yes, psycho-analytically it has gave me the physiognomic tools to be able to look at people now and determine their sexuality/ preferences and likeness due to the things they say and how they act becuase I have now have a wider resoviour of sexual information also it has gave me the terminology to use in conversations, things like top/bottom or dominant/sub/master etc, and has diversified my overall sexual intelligence "

I bet you’re good at phone sex

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By *uscularLoveMan
over a year ago

london


"Yes, psycho-analytically it has gave me the physiognomic tools to be able to look at people now and determine their sexuality/ preferences and likeness due to the things they say and how they act becuase I have now have a wider resoviour of sexual information also it has gave me the terminology to use in conversations, things like top/bottom or dominant/sub/master etc, and has diversified my overall sexual intelligence

I bet you’re good at phone sex "

Loool yeah I'm quite good and I have a really deep voice and a sexual tone

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By *uriousKinksterMan
over a year ago

Loughborough


"Yes, psycho-analytically it has gave me the physiognomic tools to be able to look at people now and determine their sexuality/ preferences and likeness due to the things they say and how they act becuase I have now have a wider resoviour of sexual information also it has gave me the terminology to use in conversations, things like top/bottom or dominant/sub/master etc, and has diversified my overall sexual intelligence "

'physiognomic' - now there's a nice word! Very eloquent indeed.

For me, interestingly, it's been a bit odd really. If anything I've learned more about what I don't enjoy from swinging than what I do enjoy. Maybe because I was a kinkster before I'd even thought of anything swinging related, or maybe I'd stumbled across things that were better left as the fantasies that they stemmed from.

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Definatley become more open minded since coming on here.

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By * Sophie xTV/TS
over a year ago

Derby

I'm definitely more of a lot of things,

Educated,

Experimental,

Open about myself,

Friendlier,

Fascinated by others and their minds,kinks and ability to live the life they see fit.

What fab has also shown me though being on here on the trans spectrum is the dark side of some and how low they will stoop to get their way.

I'm happy to say my life is far richer thanks to fab and the people on here though so thanks you lovely lot

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

Educated, aware, and wary.

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

I'm more informed, after almost 11 years

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm definitely more of a lot of things,

Educated,

Experimental,

Open about myself,

Friendlier,

Fascinated by others and their minds,kinks and ability to live the life they see fit.

What fab has also shown me though being on here on the trans spectrum is the dark side of some and how low they will stoop to get their way.

I'm happy to say my life is far richer thanks to fab and the people on here though so thanks you lovely lot

"

*likes

x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It’s definitely opened my eyes to how many people ruin this site for the real users .

It’s also helped my continued exploration x

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By *rNaughtyNickMan
over a year ago

Birmingham

Its nice to meet others that are just as of even more so open minded and on the same wavelength too

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By *stbury DavenportMan
over a year ago

Nottingham

For me, it's been the opposite. I've been disappointed by how narrow-minded and conservative (in both senses) Fab is.

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By *hrista BellendWoman
over a year ago

surrounded by twinkly lights

I've always been open minded, fab has given me lots of opportunities to explore my sexuality boundaries, to hone my skill set and find new kinks I enjoy participating in and sparks the interest about learning why others like kinks and fetishes I wouldn't take part in

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’ve always been curious and keen to have new experiences. Fab has helped educate me, and has allowed me to experience far more than I thought I would.

I think it’s allowed me to be more open minded, because I understand more now?

It’s also taught me a lot about myself, and other people.

As someone said up thread, it’s also made me more wary of men.

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend

Yes definitely

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By *iss.ddWoman
over a year ago

Leeds + Newcastle

I've always been very open minded and aware of the "alternative" side of sex outside of what we are taught is right or acceptable.

I've definitely had my eyes opened to the poor behaviour of others around sex which is something I'd not encountered in my real life..... Thankfully

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By *ablo minibar123Woman
over a year ago

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In some ways the site has made me more open minded in others it's made me less. Has it turned me bi curious? Not in the slightest. It has made me aware of a different side to some men that I find attractive that I never thought I would.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've always been very open minded and aware of the "alternative" side of sex outside of what we are taught is right or acceptable.

I've definitely had my eyes opened to the poor behaviour of others around sex which is something I'd not encountered in my real life..... Thankfully

"

This for me too ^^^

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By *annaBeStrongMan
over a year ago

wokingham

I think you’d learn 10x what you learn here by going to an actual swinging event just once.

This site isn’t the best representation

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