FabSwingers.com forum: 100% open with family?

By *wingsnroundabouts82 OP Couple
over a year ago

Fucksville

Just wondering how many people are completely open with their family and friends about the lifestyle? Also what positive and negative experiences you've had?

I could never tell my parents but hubs parents probably wouldn't be shocked lol x

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By *wingsnroundabouts82 OP Couple
over a year ago

Fucksville

By positive and negative experiences I mean when you told them or they found out? X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hell no, my private life is just that, private.

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By *2and3quartersWoman
over a year ago

Bumbletown

My family and friends know I’m on here. I am really fortunate that I have amazing friends who don’t shock easily

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By *aomilatteCouple
over a year ago

Midlands

We don't even talk about our sex life with friends! What goes on in the bedroom stays in the bedroom.

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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT

Its private but they wouldn't care

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

I don't want to be 100% open with my family. I don't want to know about their sex life either

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When I first joined 6 years ago I was very open about it, which wasn't a wise move as some people judged. Only my sister knows I'm here again, for safety reasons. She thinks it's hilarious.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No.

My parents would prolly want to vomit if I tried to talk to them about sex and so would I frankly.

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By *wingsnroundabouts82 OP Couple
over a year ago

Fucksville

We keep ours private apart from a couple of close close people, for our jobs, local community being close knit, our kids and for the future discretion for anyone we meet locally. If everyone knew this about us we wouldn't be able to be as discreet as some of the people we meet like x

But I do have random pangs of unbridled excitement and dgaf attitude where I'd happily run down the street proclaiming our new lease of/way of life, I'd love to tell people and just see their reactions, I never will but wouldn't it be exhilarating?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Half my family can’t come to terms with me being a Manchester United fan, how do you think ‘pass the gravy please, By the way, I am not against swinging!’ would go down?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Regardless of being on here my private life is exactly what it says on the tin

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not at all

Friends, yes

Family, no

If my parents knew half the shit I've gotten up to over the years, it would have seen em off

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By *wingsnroundabouts82 OP Couple
over a year ago

Fucksville

"Half my family can’t come to terms with me being a Manchester United fan, how do you think ‘pass the gravy please, By the way, I am not against swinging!’ would go down?

Haha omg be a meal to remember??? X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"No.

My parents would prolly want to vomit if I tried to talk to them about sex and so would I frankly.

All my friends know...none of them care...

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"Not at all

Friends, yes

Family, no

If my parents knew half the shit I've gotten up to over the years, it would have seen em off

Same. They both nearly had apoplexy about what they do know.

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham

I don't ask about their sex life, they don't ask about mine.

Would you feel the need to tell them who and when if you weren't in this lifestyle?

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By *wingsnroundabouts82 OP Couple
over a year ago

Fucksville

"Not at all

Friends, yes

Family, no

If my parents knew half the shit I've gotten up to over the years, it would have seen em off

Same. They both nearly had apoplexy about what they do know. "

Lol mine would too! It's definitely a no go haha x

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By *wingsnroundabouts82 OP Couple
over a year ago

Fucksville

"I don't ask about their sex life, they don't ask about mine.

Would you feel the need to tell them who and when if you weren't in this lifestyle? "

No, I guess it's just the potential shock value maybe? Deffo not gonna do it tho! X

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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago

East London

I don't go into gory details about what I do with other people sexually. I mean, seriously, who does that with family, or friends even?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

All my friends and family know aside from my parents in law. Some have even seen my profile. No problems xx

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By *harisajidanWoman
over a year ago

london

Ha! Almost all my friends, some coworkers (especially some on here) , and my supervisor know. My mom doesn’t know, but would probably roll her eyes and shake her fists, but resign herself to the fact that I’m an adult and can do what I want. She already knows I was a dominatrix. My dad would just have a heart attack— so no one tells him anything for his own safety (but I wouldn’t be opposed to disclosing).

Living life much more openly, if that is desired, is always a relief— repression is not advised.

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By *orthern StarsCouple
over a year ago

Durham

Christ no. Our families wouldn't understand or approve.

They don't know that I'm bisexual either. Some things are best kept private.

Mrs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My family wouldn't understand what I'm doing..so best they never know.

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By *ongueFkYouMan
over a year ago

Bradford

"My family wouldn't understand what I'm doing..so best they never know."
only one of my friend knows I'm on here she is the one that told me about this site lol apart from that none of my family or friends know and I would like to keep it that way I like being discreet no one needs to know what I do x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Everyone knows about me.

Most the time I get curiosity, support in living a life that makes me happy and the occassional joke at my expense but I can live with that.

I have quite an open minded family and it didn't exactly surprise them, I have always been a little....wild

My kids dad was and is still the only negative reaction and it wasn't be who told him but it didn't phase me.

My body, my life, my choice and god it feels good to not worry about people "outing" me or having to lie and keep secrets when I have club nights x

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By *ongueFkYouMan
over a year ago

Bradford

"Everyone knows about me.

Most the time I get curiosity, support in living a life that makes me happy and the occassional joke at my expense but I can live with that.

I have quite an open minded family and it didn't exactly surprise them, I have always been a little....wild

My kids dad was and is still the only negative reaction and it wasn't be who told him but it didn't phase me.

My body, my life, my choice and god it feels good to not worry about people "outing" me or having to lie and keep secrets when I have club nights x"
You are gorgeous x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I don't go into gory details about what I do with other people sexually. I mean, seriously, who does that with family, or friends even?

It isnt just sex for me, it is a lifestyle choice.

I dont tell them that I sucked so and so dick or last night I had a threesome etc etc

They know I am a swinger, and when I say I am out with friends, I am at an adults club

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By *edeWoman
over a year ago

the abyss

My Dad and son (he's 20) would probably laugh, my sister would run away from such a conversation and my mother would probably sigh and walk away from it - and maybe pray for my soul some more

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Absolutely not.

A couple of friends know, all male, oddly.

My family would judge, different generation, but that said, I don't feel the need for people to know.

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By *issmorganWoman
over a year ago

Calderdale innit

I don't tell anyone I'm here,

Just prefer to keep this side of my life private.

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By *he Queen of TartsWoman
Forum Mod
over a year ago

My Own Little World

No my private/sex life is no ones business. I have no wish for my mates to tell me about the shag they had last night, and I'm pretty sure they don't want to hear about mine.

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By *rumpyMcFuckNuggetMan
over a year ago

Den of Iniquity

I only have my sister left and no way does she know, or need to !!

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By *oncupiscence73Woman
over a year ago

South

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By *oncupiscence73Woman
over a year ago

South

"No my private/sex life is no ones business. I have no wish for my mates to tell me about the shag they had last night, and I'm pretty sure they don't want to hear about mine."

This ...

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By *rder66Man
over a year ago

Tatooine

I was brought up by hippy parents, they wouldn't think anything of it.

Sister wouldn't be supprised or interested.

My child is too young for that discussion.

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
over a year ago

Reading

Mostly open with family less so with friends.

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend

My parents never did sex .. and neither do I

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My close friends know - I don't go into detail though

I don't have any close family and the family I do have know nothing at all about me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I don't go into gory details about what I do with other people sexually. I mean, seriously, who does that with family, or friends even?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My friends and sister know I’m on here and couldn’t give a toss. They’re my safety buddies if I ever meet anyone.

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By *abs..Woman
over a year ago

"No my private/sex life is no ones business. I have no wish for my mates to tell me about the shag they had last night, and I'm pretty sure they don't want to hear about mine."

Same here

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By * Lexi xWoman
over a year ago

stockport

All my friends and family know...... not that I’m a swinger as I don’t swing in a relationship. But they know I go to adult clubs, host and am a little bit naughty.

I’m past caring who knows.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Me and my sister are quite open that we are both on here, we just made an agreement to avoid each other’s profiles and don’t meet the same people.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope nobody knows and nobody probably ever will. Unless your in this lifestyle, you don't understand so those conversations would be awkward, uncomfortable and judgemental.

We are in our own little bubble and that works fine for us

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By *den-Valley-coupleCouple
over a year ago

Cumbria

People have preconceptions of swinging and swingers so keep under the radar..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wouldn’t be a good idea. If I get found out, default answer: Single.

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By *ugardadcleanerMan
over a year ago

cirencester

Missus Mum very open was in the trade lol. Her step dad works parttine at club she worked in too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I couldn't tell any of my family or my partners family as none of them are open minded enough to understand this kind of thing. I'd be called all sorts and probably be labelled as a cheat because I would fuck outside of my relationship.

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By *entlemanrogueMan
over a year ago

Motherwell

They know enough.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My family doesn’t my friends do... and it’s all positive

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By *arker secrets 321Man
over a year ago

West Bromwich

Some of my family know and some of my friends .strange they all male lol x

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By *imply_SensualMan
over a year ago

warrington

This part of my life is completely private, not even my closest friends know. Just me and the people I have met on here know about this part of my life.

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By *uriousscouserWoman
over a year ago

Wirral

Two of my closest friends know, but otherwise I don't discuss my sex life with family or friends. It's none of their business.

If they found out I wouldn't be horrified (I'm not ashamed of how I live my life), but I've no wish to discuss it.

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By *ittleMissCaliWoman
over a year ago

all loved up

"My family and friends know I’m on here. I am really fortunate that I have amazing friends who don’t shock easily

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My friends and family are all aware that I am non monogamous but not exactly what

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By *partharmonyCouple
over a year ago

Ruislip

There aren't many people it would be appropriate to talk about our sex life with even if it doesn't involve anybody other than us. We certainly wouldn't bring it up with parents or at work.

There are a few we would talk about our sex life with just as they might feel comfortable talking about theirs. We would probably feel quite happy telling most of them about our exploits with other people. There are a couple of them who we make sure we keep posted. One is interested in going in that direction herself and the other just thinks what we get up to is hilarious.

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By *uliaChrisCouple
over a year ago

westerham

"I don't want to be 100% open with my family. I don't want to know about their sex life either"

Kind of this really

Would they even want to know?

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

It's no-ones business what I may get up too. One good friend however is my wing woman who, whenever I go on a meet knows exactoy where I am and who I am with xx

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