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Am I reading to much into it

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

At my place of work I used to deal with a lady who was my area rep. As times changed so did my role and she was passed on to someone else. Things have again changed and we have been reunited with work. We text for simplicity and quicker responses, but of late she sends me messages and finishes them off with a blowing kiss. Is this a sign of interest or am I being dick and reading the wrong signals?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"At my place of work I used to deal with a lady who was my area rep. As times changed so did my role and she was passed on to someone else. Things have again changed and we have been reunited with work. We text for simplicity and quicker responses, but of late she sends me messages and finishes them off with a blowing kiss. Is this a sign of interest or am I being dick and reading the wrong signals?"

I put a kiss on the end of every message I send no matter who to x

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By *estman for the jobMan
over a year ago

Lincolnshire

Try a flirty reply and see how she responds op

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeah I do that if I'm familiar with them. I wouldn't read too much into it xx

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By *HaRiFMan
over a year ago

Beyond the shadows.

Most of my female platonic friends and long term work colleagues and the odd males ones put kiss's at the end of their messages, none of them want to jump me. So I think you might be reading too much into it.

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By *lean cut jayMan
over a year ago

nottingham

Just keep an open mind matey

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By *offiaCoolWoman
over a year ago

Kidsgrove

I wouldn't read anything into it. I would see how her body language is in person.

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By *iscean_dreamMan
over a year ago

Llanelli

You could jump in the deep end and reply with "you can blow something else if you like" don't do this

I wouldn't read too much into it, I'd send a few kisses back and see if it entices her to maybe open up a bit more

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

These aren’t kisses it’s the blowing love heart kiss.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Being a dick x

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By *abs..Woman
over a year ago

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"You could jump in the deep end and reply with "you can blow something else if you like" don't do this

I wouldn't read too much into it, I'd send a few kisses back and see if it entices her to maybe open up a bit more "

I agree with the second part

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By *iscean_dreamMan
over a year ago

Llanelli


"These aren’t kisses it’s the blowing love heart kiss. "

Just ask her if she wants to go for a walk maybe and see what happens. It's easier to read someone in person so you can see if they're a bit fidgeting maybe and holding something back

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just being flirty. Respond with with something subtle, but slightly flirty. If it’s innocent, you haven’t embarrassed yourself. See where it goes.

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek

I'd say that was more her saying "pleeeeeaseeeee" or "thank youuuuuuuuuuuu" rather than flirting

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By *estman for the jobMan
over a year ago

Lincolnshire

I got an idea op it might be too cheeky though lol,send her s text saying you've had a difficult customer on the phone asking where her gentleman's relish is tell her you haven't the foggiest what she's talking about and could she help out

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek


"I'd say that was more her saying "pleeeeeaseeeee" or "thank youuuuuuuuuuuu" rather than flirting "

Too add, my straight female manager does this when I say yes to a favour. It really means chuff all

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By *ea monkeyMan
over a year ago

Manchester (he/him)

You’re reading too much into it. She’s just being friendly.

On a separate note; never, ever mix business with sex, it will end very badly

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By *layfullsamMan
over a year ago

Solihull


"At my place of work I used to deal with a lady who was my area rep. As times changed so did my role and she was passed on to someone else. Things have again changed and we have been reunited with work. We text for simplicity and quicker responses, but of late she sends me messages and finishes them off with a blowing kiss. Is this a sign of interest or am I being dick and reading the wrong signals?"

Ask her if she'd like to go out for a drink when it's allowed, what's the worst that can happen.

She might be the one and you'll regret it if you don't find out

Good luck

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By *drian HardthrobMan
over a year ago

Worcester

I wouldn't read into it mate, especially with a work colleague. Always best to keep professional and personal life separate in my personal opinion.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

A woman I used to work with used to sign her emails to her husband "I love you"

She frequently signed e mails to other people the same way of she'd just mailed him, even on one occasion the guy at British gas. Mr N was texting me and the chief exec of his company at the same time and sent kisses to the chief exec. This stuff happens and means nothing, great warily

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

*tread warily

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By *eliciousladyWoman
over a year ago

Sometimes U.K

As many have already said, it means nothing x

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By *rder66Man
over a year ago

Tatooine

I would think very carefully if you want to risk your job. If you where out for a work do then perhaps you could subtly ask her but, it the work place there is too much oppertunity for it to go south, not the south that you might hope.

I would take it as her being friendly and nothing else.

Im may just be a habbit of adding a kiss.

xxxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I put kisses always to friends and family so sometimes txt and without thinking out kisses then txt again apologising .... I wouldn’t make something out of it unless she’s flirting with you to xxxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

She's just being nice.

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over a year ago

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