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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Looking at the amount of times women have said they’re inundated with messages I thought I’d try to not be another annoying guy messaging, but this has just led to absolutely no attention at all really. So am I doing right or wrong by not messaging anybody by trying not to be just another guy?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What is the worst that can happen if you message someone? They don't respond.

What is the worst that can happen if you don't message someone? They don't even know you exist.

I think you're making this difficult for yourself.

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham

There's a happy medium surely. Be polite have an interesting profile and perv worthy pics. Don't send 3 messages when they haven't replied to one.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What is the worst that can happen if you message someone? They don't respond.

What is the worst that can happen if you don't message someone? They don't even know you exist.

I think you're making this difficult for yourself. "

This

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

True its like a lottery you win maybe or you don't

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By *ocksareoffMan
over a year ago

Out n About

Nothing ventured nothing gained. If you don't ask you don't get.

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By *AYENCouple
over a year ago

Lincolnshire

Trust me, the ladies that are inundated with messages want to be inundated with messages, so crack on

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"What is the worst that can happen if you message someone? They don't respond.

What is the worst that can happen if you don't message someone? They don't even know you exist.

I think you're making this difficult for yourself. "

That’s what I originally was thinking but didn’t want to seem like an annoying guy, but you do make a very good point

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Op. What would you rather do. You sound like you have gone completely in the opposite direction of what you actually want.

You want to talk and connect, but that ain’t going to work without saying hello to them is it?

Send a few messages, see what happens. Your few messages aren’t going to make much difference, it those that send out to 100s Of accounts (And to the same people) that are causing issues.

*just my opinion.

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By *yrdsisWoman
over a year ago

Gleam Street


"Trust me, the ladies that are inundated with messages want to be inundated with messages, so crack on "

Yep...Agree

Im not inundated because

A: i have filters

B: i have filters ...

Or possibly I have an unfortunate face... either way... filters!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I might just yawn now....

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Op. What would you rather do. You sound like you have gone completely in the opposite direction of what you actually want.

You want to talk and connect, but that ain’t going to work without saying hello to them is it?

Send a few messages, see what happens. Your few messages aren’t going to make much difference, it those that send out to 100s Of accounts (And to the same people) that are causing issues.

*just my opinion. "

Yeah I definitely have gone completely the opposite direction, yeah I’ve never been one to send more than 1 message without reply to people

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've only message if they happen to wink at me first. Much to shy

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