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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

we get loads how do you respond to them

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By *gent CoulsonMan
over a year ago

Secret hideaway in the pennines


"we get loads how do you respond to them"
how would you normally deal with spam mail

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You don’t, just delete them. Unless you like the look of the profile, then reply.

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By *etcplCouple
over a year ago

Gapping Fanny

[Removed by poster at 29/03/21 14:51:31]

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I send a well thought out personal response reflecting and referring to something from their profile to show I had read it. I try to show some sense of humour and show some of my personality.

#LeadByExample

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By *heRazorsEdgeMan
over a year ago

Wales/ All over UK


"we get loads how do you respond to them"

I’ve never received one, however I suppose it depends on the quality of the message really.

If it’a a copy and paste but with some things added that shows the person has read your profile, is that so bad?

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By *etcplCouple
over a year ago

Gapping Fanny

Play them at their own game if you want to reply.

Otherwise ignore

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I send them an emoji

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By *tephTV67TV/TS
over a year ago

Cheshire


"we get loads how do you respond to them

I’ve never received one, however I suppose it depends on the quality of the message really.

If it’a a copy and paste but with some things added that shows the person has read your profile, is that so bad?"

This I get quite a few but if they’ve added something from my profile I don’t have an issue. I have several ‘draft’ emails at work that I use on a regular basis and just add to them dependant on what the reply requires. So if someone does the same here and has actually read your profile, no problem

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By *iddlesticksMan
over a year ago

My nan’s spare room.

On the other side of the coin. How else am I expected to message two hundred profiles a day with the offer to smash their back doors in because they are so beautiful.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I dont care if its a copy/paste message.

a message is a message and its a rare thing for me

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend

I/we tell/inform/them/him/her/that I/we are/are not interested

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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT


"we get loads how do you respond to them"

I don't respond

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By *oreno0969Man
over a year ago

Rugby

I just don't send first messages, no chance of copy and paste then

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By *ocksareoffMan
over a year ago

Out n About

It's not often I get messages, but just out of curiosity how can you tell if it's a copy n paste job?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"we get loads how do you respond to them

I’ve never received one, however I suppose it depends on the quality of the message really.

If it’a a copy and paste but with some things added that shows the person has read your profile, is that so bad?

This I get quite a few but if they’ve added something from my profile I don’t have an issue. I have several ‘draft’ emails at work that I use on a regular basis and just add to them dependant on what the reply requires. So if someone does the same here and has actually read your profile, no problem "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I/we tell/inform/them/him/her/that I/we are/are not interested "

*delete as appropriate

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lol, like a few of the other guy's on here I'd be happy just to get a message, I don't care who they copied or pasted !!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"we get loads how do you respond to them"

It’s in our profile that they are not for us so I just reply as normal and point out our love of C+P messages and I reckon that two out of every ten apologize and four don’t reply and four try and blag it out.

Lazy but understand it’s the law of numbers.

T

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Copy n paste it straight back to them with an appropriate emoji

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By *oxy lady40Woman
over a year ago

bridgwater

Delete them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I/we tell/inform/them/him/her/that I/we are/are not interested

*delete as appropriate "

I tell them nice copy and paste message. You sent that weeks ago. And block them. Probably sidney uni.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Treat them the same as the messages that simply say

‘ Hi how R U’

‘Wat U up 2 today’

They all get a swift delete.

I spend a lot of time thinking about what to write if I’m messaging. It would be nice if people messaging me did the same!

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By *tephTV67TV/TS
over a year ago

Cheshire


"It's not often I get messages, but just out of curiosity how can you tell if it's a copy n paste job?"

When it’s not specific or using general terms about you or your profile.

If I got a message that was about a specific part of my profile, picture or video it comes across as genuine. However if there’s a message written, that could be sent to anyone on here, it certainly looks like a copy and paste message.

As I said earlier in the thread it’s not a massive issue if they’ve added in something personal about your own profile within the message. Unfortunately not many do that so it comes across as lazy and uninspiring not much better than the usual ‘hi, how’s you’ messages I get regularly.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I/we tell/inform/them/him/her/that I/we are/are not interested

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I tell them nice copy and paste message. You sent that weeks ago. And block them. Probably sidney uni."

I use a copy & paste reply.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I/we tell/inform/them/him/her/that I/we are/are not interested

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I tell them nice copy and paste message. You sent that weeks ago. And block them. Probably sidney uni.

I use a copy & paste reply. "

Make sure its the correct one and not the one saying come take me. Lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I/we tell/inform/them/him/her/that I/we are/are not interested

*delete as appropriate

I tell them nice copy and paste message. You sent that weeks ago. And block them. Probably sidney uni.

I use a copy & paste reply.

Make sure its the correct one and not the one saying come take me. Lol"

That would scare them!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Delete, block, move on

End of

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By *issmorganWoman
over a year ago

Calderdale innit

Delete when it's obvious that's what it is

I got one yesterday with someone else's name on.

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