FabSwingers.com mobile

Join us FREE, we're FREE to use

Web's largest swingers site since 2006.

Already registered?
Login here

Back to forum list
Back to The Lounge

Nervous!

Jump to newest
 

By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Good Morning guys!

I've got an interview today that I'm so nervous for, it's been a long time since I've been to one with being in the same workplace for so long.

I despise the interview questions

Any pep talk or some positive news would be great!

Her x

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *udistnorthantsMan
over a year ago

Desborough

Good Luck with your interview and I hope it goes well for you

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Good luck!

Lu

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *atricia ParnelWoman
over a year ago

In a town full of colours

Calming breathing exercises.

Good luck

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Obviously good luck !

Otherwise do as much prep as you can, and be as relaxed as you can. If you've got to the interview stage they are interested in you which is a big plus. And remember it's a two way process, don't be nervous about asking questions yourself.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *etcplCouple
over a year ago

Gapping Fanny

The one thing I try to remember is that interviewers are people too.

Forget this seeing them named BS, but don’t be afraid to ask them to clarify anything you don’t understand and remember you can take notes in with you (usually) as its not an exam - this is easier when doing remote interviews.

Good luck

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *oved Up 2Couple
over a year ago

nottingham

Hope it goes well for you. Remember to have questions prepared to ask them. One I use that makes them think it 'If I'm successful in being offered this position, what would you consider my priorities to be during my 1st couple of weeks?'

Deep, calming breaths will help as will plenty of research on the company you're interviewing for

Lots of luck!

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just think about previous experiences when answering questions even if it's from your home life and do a bit of research about the company, you will smash it good luck

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *eliWoman
over a year ago

.

Best of luck Op! Wear something you feel confident and comfortable in, don't forget to go to the toilet before. Oh and breathe. Not exaggerated weird ones in front of the interviewer but long slow calming ones. You've got this OP! x

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just take the view of you are offering your services to the company and just lay out the benefits of them hiring you. If they didn’t believe in you, you wouldn’t have got the interview. You must have really wowed them so far to get to this point given how competitive the job market is now. You don’t need it, but good luck anyway.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Be assertive not fearful.

Keep answers short no need for details.

Make clear you are a good timekeeper.

At the end of the interview if they haven't told you ask when you will hear from them.

Good luck

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *abs..Woman
over a year ago

..

I wish you the very best of luck

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *entlemanrogueMan
over a year ago

Motherwell


"Good Morning guys!

I've got an interview today that I'm so nervous for, it's been a long time since I've been to one with being in the same workplace for so long.

I despise the interview questions

Any pep talk or some positive news would be great!

Her x"

if you genuinely want the job you will get it.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *gent CoulsonMan
over a year ago

Secret hideaway in the pennines

Fingers crossed for you

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Good luck OP.

Prep, wear something comfortable and breathe.

You'll be fine

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *armupartistMan
over a year ago

York

Probably not helpful but wear those bunny ears...

Hope it goes well, is it face to face or Zoom? Either can be daunting.

Interviewed a lot of people in my time, be natural, don't try to be too clever and if you don't know the answer to a question don't try to bluff. And take your time answering a question if you need a few moments to think about it.

Good luck

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Good Morning guys!

I've got an interview today that I'm so nervous for, it's been a long time since I've been to one with being in the same workplace for so long.

I despise the interview questions

Any pep talk or some positive news would be great!

Her x"

Give yourself plenty of time to arrive ,you deserve this chance ,go for it ,good luck and treat is as your right to succeed.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *unwanted34Man
over a year ago

Metro One, Tower Hill

Don’t just burst into an answer - take a breath and think about your response x

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Good Morning guys!

I've got an interview today that I'm so nervous for, it's been a long time since I've been to one with being in the same workplace for so long.

I despise the interview questions

Any pep talk or some positive news would be great!

Her x"

Good luck, just be yourself

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *uriousscouserWoman
over a year ago

Wirral

Very best of luck!

If it's any encouragement, I've never interviewed anyone unless they looked a very good match on paper, so they're already interested in you and think you are suitable for the role.

Otherwise just look at it as someone letting you talk about yourself for a while, and who doesn't love that?

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just remember your interviewing them to see if there are right for you...good luck and smash this Monday x

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *lay 4 uMan
over a year ago

bolton

Go with the attitude of I get all well and good if not meant to be .you'll be far more relaxed and yourself .good luck

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

remember you're a bad bitch, and you are going to smash it.

i have every faith in you my girl.

Just think of the celebrations we'll have

go boss it!

Px

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Some brilliant tips and feedback guys, loved reading your responses it's gave me a few things to think about and do.

Thank you all for taking the time out your day to reply!

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

They wanted to meet you, so you're already doing well. And remember you're vetting them too

Fingers crossed for you OP!

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hope it goes well for you. Remember to have questions prepared to ask them. One I use that makes them think it 'If I'm successful in being offered this position, what would you consider my priorities to be during my 1st couple of weeks?'

Deep, calming breaths will help as will plenty of research on the company you're interviewing for

Lots of luck!"

Ooh I like that! Top tip.

Good luck OP. No tips from me sorry, I'm shit at interviews.

So actually my tip would be 'don't be like me'. X

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *offiaCoolWoman
over a year ago

Kidsgrove

If you are nervous, say so. Sorry, could you repeat the question, I am nervous and I didn't fully take it on board.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *inkyInkedBiWoman
over a year ago

.

Good luck lovely x

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Good luck ,

Just be yourself and calm yourself with deep breaths

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *urchoicenowCouple
over a year ago

Ashford

I always look at interviews as a way of finding out if they're the right place for me to work rather than them interviewing me, I'm interviewing them

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Good Luck x

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

All the best OP.

Three tips:

1. Take three long deep breaths before you go in.

2. Listen actively. Dont worry about the answer while they are talking.

3. If you feel stuck any point, take a breath, that usually helps to calm nerves.

Good luck

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Good luck... Believe in your self... Be confident.... Eye contact is vital.. Try not to fidget and above all remember... Your selling a product... Yourself... So be yourself x

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek

Good luck!!

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Believe in yourself first and foremost.

Don't feel rushed, take time to answer the questions, if unsure ask them to repeat it.

And remember, just because they are interviewing you, doesn't mean they are any good at it.

You've got this!

Lots of luck OP xxx

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *artender_onthelooseMan
over a year ago

Dublin

Best of luck today

Stay calm be confident jobs yours!!

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Good Morning guys!

I've got an interview today that I'm so nervous for, it's been a long time since I've been to one with being in the same workplace for so long.

I despise the interview questions

Any pep talk or some positive news would be great!

Her x"

Don't wear a beanie hat.

Good luck. Just be calm and yourself

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Good Morning guys!

I've got an interview today that I'm so nervous for, it's been a long time since I've been to one with being in the same workplace for so long.

I despise the interview questions

Any pep talk or some positive news would be great!

Her x

Don't wear a beanie hat.

Good luck. Just be calm and yourself "

Are you the beanie hat chef guy from last week? Did you/ they get the job?

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Good luck

Remember they need you as much as you need them. You are also interviewing them to see if you would like to work there. So ask them some questions about what it’s like to work there as well. Etc

Xx

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just imagine them naked. That’s what I do.

Good luck.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Good Morning guys!

I've got an interview today that I'm so nervous for, it's been a long time since I've been to one with being in the same workplace for so long.

I despise the interview questions

Any pep talk or some positive news would be great!

Her x

Don't wear a beanie hat.

Good luck. Just be calm and yourself

Are you the beanie hat chef guy from last week? Did you/ they get the job? "

I am that guy and i shall hear by the end of Wednesday if I got it or not.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *odgerMan
over a year ago

Coventry(ish)

Every day is like an interview on here...the men should be experts

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Good luck! Let us know how it went

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Again thank you so much everyone means a lot, bloody love this community

I think it went really well, I'd say i sold myself pretty well! Don't think it could've gone any better tbh, thanks for all the tips they helped.

Suppose its just fingers crossed now I did my best

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Again thank you so much everyone means a lot, bloody love this community

I think it went really well, I'd say i sold myself pretty well! Don't think it could've gone any better tbh, thanks for all the tips they helped.

Suppose its just fingers crossed now I did my best "

Ahhh that’s brilliant fingers crossed you get it x

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Again thank you so much everyone means a lot, bloody love this community

I think it went really well, I'd say i sold myself pretty well! Don't think it could've gone any better tbh, thanks for all the tips they helped.

Suppose its just fingers crossed now I did my best "

Well done, can't do more than your best shot, and fingers crossed for a positive outcome

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Again thank you so much everyone means a lot, bloody love this community

I think it went really well, I'd say i sold myself pretty well! Don't think it could've gone any better tbh, thanks for all the tips they helped.

Suppose its just fingers crossed now I did my best

Ahhh that’s brilliant fingers crossed you get it x"

Thank you.. you! x

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Again thank you so much everyone means a lot, bloody love this community

I think it went really well, I'd say i sold myself pretty well! Don't think it could've gone any better tbh, thanks for all the tips they helped.

Suppose its just fingers crossed now I did my best

Well done, can't do more than your best shot, and fingers crossed for a positive outcome "

Definitely!

Thank you

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Good luck

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
Post new Message to Thread
back to top