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"Because if you read the profile it cuts out quite a lot of people. I know not everyone is going to want the same as me so state in my profile. If we don't match then why would you message? You don't have time to read my profile and yet you expect people to take the time replying to someone who they'd never meet as per profile? This is why a lot of guys complain of unread/deleted messages " Exactly! Thank you! A classic example: I'm out of the country. It CLEARLY states this on my profile. Yet I have men from up and down the country messaging me asking if I can Fuck "NOW". Er, unless you are willing to travel 7000 miles, no! READ THE PROFILE! | |||
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"why do people get so mad that people don't read every word on their profile like i get its annoying but not like i was rude or disrespectful chill out ffs " Seriously... How hard is it to just to read | |||
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"why do people get so mad that people don't read every word on their profile like i get its annoying but not like i was rude or disrespectful chill out ffs " You get that's it's annoying but wonder why people get mad. I think you just answered your own question.. | |||
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"I don't have time to read that. ^ And we don't have time to waste with people who don't do the basics. LIKE SEND PHOTOS WITH FIRST MESSAGE AND SOME DETAILS ABOUT THEMSELVES SO WE KNOW WHAT YOU LOOK LIKE AND WHAT YOUR SITUATION IS. When you don't send photos or details, my first message back is ALWAYS going to be send me some photos of you so I can SEE if I'm attracted to you or not, and send some details, like where you are based, are you single or married, what your after etc so that I can assess and make up my mind about whether I wanna get involved in that. Basics, people, basics. Most men stumble on the basics, and they don't even have the basics on their profile for me to check myself. I don't have the time for message ping pong either, so you just send up getting BLOCKED. If you wanna be blocked, ignored or generally start a convo by frustrating the girl, then ignore her profile. You will be one of many also ignored by her. If you want to stand out, read it and adapt your messages accordingly. " Exactly this, simply couldnt have put it better!! X x | |||
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"why do people get so mad that people don't read every word on their profile like i get its annoying but not like i was rude or disrespectful chill out ffs " If you don't have time to read a profile, you definitely don't have time to meet! | |||
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"Imagine what you can do with all of the time that is saved by not reading profiles... I’m certain that it’s into the minutes! I’m sure that a busy man such as yourself OP has life planned out to the second and the value of a minute is indescribable, so just consider how much time you’re saving by not having sex either" _ea monkey Thanks for the morning laugh. I am really loving all of the replies to this thread so far Spot. On. BRB with my own thread people. I'm off to message everyone and then wonder why profiles where our interests list do not match and who are not seeking curvy bi non submissive Black women either don't reply to my messages or block me.... | |||
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"why do people get so mad that people don't read every word on their profile like i get its annoying but not like i was rude or disrespectful chill out ffs " You won't be the first man who didn't read every word of their profile. After 30 messages all asking for something that the person specifically says they *won't* do, it gets annoying. Welcome to the forums. | |||
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"I don't have time to read that. ^ And we don't have time to waste with people who don't do the basics. LIKE SEND PHOTOS WITH FIRST MESSAGE AND SOME DETAILS ABOUT THEMSELVES SO WE KNOW WHAT YOU LOOK LIKE AND WHAT YOUR SITUATION IS. When you don't send photos or details, my first message back is ALWAYS going to be send me some photos of you so I can SEE if I'm attracted to you or not, and send some details, like where you are based, are you single or married, what your after etc so that I can assess and make up my mind about whether I wanna get involved in that. Basics, people, basics. Most men stumble on the basics, and they don't even have the basics on their profile for me to check myself. I don't have the time for message ping pong either, so you just send up getting BLOCKED. If you wanna be blocked, ignored or generally start a convo by frustrating the girl, then ignore her profile. You will be one of many also ignored by her. If you want to stand out, read it and adapt your messages accordingly. Exactly this, simply couldnt have put it better!! X x " We second that...so many messages get just deleted...or users blocked.. | |||
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"If you were on a specialist site looking for (for example) a car, would you not take a few minutes to read the bumph? So you’d know what you were getting? The specifications, the small print? If you were in Tesco looking for a Lasagne, would you not read the packet to check the expiry date? Whether it was for 1 person or 2? So if you’d do that, what’s wrong with taking a few minutes to read the wordy delights of someone on Fab. Speed read till you get to the good bits " yeah! I don't really understand why people don't. I wanna know some information before I decide if I'd quite like to fuck a stranger | |||
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"If you were on a specialist site looking for (for example) a car, would you not take a few minutes to read the bumph? So you’d know what you were getting? The specifications, the small print? If you were in Tesco looking for a Lasagne, would you not read the packet to check the expiry date? Whether it was for 1 person or 2? So if you’d do that, what’s wrong with taking a few minutes to read the wordy delights of someone on Fab. Speed read till you get to the good bits " I just find the lasagne that looks good. Then realise it needs eating that night as the expiry date is today. | |||
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"If you were in Tesco looking for a Lasagne, would you not read the packet to check the expiry date? Whether it was for 1 person or 2?" To be fair, I never read the packaging for how many people it serves. “This trifle serves four people”. Errr, I’ll be the judge of that, thank you! | |||
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"why do people get so mad that people don't read every word on their profile like i get its annoying but not like i was rude or disrespectful chill out ffs " Tl:dr What reasons are there to not have the time to read a profile other than so many profiles to message? | |||
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"If you were on a specialist site looking for (for example) a car, would you not take a few minutes to read the bumph? So you’d know what you were getting? The specifications, the small print? If you were in Tesco looking for a Lasagne, would you not read the packet to check the expiry date? Whether it was for 1 person or 2? So if you’d do that, what’s wrong with taking a few minutes to read the wordy delights of someone on Fab. Speed read till you get to the good bits I just find the lasagne that looks good. Then realise it needs eating that night as the expiry date is today. " See! You need to read the bumph | |||
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"why do people get so mad that people don't read every word on their profile like i get its annoying but not like i was rude or disrespectful chill out ffs " We don't get annoyed We don't get mad We don't think it's rude We don't think it's disrespectful We chill and block ffs | |||
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"why do people get so mad that people don't read every word on their profile like i get its annoying but not like i was rude or disrespectful chill out ffs " Basically its not that you don't have time to read the profile, you just cant be bothered to put in the effort and don't have the patience to. Which , if that's your attitude to just a few seconds on a profile, shows your attitude towards actual meets. | |||
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"It costs you more time and effort if you don’t read profiles doesn’t it? In the long run. " Very correct observation | |||
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"My profile specifically states the types of guys I am looking to connect with. I like older, chunky, bear-type guys. So when a young slim lad messages me, asking if I want to meet, and then gets pissy with me because I tell him I’m not interested, I just think that whole awkward and aggressive interaction could have been avoided if he had just read my profile. Or, demonstrating the importance of reading profiles, in Fab terms, would go like this... Straight guy: “I’M STRAIGHT!!! WILL GUYS STOP F*KN MESSAGING ME?!” Gay/Bi guy who didn’t read their profile: “Hi, straight guy. Wanna blowjob?”" Brilliant example. I can't imagine how many messages from cocksuckers some of the rough and tumble straight men with big dicks get on here. Even though they clearly state it on their profile. I can feel their frustration through the CAPS and!!!! Tip for straight guys: you can actually BLOCK men from messaging you completely. Just go to the options. | |||
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"If you CBA to read a profile, then I think you’d be a terrible meet. I think it shows a total lack of interest in the person and that your approach is chucking out a load of (probably cut and paste) messages to see if you get a bite. Which means you’re not fussy, you’re not looking for a mutually respectful meet because you clearly don’t care if you meet the persons needs because you haven’t checked what they are at the outset. I think it shows complete disrespect for the other person right off the bat. " xx | |||
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"If you were in Tesco looking for a Lasagne, would you not read the packet to check the expiry date? Whether it was for 1 person or 2? To be fair, I never read the packaging for how many people it serves. “This trifle serves four people”. Errr, I’ll be the judge of that, thank you! " | |||
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"why do people get so mad that people don't read every word on their profile like i get its annoying but not like i was rude or disrespectful chill out ffs " If people won’t read the profile, why should we read their message ? Clearly states no single guys on ours yet that get an attitude when we tell them we’re not interested | |||
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"You don’t have time to read the profile, yet have time to message... By not reading the profile you are probably wasting your own time sending a random message. If you read the profile and fit what they’re looking for cater a message to them and you have more chance of getting one back..." And you will still get people who read and those who dont | |||
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"why do people get so mad that people don't read every word on their profile like i get its annoying but not like i was rude or disrespectful chill out ffs " Yeah, every holes a goal. Why bother finding out anything about them. (Sarcasm) It's quicker to read a profile and not send a message to an person who isn't interested, than to write a message. Unless the message is "fancy a fuck" or a cut'n'Paste standard letter. Quality rather than quantity is the key to success. | |||
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"why do people get so mad that people don't read every word on their profile like i get its annoying but not like i was rude or disrespectful chill out ffs " Substitute 'every word' for 'a single word' and you'd be more accurate. It's so annoying because it happens sooooooo often - multiple times a day! Because these people haven't bothered, they have no idea what we're looking for or whether they would be at all a match. Not only that, but when you turn them down because they're not a match, they often start arguing about it. Now that's really disrespectful. | |||
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"if you dont have time to read the profile how do you have time to chat " Ooooh burn | |||
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"You don't have time to read profiles, but you do have time to come on the forums and vent about it. Righto. " This | |||
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"if you dont have time to read the profile how do you have time to chat Ooooh burn " i’m serious . a conversation surely takes longer than reading a profile - and foreplay DEFINITELY should take longer | |||
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"if you dont have time to read the profile how do you have time to chat Ooooh burn i’m serious . a conversation surely takes longer than reading a profile - and foreplay DEFINITELY should take longer " I agree haha | |||
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"Can I ask the single guys....do you look and read every profile then send a thought out message? I only read a profile if I like the look of that persons face or body so im selective on who I message " I wouldn't read the profile of someone that didn't interest me, that would be rather pointless. | |||
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"why do people get so mad that people don't read every word on their profile like i get its annoying but not like i was rude or disrespectful chill out ffs " I actually think failing to read a profile is pretty disrespectful. | |||
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"It's a strange one really. If I meet someone 'out out', they don't hand me 3 pages of A4 that I have to trawl through before I can speak to them. We smile and say hello... . *mind blown*" But at least you get a feel for them, before they feel you | |||
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"It's a strange one really. If I meet someone 'out out', they don't hand me 3 pages of A4 that I have to trawl through before I can speak to them. We smile and say hello... . *mind blown* " But during that initial interaction, you will be doing the equivalent of reading their profile. At which point you'll either continue or realise they are not for you (or vice versa). It's very rare you'd decide you have nothing in common, and want different things out if the evening, but still decide to take them home for a shag surely? The profile saves you having to buy a drink to find this out! | |||
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"Can I ask the single guys....do you look and read every profile then send a thought out message? I only read a profile if I like the look of that persons face or body so im selective on who I message " Some seem to just fire off a "hey" message to any female who happens to be online at the time | |||
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"I don't have time to read that. ^" Oh Jim | |||
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"If you were in Tesco looking for a Lasagne, would you not read the packet to check the expiry date? Whether it was for 1 person or 2? To be fair, I never read the packaging for how many people it serves. “This trifle serves four people”. Errr, I’ll be the judge of that, thank you! " Oo yes the tesco chocolate trifle! All chocolate and creamy goodness!! What was the question again? I got distracted by trifle... | |||
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"why do people get so mad that people don't read every word on their profile like i get its annoying but not like i was rude or disrespectful chill out ffs " You dont have tine to read a profile, but do have time to meet and have sex with them?! these numbers do not add up. If you cant respect someones profile, do you think they will expect you to respect them? Of course not. | |||
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"If you haven’t got time to read my profile (my normal one), I haven’t got time to engage with you, and you won’t have time to put the groundwork in for a meet?" | |||
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"When they don’t even get past the first line above your picture “not looking, not meeting”, only have to read four words. If they can’t understand that, it is just them trying their luck and will get an automatic delete " Right?! My delete button needs holidays. | |||
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"I can tell straight away , if someone hasn’t bothered to read my profile, it is very disrespectful, so auto delete " Happy birthday. Guess what OP, i know this bause i read it, on Foxys profile. Imagine that, the sharing of information, its like something from the future¿ | |||
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"why do people get so mad that people don't read every word on their profile like i get its annoying but not like i was rude or disrespectful chill out ffs " So you have time to shag somebody but not time read the things they would like you to know about them? It sounds to me much less like you don't have time and more like you can’t be arsed, but I'm not sure because I zoned out half way through your post. | |||
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"Fine if you don't want to read the profile just don't presume or moan at the reply you receive " You reply to those who don't read your profile ? How do you have time...? | |||
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"why do people get so mad that people don't read every word on their profile like i get its annoying but not like i was rude or disrespectful chill out ffs " Just common decently to read a profile prior to messaging someone! | |||
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"I messaged someone yesterday after reading their profile. I tailored the message to imply that I had. No code word was demanded and all criteria were met. The response.... Read my profile. I re-read it several times to see what I had missed. Clearly I had the wrong decryption codes for my fab enigma machine! There's no pleasing some people! " And yet, there is pleasing some people. Actually I’ve just realised that if somebody can be bothered to reply with Read the profile, then why not actually reply properly or just ignore. | |||
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"why do people get so mad that people don't read every word on their profile like i get its annoying but not like i was rude or disrespectful chill out ffs So you have time to shag somebody but not time read the things they would like you to know about them? It sounds to me much less like you don't have time and more like you can’t be arsed, but I'm not sure because I zoned out half way through your post. " This. And I get that it’s purely a physical attraction, but it really would help if you get on with each other | |||
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"why do people get so mad that people don't read every word on their profile like i get its annoying but not like i was rude or disrespectful chill out ffs " Exactly the problem. Not reading a profile is disrespectful, it shows you you have no interest in the person who’s profile it is. Swinging is not just about fucking randoms. My partner has a single profile and the amount of completely pointless messages from those who haven’t read the profile is ridiculous and reduces the chances of picking out genuine potential meets. | |||
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"No problem reading profiles but when it starts becoming an essay like so many on here time to move on " Thing is, that’s the trigger to not contact them. | |||
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"Not everyone has the time to read your whole profile before speaking to you. Interesting. So you literally stick your dick in any receptacle you've had no convo with? Interesting. The way I see it, a profile IS a conversation. One person speaking, the other person "listening" and either agreeing or disagreeing and deciding whether they wish to continue that conversation further. " Precisely. Couldnt have put it across better | |||
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"No problem reading profiles but when it starts becoming an essay like so many on here time to move on Thing is, that’s the trigger to not contact them. " It's a good trigger so Job done lol | |||
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"One theory is that if you read the profile, tick all the boxes and jump through all the hoops, then hone a message for them and still don’t get a reply then it can only be you they don’t like, however if you wing it and send a generic message and don’t get a reply the man can then think, oh well must have been cause I didn’t read the profile and not cause they didn’t fancy me. But this is purely just a theory. " Yes that's quite possible. It could also be that they've just had rather a lot of messages and simply can't reply to them all. There are many more guys here than females or couples so the latter are bound to get far more messages. Incidentally, we just read our own profile and timed it at just over 2 minutes. Not exactly War & Peace... | |||
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"If you haven’t got time to read my profile (my normal one), I haven’t got time to engage with you, and you won’t have time to put the groundwork in for a meet?" I couldn't be arsed to look at your profile but I did perve at your pics. Not bad by the way! | |||
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"Depends how long the profile is... if it’s short then it doesn’t take long but some profiles are practically a trilogy and I don’t blame you " Even the longest profile isn't going to take more than 5 mins to read. Takes me longer than that to make a coffee. However, if it was long, and full of SHOUTY CAPS, or terrible grammar/spelling I'd probably abandon the effort. | |||
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"I can tell straight away , if someone hasn’t bothered to read my profile, it is very disrespectful, so auto delete Happy birthday. Guess what OP, i know this bause i read it, on Foxys profile. Imagine that, the sharing of information, its like something from the future¿" thank you x | |||
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"So your basing every message you send on image alone... Profiles are there to be read, it gives an indication of common ground, interests and snippet of someone’s personality. If you don’t have time to read a profile then expect someone to take the time to meet you there’s something a little off balance with that x" I guess yes...if im not physically attracted to them then no point in reading profile, if I like the look ill read profile to decide if first off im what they are looking for...pointless otherwise | |||
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"So your basing every message you send on image alone... Profiles are there to be read, it gives an indication of common ground, interests and snippet of someone’s personality. If you don’t have time to read a profile then expect someone to take the time to meet you there’s something a little off balance with that x I guess yes...if im not physically attracted to them then no point in reading profile, if I like the look ill read profile to decide if first off im what they are looking for...pointless otherwise " Exactly this ... photos first profile second. Amazing how many cock photos I get then when asked why send it it’s because they can’t be bothered to read the profile. What’s the point of that then eh? | |||
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"So your basing every message you send on image alone... Profiles are there to be read, it gives an indication of common ground, interests and snippet of someone’s personality. If you don’t have time to read a profile then expect someone to take the time to meet you there’s something a little off balance with that x" Basing it on image to look at profile and read it | |||
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"Some profiles are "Will fill in later", after having been on her for over a year, others are like War & Peace, mostly full of SHOUTY DEMANDS that make ma eyes bleed " Yeah I used to wonder why women had shouty profiles ... after two years on here now I know why. You should run a single female profile for a while - I guarantee that would make you shout. | |||
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"One theory is that if you read the profile, tick all the boxes and jump through all the hoops, then hone a message for them and still don’t get a reply then it can only be you they don’t like, however if you wing it and send a generic message and don’t get a reply the man can then think, oh well must have been cause I didn’t read the profile and not cause they didn’t fancy me. But this is purely just a theory. " Generic messages for me tell me they’ve blasted every female within a twenty mile radius abs ‘any hole’s a goal’ ... nah not for me | |||
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"It's a strange one really. If I meet someone 'out out', they don't hand me 3 pages of A4 that I have to trawl through before I can speak to them. We smile and say hello... . *mind blown* But at least you get a feel for them, before they feel you " You're back! | |||
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"It's a strange one really. If I meet someone 'out out', they don't hand me 3 pages of A4 that I have to trawl through before I can speak to them. We smile and say hello... . *mind blown* But during that initial interaction, you will be doing the equivalent of reading their profile. At which point you'll either continue or realise they are not for you (or vice versa). It's very rare you'd decide you have nothing in common, and want different things out if the evening, but still decide to take them home for a shag surely? The profile saves you having to buy a drink to find this out! " But the initial interaction is surely the same as only scrolling through a few of their pics. Reading the profile/ finding out if they are a Cliff Richard fan/ like to shag with the lights on come when you're having the drink together later on. Unless they are already wearing a Cliff tshirt... in which case it's straight behind the bins at Aldi for a shag. | |||
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"We get it that some of you single guys are lazy and can't be arsed to read profiles, and all you want is to fuck. We want to fuck too but not with lazy fuckers. Sometimes one of you may get lucky and we'll interact with you. However, if it is obvious you haven't read our profile, we have no time for you. Some profiles are very interesting, some are humorous and some are both. Read them and you may find you are incompatible. Then you've only wasted a minute or two instead of all the time it takes to ping pong messages back and forth. To then find you're incompatible." But if you have your tick list shouldn't you block singles and you do the searching? | |||
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"I can tell straight away , if someone hasn’t bothered to read my profile, it is very disrespectful, so auto delete " I read yours everytime I have a steaky perv. | |||
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"We get it that some of you single guys are lazy and can't be arsed to read profiles, and all you want is to fuck. We want to fuck too but not with lazy fuckers. Sometimes one of you may get lucky and we'll interact with you. However, if it is obvious you haven't read our profile, we have no time for you. Some profiles are very interesting, some are humorous and some are both. Read them and you may find you are incompatible. Then you've only wasted a minute or two instead of all the time it takes to ping pong messages back and forth. To then find you're incompatible. But if you have your tick list shouldn't you block singles and you do the searching?" We don't have a tick list. We occasionally play with single guys so why should we block them? We will engage with interesting single guys who take the time to read our profile. | |||
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" ... Unless they are already wearing a Cliff tshirt... in which case it's straight behind the bins at Aldi for a shag. " Well obvs, I feel that doesn't even need saying. | |||
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"We get it that some of you single guys are lazy and can't be arsed to read profiles, and all you want is to fuck. We want to fuck too but not with lazy fuckers. Sometimes one of you may get lucky and we'll interact with you. However, if it is obvious you haven't read our profile, we have no time for you. Some profiles are very interesting, some are humorous and some are both. Read them and you may find you are incompatible. Then you've only wasted a minute or two instead of all the time it takes to ping pong messages back and forth. To then find you're incompatible. But if you have your tick list shouldn't you block singles and you do the searching? We don't have a tick list. We occasionally play with single guys so why should we block them? We will engage with interesting single guys who take the time to read our profile." Sorry I read it as you wanted single guys... | |||
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"I can tell straight away , if someone hasn’t bothered to read my profile, it is very disrespectful, so auto delete I read yours everytime I have a steaky perv. Xx " | |||
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"You wouldn't go to the pub and not read a menu if you didn't know what food was on offer, profiles are there to stop unnecessary conversations with incompatible people, why waste both of our time for the sake of a couple of mins read" This! | |||
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"If you haven’t got the time to read my profile, then sorry I am way to busy to open my legs for you. It also tells me you are only interested in meeting your own wants /desires and not interested in me having a pleasurable experience. " This xx | |||
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"I'm not mad about it but I'm not interested in men who can't be bothered to spend 30 seconds seeing if our profiles match, imagine how shit and effortless he'd be in bed" | |||
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"If I lose interest while reading a profile I know I won't be interested in meeting that person so wouldn't bother messaging them. " Spot on, there are some profiles I've read where I know it would be a total waste messaging, but I've also read some quirky profiles full of personality that have really attracted me to people I probably wouldn't normally have thought to message. | |||
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"why do people get so mad that people don't read every word on their profile like i get its annoying but not like i was rude or disrespectful chill out ffs " If you are that interested in said person you would take interest in their profile. If you don't do the homework, you won't get the grade you want. | |||
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"I think you're all missing the point people - this is not book club - just spread em " I know right this is not fabreaders its fabsexsiteswingerz so get nude and get sexing | |||
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