FabSwingers.com forum: Naughtiest fantasy

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

What's your naughtiest fantasy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What's your naughtiest fantasy "

Getting caught by the Queen and Duke as I'm balls deep in Kate

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"What's your naughtiest fantasy

Getting caught by the Queen and Duke as I'm balls deep in Kate l

Haha

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By *erces LetiferMan
over a year ago

Somewhere off the edge of the map... 'ere there be monsters

DDlg and/or CNC.

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By *andonmessMan
over a year ago

A world all of his own

"DDlg and/or CNC.

CNC is one to be treated with a great deal of caution, on both halves.

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By *aaffMan
over a year ago

manchester

Anyone from Manchester?

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By *erces LetiferMan
over a year ago

Somewhere off the edge of the map... 'ere there be monsters

"CNC is one to be treated with a great deal of caution, on both halves. "

Requires trust, communication and safewords.

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By *andonmessMan
over a year ago

A world all of his own

"CNC is one to be treated with a great deal of caution, on both halves.

Requires trust, communication and safewords.

It requires a great deal more than that.

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By *erces LetiferMan
over a year ago

Somewhere off the edge of the map... 'ere there be monsters

"It requires a great deal more than that."

Ooh, do go on. Always looking to learn more.

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By *oudLoutishLoverWoman
over a year ago

Colchester

So....Ddlg and CNC?

Sounds like you’re not too keen on consent, my friend, if these are your fantasies?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I want to steal a cookie from the cookie jar

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By *erces LetiferMan
over a year ago

Somewhere off the edge of the map... 'ere there be monsters

"So....Ddlg and CNC?

Sounds like you’re not too keen on consent, my friend, if these are your fantasies?"

Do... do you know what CNC stands for??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Computer numerical control

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By *UNANDNICEMan
over a year ago

Basildon

I don’t

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By *oyseekerMan
over a year ago

preston

To meet a horny girl or a couple while out walking my dog x

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By *oudLoutishLoverWoman
over a year ago

Colchester

"So....Ddlg and CNC?

Sounds like you’re not too keen on consent, my friend, if these are your fantasies?

Do... do you know what CNC stands for??

Yes, which is why I asked! Your fetish seems to be a lack of consent, in one way or another. Either someone too young to give consent, and someone pretending that they do not consent.

Not here to kink-shame.

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By *KAholeandgloryCouple
over a year ago

exeter

"DDlg and/or CNC.

CNC is one to be treated with a great deal of caution, on both halves. "

What is CNC?

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By *oudLoutishLoverWoman
over a year ago

Colchester

Consent non consent

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"DDlg and/or CNC.

CNC is one to be treated with a great deal of caution, on both halves.

What is CNC?"

Nice profile x

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By *oudLoutishLoverWoman
over a year ago

Colchester

Or should it be consensual non-consent?

I don’t know. Tonight’s the first time I’ve heard of it!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not sure what CNC is but my ultimate fantasy is to be tied up and whipped and of course played with

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By *KAholeandgloryCouple
over a year ago

exeter

"DDlg and/or CNC.

CNC is one to be treated with a great deal of caution, on both halves.

What is CNC?

Nice profile x"

Thanks

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Consent non consent"

That's bad if it means that shouldn't let people on here like that

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By *erces LetiferMan
over a year ago

Somewhere off the edge of the map... 'ere there be monsters

"Yes, which is why I asked! Your fetish seems to be a lack of consent, in one way or another. Either someone too young to give consent, and someone pretending that they do not consent.

Not here to kink-shame."

Okay fair enough. In the interest of clarity, then, let me just say that consent is EXTREMELY important to me, and is, in fact, FUNDAMENTAL to having and enjoying these types of kinks / fantasies. And I'd be lying if I said I didn't kinda resent the insinuation to the contrary.

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By *KAholeandgloryCouple
over a year ago

exeter

"Consent non consent

That's bad if it means that shouldn't let people on here like that"

Totally agree

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By *oudLoutishLoverWoman
over a year ago

Colchester

"Yes, which is why I asked! Your fetish seems to be a lack of consent, in one way or another. Either someone too young to give consent, and someone pretending that they do not consent.

Not here to kink-shame.

Fantasy is heavily laced with taboo, for most people. Dark place, the mind...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Very much so

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By *erces LetiferMan
over a year ago

Somewhere off the edge of the map... 'ere there be monsters

"Or should it be consensual non-consent?

I don’t know. Tonight’s the first time I’ve heard of it!"

Oh, I'm confused then as you said you knew what it meant. But yes, it stands for Consensual Non-Consent. Emphasis on the first word: consensual.

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By *erces LetiferMan
over a year ago

Somewhere off the edge of the map... 'ere there be monsters

"Consent non consent

That's bad if it means that shouldn't let people on here like that"

Well I guess I should be thankful that sites like this aren't at the whim of such morality and decency police, eh?

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By *oudLoutishLoverWoman
over a year ago

Colchester

"Or should it be consensual non-consent?

I don’t know. Tonight’s the first time I’ve heard of it!

Oh, I'm confused then as you said you knew what it meant. But yes, it stands for Consensual Non-Consent. Emphasis on the first word: consensual."

I did know, after Googling it. I wasn’t born with the knowledge but acquired it, like most people do, I imagine.

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By *erces LetiferMan
over a year ago

Somewhere off the edge of the map... 'ere there be monsters

"I did know, after Googling it. I wasn’t born with the knowledge but acquired it, like most people do, I imagine."

We all start out ignorant. Every day's a school day, etc.

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By *oudLoutishLoverWoman
over a year ago

Colchester

"I did know, after Googling it. I wasn’t born with the knowledge but acquired it, like most people do, I imagine.

We all start out ignorant. Every day's a school day, etc.

Ah...“Where ignorance is bliss, 'tis folly to be wise!”

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By *erces LetiferMan
over a year ago

Somewhere off the edge of the map... 'ere there be monsters

"Ah...“Where ignorance is bliss, 'tis folly to be wise!”"

Indeed. But also; the more I learn, the less I know.

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By *oudLoutishLoverWoman
over a year ago

Colchester

"Ah...“Where ignorance is bliss, 'tis folly to be wise!”

Indeed. But also; the more I learn, the less I know."

Haha! The more of Fab I learn, the less I want to!

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By *erces LetiferMan
over a year ago

Somewhere off the edge of the map... 'ere there be monsters

"Haha! The more of Fab I learn, the less I want to!"

Yes, be careful when venturing into deeper waters... better turn back before it's too late!

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By *oudLoutishLoverWoman
over a year ago

Colchester

"Haha! The more of Fab I learn, the less I want to!

Yes, be careful when venturing into deeper waters... better turn back before it's too late!

As an adventurous Domme for many years, I’ve done my share of deep sea diving. It taught me a lot about the male psyche. I find that I prefer paddling in the shallows, these days.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

She paddles in her pink canoe. ^

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By *erces LetiferMan
over a year ago

Somewhere off the edge of the map... 'ere there be monsters

"As an adventurous Domme for many years, I’ve done my share of deep sea diving. It taught me a lot about the male psyche. I find that I prefer paddling in the shallows, these days."

Oh snap. Seems I'm the one who should swim away! I tend to find nothing is static, or permenant. We're malleable, and ever-changing / evolving. Well, at least most of us, to an extent.

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By *arry001Man
over a year ago

Oldbury

I want to be pegged by a lady

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By *atandjayCouple
over a year ago

Brighton

Gangbang with a group of bisexual men

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yes, which is why I asked! Your fetish seems to be a lack of consent, in one way or another. Either someone too young to give consent, and someone pretending that they do not consent.

Not here to kink-shame.

Fantasy is heavily laced with taboo, for most people. Dark place, the mind..."

Cnc is all about consent, it’s the most important part, and it absolutely is about trust, communication and safe words. I would also add, being with someone who knows you extremely well, and can read your reactions/body language.

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By *xtrafun4youMan
over a year ago

Dunstable

Meeting a couple and having dvp her on home reverse cowgirl and both filling her pussy.

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By *stbury DavenportMan
over a year ago

Nottingham

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By *stbury DavenportMan
over a year ago

Nottingham

I came here to say something else, but I have to weigh in on the CNC thing.

In the kink context, it means "consensual non-consent". Repeat: CONSENSUAL non-consent. Big, massive, overwhelming emphasis on the "consensual" part.

Now that I think about it, this actually does tie into what I was originally going to post in this thread. One persistent fantasy I have involves arriving at a club only to discover that it is in fact an ambush. It is packed solely with women, and I am forced (oh noes!) to have sex with every last one of them. Most or all of them are strangers. Most or all of them despise me, and aren't afraid to let me know it as they mercilessly use my body to get off.

In reality, such an experience would be terrible and traumatising, and potentially have life-long implications.

The fantasy version in my head? That would be *awesome*. I'd want to do it again the very next weekend.

CNC play is just making the awesome fantasy version of these things happen in a safe and CONSENSUAL manner.

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By *etcplCouple
over a year ago

Gapping Fanny

"So....Ddlg and CNC?

Sounds like you’re not too keen on consent, my friend, if these are your fantasies?

Do... do you know what CNC stands for??

Yes, which is why I asked! Your fetish seems to be a lack of consent, in one way or another. Either someone too young to give consent, and someone pretending that they do not consent.

Not here to kink-shame. "

Umm no...

DDLG does not always equate to age regression, and even if it does it never removes the ability to consent.Its a caregiver relationship.

This is taken from a little website and gives an idea of what makes up those dynamics:

Caring

Compassion

Understanding

Gentleness

Kindness

Tenderness

Affectionate

Self-sacrificing

The drive to guide, nurture, and protect.

Happiness from cherishing their partner's uniqueness and childish personality.

The ultimate desire to "take care of" their partner.

As someone who has a DDLG relationship with one kf our play partners, the notion that she is unable to consent is ludicrous.

I also don’t believe reading up about CNC really gives you an understanding of what it is about. Communication, negotiation and consent being the cornerstones of any BDSM dynamic, speaking with people about what CNC means to them is a far better way to gain that understanding.

And as for not letting people like us on this site.... yes because we act to thirsty and needy all the fucking time, white knighting in the hope of getting a sniff of a woman’s loins...

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By *dam_TinaCouple
over a year ago

Hampshire

I did know, after Googling it. I wasn’t born with the knowledge but acquired it, like most people do, I imagine."

You're my new favourite writer

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By *roticusCouple
over a year ago

Porthmadog

I thought I'd wade in on the CNC (Consent/Non consent) side of things. It's a tendentious area, but if it can't be discussed here it's difficult to see where else. This is a serious posting inviting discussion; please, moderators, delete if we cross any lines.

In addition to swinging, my partner Lucy and I have a Dom/sub relationship. Part of it is that she gives her consent upfront, and as her dom I look after her, cherish her, make sure that what we do builds our relationship.

Some time ago she had an encounter with another very dom guy. As I watched, ready to protect, the meeting rapidly went from touching and feeling to extremely forceful oral sex. I was sort of hovering and watching Lucy to make sure she was OK with it, which somewhat to my surprise she did seem to be. We have a codeword and also a "tap" code for her to signal if too much. I was waiting for it, even worrying if she'd forgotten how to, but the eye contact was fine.

Lucy squirts when she is sexually aroused, and much to my surprise she squirted a couple of times when she was on her back on the bed and the guy was lying on top deep in her throat. Towards the end, she orgasmed with a single touch on her clitoris. After, she had several powerful orgasms during our reclaim sex.

Now the thing is this; chatting afterwards she found the experience intensely erotic. For Lucy it was the APPARENT non consent of it that turned her on. Note, apparent. At any point, she could actually have said no, used our code word or tapped it out on my hand but she didn't. I'd argue that this sort of CNC is perfectly valid and was in this case an erotic and rewarding experience for Lucy, and for us as a couple. My only reservation, I guess a serious one, is that one has to know one's partner well enough to make sure it isn't some sort of well-hidden self abuse. In Lucy's case I have no reason to think so, it's just sexplay and acting out a fantasy.

In the current era it's contentious to even hint at any non concensual activity, but we'd make it clear that absolutely everything we do is consensual, and sensual. Part of the reason for this post is that neither of us completely understand the sexual dynamics involved in this encounter! We'd be very interested to hear thoughts from others on this.

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By *oudLoutishLoverWoman
over a year ago

Colchester

"As an adventurous Domme for many years, I’ve done my share of deep sea diving. It taught me a lot about the male psyche. I find that I prefer paddling in the shallows, these days.

Oh snap. Seems I'm the one who should swim away! I tend to find nothing is static, or permenant. We're malleable, and ever-changing / evolving. Well, at least most of us, to an extent."

If you see the constant dopamine chase of trying more and more extreme forms of sex as 'evolving', maybe.

I once thought that way. But you’re young. You do you.

Enjoy those fantasies, but not too much, eh?

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By *erces LetiferMan
over a year ago

Somewhere off the edge of the map... 'ere there be monsters

"If you see the constant dopamine chase of trying more and more extreme forms of sex as 'evolving', maybe.

I once thought that way. But you’re young. You do you.

Enjoy those fantasies, but not too much, eh?"

That’s not what I was saying at all, but yes, you’ve raised another valid point. Any journey into these things require caution and consideration.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

To be working on a couples house and being seduced by the wife,husband comes home and catching us in bed and joining in

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What's your naughtiest fantasy "

It’s too naughty to say in here ...

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By *elpful and caringMan
over a year ago

Scarborough

Being tied up by my mother in law.

I have always had a thing for older women.

Yes I appreciate at my age I should know better!

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