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By *irtydevil666 OP   Man
over a year ago

bristol

A broken Heart....can it really ever be fixed......

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Time.

It heals and the scar will fade x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Superglue? Duct tape?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Al Green has been asking the very same question since 1972

I wonder if anyone ever got back to him?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Time.

It heals and the scar will fade x"

and distraction, grieve for a little while then fill your time with things you enjoy - if you dwell and keep poking the wound it never gets a chance to heal

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By *gent CoulsonMan
over a year ago

Secret hideaway in the pennines

It takes time, but you have to let go of the past, forget the bad, remember the good. It is hard, but you will get there

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By *alandNitaCouple
over a year ago

Scunthorpe


"A broken Heart....can it really ever be fixed......"

Being in love with someone else does the job, but it can take some time to find the right person.

Cal

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By *eoeclipseWoman
over a year ago

glasgow


"A broken Heart....can it really ever be fixed......"

if you truly have a broken heart it literally kills you, therefore this is more likely a hurt that time will heal.

some people are only in our lives short term, others for longer, we often don't get to decide which.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A broken Heart....can it really ever be fixed......

Being in love with someone else does the job, but it can take some time to find the right person.

Cal"

oh as someone who takes far too long to get over people its highly likely i am doing it wrong, but i think you have to heal before you find someone else or you are setting yourself or them up for the next broken heart

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By *uenevereWoman
over a year ago

Scunthorpe


"A broken Heart....can it really ever be fixed......"

Yes, but it takes time and in my case, finding someone who I love more than I ever thought possible.

The break up with my ex-husband was incredibly emotionally painful on many levels and I was broken for a ling time. Keeping busy helped me... many many people had no idea.

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By *uenevereWoman
over a year ago

Scunthorpe


"A broken Heart....can it really ever be fixed......

Being in love with someone else does the job, but it can take some time to find the right person.

Cal

oh as someone who takes far too long to get over people its highly likely i am doing it wrong, but i think you have to heal before you find someone else or you are setting yourself or them up for the next broken heart "

Fortunately, this is not a danger for Cal. We are even more in love now than when we married iver 15 years ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A broken Heart....can it really ever be fixed......

Being in love with someone else does the job, but it can take some time to find the right person.

Cal

oh as someone who takes far too long to get over people its highly likely i am doing it wrong, but i think you have to heal before you find someone else or you are setting yourself or them up for the next broken heart

Fortunately, this is not a danger for Cal. We are even more in love now than when we married iver 15 years ago "

lucky ducks

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

King's Crustacean

Each heart differs.

It's a concept I don't believe in.

Emotional pain is felt granted .... and each character will handle things differently.

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By *rFeelsGoodMan
over a year ago

Swansea

Remember that every day you get is a blessing and that's double when someone chooses to spend it with you.

Nobody is guaranteed love or friendship. Sometimes we walk the same path for a time. Appreciate that nothing lasts forever.

You will be OK again.x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Time.

It heals and the scar will fade x"

Fades, but never completely goes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Al Green has been asking the very same question since 1972

I wonder if anyone ever got back to him? "

I was just about to say something similar.

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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago

East London

Someone comes along and kisses it better.

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By *lice MaliceWoman
over a year ago

The Facility

If you can let go of the person who has broken your heart and move on with your life, then yes. It just takes a little bit of time and distraction.

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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago

East London

People can live with the hurt from losing a partner, or pet.

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

Time and working on loving yourself. Heartbreak hurts but even if you're hung up on how perfect you perceive them to be (they're not) you deserve to be with someone who loves you and wants you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Never. Still feels exactly the same as the first day a couple of years ago. Every fucking day the same.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Honestly I don't think a broken heart can always be fixed but I do think time and patience can help in a way. I guess it depends on what broke your heart?

I think about some things happening to me and I don't think anything could ever mend my heart if any of those scenarios I sometimes think about ever happened.

Sending you healing vibes OP.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Time.. But definitely new distractions - hobbies, people.. Putting away the memories... Letting go of the past and being kind to yourself

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over a year ago

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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago

South

Play a lot of sad songs, cry a lot, drink some cheap wine, cry some more.

Then say enough is enough.

Pick yourself up, dust yourself down, take care of your emotional health and look after you.

Get plenty of sleep, plenty of fresh air. Have adventures.

Eventually you think of them less.

Eventually you think of them and it doesn’t hurt.

Eventually you’ll think of them and smile and move on with your day.

It all takes time.

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