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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

They are ex's for a reason obviously, but why do they have to be bitter for years on end?, take pot shots at you when they can or just be utterly nasty at every opportunity?

Bearing a grudge against you for what seems like an eternity.

And why is it when you move on they bloody hate it? Even when they don't want you back etc they still can't stand it.

And what is it with the 'I don't like hearing or knowing about you being with someone else.' what is that about??? That one bugs the hell out of the me. I genuinely would like any ex to be happy and well and not be miserable. Why doesn't it work both ways?

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

Some people can't move on or let go of bitterness and resentment. It's very sad because they blight their life.

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By *hantasmagoriaWoman
over a year ago

Newport

I'm friends with a lot of my exs, only 1 who I can't stand, he was violent, told me I'd neverfind anyonelike him! My response was that's the whole point!!!

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By *gent CoulsonMan
over a year ago

Secret hideaway in the pennines

That sadly is the way of life, some people are never want to see their ex happy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I find it tends to be the person who got the elbow that carries on like that. There seems to be a sense of being wronged making it harder for them to move on. Or even see things as they really are/were.

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I tend to cut all ties with mine and move on to a new chapter... I just find it easier, but wish them all well +hope they find happiness

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By *affron40Woman
over a year ago

manchester

All my ex’s are lovely barring just one.

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Bedford


"All my ex’s are lovely barring just one. "

I wonder who that could be?

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By *affron40Woman
over a year ago

manchester


"All my ex’s are lovely barring just one.

I wonder who that could be? "

Jesus.. forgot about that nut. Make that 2

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Bedford

Im not bitter towards any if my ex's - even the one that stole from my family and cheated on me.

It's her loss.

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Bedford


"All my ex’s are lovely barring just one.

I wonder who that could be?

Jesus.. forgot about that nut. Make that 2 "

Sorry, my bad. Xx

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By *alandNitaCouple
over a year ago

Scunthorpe

Heartbreak is one of the hardest pains and often when love breaks down, hate is the only emotion that can fill the void.

Cal

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Im not bitter towards any if my ex's - even the one that stole from my family and cheated on me.

It's her loss. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Heartbreak is one of the hardest pains and often when love breaks down, hate is the only emotion that can fill the void.

Cal"

This

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm still fucking an ex lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I saw my ex today. It was very amicable. We even hugged.

It doesn't always have to end with recriminations.

I have about 4 exes on my Facebook too, ok a lot are from high school or college but I try to stay friendly even when we break up. We shared years together and we must have had a lot in common.

Unless there's a horrible reason for things ending, in which case I wouldn't want to stay friends.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I get on with mine.

No reason not too, just didn't work out for whatever reason but time together was good for me

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