FabSwingers.com forum: What’s your comfort go to?

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

What do you do when you need soothing?

Is it food, drink (alcoholic or non alcoholic)

Chocolate, a book, something you watch or listen to?

Snuggling with a person or a pet, or a floofy blanket?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Chocolate

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ice cream or chocolate xx

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By *an_LexaCouple
over a year ago

Sunderland

Alone time at the beach

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By *heVonMatterhornsCouple
over a year ago

Lincoln

Sleep usually. Just do a hard reset on the day

LvM

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A hot water bottle and a weighted blanket.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Chocolate followed by more chocolate,topped with chocolate.

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By *annaBeStrongMan
over a year ago

wokingham

I either get lost in cooking or hit the gym.

It’s really hard to be stressed out when your just beasting yourself at the gym

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By *orthern StarsCouple
over a year ago

Durham

Chocolate, and that is my biggest downfall. If I'm stressed, upset, worried, tired or just fed up I will reach for the chocolate. I also rear chocolate when I'm happy too. I just love chocolate but it doesn't like my waist line.

Mrs

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

I don't really have one to be honest - if something is niggling me I usually just work it through in my head or if really needed find someone I know I can talk to and work it through with them, including getting any required head wobbles along the way.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

All the above !

Food, usually breakfast cereals which take me back to childhood.

Lots of old favourite music and films with good memories attached.Films probably something funny, music probably something melancholy.

And for comforting bodily contact in lockdown it's my beautiful dog.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My drawing pad and pencils, fluffy blanket, tea and biscuits

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By *ellhungvweMan
over a year ago

Cheltenham

Walking and a cuppa. Heaven!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Talking about it and airing the problem,

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am an emotional eater, so if I need soothing I would want chocolate.

I also need cuddles and to be held tightly... I recently had a shock whilst out on a early morning run and was almost knocked over by a minibus. I continued the run as I was injury free and miles from home but as soon as I got home I went straight to my boyfriend and collapsed into him crying.

Her x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

when he isn't here to play with my hair and calm me down, i have a little fluffy octopus teddy called Olive that I'll snuggle.

but sometimes it doesn't work.. no amount of teddies or good music or funny tiktoks or rewatching greys anatomy for the zillionth time.. and i end up self destructing.. and ill be fragile and needy for days until i snap out of it and mania hits again.

it's a balancing act that i don't manage well.

be kind to yourself beautiful.

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By *hubaysiWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

Music is the answer.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What do you do when you need soothing?

Is it food, drink (alcoholic or non alcoholic)

Chocolate, a book, something you watch or listen to?

Snuggling with a person or a pet, or a floofy blanket? "

Anxiety pain or need I head to my wife’s breasts and snuggle in between then until calm.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Alcohol a nice cold pint of cider

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By *ack again. Again.Man
over a year ago

Tonbridge

Headphones. Music or a podcast. And a room to myself...

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By *ocksareoffMan
over a year ago

Out n About

If it's indoors then a quiet room with music with either a cup of coffee or alcohol. Or if outdoors anywhere out in the sticks will suffice

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By *ancer36Woman
over a year ago

Stirling

Soul music and a bubble bath x

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By *layfullsamMan
over a year ago

Solihull

Looking at boobies on fab

My records and a good dance

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I watch a favourite Disney/ barbie movie with my weighted blanket, surrounded by teddies and snuggling with my cat. Usually with a hot chocolate.

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By *he Mac LassWoman
over a year ago

Hefty Hideaway

A hot bath complete with bath bomb, podcast or book and a brew.

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By *rder66Man
over a year ago

Tatooine

Give my daughter a cuddle.

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By *affron40Woman
over a year ago

manchester

A book, my dogs and ice cream. Bliss

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By *eyond PurityCouple
over a year ago

Lincolnshire

If we are together then C’s head on my chest always comforts us both...it’s our default setting.

I’d say chocolate for C when I’m not around and a walk in the mountains for me to clear my mind always works...

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

Reading. Baking then eating whatever deliciousness I've cooked. I'm trying to stop the latter so now I have a hair brush from my partner and watch something daft as he does it. That really helps soothe me.

Sometimes I go for a jog - getting sweaty and being in the headspace where I don't focus on "stuff" helps a lot; my mind clears and for once I'm not thinking about everything.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Some great answers

I suppose it depends what the situation is, I sometimes go for the chocolate, or a cup of tea, I’m currently watching Outlander

Snuggling is a great soother too

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By *riar BelisseWoman
over a year ago

On Holibobs

"What do you do when you need soothing?

Is it food, drink (alcoholic or non alcoholic)

Chocolate, a book, something you watch or listen to?

Snuggling with a person or a pet, or a floofy blanket? "

At home is my old dogs blanket and a cup of tea

Outdoors is the beach walking barefoot on the water line

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends how tired I am...a bath and a glass of wine is great when I'm tired, but if I'm just emotionally fragile then going for a walk somewhere pretty is a good healer for me. That and seeing my friends.

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By *emorefridaCouple
over a year ago

La la land

Depends on what it is if I need to be alone, out up on the hills by myself.

Sometimes is sex and a cwtch after it.

Food although I turn to it, is more a stress thing and I don't get long term comfort from it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Some great answers

I suppose it depends what the situation is, I sometimes go for the chocolate, or a cup of tea, I’m currently watching Outlander

Snuggling is a great soother too

I literally buy a pack of choc digestives, make a cuppa and devour the whole packet

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By *oxyVikingCouple
over a year ago

East Anglia

If I’m stressed or worked up about something I tend to go for run with music pumping. Or music in general tends to take my mind off it, the louder the better

A glass of wine(or 2) is my other comfort if I’m stressed/anxious(which I know it’s bad as it can sometimes make it worse) Freya

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Meditation or music. Both work equally as well x

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By *gent CoulsonMan
over a year ago

Secret hideaway in the pennines

Chocolate is my go to

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Reading a book, while eating chocolate, while snuggling with my pets.

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By *eyond PurityCouple
over a year ago

Lincolnshire

Sunshine, K's chest, chocolate, a hot bath and sleep all work for me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Tea, biscuits, music x

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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago

South Wales

A familiar feel good film

Hot chocolate with squirty cream up to the ceiling and marshmallow sprinkles.

Blanket

Dog/kid cuddles

Sad song playlist so I can cry if I need to.

A walk or sit in the garden for a bit listening to the birds tweeting with a cup of tea.

Hot bubble bath.

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By *irtydevil666Man
over a year ago

bristol

Music......

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By *ola cubesMan
over a year ago

coatbridge

Fresh fruits also weirdly melons my hangover cure

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By *oxyvixen99Woman
over a year ago

Newtownabbey

Hot bath then into bed, lights off, white noise machine playing rain sounds and lavender oil atomiser on

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By *eavertrackerMan
over a year ago

Bridgwater

Take time out and watch the film "before we go", anyone else seen it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I go for a bag of tayto cheese and onion a plain bar of Dairy Milk chocolate with a pot of tea.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Fresh air and a mountain

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Take time out and watch the film "before we go", anyone else seen it"

No, maybe I’ll give it a watch

. Will it make me cry?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My garage gym

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Chocolate & a cuddle with the pup

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Cuddles with Mr J and our pooch.

Oh and a glass of wine or gin

Her x

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By *tephTV67TV/TS
over a year ago

Cheshire

A walk will always help me resolve something in my head or with another person. Being inside with all of its distractions can’t help me focus on whatever it is bothering me.

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By *razzyhorseMan
over a year ago

cambridge

A good book, some good music and a good single malt.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I go for a run.

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By *etcplCouple
over a year ago

Gapping Fanny

Music

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By *oudLoutishLoverWoman
over a year ago

Colchester

Hot chicken wings, cake, wine, nicotine.

If only going for a run did the trick, for me!

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By *issmorganWoman
over a year ago

Calderdale innit

A hot bubble bath,

My cat, snuggles

A good book and a nice scented candle.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My dogs, a long walk - with or without the dogs. Music, snuggles, humour.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Long hot bath accompanied by an appropriate playlist and my great sounding Bluetooth speaker.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I reach for a cigarette (or even better a joint!!

) and then munch on whatever chocolate I can find around the house

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By *viatrixWoman
over a year ago

Redhill

Lately it’s exercise!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It’s always been exercising and music for me from being a teenager..

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By *iamondCougarWoman
over a year ago

Norfuck! / Lincolnshire

To my bed with a warmed wheatie bag

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"A hot water bottle and a weighted blanket. "

Same

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By *lueeyedblonde78Woman
over a year ago

Huddersfield

Chocolate, gin, a good cuddle and snuggle or sometimes only a run will do as that stops me thinking and I concentrate on my running instead

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By *aughty_Smooth_OperatorMan
over a year ago

Birmingham

Watch some porn have a wank then fall asleep

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