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By *0hn boi OP   Man
over a year ago

market drayton

What's everyone's thoughts of straight guys wanting to dabble?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What's everyone's thoughts of straight guys wanting to dabble? "

Everyone should follow their hearts.

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By *0hn boi OP   Man
over a year ago

market drayton


"What's everyone's thoughts of straight guys wanting to dabble?

Everyone should follow their hearts."

I agree but I think there is a lot of stigma around it and now a days that's just not right.

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By *arakiss12TV/TS
over a year ago

Bedford

Don't, I wouldn't want to corrupt a straight guy.

That's why don't encourage straight guys.

The way I see it there are alot more females better than me so the guy should be spending his time with them rather than waste his time on me.

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek

My thoughts?

Well, I would be asking you why you want to 'dabble" and base my response on that.

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By *0hn boi OP   Man
over a year ago

market drayton


"My thoughts?

Well, I would be asking you why you want to 'dabble" and base my response on that."

I mean why not I do find some of them very attractive.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Here we go again.

If you are attracted to someone, so be it.

If you are attracted to a fetishised generic category, so be it, but be prepared that some in that category might still wish to be seen as an individual.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m thinking you like feminine attractive people but you like the thought of whats between the legs! You need to go for it and try it! I agree about the stigma and can guarantee there are loads of guys secretly fantasising about the same thing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Here we go again.

If you are attracted to someone, so be it.

If you are attracted to a fetishised generic category, so be it, but be prepared that some in that category might still wish to be seen as an individual."

Agreed. We all are attracted to different looks, shapes etc! Everybody is individual and shouldn’t be categorised or put into a group (them!)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you find someone attractive, then why the question? I don't like olives. I didn't base that on looks alone. Sure the olive isn't that attractive a foodstuff to me but I figured 'what the heck, I'll give it a go'. I knew the second I tried it that it wasn't for me. No need for a second go. I had an ex that loved olives after trying them a few times....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Great message! They reckon you have to try Olives quite a few times before you like! But I’ve never fantasised about an Olive and can’t stand them! Now an attractive feminine person - yes please! If it does it for you fuck anybody else but easier said than done

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!


"What's everyone's thoughts of straight guys wanting to dabble?

Everyone should follow their hearts.

I agree but I think there is a lot of stigma around it and now a days that's just not right. "

They just need to wash properly beforehand.

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By *hrista BellendWoman
over a year ago

surrounded by twinkly lights

Its perfectly natural to explore sexually, finding out what arouses you, its when people cannot get stigma out of their heads that problems arise and people get used and become dirty little secrets.

I wish it were the norm for all to be confident in our sexual preferences, but we have a long way to go In regards to acceptance. We sadly see kink shaming in here and we are supposed to be open minded regarding pleasure sources...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We're all only here once and only for a limited time. Don't waste that time with "what if..." because you'll only find that you've run out of time.

If something interests you pursue it, if you find you don't like it then move on and try something else.

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By *annaBeStrongMan
over a year ago

wokingham

It can’t be gay to put a wig on a man and pretend it’s a woman

How would that be gay if your pretending it’s a woman

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Let people be.

How can they express themselves if someone is labelling them or pointing a finger.

Bugger all to do with anyone else what you get up to.

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By *renzMan
over a year ago

Between Chichester and Havant

Each to their own. Certainly room for everyone on fab, but I would suggest you are bi curious rather than straight.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Here we go again.

If you are attracted to someone, so be it.

If you are attracted to a fetishised generic category, so be it, but be prepared that some in that category might still wish to be seen as an individual."

Literally this comes back twice a week, EXHAUSTING LOL

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It can’t be gay to put a wig on a man and pretend it’s a woman

How would that be gay if your pretending it’s a woman "

The community is wide and it differs, but trans women don’t pretend to be women... they just are

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What's everyone's thoughts of straight guys wanting to dabble? "

Not our concern what others do or want to do.We are here for our fun,not to judge others on theirs.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Also OP, bear in mind that TV and TS are very different concepts in many cases

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By *tephTV67TV/TS
over a year ago

Cheshire

Check out the thousand of other threads on TVs and Straight guys. They generally start the same an innocent question then proceed to the labelling issues and eventually the differences between TV and TS.

Enjoy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What's everyone's thoughts of straight guys wanting to dabble?

Everyone should follow their hearts."

Guys though are following their desire to cum in an orifice ... any orifice.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Can someone explain the differences between TS and TV? Genuine question, always confused what they mean

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh I do love a touchy subject.

But here is the million dollar question are you attracted to a tv/ts appearance or appendage. Some tv/ts on this site are absolutely beautiful have great bodies and can look very sexy even the idea of maybe being played with. (Played with the key words there)

I find intriguing however I don't want nothing to do with a cock especially as some are bigger than mine lol. But thats because I do relate as a straight man. Still nothing wrong with seeing beauty if it's there so be seen.

Ok thats my rambling over probs made no sense to anyone lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Can someone explain the differences between TS and TV? Genuine question, always confused what they mean "
TS IS A transsexual a man or woman that identifies as the opposite sex and can offen be in the process of changing sex.

A transvestite or tv is someone who just dresses as the opposite sex. Or thats at least how I view it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Can someone explain the differences between TS and TV? Genuine question, always confused what they mean "

Life is like a box of chocolates ....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Can someone explain the differences between TS and TV? Genuine question, always confused what they mean

Life is like a box of chocolates ...."
don't bring forest gump into this or we might fall out

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Can someone explain the differences between TS and TV? Genuine question, always confused what they mean "

TS refers to transexual. Someone who identifies as other than their birth gender. This often, but not always leads to medical intervention, such as hormone therapy or surgery.

Tv refers to transvestite. Someone who dresses in the clothes of the opposite gender. This can be for a number of reasons from fetishistic to relaxation or escape from daily stresses.

This is a VERY simplistic explanation, and as with most things, there is no true black and white one answer fits all. Most of us fall somewhere on a sliding scale or spectrum.

Bear in mind that none of the above automatically indicates sexuality.

Complicated innit?

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By *adame 2SwordsWoman
over a year ago

Victoria, London

Well I wouldn't be meeting you, so have fun with the TV/TSs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You never know until you try xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The scale or spectrum is usually seen as linear, how long is a length of string?

If you take the linear by its ends and join it together you get a circle. Where is the beginning and end?

Go from two dimensional and the circle becomes a globe or ball, its round, three dimensional.

Expand you horizon and mind, go four dimensional and you can go through as well as round.

Gender and sexuality are not fixed, can change and interact.

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

People should pursue what's of interest, to learn about their tastes and to satisfy themselves, without the undue influences of others, who have no right to police your mind and tastes. Old mindsets that want to limit others' choices and freedoms, are a lingering persistent menace to people gaining liberty.

You define your own tastes and also have the ability to dictate your own freedom. You should try things that are only understood by doing, rather than thinking about them.

It's better to choose someone because of their unique qualities, rather than subjecting them as a Guinea pig just for your exploitation in an experiment. Your partners will be satisfied when you focus on them and their needs, rather than a tick box exercise, of course. Everybody is a unique person, with their own dreams, interests and needs. When we honour that for another, we are more likely to have this returned for ourselves too.

Keep your standards high and don't drop to those of others. Don't join that rat race.

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By *exyangietgirlTV/TS
over a year ago

edinburgh

Nice guys - whatever label they have - are welcome to dabble with me. XX

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By *ablo minibar123Woman
over a year ago

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"It can’t be gay to put a wig on a man and pretend it’s a woman

How would that be gay if your pretending it’s a woman "

No matter how hard I pretended a steak was a carrot it would still be a steak and I wouldn't be a vegetarian

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By * Sophie xTV/TS
over a year ago

Derby


"It can’t be gay to put a wig on a man and pretend it’s a woman

How would that be gay if your pretending it’s a woman

No matter how hard I pretended a steak was a carrot it would still be a steak and I wouldn't be a vegetarian"

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By *aulaxd2020TV/TS
over a year ago

dudley

Opening message I get is “im straight but blah blah blah” my reply is why are you messaging a bloke that’s wearing a dress then?

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