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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Fuck off and take your question with you!

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By *rumpyMcFuckNuggetMan
over a year ago

Den of Iniquity

Ok .

I was only gonna say FAF

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

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So many grumpy people in need of a shag.

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By *heVonMatterhornsCouple
over a year ago

Lincoln

Sooo... is that a no?

LvM

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

But how was I allowed to know if I can ask you a question... Without asking you if I can ask a question first?

Her x

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By *nliveneTV/TS
over a year ago

Selby

I'm out

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I dont get the concept of asking someone if you can ask them a question, why not just ask....?!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I dont get the concept of asking someone if you can ask them a question, why not just ask....?! "

Tell me about it, we've had it a fair few times on here!

Just ask the dam question

It's the equivalent to putting your hand up in a classroom as a kid

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Off corse I am a open book and love to chat lol

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By *lice MaliceWoman
over a year ago

The Facility

I usually reply to 'can I ask you a question?' with: You just have

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By *oncupiscence73Woman
over a year ago

South

I get a lot of them or cock photos saying ‘I know you don’t want them but had to get your attention somehow’ .. I mean .. what?

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By *otSoPoshWoman
over a year ago

In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon

Nope. Question free zone here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I dont get the concept of asking someone if you can ask them a question, why not just ask....?!

Tell me about it, we've had it a fair few times on here!

Just ask the dam question

It's the equivalent to putting your hand up in a classroom as a kid "

Only clever kids and those that need a wee do that!

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"I usually reply to 'can I ask you a question?' with: You just have "

Yup

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By *nliveneTV/TS
over a year ago

Selby


"I dont get the concept of asking someone if you can ask them a question, why not just ask....?! "

Maybe they are trying to be too polite

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By *adame BWoman
over a year ago

C'est moi Boudoir

I don't know, can you?

It puts me in teacher mode!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I dont get the concept of asking someone if you can ask them a question, why not just ask....?!

Tell me about it, we've had it a fair few times on here!

Just ask the dam question

It's the equivalent to putting your hand up in a classroom as a kid

Only clever kids and those that need a wee do that!"

Just a waste of a message personally

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By *assing Fancies xCouple
over a year ago

Sherwood Forest

How rude.... it was the bestest question in the world too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I used to answer every message, but I'm so wearied by these messages (see also How are you, What ru upto, how are you finding the site) that I just delete without opening them now.

The art of conversation is slowly dying.

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By *superfuse663Man
over a year ago

manchester

Yes but now you only have 2 questions remaining....what was that a counted as a question...yes 1 question remaining...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I usually reply to 'can I ask you a question?' with: You just have "

I love this

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It is a socially accepted way to ease into something that might be a personally awkward question, what it really is, though is manipulative. By asking a non question, the asker is being passively defensive. They are defending themselves from potentially negative reactions to the real question by posing an easy lead in, if the answer is ‘no’ they’re not the one being impolite, after all asking if you can ask has to be polite?!

By getting a ‘yes’ to this polite lead in question, you are already predisposed to positively answer the following question because you’ve have already partially agreed to it.’

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh I was gonna ask if you wanted a dick pic

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *luebell888Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish


"I dont get the concept of asking someone if you can ask them a question, why not just ask....?! "

Exactly.

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By *aver999Couple
over a year ago

East Mids

Oh ... but it was only a little one

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By *riar BelisseWoman
over a year ago

Delightful Bliss

Nope

Are you camming tomorrow night

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Nope

Are you camming tomorrow night "

Only if you’ll be doing the same

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I dont get the concept of asking someone if you can ask them a question, why not just ask....?! "

When someone writes to you and begins: I am writing to ...

Does that wind you up?

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By *riar BelisseWoman
over a year ago

Delightful Bliss


"Nope

Are you camming tomorrow night

Only if you’ll be doing the same "

I am x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I dont get the concept of asking someone if you can ask them a question, why not just ask....?!

When someone writes to you and begins: I am writing to ...

Does that wind you up?"

Ive never noticed it before but now you say it it does boil my piss a little bit....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I dont get the concept of asking someone if you can ask them a question, why not just ask....?!

When someone writes to you and begins: I am writing to ...

Does that wind you up?

Ive never noticed it before but now you say it it does boil my piss a little bit...."

Yeah, one of the first things I was taught not to say when learning how to write letters ...

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