FabSwingers.com forum: How many people on your friends list do you actually

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Talk to regularly?

Half? Quarter? None?

Do you have a cull if theres no regular contact?

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By *rumpyMcFuckNuggetMan
over a year ago

Den of Iniquity

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

All of them.

The only ones I don't speak to regularly are a couple of forum buddies.

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By *rumpyMcFuckNuggetMan
over a year ago

Den of Iniquity

Around half I'd say .

And I had a cull yesterday

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

37 including myself. Talked to only 2

#youknowwhoyouare

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By *oxy lady40Woman
over a year ago

bridgwater

Every one on my friends lists , are people I have meets so quite regular, no point accepting friends , if you not going to meet at some point

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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago

South Wales

Only a small friends list. I’ve either met them or they are regular chatters. If not regular then I delete after a month or longer of no chat.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

All. Mine is also only a small list of those I chat regularly with or those I hope to meet when we can and if the feeling is mutual

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Only 3 on there but then it's been lockdown etc I'm open to adding more friends lol x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

About 2 out 6

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By *gent CoulsonMan
over a year ago

Secret hideaway in the pennines

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Easy none as I am Billy

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By *aver999Couple
over a year ago

East Mids

1 out of 1

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By *lipy123TV/TS
over a year ago

Birmingham

About a quarter depends if you are online when i am

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

All of her.

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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT

I have 2 on my friends list

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I have 2 on my friends list "

Err who’s the other one

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By *illy_the_tvTV/TS
over a year ago

hoorn, Netherlands

None, I dont talk to anyone regularly

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

8 who I haven't spoken to in a while, but would like to stay in touch with.

3 I talk to regularly.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't have a huge amount but if there's no contact, I delete after a time.

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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT

"I have 2 on my friends list

Err who’s the other one

Nola

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By *hortarseWoman
over a year ago

Norfolk

I have a few on my friends list. Some I talk to when they are on. Then there one special one I talk to everyday. Then some I have had social with and had meets with.

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

All of them x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don’t have many. Only those I have met or talked to for a very long time.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Talk to regularly?

Half? Quarter? None?

Do you have a cull if theres no regular contact? "

I delete peeps I don’t talk to ..... but I don’t have that many friends so don’t really have an issue lol x

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By *ourNextAddictionMan
over a year ago

Somerset

I regularly clear out my friends list if I haven’t had no contact in a while or if there’s no more intention of meeting in the future.

Why keep them around? Just to view your pictures?..

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By *reatformeatWoman
over a year ago

my own bubble

All of them but I only have 6 friends , just call me Billy no mates

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By *uriousscouserWoman
over a year ago

Wirral

I've spoken to a maybe half of them in the last week. There are another few who haven't been on the site in a long time but it would make me sad to un-friend them.

Leaves me with a few people I've not spoken to in a little while, but I don't tend to clear the list down very often.

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By *urora1912Woman
over a year ago

Norfolk East anglia

I speak with a few but not many

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My list is much shorter now. Most I chat to regularly (non sex related). Some have struggled in this lockdown and I like to help where I can. So a quick chat can be what people need.

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By *renzMan
over a year ago

Between Chichester and Havant

My friends list consists of 1 and yes we have been chatting regularly.

I don't accept random friends requests and only from those I have been chatting to for a while, so quite exclusive. Normally I am the one invited rather than doing the invitation too.

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By *rivateparts!Man
over a year ago

Walking down the only road I've ever known!

It should be a 2 way street and not just 1 having to instigate a conversation all the time.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It should be a 2 way street and not just 1 having to instigate a conversation all the time."
Agree!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I speak to a couple of them every so often. I have about 15 on my friends list for accessing friends only pics.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I speak to all of them occasionally some aren’t very chatty just check on each other now and again...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

all of them.

the few that are on it, wouldn't be on it if i wasn't going to talk to them

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Ive met most on mine but it feels like the same old shite with others natteradd as friendnever speak again

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough

Probably not enough, but i don't like pester people.

But then - a good few of them never message me either.

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By *nliveneTV/TS
over a year ago

Selby

"Every one on my friends lists , are people I have meets so quite regular, no point accepting friends , if you not going to meet at some point "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Anyone that ive not spoken to for a while or doesnt even bother to say hi gets binned and sometimes blocked too depending on why we've not spoken.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am shit at keeping in touch

Even my 'proper' friends don't hear much from me

They don't need to be in conscious to have my friendship - and I would be there like a shot if they needed

Friends on here

I don't really keep Forum friends on a list

I know who I've met and who I'd like to meet

Non forum wise, there's only 3 people on there, two of which were (at one point) semi regular meets

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

All of them regularly

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By *ornucopiaMan
over a year ago

Bexley

I've never assumed it to mean 'Friends' in the conventional sense of the word.

More like a selection of contacts who are of similar ethos to yourself.

Think of it a bit like a list of nominees on an election candidate's statement.

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By *arte_Blanche_NECouple
over a year ago

Northern

"Talk to regularly?

Half? Quarter? None?

Do you have a cull if theres no regular contact? "

Most on our friend list speak with us on WhatsApp but we cull occasionally if we haven’t met and it goes stale

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By *ornucopiaMan
over a year ago

Bexley

I should have said nominators, the candidate of course being the nominee.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It’s short and I do speak to most of them.

I don’t really accept friends unless I’ve met them and we get along well.

There are only two on my friends list I haven’t met but I definitely intend too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Will chat to anyone if they are nice and send message... But friend list is very very small and they are all really nice so will chat more

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

I talk to most of them semi frequently at least - some on a daily basis, others every other week or monthly. I do tend to remove people if I don't really talk to them and my friends list is relatively small.

I do keep a couple of friends on there that haven't been online for a bit which is daft but they'll be back at some point.

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By *heVonMatterhornsCouple
over a year ago

Lincoln

Define "regularly"

I'm really awful for it, I barely chat to my non-fab friends unless we're in person or gaming together

LvM

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Define "regularly"

I'm really awful for it, I barely chat to my non-fab friends unless we're in person or gaming together

LvM"

My answer included forum communication as well.

Seen as I’ve been friends with you two together and separately and haven’t privately communicated since we last had a beer together!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've 10 friends in here only one I talk to nearly every day.the others its if and when

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By *heVonMatterhornsCouple
over a year ago

Lincoln

"Define "regularly"

I'm really awful for it, I barely chat to my non-fab friends unless we're in person or gaming together

LvM

My answer included forum communication as well.

Seen as I’ve been friends with you two together and separately and haven’t privately communicated since we last had a beer together!

Oh if we're including forums, then loads

I always worry if I'm being rude for not PM/messaging people but then I also worry I've got nothing interesting to say

And I seem to remember a few PMs between now and those beers, Sam

LvM

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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago

East London

3 out of 4. One has gone really quiet recently, and I think it's bad news.

I've had sex with one of them.

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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago

East London

2 I chat to off-site too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Define "regularly"

I'm really awful for it, I barely chat to my non-fab friends unless we're in person or gaming together

LvM

My answer included forum communication as well.

Seen as I’ve been friends with you two together and separately and haven’t privately communicated since we last had a beer together!

Oh if we're including forums, then loads

I always worry if I'm being rude for not PM/messaging people but then I also worry I've got nothing interesting to say

And I seem to remember a few PMs between now and those beers, Sam

LvM"

Those anus pictures we exchanged don’t count as conversation pal.

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By *lex46TV/TS
over a year ago

Near Wells

About 5 or 6 and they are nice people.

I have people send a friend request, I accept and then never hear from them again. I'm not sure if that's how it's meant to work?

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By *pursChick aka ShortieWoman
over a year ago

On a mooch

It’s a small group, some it’s daily others it’s a check in now and again.

Yes I cull quarterly

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast

I have the odd cull but I never have very many anyway. Until yesterday I had 12 people in my friends list but that's down to 10 now. 3 or 4 of those I haven't spoken to in months but then again they haven't been online for most of that time.

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By *lueeyedblonde78Woman
over a year ago

Huddersfield

I only have a small friends list that I quite often review and cull.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

80% i have 5 in there

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By *riar BelisseWoman
over a year ago

Bliss

90% as a couple are having a break, I am pretty ruthless and happily strip people out if the natural fade or one-sided convos happen

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By *BWandhusbandCouple
over a year ago

Midlands

We have quite a large friends list but only talk regularly to a few of them.

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

Not many and talk to a few

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