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Scariest thing you have done

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By *gent Coulson OP   Man
over a year ago

Secret hideaway in the pennines

Over the years, mainly when I was younger, I have done some scary adrenaline inducing things.

You could say I was an adrenaline junky.

Sky diving, base jumping, bungee jumps.

What is the scariest thing anyone has ever done

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By *ools and the brainCouple
over a year ago

couple, us we him her.

Having kid's!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Army zip slide

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Moving forward and trying to be a good dad after I lost my wife

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By *gent Coulson OP   Man
over a year ago

Secret hideaway in the pennines


"Moving forward and trying to be a good dad after I lost my wife"
my sympathy, been there to a degree

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By *rder66Man
over a year ago

Tatooine

It depends, scary as it truely life horrifying or something out of your comfert Zone.

Out of my comfert zone, too many to mention and loved all of it.

Horrifying,only my close friends know this.

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By *reat me rightWoman
over a year ago

Rotherham


"Having kid's!"

This - always this!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Army zip slide "

I 2nd that

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By *aomilatteCouple
over a year ago

Midlands

Going on the Tower of Power at Siam Park in Tenerife

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By *gent Coulson OP   Man
over a year ago

Secret hideaway in the pennines


"Army zip slide

I 2nd that"
must add that one to my to do list

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Supporting my sister in law to look after my sick mum when me or brother couldn't be there due to covid flight restrictions.

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By *atietvsheffTV/TS
over a year ago

Sheffield

Bungee jump in South Africa, never again for fun, if I ever did it again it would only be for charity the cause must be so desperate, and the sponsorship so big.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Static line skydive

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By *inky_CarpenterMan
over a year ago

Portsmouth

Cant decide between being held hostage at gunpoint by African Mercenaries for two days before escaping.... Or the time I was stalked by an agressive Tiger Shark while spearfishing....

Both were shit clenchingly terrifying and Still give me the cold shivers 17 years later.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hit a car on my motorbike at 70

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
over a year ago

North West

Giving birth vaginally, knowing I already had injuries that could (and did) lead to permanent disability. Chucking myself down hills and snow etc in the wheelchair is child's play compared.

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By *incskittenWoman
over a year ago

Nottingham

I left an abusive / controlling partner .

Having to make decisions for myself and my children was something i had never been allowed to do.

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By *gent Coulson OP   Man
over a year ago

Secret hideaway in the pennines


"Static line skydive"

I did my first one of them at up near Thirsk in North yorks, was hooked

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Truthfully out of all the adrenalin packed things I've done..

The scariest thing I've done was to go through Herion addiction.....that shits rough...

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By *luebell888Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish


"Giving birth vaginally, knowing I already had injuries that could (and did) lead to permanent disability. Chucking myself down hills and snow etc in the wheelchair is child's play compared."

That must have been heartbreaking. As you said nothing could compare to those feelings.x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Truthfully out of all the adrenalin packed things I've done..

The scariest thing I've done was to go through Herion addiction.....that shits rough..."
good on you for getting though it and coming out the other side and cleaning yourself up

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By *acDreamyMan
over a year ago

Wirral

Loads of adrenaline rushes in my life but the scariest things I've done are when I have someone else's life at stake.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Loads of adrenaline rushes in my life but the scariest things I've done are when I have someone else's life at stake. "

Surgeon then?

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
over a year ago

Reading


"Having kid's!"

And it lasts a lifetime!

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By *heVonMatterhornsCouple
over a year ago

Lincoln

I moved to a different country.

K

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By *iddlesticksMan
over a year ago

My nan’s spare room.

I’ve jumped out of aeroplanes I’ve skied, abseiled, climbed all sorts of things.

The scariest thing I’ve ever done is faced up to my own failings and talked openly about feelings.

Skydiving is easy, emotional honesty is the hardest thing in the world.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I’ve jumped out of aeroplanes I’ve skied, abseiled, climbed all sorts of things.

The scariest thing I’ve ever done is faced up to my own failings and talked openly about feelings.

Skydiving is easy, emotional honesty is the hardest thing in the world. "

This ^ is hard but so freeing

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By *gent Coulson OP   Man
over a year ago

Secret hideaway in the pennines


"I’ve jumped out of aeroplanes I’ve skied, abseiled, climbed all sorts of things.

The scariest thing I’ve ever done is faced up to my own failings and talked openly about feelings.

Skydiving is easy, emotional honesty is the hardest thing in the world. "

It took me years to be able to open up about the loss of my wife and unborn child, I think that was one of the reasons I did the daft and dangerous stuff I did

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By *iddlesticksMan
over a year ago

My nan’s spare room.


"I’ve jumped out of aeroplanes I’ve skied, abseiled, climbed all sorts of things.

The scariest thing I’ve ever done is faced up to my own failings and talked openly about feelings.

Skydiving is easy, emotional honesty is the hardest thing in the world.

It took me years to be able to open up about the loss of my wife and unborn child, I think that was one of the reasons I did the daft and dangerous stuff I did"

I’m sorry that you’ve had to deal with that but it’s good to hear that you have.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Giving birth vaginally, knowing I already had injuries that could (and did) lead to permanent disability. Chucking myself down hills and snow etc in the wheelchair is child's play compared."

I hope this isn't an offensive question but do you regret having children because of it?

You don't have to answer x

I have a mate who admitted to me years ago that she regretted having her son.

She loves him but if she had known how difficult it would be then she wouldn't have done it.

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By *gent Coulson OP   Man
over a year ago

Secret hideaway in the pennines


"I’ve jumped out of aeroplanes I’ve skied, abseiled, climbed all sorts of things.

The scariest thing I’ve ever done is faced up to my own failings and talked openly about feelings.

Skydiving is easy, emotional honesty is the hardest thing in the world.

It took me years to be able to open up about the loss of my wife and unborn child, I think that was one of the reasons I did the daft and dangerous stuff I did"
thanks

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By *ty31Man
over a year ago

NW London

Was honest with my girlfriend (at the time), "yes dear your arse does look massive in that"

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By *m3232Man
over a year ago

maidenhead

Sky dive.

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By *andy 1Couple
over a year ago

northeast

telling the wife to make her self a cup of tea

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By *ancer36Woman
over a year ago

Stirling

Learning to adjust to life as a type 1 diabetic when diagnosed at the age of 27 was pretty terrifying!

X

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By * Sophie xTV/TS
over a year ago

Derby

Spent 12 years with a highly strung narcissist....everything I've done since that or before hasn't been scary at all in comparison

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Moving forward and trying to be a good dad after I lost my wife"

Awww mate didn’t know hugs to u pal

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I ran with scissors once as you can tell I like to live on the edge xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Picking up dog poo with a stick.

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By *olly_AmberTV/TS
over a year ago

Live Sussex, Work London

I’ve taken up paragliding. Scary and so fun all at once

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By *ex HolesMan
over a year ago

Up North

Shagged my ex Mrs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My first cave dive in Mexico.

That is pretty scary diving in an overhead environment where you can't surface immediately if you encounter any problems.

Also the visibility was poor at 1 point during the dive so I couldn't read any of my diving instruments. Very scary!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

CPR

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By *manaWoman
over a year ago

Basingstoke

Brain surgery was a bit scary. Much easier now

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By *ice But Very NaughtyCouple
over a year ago

Swansea

Stepping off a nice solid rock (fortunately with an absolutely solid nut in it) to climb 30 meters of open snow that had been in the sun all afternoon, and slipped under each step, before swimming through a melting cornice.

Mr

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
over a year ago

North West


"Loads of adrenaline rushes in my life but the scariest things I've done are when I have someone else's life at stake. "

What you do is super duper, C

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Take the bins out in my rollerblades when the binmen are waiting.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Having seizures. Makes me petrified if I'm on my own in public

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By *ang bang bangity bangCouple
over a year ago

Sunderland

Said Worcestershire Sauce out loud

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By *wingamajigsCouple
over a year ago

Folkestone

Confronting PTSD.

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
over a year ago

North West


"Giving birth vaginally, knowing I already had injuries that could (and did) lead to permanent disability. Chucking myself down hills and snow etc in the wheelchair is child's play compared.

I hope this isn't an offensive question but do you regret having children because of it?

You don't have to answer x

I have a mate who admitted to me years ago that she regretted having her son.

She loves him but if she had known how difficult it would be then she wouldn't have done it.

"

It's something I've wrestled with to be honest and felt very guilty about. If I'm honest, once she started needing a parent to crawl on the floor and bend to hold her hands while she learned to walk etc, yes, I did. I felt like a bystander, a spectator and a waste of space. I threw myself into my work because at work, my disability didn't matter. My colleagues just got on with things, helped if I asked for it but no-one made assumptions. Students were also wonderful.

Getting the wheelchair (2 years ago now) was the turning point. I could/can do so much more stuff. I don't need to be able to run because I can push. I can play sports with her, take her to the park etc. She's starting horse riding with me soon. Etc. I still hate not being able to sit on the floor and play "silly" games but we've adapted.

So, the answer is now no. I don't regret.

I had my son as an able bodied 16yo and if it would be typical to regret, some people might regret being a teen parent and missing out on stuff but I am SO thankful I had him and could do normal parent stuff with him. I don't care that I had to alter my uni/career plans or that I couldn't go out clubbing. I'm so thankful I had 14 able bodied years being a mum and he was and is outstanding helping me/us.

Sorry for the essay

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Driving to the hospital having been informed that my 8 yr old son had been hit by a car and it wasn't looking good. Had a happy ending though..

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By *ust RachelTV/TS
over a year ago

Horsham

Coming out of the anaesthetic feeling and finding that they had removed a testicle, then it hit me that I actually had cancer. Up till then I knew I had it, but sort of down played it a lot. That moment got through a chink in my armour.

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By *indergirlWoman
over a year ago

somewhere, someplace

Giving birth to my youngest child with no help from a midwife or paramedic,just me and my ex who was on the phone to 999 being talked through delivering her

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By *oeBeansMan
over a year ago

Derby

Stock car racing, this was before I passed my driving test too so I was bricking it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Had a child convulse whilst I was holding her and go unconscious, not breathing. Instinct took over and I brought her back

Scariest thing ever, actually made me puke once the reality of it set in. Had nightmares for a few nights after

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Iv done a bungee ball in Majorca and out there in a club dancing with a girl,a local who was trying to get into her pulled a knife out away from me but I spotted him an grapped my mate an got out of there, I was 15 at the time an yes I was in clubs an drinking I was 6ft and looked alot older then I was.

The scariest think I have done to someone else is running after a few people with a chain saw

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Plucking up the courage to end my 19 year marriage, due to the constant and wearing emotional abuse. I was so scared I couldn’t breathe.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Reported my step dad to social services.

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