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"yep , just read the profiles on here "professional couple" , surely a professional is someone who gets paid to do a job ." Strangely at least as far as payment of witnesses in British courts professionals are only doctors, dentists, veterinary surgeons, lawyers and accountants. These people can claim for employing a locum whilst appearing in court whilst other expert witnesses can't. | |||
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"yep , just read the profiles on here "professional couple" , surely a professional is someone who gets paid to do a job . Strangely at least as far as payment of witnesses in British courts professionals are only doctors, dentists, veterinary surgeons, lawyers and accountants. These people can claim for employing a locum whilst appearing in court whilst other expert witnesses can't." I thought that too but just googled the definition of professional and it is anyone who's an expert and paid for what they do apparently. | |||
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"Class divisions still exist and social inequality has been significantly increasing over the last few decades. As a nation we are letting the ruling elite slide US back to levels of inequality not seen since in the the Victorians." A slight exaggeration if you look at the facts. As for the 'ruling elite' well who votes for them to rule us? We do... | |||
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"In answer to the OP yes they do exist and probably always will unless we get overrun by the Chinese ... And I really don't have a problem with the Class structure at all. One Grandad was a Sheffield Miner, the other a GWR engine driver. Mum was a cook Dad was a clerk. I am a truck driver. So I guess I am 'Working Class'. And proud of it. I never could understand those who envy others wealth or advantages or whatever. Such is life. If you want to improve yourself you can. If you want to go to University you can. If you want to Climb Everest you can. Just work bloody hard and be the best. " Your so right in what you say xxxxx KISSES XX you xx | |||
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"OK, another question then. What is the definition of working class and middle class? " now thats a more indepth question. for me, working classes are at the coalface of industry. those that get their hands dirty. almost, i suppose, the lowest of the low in forms of emplyment dont forget, i class myself in this bracket) management are middle class, imo. | |||
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"The classes do still exsist unfortunatley, both of my natural parents are working class and for the first 11 years of my life i was brought up on a council estate and in pubs (family trade) then my parents divorced and my mum married one of the top nhs directors in the country and there followed many elegant dinner parties with some of the highest powers in the country so i was catapulted by default into "upper" class and had to adapt to that way of living. I am grateful to the way i was brought up as i am working class with proffesional qualifications, i dont agree with the class system in the slightest but from the age of 11 until i left home i met some amazing people and had some amazing experiences " 'upper class' ? I seriously doubt that. Going to a dinner party does not make you royalty | |||
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"The classes do still exsist unfortunatley, both of my natural parents are working class and for the first 11 years of my life i was brought up on a council estate and in pubs (family trade) then my parents divorced and my mum married one of the top nhs directors in the country and there followed many elegant dinner parties with some of the highest powers in the country so i was catapulted by default into "upper" class and had to adapt to that way of living. I am grateful to the way i was brought up as i am working class with proffesional qualifications, i dont agree with the class system in the slightest but from the age of 11 until i left home i met some amazing people and had some amazing experiences 'upper class' ? I seriously doubt that. Going to a dinner party does not make you royalty" i agree and what i mean by the upper class is the people who class themselves as that and people in power who percieve people like me as lowly and beneath them, people with money and power create the classes, its the way they have created it, me personally i dont see anyone as better than me or below me and your right 13 course dinners with bottles of bollinger makes no difference to me whatsoever i dont even like champagne lol | |||
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"OK, another question then. What is the definition of working class and middle class? " Working class..someone who works in a job Middle class..someone who works in the same job..but thinks they are better then working class people because of their so called 'values' therefore feel the need to put themselves on a higher platform.. BOLLOCKS!...dont get me started on this class crap..oh too late, I have! I hate, with a passion this 'middle class' bollocks.. | |||
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"The classes do still exsist unfortunatley, both of my natural parents are working class and for the first 11 years of my life i was brought up on a council estate and in pubs (family trade) then my parents divorced and my mum married one of the top nhs directors in the country and there followed many elegant dinner parties with some of the highest powers in the country so i was catapulted by default into "upper" class and had to adapt to that way of living. I am grateful to the way i was brought up as i am working class with proffesional qualifications, i dont agree with the class system in the slightest but from the age of 11 until i left home i met some amazing people and had some amazing experiences 'upper class' ? I seriously doubt that. Going to a dinner party does not make you royalty i agree and what i mean by the upper class is the people who class themselves as that and people in power who percieve people like me as lowly and beneath them, people with money and power create the classes, its the way they have created it, me personally i dont see anyone as better than me or below me and your right 13 course dinners with bottles of bollinger makes no difference to me whatsoever i dont even like champagne lol " Champagne is available to anyone with the money to buy it. Drinking it is not an indication of class. I love champagne. I'm unmistakenly working class. | |||
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"Class divisions still exist and social inequality has been significantly increasing over the last few decades. As a nation we are letting the ruling elite slide US back to levels of inequality not seen since in the the Victorians. A slight exaggeration if you look at the facts. As for the 'ruling elite' well who votes for them to rule us? We do... " We don't get a credible option to vote for anyone else when the major parties predominantly select candidates from the same backgrounds. As for inequality it depends on which statistics you use (or abuse) but the distribution of new wealth to the top 1% is approaching that seen in Victorian Britain. Other indicators of inequality are also rapidly increasing. | |||
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"Sorry to burst your bubble Ben. You are working class. You may be better off financially but you are working class. That's the problem with those who feel that because they are now earning good money , can take holidays and own homes and cars that they have somehow moved through societal strata. You are better off... you can have more material goods but essentially you were raised with a certain mindset. Try moving amongst the middle classes - see if you fit in.....that's if they let you in. " No bubble to burst. Like I said, I don't really care about class systems either way, I think they hinder once you clasify yourself. So, I dont recognise a class strata that I fall in, and am happy to be who I am and the best person I can be. In the Grayson Perry documentary, the middle classes were classified by themselves and others by what they did and what they owned. They seemed the most uncomfortable with who they were Strangely, the working class and the upper class seemed happier with who they were. | |||
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"There was a lot more involved with the "upper" class set than dinner parties, my stepfather had money was classed as "upper" class and i witnessed the differences in how they treated people which was'nt pleasant, i was expected to behave in certain ways and speak in a certain way, i was glad to leave home and escape it but like i said before i was grateful for the experience as it showed me just what type of person i did'nt want to be. " So if someone who is working class wins the lottery do they over night become upper class? | |||
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"There was a lot more involved with the "upper" class set than dinner parties, my stepfather had money was classed as "upper" class and i witnessed the differences in how they treated people which was'nt pleasant, i was expected to behave in certain ways and speak in a certain way, i was glad to leave home and escape it but like i said before i was grateful for the experience as it showed me just what type of person i did'nt want to be. So if someone who is working class wins the lottery do they over night become upper class?" Well I've got tickets on for the next five weeks ... Maybe if I hadn't gambled I could be upper lower middle class. | |||
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"There was a lot more involved with the "upper" class set than dinner parties, my stepfather had money was classed as "upper" class and i witnessed the differences in how they treated people which was'nt pleasant, i was expected to behave in certain ways and speak in a certain way, i was glad to leave home and escape it but like i said before i was grateful for the experience as it showed me just what type of person i did'nt want to be. So if someone who is working class wins the lottery do they over night become upper class?" if only it was that easy but in a lot of peoples perceptions it could be deemed so, i'm so working class and proud of it i am a regular joe bloggs and in all honesty even when living at home i didnt treat anyone any differently than i do now | |||
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"There was a lot more involved with the "upper" class set than dinner parties, my stepfather had money was classed as "upper" class and i witnessed the differences in how they treated people which was'nt pleasant, i was expected to behave in certain ways and speak in a certain way, i was glad to leave home and escape it but like i said before i was grateful for the experience as it showed me just what type of person i did'nt want to be. So if someone who is working class wins the lottery do they over night become upper class? if only it was that easy but in a lot of peoples perceptions it could be deemed so, i'm so working class and proud of it i am a regular joe bloggs and in all honesty even when living at home i didnt treat anyone any differently than i do now " If your working class your working class no matter what life style you lead. I assume you went to public school, how did you fit in there | |||
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"There was a lot more involved with the "upper" class set than dinner parties, my stepfather had money was classed as "upper" class and i witnessed the differences in how they treated people which was'nt pleasant, i was expected to behave in certain ways and speak in a certain way, i was glad to leave home and escape it but like i said before i was grateful for the experience as it showed me just what type of person i did'nt want to be. So if someone who is working class wins the lottery do they over night become upper class? if only it was that easy but in a lot of peoples perceptions it could be deemed so, i'm so working class and proud of it i am a regular joe bloggs and in all honesty even when living at home i didnt treat anyone any differently than i do now " Really ? Im surprised m'lud | |||
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"There was a lot more involved with the "upper" class set than dinner parties, my stepfather had money was classed as "upper" class and i witnessed the differences in how they treated people which was'nt pleasant, i was expected to behave in certain ways and speak in a certain way, i was glad to leave home and escape it but like i said before i was grateful for the experience as it showed me just what type of person i did'nt want to be. So if someone who is working class wins the lottery do they over night become upper class?" An intersting point with the documentary was that many of the Upper Class/aristocracy in this country were not rich. The had big homes that were cash pits and although property rich, were cash poor. So maybe money does not define class. Katie price has considerable wealth, but if she is Upper Class, I am a banana | |||
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"Income doesn't decide class.....I'm amazed that some people still believe it does." Some of the more born into it upper-class people I have met don't have a pot to piss in. | |||
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"yes it does. and im proud of being working class, as was my father, and his. wouldnt want to be anything else.. being born into privilege seems to give people a superiority complex." Same here..and its that pride thats makes us the people we are...my father and his sister had to pick up food off the floor after the market had packed away when they were kids..and Im certainly not ashamed to tell people..i taught me the value of things. I understand what you mean about 'not wanting to be anything else'...but that can sound like you have already put yourself in a box already..theres no harm in having aspirations. Also..be careful when you say privileged people look down on us..they may have done 100 years ago..but times have changed..and its easy to get a chip on your shoulder about 'the haves'...and it can make you resentful, my Dad used to say 'people ike them look down there noses at us..but in reality it was a case of this class bollocks making him feel he wasnt 'good enough'.. Not having a go at you by the way x | |||
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"It does still exist and thank god it does. While we may consider ourselves past such things, we aren't. We NEED a class system in the west to get by." Why? | |||
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"We don't get a credible option to vote for anyone else when the major parties predominantly select candidates from the same backgrounds. " A similar statement came up in another current Thread and its actually not true. Of the 23 Government front bench people 3 are definitely 'Upper Class' independantly wealthy. But the rest are from working class, migrant or at best 'Middle Class' class. And yet to hear the media political rhetoric you'd think they were all Lord Fauntleroys... OK they have all been to University but I don't see that as a negative thing at all. Just glad the lady in charge of Transport (for example) can add up better than I can ... | |||
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"yes it does. and im proud of being working class, as was my father, and his. wouldnt want to be anything else.. being born into privilege seems to give people a superiority complex. Same here..and its that pride thats makes us the people we are...my father and his sister had to pick up food off the floor after the market had packed away when they were kids..and Im certainly not ashamed to tell people..i taught me the value of things. I understand what you mean about 'not wanting to be anything else'...but that can sound like you have already put yourself in a box already..theres no harm in having aspirations. Also..be careful when you say privileged people look down on us..they may have done 100 years ago..but times have changed..and its easy to get a chip on your shoulder about 'the haves'...and it can make you resentful, my Dad used to say 'people ike them look down there noses at us..but in reality it was a case of this class bollocks making him feel he wasnt 'good enough'.. Not having a go at you by the way x" and no offence taken. me personally i always try to be the best i can be at what i choose to do, hence why i am in the top 5% of drivers at my place of work. i do not feel any less than anyone else, its more i feel others think they are better than me (i never call managers by last name, mr whatever, always first name as they arent anyone special, jsut right place, right time types, imo) my mother worked in factories all her life, and behind bars, my dad was a foundry worker, til they closed them, then went into factories. by definition, myself and my brothers are better than they were, because we all have a vocation (we are hgv drivers) and thats all you want for your kids, is to do better in life than you. many is the time i have told my dad i wouldnt do a job for £xyz, and he has said i would have loved to have earned that, thats what brings things home to me. knowing how much they struggled to bring us up with a sense of duty, a work ethic, and respect for ourselves and other people. imo middle and upper classes dont get this kind of education as they tend not to have to worry about thing s like it. if your grandfather worked hard and made a good living, your father had to work less hard to attain that standard, and vicariously you have had to work less so again. does that make sense? | |||
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"There will be a class system as long as we still have a monarchy. Only by removing that edifice of feudalism can we start to truly eradicate the class system completely. I'm also not suggesting that removal of the monarch brings about a society free of class distinctions." Forgive me but you have just argued against yourself. If you have 'Class distinctions' then by definition you have a 'Class system'. Night follows day. And what has the Monarchy got to do with it? We have a Parliamentary Democracy where the Crown is the non political Head of State and its been that way for a very long time and (IMHO) works well for us. So you remove the Monarch, and what replaces it? A Republic and an elected Presidential Head of State? The USA system and 4 yearly paralysis while billions are spent buying influence? | |||
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" If you also learned to read... " An unnecessary personal remark but hey whatever .... | |||
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"yes it does. and im proud of being working class, as was my father, and his. wouldnt want to be anything else.. being born into privilege seems to give people a superiority complex. Same here..and its that pride thats makes us the people we are...my father and his sister had to pick up food off the floor after the market had packed away when they were kids..and Im certainly not ashamed to tell people..i taught me the value of things. I understand what you mean about 'not wanting to be anything else'...but that can sound like you have already put yourself in a box already..theres no harm in having aspirations. Also..be careful when you say privileged people look down on us..they may have done 100 years ago..but times have changed..and its easy to get a chip on your shoulder about 'the haves'...and it can make you resentful, my Dad used to say 'people ike them look down there noses at us..but in reality it was a case of this class bollocks making him feel he wasnt 'good enough'.. Not having a go at you by the way x and no offence taken. me personally i always try to be the best i can be at what i choose to do, hence why i am in the top 5% of drivers at my place of work. i do not feel any less than anyone else, its more i feel others think they are better than me (i never call managers by last name, mr whatever, always first name as they arent anyone special, jsut right place, right time types, imo) my mother worked in factories all her life, and behind bars, my dad was a foundry worker, til they closed them, then went into factories. by definition, myself and my brothers are better than they were, because we all have a vocation (we are hgv drivers) and thats all you want for your kids, is to do better in life than you. many is the time i have told my dad i wouldnt do a job for £xyz, and he has said i would have loved to have earned that, thats what brings things home to me. knowing how much they struggled to bring us up with a sense of duty, a work ethic, and respect for ourselves and other people. imo middle and upper classes dont get this kind of education as they tend not to have to worry about thing s like it. if your grandfather worked hard and made a good living, your father had to work less hard to attain that standard, and vicariously you have had to work less so again. does that make sense?" Very much so... Its whats inside that counts, how you see yourself and not how you see yourself or others.. | |||
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"34% of our MPs, as of 2010, went to fee paying private schools compared to national average of 7%. 19% have backgrounds in business, 15% finance, 14% law, 10% media, 12% educators, 11% PR and marketing, 24% politics (would have thought they all had backgrounds to some extent in that), 2.5% health, 4% manual labour, 1.6% agriculture, 9% voluntary sector, 4% armed services and 7% unions. So very representative of the nation. I personally can't see that many of those who went to fee paying schools having families below upper middle class just because of the cost implication. " Maybe it is just because those that do get a better education (for whate ever reason) take more of an interest in active politics? Certainly those that did get to University will have been encouraged to challenge the status quo and learned how to debate issues. Not sure that because someone has the money to buy a private education makes them Upper Middle Class? I have friends who have paid for private education for both their sons and he runs a haulage business and would cringe at the idea he is other than working class. Maybe 'Class' measn different things to different people? | |||
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