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"I recently fell in love with the aesthetics of Japanese rope bondage(Shibari) and was wondering how many people on here like and enjoy such kink. I would love to hear some opinions. " Nope, never heard of it and would never go near that rope stuff, much more a cuff and chain man myself  | |||
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"I recently fell in love with the aesthetics of Japanese rope bondage(Shibari) and was wondering how many people on here like and enjoy such kink. I would love to hear some opinions. Nope, never heard of it and would never go near that rope stuff, much more a cuff and chain man myself "liar liar pants on fire  x | |||
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"I recently fell in love with the aesthetics of Japanese rope bondage(Shibari) and was wondering how many people on here like and enjoy such kink. I would love to hear some opinions. Nope, never heard of it and would never go near that rope stuff, much more a cuff and chain man myself "Pics don't lie...lol Shibari is so so sexy | |||
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"Love rope bondage and think shibari is stunning. Definitely towards the top of my kink list. Trying to find a teacher / mentor has been difficult, however. Even prior to covid." search for your nearest peer rope workshop you will find a friendly safe no presure group willing to help you learn at your speed | |||
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"I recently fell in love with the aesthetics of Japanese rope bondage(Shibari) and was wondering how many people on here like and enjoy such kink. I would love to hear some opinions. Nope, never heard of it and would never go near that rope stuff, much more a cuff and chain man myself
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"Love rope bondage and think shibari is stunning. Definitely towards the top of my kink list. Trying to find a teacher / mentor has been difficult, however. Even prior to covid." There are lots of peer rope events and lots of private tuition going on, there are lots of people internationally now doing virtual lessons etc PM me and I'll see if I can put you in the direction of an event to help | |||
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"I was introduced to more intricate rope work after years of saying -'it's boring' ... I was suspended by a platonic friend.. and my oh my it was funnnnn I now want to explore it more with headspace and power exchange Roll on the end of Covid!" I've heard that so much, it takes too long etc etc But how long would you give a speaking for or a flogging etc etc I'm pleased you found a more fun way to do it I'm looking forward to covid packing up its napsack and going away | |||
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"I have had a little experience a fair time ago but would love to be tied properly one day "Properly? I hope you get the chance to experience what you desire | |||
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"I recently fell in love with the aesthetics of Japanese rope bondage(Shibari) and was wondering how many people on here like and enjoy such kink. I would love to hear some opinions. Nope, never heard of it and would never go near that rope stuff, much more a cuff and chain man myself
liar liar pants on fire x"He would make for a great politician | |||
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"I recently fell in love with the aesthetics of Japanese rope bondage(Shibari) and was wondering how many people on here like and enjoy such kink. I would love to hear some opinions. Nope, never heard of it and would never go near that rope stuff, much more a cuff and chain man myself
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"I was hoping to go to the london tying workshops pre covid, hopefully they will start up again next year" Looking forward to the peer ropes getting going again, spoke to our local host and they have a road map for opening up again so thats good news | |||
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"Being tied properly by someone that knows what they're doing is a different class. Almost transcendent as the rope gradually get tighter "Nothing like helping someone float off to a relaxed place in some rope | |||
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"I like it a lot, I've done quite a bit of rope as a bottom, including a few suspensions which were fantastic. "having seen some of your ropewqork elswhere can only agree | |||
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"Would love to try it but nothing too complicated with my dodgy back these days just my hands tied would be a welcome change" Your back shouldn't stop you from enjoying being tied up! I've tied lots of people with problems and injury's hell I had back surgery tail end of 2019 and I was back rigging 2020 Never say never my friend! | |||
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"I remember seeing a tv show which featured this when I was in my early twenties. I found it very beautiful and very erotically appealing. I’ve never dabbled but it’s an extraordinary art. " Wasn't late friday or saturday night on ITV was it? | |||
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"I remember seeing a tv show which featured this when I was in my early twenties. I found it very beautiful and very erotically appealing. I’ve never dabbled but it’s an extraordinary art. Wasn't late friday or saturday night on ITV was it?" Ha ha! Yes it was on Harry Hill. It was some late night channel 4 thing and I had little awareness of bdsm at the time (and only a little experience now) but I remember it really capturing my imagination. And gave me a hard on. | |||
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"I remember seeing a tv show which featured this when I was in my early twenties. I found it very beautiful and very erotically appealing. I’ve never dabbled but it’s an extraordinary art. Wasn't late friday or saturday night on ITV was it? Ha ha! Yes it was on Harry Hill. It was some late night channel 4 thing and I had little awareness of bdsm at the time (and only a little experience now) but I remember it really capturing my imagination. And gave me a hard on. " Curious
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"Cable ties and duct tape save alot of fucking about " LOL Very true, don't you just hate it when the tape twists and gets stick to itself 
Zip ties for the win | |||
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"I remember seeing a tv show which featured this when I was in my early twenties. I found it very beautiful and very erotically appealing. I’ve never dabbled but it’s an extraordinary art. Wasn't late friday or saturday night on ITV was it? Ha ha! Yes it was on Harry Hill. It was some late night channel 4 thing and I had little awareness of bdsm at the time (and only a little experience now) but I remember it really capturing my imagination. And gave me a hard on. Curious
I remember there were a few bits and bobs floating around back then "I remember that one of the practitioners interviewed was a gay man but the models were women. In any case, I wish I’d picked up a little bit more on that as a clue to being just a touch submissive back then... There was a sense that British tv in the 90s and 2000s was beginning to explore sex in an interesting way. I found myself watching that kind of thing a lot while not really thinking it was for me. | |||
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"I remember seeing a tv show which featured this when I was in my early twenties. I found it very beautiful and very erotically appealing. I’ve never dabbled but it’s an extraordinary art. Wasn't late friday or saturday night on ITV was it? Ha ha! Yes it was on Harry Hill. It was some late night channel 4 thing and I had little awareness of bdsm at the time (and only a little experience now) but I remember it really capturing my imagination. And gave me a hard on. Curious
I remember there were a few bits and bobs floating around back then
I remember that one of the practitioners interviewed was a gay man but the models were women. In any case, I wish I’d picked up a little bit more on that as a clue to being just a touch submissive back then...
There was a sense that British tv in the 90s and 2000s was beginning to explore sex in an interesting way. I found myself watching that kind of thing a lot while not really thinking it was for me. "Yeah I got to do some rope on TV, was asked a second time but didn't get around to doing chance lost and all that
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"Cable ties and duct tape save alot of fucking about " Just make sure you have a way of getting them off in a hurry. I picked up some asps  which the police use to cut cable cuffs. I tried snips and knives, but found you may not always have room to use them safely if you are close to the skin. | |||
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"Love rope bondage and think shibari is stunning. Definitely towards the top of my kink list. Trying to find a teacher / mentor has been difficult, however. Even prior to covid." Actually not that hard, as a studio for Shibari and they are doing online stuff too | |||
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"One of my favourite things to slut out rope, if some has some coconut rope that’s always move you my list . " I hear a lot about how evil coconut rope is, I need to find some and compare it sisal. Mmmm wonders off looking for a coconut rope sample lol | |||
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"Cable ties and duct tape save alot of fucking about Just make sure you have a way of getting them off in a hurry. I picked up some asps which the police use to cut cable cuffs. I tried snips and knives, but found you may not always have room to use them safely if you are close to the skin."Do you find the lever action helps? I think I should add some to my kitbag, currently using side cutters | |||
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"Cable ties and duct tape save alot of fucking about Just make sure you have a way of getting them off in a hurry. I picked up some asps which the police use to cut cable cuffs. I tried snips and knives, but found you may not always have room to use them safely if you are close to the skin.
Do you find the lever action helps? I think I should add some to my kitbag, currently using side cutters "I find them easier to use and as the blade is protected I don’t have to worry about any slippage leading to poked skin. I have 1 set in my first aid kit, and then 1 set stashed with each pack of cable cuffs. I then have backup snips and other cutting tools. It helps save my safety shears. | |||
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"Cable ties and duct tape save alot of fucking about Just make sure you have a way of getting them off in a hurry. I picked up some asps which the police use to cut cable cuffs. I tried snips and knives, but found you may not always have room to use them safely if you are close to the skin.
Do you find the lever action helps? I think I should add some to my kitbag, currently using side cutters
I find them easier to use and as the blade is protected I don’t have to worry about any slippage leading to poked skin.
I have 1 set in my first aid kit, and then 1 set stashed with each pack of cable cuffs.
I then have backup snips and other cutting tools.
It helps save my safety shears."Good call, thats why I use the side cutters. I will seek some out as I like a new bit of kit | |||
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"One of my favourite things to slut out rope, if some has some coconut rope that’s always move you my list . I hear a lot about how evil coconut rope is, I need to find some and compare it sisal. Mmmm wonders off looking for a coconut rope sample lol" It’s very like Marmite love or hate , some riggers don’t like using as messes with their delicate hands
Yes you can leave scars if you don’t know what you are doing and it is not rated so no dangling people with it .
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"One of my favourite things to slut out rope, if some has some coconut rope that’s always move you my list . I hear a lot about how evil coconut rope is, I need to find some and compare it sisal. Mmmm wonders off looking for a coconut rope sample lol It’s very like Marmite love or hate , some riggers don’t like using as messes with their delicate hands
Yes you can leave scars if you don’t know what you are doing and it is not rated so no dangling people with it .
Well I likes my rope evil "I always found my hands to be baby soft after a good rope scene, the odd friction burn here and there are just part of the fun
Being muscle sore days after are just signs of a good rope scene
Leaving scars sounds a little hard core but hell a rope burn will do that if you're knot careful
I think I need to add some more sisal to my kit bag, used it before and loved it
Made a friend a sirik out of it, the collar was a very good reminder for her | |||
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"One of my favourite things to slut out rope, if some has some coconut rope that’s always move you my list . I hear a lot about how evil coconut rope is, I need to find some and compare it sisal. Mmmm wonders off looking for a coconut rope sample lol It’s very like Marmite love or hate , some riggers don’t like using as messes with their delicate hands
Yes you can leave scars if you don’t know what you are doing and it is not rated so no dangling people with it .
Well I likes my rope evil
I always found my hands to be baby soft after a good rope scene, the odd friction burn here and there are just part of the fun
Being muscle sore days after are just signs of a good rope scene
Leaving scars sounds a little hard core but hell a rope burn will do that if you're knot careful
I think I need to add some more sisal to my kit bag, used it before and loved it
Made a friend a sirik out of it, the collar was a very good reminder for her "You sound like my kinda rigger, swoons I have unfortunately seen 2nd/3rd degree burns from coconut rope and the added bonus with coconut rope it likes to keep giving especially when the bottom has a shower afterwards | |||
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"One of my favourite things to slut out rope, if some has some coconut rope that’s always move you my list . I hear a lot about how evil coconut rope is, I need to find some and compare it sisal. Mmmm wonders off looking for a coconut rope sample lol It’s very like Marmite love or hate , some riggers don’t like using as messes with their delicate hands
Yes you can leave scars if you don’t know what you are doing and it is not rated so no dangling people with it .
Well I likes my rope evil
I always found my hands to be baby soft after a good rope scene, the odd friction burn here and there are just part of the fun
Being muscle sore days after are just signs of a good rope scene
Leaving scars sounds a little hard core but hell a rope burn will do that if you're knot careful
I think I need to add some more sisal to my kit bag, used it before and loved it
Made a friend a sirik out of it, the collar was a very good reminder for her
You sound like my kinda rigger, swoons
I have unfortunately seen 2nd/3rd degree burns from coconut rope and the added bonus with coconut rope it likes to keep giving especially when the bottom has a shower afterwards "Kind of you to say
That sounds really nasty a little rope burn is always a hazard, but 2nd/3rd degree burns ouch
Yeah a nice warm shower is very much going to remind you of the "fun" you've had
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"One of my favourite things to slut out rope, if some has some coconut rope that’s always move you my list . I hear a lot about how evil coconut rope is, I need to find some and compare it sisal. Mmmm wonders off looking for a coconut rope sample lol It’s very like Marmite love or hate , some riggers don’t like using as messes with their delicate hands
Yes you can leave scars if you don’t know what you are doing and it is not rated so no dangling people with it .
Well I likes my rope evil
I always found my hands to be baby soft after a good rope scene, the odd friction burn here and there are just part of the fun
Being muscle sore days after are just signs of a good rope scene
Leaving scars sounds a little hard core but hell a rope burn will do that if you're knot careful
I think I need to add some more sisal to my kit bag, used it before and loved it
Made a friend a sirik out of it, the collar was a very good reminder for her
You sound like my kinda rigger, swoons
I have unfortunately seen 2nd/3rd degree burns from coconut rope and the added bonus with coconut rope it likes to keep giving especially when the bottom has a shower afterwards
Kind of you to say
That sounds really nasty a little rope burn is always a hazard, but 2nd/3rd degree burns ouch
Yeah a nice warm shower is very much going to remind you of the "fun" you've had
Search coconut rope sample and brushes up on first aid for burns "Dm directly I will give you skinny on it properly rather than derailing the thread. Or upsetting people by discussing it . | |||
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"One of my favourite things to slut out rope, if some has some coconut rope that’s always move you my list . I hear a lot about how evil coconut rope is, I need to find some and compare it sisal. Mmmm wonders off looking for a coconut rope sample lol It’s very like Marmite love or hate , some riggers don’t like using as messes with their delicate hands
Yes you can leave scars if you don’t know what you are doing and it is not rated so no dangling people with it .
Well I likes my rope evil
I always found my hands to be baby soft after a good rope scene, the odd friction burn here and there are just part of the fun
Being muscle sore days after are just signs of a good rope scene
Leaving scars sounds a little hard core but hell a rope burn will do that if you're knot careful
I think I need to add some more sisal to my kit bag, used it before and loved it
Made a friend a sirik out of it, the collar was a very good reminder for her
You sound like my kinda rigger, swoons
I have unfortunately seen 2nd/3rd degree burns from coconut rope and the added bonus with coconut rope it likes to keep giving especially when the bottom has a shower afterwards
Kind of you to say
That sounds really nasty a little rope burn is always a hazard, but 2nd/3rd degree burns ouch
Yeah a nice warm shower is very much going to remind you of the "fun" you've had
Search coconut rope sample and brushes up on first aid for burns
Dm directly I will give you skinny on it properly rather than derailing the thread. Or upsetting people by discussing it . "Message on route | |||
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"Would love to try it but nothing too complicated with my dodgy back these days just my hands tied would be a welcome change" A good experienced rigger will know how navigate round this and give you a pleasurable experience. Just be open and honest about your issues so they can give you the best possible experience. | |||
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"Love rope bondage and think shibari is stunning. Definitely towards the top of my kink list. Trying to find a teacher / mentor has been difficult, however. Even prior to covid." I’m the same would love to learn and just can’t seem to find anyone that can or will teach it | |||
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"Love rope bondage and think shibari is stunning. Definitely towards the top of my kink list. Trying to find a teacher / mentor has been difficult, however. Even prior to covid. I’m the same would love to learn and just can’t seem to find anyone that can or will teach it " There is a rope community where you are based , they lead peer based teaching although they will probably not running at present. There is online teaching from many studios if you dm directly I am happy to point you the right direction | |||
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"Love rope bondage and think shibari is stunning. Definitely towards the top of my kink list. Trying to find a teacher / mentor has been difficult, however. Even prior to covid. I’m the same would love to learn and just can’t seem to find anyone that can or will teach it There is a rope community where you are based , they lead peer based teaching although they will probably not running at present. There is online teaching from many studios if you dm directly I am happy to point you the right direction " Thank you if you could point me that would be amazing x | |||
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"Would love to try it but nothing too complicated with my dodgy back these days just my hands tied would be a welcome change A good experienced rigger will know how navigate round this and give you a pleasurable experience. Just be open and honest about your issues so they can give you the best possible experience. " Thanks | |||
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"I'm ashamed to say I'm still only competent at single and double column ties. I used to be able to do a chest tie many moons ago but haven't practiced in so long that I'll practically be a virgin again. " If your competent with a single and double limb cuff, the rope work is your oyster! A basic chest harness is just a bigger single limb cuff. Remember you can alway remove the ropes in a slow sensual manner (unless there's a problem!). So many people ignore the removing of the ropes, trying to take them off as quick as possible at the end of a scene! Don't jolt someone back to reality, let them float back there on their own and in their own time
So often with rope, being bound is only a part of it, the feel of the rope and the emotions you can generate applying and removing it are what really count | |||
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"Really nice to see a shibari conversation on fab. I am really missing rope studios during lockdown and can’t wait to get back to rigging again. It’s such a lovely versatile way to connect and play. Maybe soon...." Will be good to have some rope events going again | |||
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"Would love to try it but nothing too complicated with my dodgy back these days just my hands tied would be a welcome change A good experienced rigger will know how navigate round this and give you a pleasurable experience. Just be open and honest about your issues so they can give you the best possible experience. Thanks " Your welcome, remember some riggers will really appreciate the opportunity to work out solutions for you as it gives them an opportunity to grow as well | |||
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"Really nice to see a shibari conversation on fab. I am really missing rope studios during lockdown and can’t wait to get back to rigging again. It’s such a lovely versatile way to connect and play. Maybe soon...." Music to my little ears | |||
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"Would love to try it but nothing too complicated with my dodgy back these days just my hands tied would be a welcome change A good experienced rigger will know how navigate round this and give you a pleasurable experience. Just be open and honest about your issues so they can give you the best possible experience. Thanks Your welcome, remember some riggers will really appreciate the opportunity to work out solutions for you as it gives them an opportunity to grow as well "110% that right there  | |||
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"There are some great classes you can attend with experienced riggers. Obviously not running at the moment but hopefully soon!" Lots of stuff is running on line, but if face to face is your preferred way to learn, classes should be returning soon | |||
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"Yes yes yes. I love this. It looks wonderfully intimate but haven’t tried it yet. I’m going to attend some courses/classes to learn how to tie this way once they’re up and running again." Do there is a great studio based where you are and I do believe they are doing online stuff as well | |||
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"It looks amazing but I'm unsure what the motivation is? Is it the pleasure from being restrained and restraining? Is it a different experience from other forms of bondage? I'm just curious about others' experiences. " Whats the motivation for most things? Because you like it and want to do it. There is no one true way to do ropes, but for me the fact it can be brutal or sensual, it can be used to do as much or as little as you like, there is a connection between you and your partner unlike any other BDSM activity. Being tied, it can be the comfort akin to a weighted blanket, the flying feeling os suspension, the pain of sadistic ropes, the excitement of being restrained in positions hard to replicate with any other medium. You may find it more useful to watch some of the rope tutorials on youtube. | |||
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"It looks amazing but I'm unsure what the motivation is? Is it the pleasure from being restrained and restraining? Is it a different experience from other forms of bondage? I'm just curious about others' experiences. Whats the motivation for most things? Because you like it and want to do it. There is no one true way to do ropes, but for me the fact it can be brutal or sensual, it can be used to do as much or as little as you like, there is a connection between you and your partner unlike any other BDSM activity. Being tied, it can be the comfort akin to a weighted blanket, the flying feeling os suspension, the pain of sadistic ropes, the excitement of being restrained in positions hard to replicate with any other medium. You may find it more useful to watch some of the rope tutorials on youtube. " I will, thank you for the response. | |||
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"It looks amazing but I'm unsure what the motivation is? Is it the pleasure from being restrained and restraining? Is it a different experience from other forms of bondage? I'm just curious about others' experiences. Whats the motivation for most things? Because you like it and want to do it. There is no one true way to do ropes, but for me the fact it can be brutal or sensual, it can be used to do as much or as little as you like, there is a connection between you and your partner unlike any other BDSM activity. Being tied, it can be the comfort akin to a weighted blanket, the flying feeling os suspension, the pain of sadistic ropes, the excitement of being restrained in positions hard to replicate with any other medium. You may find it more useful to watch some of the rope tutorials on youtube. I will, thank you for the response. " While YouTube is a good source, just like all things there are good and bad ones. My suggestion is view videos from those that discuss safety issues/risks. It is deemed as edge play for reason as you can damage nerves very easily if you place rope in the wrong place. | |||
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"It looks amazing but I'm unsure what the motivation is? Is it the pleasure from being restrained and restraining? Is it a different experience from other forms of bondage? I'm just curious about others' experiences. Whats the motivation for most things? Because you like it and want to do it. There is no one true way to do ropes, but for me the fact it can be brutal or sensual, it can be used to do as much or as little as you like, there is a connection between you and your partner unlike any other BDSM activity. Being tied, it can be the comfort akin to a weighted blanket, the flying feeling os suspension, the pain of sadistic ropes, the excitement of being restrained in positions hard to replicate with any other medium. You may find it more useful to watch some of the rope tutorials on youtube. I will, thank you for the response. While YouTube is a good source, just like all things there are good and bad ones. My suggestion is view videos from those that discuss safety issues/risks. It is deemed as edge play for reason as you can damage nerves very easily if you place rope in the wrong place. " Yes finding a person / rigger you can trust at both levels is vital. So is a bunny who tells you what she is experiencing. It’s a journey... but at the same time a sexy shuka hushi body suit at an event is smokin hot too | |||
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"It looks amazing but I'm unsure what the motivation is? Is it the pleasure from being restrained and restraining? Is it a different experience from other forms of bondage? I'm just curious about others' experiences. Whats the motivation for most things? Because you like it and want to do it. There is no one true way to do ropes, but for me the fact it can be brutal or sensual, it can be used to do as much or as little as you like, there is a connection between you and your partner unlike any other BDSM activity. Being tied, it can be the comfort akin to a weighted blanket, the flying feeling os suspension, the pain of sadistic ropes, the excitement of being restrained in positions hard to replicate with any other medium. You may find it more useful to watch some of the rope tutorials on youtube. I will, thank you for the response. While YouTube is a good source, just like all things there are good and bad ones. My suggestion is view videos from those that discuss safety issues/risks. It is deemed as edge play for reason as you can damage nerves very easily if you place rope in the wrong place. Yes finding a person / rigger you can trust at both levels is vital. So is a bunny who tells you what she is experiencing. It’s a journey... but at the same time a sexy shuka hushi body suit at an event is smokin hot too "It is difficult but very rewarding when you do | |||
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"I've done a little research but definitely interested in learning more. It has a huge sensual appeal and i'd liie to learn and try!" Theres a very active rope scene in your area | |||
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"I've done a little research but definitely interested in learning more. It has a huge sensual appeal and i'd liie to learn and try! Theres a very active rope scene in your area "I'm on that fetish website, that people have mentioned, and trying to be a little more active in looking | |||
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"I've done a little research but definitely interested in learning more. It has a huge sensual appeal and i'd liie to learn and try! Theres a very active rope scene in your area
I'm on that fetish website, that people have mentioned, and trying to be a little more active in looking "treat it like a kinky facebook make comections join groups you will soon have a circle of friends with common intrrests it worked for us . | |||
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"I've done a little research but definitely interested in learning more. It has a huge sensual appeal and i'd liie to learn and try! Theres a very active rope scene in your area
I'm on that fetish website, that people have mentioned, and trying to be a little more active in looking treat it like a kinky facebook make comections join groups you will soon have a circle of friends with common intrrests it worked for us ."Will do, thanks | |||
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"I am no expert, I do enjoy rigging but the lack of eager rope bunny's to practice on is mainly the issue " When it comes to single and double limb cuffs you always have yourself to practice on! Tension of rope takes a while to get used to so practicing on yourself gives you a head start
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