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How soon do you do it ?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I like to exchange face pics really early on as it’s a big part of the attraction some seem to wait until just before a meet but what if then it’s not for you ?

What’s your thoughts ? Xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Definitely early on.

I need to know if they will run a mile

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Early on too.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Definitely early on.

I need to know if they will run a mile "

Can’t see anyone running unless it’s in your direction? X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Soon as possible but you can see mine anyhows

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I get it out of the way as soon as possible. No point is delaying the disappointment.

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By *affron40Woman
over a year ago

manchester

Very soon yes. The attraction is the face so pointless without that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Absolutely early on, to not do early on kinda a red flag for me

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By *gent CoulsonMan
over a year ago

Secret hideaway in the pennines

Early on, that way they can go thanks but no thank hahaha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I get it out of the way as soon as possible. No point is delaying the disappointment. "

This

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I meet within 2 weeks of first message or no meet ever. Face pic before meet.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Early as possible for me. I'm not averse to chucking a face pic in with a first message.

No matter how compatible you are with someone's profile text, physical attraction is still a big part of the game and there's no point wasting loads of time messaging to then find out there isn't any.

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By *olgateMan
over a year ago

on the road to nowhere in particular

I only enclose a face pic when I’m politely trying to dissuade someone from wanting to meet. It usually works quite well

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Definitely early on, no point in really getting into the conversation to find their not for you or vice versa as it's just a waste of time.

Her x

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By *layful HarlequinMan
over a year ago

iver heath

Normally I would send one pretty soon after we started chatting. Am I wrong here

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By *iscean_dreamMan
over a year ago

Llanelli

Got to be early on I think, why wait long to send one if don't have any on profile?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I send a courier with eye bleach prior, once thats signed for and the disclaimer I send, I will send without haste!

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By *lappyMan
over a year ago

Manchester

mine is on my profile nothing to hide so put it on show .... although others wished I would hide it away

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By *ersey GirlCouple
over a year ago

Glasgow

Late on or never. Would never meet without a cock pic tho

R

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By *isAdventure69Woman
over a year ago

Hampshire


"I like to exchange face pics really early on as it’s a big part of the attraction some seem to wait until just before a meet but what if then it’s not for you ?

What’s your thoughts ? Xx "

Definitely within a couple of mails, the physical attraction for me is all in the face ...

a big friendly smile goes a long way

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By *aynLexiCouple
over a year ago

Bridgwater, Somerset

All depends if its a single guy straight away. If its a couple I'd prefer to chat first ....not sure why

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By *indergirlWoman
over a year ago

somewhere, someplace

Quite early, I like to see who I'm talking to

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By *layful HarlequinMan
over a year ago

iver heath


"Quite early, I like to see who I'm talking to "

Snap

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't talk to faceless people it's creepy

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By *rumpyMcFuckNuggetMan
over a year ago

Den of Iniquity

I tend to get it out the way early on .

Admittedly it's usually radio silence after that but at least I'm honest about it

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By *olly_chromaticTV/TS
over a year ago

Stockport

I'm in full view on my profile. Gets the scaring away done before they even start messaging me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'll send it if I'm getting on with someone just so they can put a face to the name.

If I'm not sure about them I'll hold off on sending it.

So I guess I send it when I feel ready... Who knows if that's early or late.

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By *inger_SnapWoman
over a year ago

Hampshire/Dorset

I ask for one straight off, and if we chat and they ask for one I'll send it.

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By *atandjayCouple
over a year ago

Brighton

As soon as you feel comfortable that they are genuine

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By *riar BelisseWoman
over a year ago

Delightful Bliss

Guys from the forums normally straight away as I've already glimpsed an Insight into their personality

Newbies is a few days into the conversation to see if we have a mind connection first

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There has to be a facial attraction then it goes on the person and the click x

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By *ny1localMan
over a year ago

READING

Believe it or not, I've only just realised there's an option for the pic to be deleted after the message is sent,up to now I've avoided sending one.

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By *ilkandhoneyxWoman
over a year ago

leicester

i don’t send face pics at all

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

ASAP.

I can't understand why some think numourous dick pics are more important than a face pic.

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By *ny1localMan
over a year ago

READING


"Believe it or not, I've only just realised there's an option for the pic to be deleted after the message is sent,up to now I've avoided sending one. "
oops,meant message read.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't understand how dick pick fashion started

I don't see the point of sending my pick of my dick to some one

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Believe it or not, I've only just realised there's an option for the pic to be deleted after the message is sent,up to now I've avoided sending one. "

Pics can still be screenshot and saved.

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By *superfuse663Man
over a year ago

manchester

Send one once I'm asked for one, never asked first yet at least.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As early as possible as if there’s no attraction there is little point in continuing.

I also don’t entertain dithering around ‘but I need to ask you a million questions about being discreet and what you like.’

I share mine, I expect the same in reply. If they don’t want to send, I respect their decision, but not for me x

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