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Motivation/inspiration

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Just got of the phone to the NotSoPosh one, yes, we live together there (on the phone) now and we're both struggling to get motivated.

She needs to get her butt in gear and list her Easter stock for sale and I need to pull my finger out and get some tattoo designs ready to go for when I finally get back to work!

I've told her I'm going to crack on with some drawing and that she needs to get her shit listed online! We've given ourselves til 5.

I've got my sketch pad out and I'm about to stick some music on in the hopes I can find the inspiration I need and the ability to ignore current pain levels.

How do you find your Motivation?

What inspires you?

Tips please?!

Lu

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What used to always get me a little pumped was a video on YouTube called I am the champion- the Greatest speech ever!

May work for ya may not

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My motivation is different for different things. One way to get motivated is to make a start. Dont make big commitments. Just say I am going to do 'x' for 2 mins. Usually I find that process kick-start things. Then try to make a habit of it for every day. After a while you will find it get easier to continue.

Good luck.

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By *olgateMan
over a year ago

on the road to nowhere in particular

What’s motivation?

Tell me later I’m in no mood to rush

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"What used to always get me a little pumped was a video on YouTube called I am the champion- the Greatest speech ever!

May work for ya may not "

I'll check it out!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"My motivation is different for different things. One way to get motivated is to make a start. Dont make big commitments. Just say I am going to do 'x' for 2 mins. Usually I find that process kick-start things. Then try to make a habit of it for every day. After a while you will find it get easier to continue.

Good luck."

This is a good tip! I like this one

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

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Small steps until I get things done.

Say I've got a report to do - I'll log off Fab, mute conversation notifications and then focus on that until I've got x amount done. Then I'll have a break. And repeat until I've got there. Most of the time I find it quite easy, the things I could need motivating to do I have to do if that makes sense?

I'd like motivating to reach my size 14 dreams and I've realised that won't come from me alone so I'm currently looking at personal trainers to find one who looks scary. Fear is a good motivator for me, as is wanting to be the best. And someone telling me to get my arse in gear works wonders.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"What’s motivation?

Tell me later I’m in no mood to rush"

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Small steps until I get things done.

Say I've got a report to do - I'll log off Fab, mute conversation notifications and then focus on that until I've got x amount done. Then I'll have a break. And repeat until I've got there. Most of the time I find it quite easy, the things I could need motivating to do I have to do if that makes sense?

I'd like motivating to reach my size 14 dreams and I've realised that won't come from me alone so I'm currently looking at personal trainers to find one who looks scary. Fear is a good motivator for me, as is wanting to be the best. And someone telling me to get my arse in gear works wonders."

I reckon you're pretty tenacious once you're mind is set on something tho?

Good luck Meli! I hope you reach all your goals

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My motivation is different for different things. One way to get motivated is to make a start. Dont make big commitments. Just say I am going to do 'x' for 2 mins. Usually I find that process kick-start things. Then try to make a habit of it for every day. After a while you will find it get easier to continue.

Good luck.

This is a good tip! I like this one "

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