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If men can be cocky..

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Women can be... what?

Is there an equivalent or its universal across all genders?

And why "cocky"?! What's the origin.

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By *ex HolesMan
over a year ago

Up North

A bitch

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By *ecadent_DevonMan
over a year ago

Okehampton

Cocky originally meant "lecherous," or lustful, but evolved to mean "arrogantly pert" in the 1700s.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"A bitch "

But that means someone mean I guess ? Cocky is more of an arrogant person? Explain to non native speaker

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I imagine it comes from the word cocksure.

Which I guess means to be as assured/confident as a cock.

But not a penis.

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By *gent CoulsonMan
over a year ago

Secret hideaway in the pennines

Cheeky

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Cocky originally meant "lecherous," or lustful, but evolved to mean "arrogantly pert" in the 1700s."

Ha. Only you would dig that out welcome back.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I imagine it comes from the word cocksure.

Which I guess means to be as assured/confident as a cock.

But not a penis."

So not arrogant. Bless.

What about the shy ones..

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Cheeky"

Hmm sweetened a bit.. so not the same. or am I clueless.

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By *layful HarlequinMan
over a year ago

iver heath

Controlling just a thought here

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Controlling just a thought here "

Not the exact match still. I think..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mysterious?

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend

Cunty... but that's a different thing altogether isn't it?

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By *ersey GirlCouple
over a year ago

Glasgow

Swaggered

R

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By *ex HolesMan
over a year ago

Up North


"A bitch

But that means someone mean I guess ? Cocky is more of an arrogant person? Explain to non native speaker "

No you can generalise woman as bitches

I’ll run back in my cave quick now

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Maybe there just isn't one..because the assumption based on traditional gender stereotypes is that women don't get cocky but might be bitchy..

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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago

East London

Up their own arse?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Ps. If I called myself a cocky woman it wouldn't just sound the same. More like I'm in a cock fan club.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Up their own arse?"

Hahaha yes. However I wish it was one word thingy!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A cunt

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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago

East London


"Up their own arse?

Hahaha yes. However I wish it was one word thingy! "

I'm trying to condense it into one word, but my brain is asleep this morning.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"A cunt "

Cunty sounds like County ! But probably best so far. I think someone else said that too.

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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago

East London

Conceited?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Clitty

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Cunty... but that's a different thing altogether isn't it? "

You might be just the closest imo. And Ivy.

Different how? What behaviour would you call cunty

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By *emorefridaCouple
over a year ago

La la land

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Clitty "

Oh gosh !

This sounds good out loud too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I imagine it comes from the word cocksure.

Which I guess means to be as assured/confident as a cock.

But not a penis.

So not arrogant. Bless.

What about the shy ones.."

They're just shy-te

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I imagine it comes from the word cocksure.

Which I guess means to be as assured/confident as a cock.

But not a penis.

So not arrogant. Bless.

What about the shy ones..

They're just shy-te"

So cruel

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Conceited?"

Thats one sophisticated one comparing to cocky. But perfect in definition.

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By *emorefridaCouple
over a year ago

La la land

I got told my mate yesterday to not get too cocky yesterday. Because we were talking about them teasing me in work and he now works abroad. I think it's used regardless of gender of the person.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Mysterious?"

Doesn't fit I think.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I got told my mate yesterday to not get too cocky yesterday. Because we were talking about them teasing me in work and he now works abroad. I think it's used regardless of gender of the person.

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I'm sure it is. I just wondered if I'm missing something

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By *emorefridaCouple
over a year ago

La la land


"Cunty... but that's a different thing altogether isn't it?

You might be just the closest imo. And Ivy.

Different how? What behaviour would you call cunty"

I do say don't be so cuntish, and that when someone is being mean but I'm not being totally serious

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Cunty... but that's a different thing altogether isn't it?

You might be just the closest imo. And Ivy.

Different how? What behaviour would you call cunty

I do say don't be so cuntish, and that when someone is being mean but I'm not being totally serious"

Yes.. cocky is also a playful word to an extent. Whilst bitchy not so much. Not to my ears.

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By *hrista BellendWoman
over a year ago

surrounded by twinkly lights

I like Brash for cocky females

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By *ecadent_DevonMan
over a year ago

Okehampton

If we are to take the derivation of cocky from “arrogantly pert” and assume that purely by the composition of the entire word containing the descriptor of both a male chicken and a slang term for a penis (making the word, by default, predisposed to describing a masculine behaviour) and then reverse the gender but apply the same rules we end up with:

Henny - which fulfils some of the rules but doesn’t equate to “arrogantly pert”. Further evolution of Henny is thus required. Refining a lazy generic insult for a male that is dominated by a more assertive (arrogant) woman “Hen Pecked” we end up with:

Henpecky.

However we haven’t dealt with the “pert” descriptor. Pert meaning “attractively lively, cheeky, small or well shaped.....

So given that cocky can be a tongue in cheek description of a loveable rogue and applying the rules from above with a gender slant we end up with

Bantampecky

You know when you start something and you wish you hadn’t?.........

I never get invited to parties.

My only friends are made of Lego

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"If we are to take the derivation of cocky from “arrogantly pert” and assume that purely by the composition of the entire word containing the descriptor of both a male chicken and a slang term for a penis (making the word, by default, predisposed to describing a masculine behaviour) and then reverse the gender but apply the same rules we end up with:

Henny - which fulfils some of the rules but doesn’t equate to “arrogantly pert”. Further evolution of Henny is thus required. Refining a lazy generic insult for a male that is dominated by a more assertive (arrogant) woman “Hen Pecked” we end up with:

Henpecky.

However we haven’t dealt with the “pert” descriptor. Pert meaning “attractively lively, cheeky, small or well shaped.....

So given that cocky can be a tongue in cheek description of a loveable rogue and applying the rules from above with a gender slant we end up with

Bantampecky

You know when you start something and you wish you hadn’t?.........

I never get invited to parties.

My only friends are made of Lego

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Oh I wish you didn't lose the hen element on the word evolution journey

Bantampecky.. congrats on your neologism;)

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I like Brash for cocky females "

Thank you! I never used that. Star x

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend

Brash? ... Like Jean brash from the mcleavey stories

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Twattish

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By *emorefridaCouple
over a year ago

La la land


"Cunty... but that's a different thing altogether isn't it?

You might be just the closest imo. And Ivy.

Different how? What behaviour would you call cunty

I do say don't be so cuntish, and that when someone is being mean but I'm not being totally serious

Yes.. cocky is also a playful word to an extent. Whilst bitchy not so much. Not to my ears. "

Think bitchy implies gossip, and saying untruths. Cocky to me suggests blowing ones trumpet too much

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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago

East London


"Clitty "

That word is so cringey, the sound of it makes my clit shrivel

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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago

East London


"Twattish

"

That's more being a div or a dick.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Mysterious?

Doesn't fit I think. "

Ok, Priti Patel?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The etymology of slang words is notoriously difficult to pin down ! I suspect the use of cock to mean penis and cocky as a derivative to denote strutting arrogance evolved together, and of course many languages associate animal features with human characteristics as they developed when most people were around domesticated animals such as cockerels (which btw don't have a penis!).

I don't see why cocky can't now be claimed for both sexes but I suppose a female equivalent could be 'impudent' which I believe developed from pundendae, the Latin for female genitals ?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"The etymology of slang words is notoriously difficult to pin down ! I suspect the use of cock to mean penis and cocky as a derivative to denote strutting arrogance evolved together, and of course many languages associate animal features with human characteristics as they developed when most people were around domesticated animals such as cockerels (which btw don't have a penis!).

I don't see why cocky can't now be claimed for both sexes but I suppose a female equivalent could be 'impudent' which I believe developed from pundendae, the Latin for female genitals ? "

Impudent thank you. All the flashy words whilst cocky just sounds so simplistic

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By *iger-NWMan
over a year ago

Preston

A woman can be cocky too. I suspect it originated from reference to a male bird.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"A woman can be cocky too. I suspect it originated from reference to a male bird."

As in rooster ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Vaginary

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A cowbag

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By *ocksareoffMan
over a year ago

Out n About


"Vaginary "

That sounds like somewhere you keep foo foos

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Vaginary "

Why don’t you come on over vaginary

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Vaginary

That sounds like somewhere you keep foo foos "

Something you imagined perhaps.

Or like Lectionary.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Vaginary

Why don’t you come on over vaginary"

Is this sang to Valerie..?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sassy?

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By *hatChattyGuyMan
over a year ago

folkestone

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Sassy?"

More complimentary than teasing but a nice thought

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By *orbidden eastMan
over a year ago

london dodging electric scooters

Or they could be playing hard to get?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Vaginary

Why don’t you come on over vaginary

Is this sang to Valerie..?"

Yes.

It’s by the Zutons.

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By *enhamhoopMan
over a year ago

Denham


"Up their own arse?

Hahaha yes. However I wish it was one word thingy! "
Arrogant? Vain? Think her farts smell like perfume

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By *enhamhoopMan
over a year ago

Denham


"Vaginary "
Is that the group name for a collection of ladies together

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