FabSwingers.com forum: Do you feel sexy or not

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I'm really struggling with this right now..(mrs)..

I don't feel sexy at all, ( pretty gross to be honest),think iv'e lost it during Covid.

How do you feel about yourself at the moment? Surely it can't just be me...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Right now? No

But I wouldn't expect to

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope never have done

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By *hrista BellendWoman
over a year ago

surrounded by twinkly lights

I can see a glimmer of my former self, but real life stuff comes first, so I'm happy to be sexy dormant for as long as it takes

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By *luebell888Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish

I have just finished a 12hr nightshift so not looking or feeling my best.

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By *luebellRacerCouple
over a year ago

Shropshire

Not at all currently

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By *neakypeaky30Man
over a year ago

Midlands

Nope. Still need to shift my lockdown weight and get fit again. Then we'll see....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm getting there.

My weight gained over the last few years has a lot to do with that but I'm now losing it again so hopefully I'll feel more myself again soon.

If I feel happy with my outer self, then my inner self follows.

Feeling sexy has a lot to do with how I see myself.

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By *eyond PurityCouple
over a year ago

Lincolnshire

K makes me feel sexy whether I'm feeling it or not

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some days I do and some I don’t, go through waves of feeling it...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes!! Im feeling sexy, thank god since the feeling sexyiness only came back recently, its too soon to lose it again.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've just had surgery on an ingrown toenail which means I can't do any workouts.

I literally could not feel less sexy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Me. Personally I feel rather good, expect to feel even better and maybe sexy after I shave sometime later today.

On a scale, I am feeling about 6.5/10 sexy.

Try flirting op, even just for fun.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't always feel sexy (if thats the right word for a guy to feel)... but then I look at my friends on here and consider myself lucky... and they can't all be wrong.

You should feel amazing about yourself OP... you certainly are a sexy lady who has plenty of admirers (you have a new one right here) xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I find it hard to feel sexy because of my size, hubby tells me I am sexy which helps. Birthday today though so it's a happy day today xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not right now no, I'm pretty sure as soon as I'm allowed to dress up and go on a meet I will be ok

Mrs

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By *akjourneyMan
over a year ago

Weston

Do I feel sexy, not really at present.

Still body positive despite the dad bod enhancing during lockdown.

Guess we all need reassuring at certain times of day/week/month.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Right now? No. Far from it.

Usually? Generally speaking? Yes. Not every day, but fairly often.

I've learnt to embrace the way I look and show off the bits I like. I have learnt to believe and be comfortable with the fact that (some) other people find me sexy.

Add to that the fact that I have the most incredible boyfriend who tells me all the time how sexy and beautiful I am, she shows me too

he makes me feel sexy on a regular basis. Plus he's fucking beautiful AND a sexual tyranosaur so I must have a little sex appeal

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By *ocksareoffMan
over a year ago

Out n About

Hum dunno about feeling sexy, maybe I do a bit when I'm free balling in shorts or jeans. I suppose it depends if I'm clean shaven and not wearing my scruffs.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I feel about as sexy as a beached wale, I run past the mirror (sorry I meant jog as fast as I can lol) oh well at least I got a sense of humour because at the moment I would offend myself

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some days. Some days less. The medium average works out in my favour.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You are not alone in feeling like this OP.

Sexy is one facet of what makes you YOU. So there may be other aspects of yourself that is shining now.

Well that's my way of dealing with it.

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By *annaBeStrongMan
over a year ago

wokingham

Don’t think I’ve ever in my life felt sexy.

Even when I was peak physique, never felt even remotely sexy.

Think that’s true for most guys?

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By *uriousscouserWoman
over a year ago

Wirral

"Don’t think I’ve ever in my life felt sexy.

Even when I was peak physique, never felt even remotely sexy.

Think that’s true for most guys?"

I was just about to comment the same thing (not the peak physique bit because I've never been there).

I have never felt sexy and I'm not sure at this point I'd recognise the feeling!

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By *isAdventure69Woman
over a year ago

Hampshire

Well if you're not feeling sexy ... I fear many of us don't stand a chance , you're absolute gorgeous .

This said I don't feel sexy everyday ...rather seldom of late and I blame it on Covid "fatigue"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope I don't

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By *rumpyMcFuckNuggetMan
over a year ago

Den of Iniquity

More than I have for a while yes.

I'm getting there slowly

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

every now and again, i'll have a random bout of confidence (usually when mania hits and i do my makeup and feel like a bad bitch

but 99% of the time.. nope. no sex appeal, no confidence, no nothing.

You aren't alone OP

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Never, just something I don't think I portray

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No I’m not, I have moments when I do, but those are few and far between x

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By *issMeSlowlyMan
over a year ago

Northampton

Not at all, never do

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough

I know I look like an elephant seal, but it's not all about looks.

Being with or chatting to those i find sexy does tend to boost my confidence and then i don't worry how i look so much.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You’re certainly not alone in this, I don’t think I’ve felt less sexy for a very long time and I haven’t been taking care of myself as much as I should. It’s just so easy when you’ve got nowhere to go and no one to see to let self care drop down the list of priorities.

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By *gent CoulsonMan
over a year ago

Secret hideaway in the pennines

You are not alone

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By *pursChick aka ShortieWoman
over a year ago

On a mooch

Yes as I’m confident in who I am.

Do I portray your stereotypical ‘sexy’ female traits, emphasise or enhance them when I go out, definitely not. I dress how I want to and that is normally covered ankle to neck, that is how I’m comfortable.

Whether someone else views you as sexy is entirely up to their perception and what it means to them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I couldnt quite imagine meeting somebody new who didn't already know what I look like I think just yet. And even then I feel I have aged too much in a year and they may be in shock

I'll work on it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think with age comes confidence.. In my 20s I was a size 8 and over the years and a couple of kids I've gained curves I wasn't happy about. Now I embrace them. My body doesn't define me, I define it through my sexuality

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm really struggling with this right now..(mrs)..

I don't feel sexy at all, ( pretty gross to be honest),think iv'e lost it during Covid.

How do you feel about yourself at the moment? Surely it can't just be me...

No it’s not just you , I’m a very well balanced woman but at times can feel a bit negative about myself / mojo missing . I would say it’s pretty much normal with what’s going on with the world . Once things get back to normal then I’m sure we’ll be more positive about life

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

Right now, no, but I think that's normal.

We'll get it back.

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By *innie The MinxWoman
over a year ago

Under the Duvet

Do I feel sexy? Yes I do

The sun's out too, which always helps

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm really struggling with this right now..(mrs)..

I don't feel sexy at all, ( pretty gross to be honest),think iv'e lost it during Covid.

How do you feel about yourself at the moment? Surely it can't just be me...

Your profile looks very sexy.

If you have serious and frequent shifts in mood, you should tell your doctor about them. They can discuss the possible reasons for why you're experiencing them. Some causes of rapid changes in behavior can be related to mental health, hormones, substance use, or other health conditions.

Hoping it’s none of the above and your partner can help you snap out of it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

At this very moment no.

I also feel gross and slobbish but in a slump and stuggling with my mojo.

When I get done up for cam nights or when clubs reopen, or even being dressed to go shopping I feel sexy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeah, meeting and being around people is a buzz I miss. I feel average at best.

You’re hot and you would have a string of fella queuing to give you some lol

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

No I don't. My libido has temporarily vanished along with any feelings of being sexy. That's fine and to be expected with everything going on. I'll probably find it in a few weeks but for now even Cumberbatch couldn't turn me on.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I always do except when I don't

#legit!

Great clothes help though.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Thank you for all the lovely comments.

I know its going to take time to even begin to feel good about myself..right now it seems insurmountable.

(My parents died within weeks of each other) before Christmas..i'm just feeling sorry for myself..sorry guys.

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By *isAdventure69Woman
over a year ago

Hampshire

"Thank you for all the lovely comments.

I know its going to take time to even begin to feel good about myself..right now it seems insurmountable.

(My parents died within weeks of each other) before Christmas..i'm just feeling sorry for myself..sorry guys."

I’m ever so sorry for your loss , big hugs for you

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Thank you for all the lovely comments.

I know its going to take time to even begin to feel good about myself..right now it seems insurmountable.

(My parents died within weeks of each other) before Christmas..i'm just feeling sorry for myself..sorry guys.

I’m ever so sorry for your loss , big hugs for you

Thank you x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Always

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Thank you for all the lovely comments.

I know its going to take time to even begin to feel good about myself..right now it seems insurmountable.

(My parents died within weeks of each other) before Christmas..i'm just feeling sorry for myself..sorry guys."

Sorry for your lose xx

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I rarely feel like I'm sexy

I have the odd day where I feel good about myself but they're rare these days.

You look beautiful in your pictures OP x

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By *oxy lady40Woman
over a year ago

bridgwater

No , will feel better when I can get my hair and nails done

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By *exy Ruby 100 300Couple
over a year ago

unknown

So sorry for yr loss that's hard both parents .I lost my dad 6 weeks ago to covid ,I tell myself he beside me I just cant see him.by the way you are very sexy remember sexy is a state of mind .Ruby xx

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By *inamicMan
over a year ago

Blackpool

With my lockdown hair deffinately not, still not caved in to cutting it all off just yet

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By *racy_JacksWoman
over a year ago

Derby

Sorry to hear about your loss OP. Not feeling sexy at the moment is totally understandable

For me, in general, no. My mum was recently diagnosed with something serious. I’m also still suffering after a hysteroscopy and getting the coil a few weeks ago. This is literally the least sexy I’ve felt for ages

My lovely new guy has been managing to coax it out of me though

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By *irky_coupleCouple
over a year ago

kirky

Not really. Be better when I get out to work again.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I find it hard to feel sexy because of my size, hubby tells me I am sexy which helps. Birthday today though so it's a happy day today xx

Happy birthday sexy

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By *affron40Woman
over a year ago

manchester

I’m sorry for your loss OP. Grief can have a huge impact on all aspects of our general mood. That’s a huge loss so it’s bound to have a big impact on you x

If you can imagine a fat menopausal bird on crutches that kinda sums up why I’m only showing my face right now... it’s been a tough year.

Sending love

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Thanks everyone..i know i'm not the only one with stuff going on.

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By *eliciousladyWoman
over a year ago

Sometimes U.K

"K makes me feel sexy whether I'm feeling it or not

That’s lovely x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not at all atm. Hey ho, the gyms will be back ooen soon

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"So sorry for yr loss that's hard both parents .I lost my dad 6 weeks ago to covid ,I tell myself he beside me I just cant see him.by the way you are very sexy remember sexy is a state of mind .Ruby xx"

Thanks Ruby, sorry to hear about your Dad..look after yourself.x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If I breathe in yes

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By *oolkoupleCouple
over a year ago

Cheshire

At this point I'm the sexiest I've ever been in my life. Partly due to working on my body composition, but more to do with Mr K giving me soooo much support that I didn't know I needed to help me love myself, and also doing more of the things that make me feel good, like wearing nice underwear and pole dancing.

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By *moothshaftMan
over a year ago

Coventry

"I'm really struggling with this right now..(mrs)..

I don't feel sexy at all, ( pretty gross to be honest),think iv'e lost it during Covid.

How do you feel about yourself at the moment? Surely it can't just be me...

I think this pandemic has affected your eyesight.

You're gorgeous x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mrs- somedays I feel repulsive and can’t imagine why someone would fancy me other days I feel as attractive as the next person. Is it hormonal? Also an additional few lbs make me feel like crap.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Thank you for all the lovely comments.

I know its going to take time to even begin to feel good about myself..right now it seems insurmountable.

(My parents died within weeks of each other) before Christmas..i'm just feeling sorry for myself..sorry guys."

Sorry to hear about your loss.

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By *inkyInkedBiWoman
over a year ago

Nope. Buying new underwear in an attempt to perk me up. Sometimes works.

Today I’m sat in pjs looking like miss trunchbull

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By *arker secrets 321Man
over a year ago

West Bromwich

Think lockdown as played majer part in people's feelings of not avin the spark so 2 speak .x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Definitely not just you.

Am not feeling anywhere near like my usual self.

Lockdown has played a massive part and has been probably the toughest one so far for me.

Hoping once I’m back to my ‘usual routine’ it’ll come back.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've really struggled during lockdown.

I work for the NHS and it's been tough dealing with patients 24/7 with no change up of constantly caring for people. I feel like I've lost my spark because all I do now is deal with patients and dont take time for myself

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've never been happy with how I look, even less now I haven't been in the gym for a year properly

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I go through bouts of feeling sexy but certainly don’t feel it all the time.

At the moment I’m definitely not.. the mojo has well & truly deserted me..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I feel physically fit and healthy but not sexy. I think being in lockdown and not going pub or restaurants, getting dressed up, traveling and generally meeting people in a social setting has hit us all. It's very hard to feel sexy sitting around the house all day

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By *orthern StarsCouple
over a year ago

Durham

My mojo had totally gone but I've been doing a lot of physical work recently, and have toned up and feeling fitter. It's also given me a natural buzz so I'm feeling more on form and my sex drive has increased. I'm ready to be getting back out there,meeting friends and living life to the max again.

Hope you're soon feeling brighter OP.

Mrs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've put on a bit of covid weight so I don't feel that I'm as good as I can be, but i think many of us can say that.

But head up OP, lockdown will soon be over and we can all try to get back to being ourselves again.

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By *partharmonyCouple
over a year ago

Ruislip

I don't usually feel sexy. I'm not even sure what that means.

Fortunately, over the years, women have found me sexy enough to want to have sex with me. Enough women have felt that way that I'm not bothered in the slightest about whether I feel sexy or not. Luke

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've never felt sexy in my life..horny, but not sexually attractive..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Never felt sexy but feel like I look acceptable sometimes. You're not alone OP. But I think everyone needs to give themselves a break, It's been one long shitty year and going to take a while to feel like ourselves again!

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By *apphirejadeCouple
over a year ago

London

Lockdown body is not what it was before! Feeling unattractive and a little bit chunky.

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By *edeWoman
over a year ago

the abyss

I don't think I have ever felt particularly sexy. But I've learnt to fake it and as the saying goes 'fake it until you make it'.

I'll get there one day

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've never felt sexy I don't have much self confidence

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Life gets in the way of sexy sometimes! Don't apologise for it, self indulge for a bit

I'm struggling to lose my baby weight and sometimes I feel gross but I'll get there!

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By *heVonMatterhornsCouple
over a year ago

Lincoln

I despise myself. Gotta love being a stress eater when everything makes you anxious.

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By *orbidden eastMan
over a year ago

london dodging electric scooters

Umm honestly think I am somewhere in between. But I’m still smiling

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By *entleman JayMan
over a year ago

Wakefield

I will feel a lot better when I’ve had my hair done. Lol.

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By *razzyhorseMan
over a year ago

cambridge

Does anyone feel sexy or is it the effect you have on other people that makes you feel sexy?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Unfortunately not at the moment

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By *ittleMissCaliWoman
over a year ago

all loved up

"I'm really struggling with this right now..(mrs)..

I don't feel sexy at all, ( pretty gross to be honest),think iv'e lost it during Covid.

How do you feel about yourself at the moment? Surely it can't just be me...

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nope rarely feeling like I look good x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I despise myself. Gotta love being a stress eater when everything makes you anxious.

I know how you feel. *sigh*

But I have to say you always look like such a babe in your photo uploads K and even though I am straight you're the kind of woman that makes me have a good look with my spectacles.

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By *iamondCougarWoman
over a year ago

Norfuck! / Lincolnshire

"I'm really struggling with this right now..(mrs)..

I don't feel sexy at all, ( pretty gross to be honest),think iv'e lost it during Covid.

How do you feel about yourself at the moment? Surely it can't just be me...

You have a fabulous set of pics OP, a great profile and the Lego comment made me giggle a lot!

I think covid has taken its toll on everyone so you are not alone. Your mojo will return and so will the good times.

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By *hrough the looking gla55Couple
over a year ago

Epsom

Right now not very. It comes and goes

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By *nexpectedExplorerMan
over a year ago

SA3

Never have, never will

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By *inkyInkedBiWoman
over a year ago

It’s sad that we can see the beauty in others but not ourselves sometimes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It’s sad that we can see the beauty in others but not ourselves sometimes

This

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By *lasgow_dude2017Man
over a year ago

Glasgow

Feelin fat n down

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Once again, thank you for the personal messages and lovely comments.xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It comes and goes .... can’t feel sexy all the time .. it takes too much effort .. it’d be exhausting.

But I’m generally feeling pretty good about being me at the moment xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It’s sad that we can see the beauty in others but not ourselves sometimes

It's a good point. I've never looked for beauty in myself. I always try to be presentable but beyond that my own image is not something I've considered giving attention to. Fab is the only place I have ever made the first approach. I know it sounds odd, even conceited, but in the real world, women have always approached me. No, I don't know why either..

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By *eah BabyCouple
over a year ago

Cheshire, Windermere ,Cumbria

Give yourselves a pamper and you will be feeling sexy in no time at all

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By *ongueFkYouMan
over a year ago

Bradford

"Give yourselves a pamper and you will be feeling sexy in no time at all

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wow you are really sexy x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sexy? What's that?

After months of lockdown and 12 hour face masked shifts at work winter bum n tum etc, I dont feel sexy.

But for 1st time in months actually worse make up. Really boosted my esteem seeing the transformation.

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