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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I suppose this is aimed more at couples who have sex regularly, or the swinger singles who use to get plenty sex in haha...

Do you always go full out kink and experiment sexually, or do you have vanilla sessions too, or does that do nothing for you?

I feel like if I was to go full out every time I had sex it would get a bit much (I would want to do stuff most days) so vanilla pleasure and sensual sex would probably make up a large part of my sex life..

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek

There's no way I was going full on kink with someone I didn't know very well.

Tried it once and it was a huge mistake and one I'm not wanting to make again.

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By *offiaCoolWoman
over a year ago

Kidsgrove


"There's no way I was going full on kink with someone I didn't know very well.

Tried it once and it was a huge mistake and one I'm not wanting to make again.

"

I think he meant, do people who meet regularly, always have full on kinky sex, or do they sometimes have vanilla sensual stuff.

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By *edeWoman
over a year ago

the abyss

What Peach said.

Some things take a lot of trust to be able to do. For example I'm not going to let someone I don't know tie me up!! Just not a good idea.

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By *edeWoman
over a year ago

the abyss


"There's no way I was going full on kink with someone I didn't know very well.

Tried it once and it was a huge mistake and one I'm not wanting to make again.

I think he meant, do people who meet regularly, always have full on kinky sex, or do they sometimes have vanilla sensual stuff."

Ooohhh that makes much more sense

Sometimes both in the same night. Variety is the spice of life after all

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"There's no way I was going full on kink with someone I didn't know very well.

Tried it once and it was a huge mistake and one I'm not wanting to make again.

I think he meant, do people who meet regularly, always have full on kinky sex, or do they sometimes have vanilla sensual stuff.

Ooohhh that makes much more sense

Sometimes both in the same night. Variety is the spice of life after all "

Maybe not worded well haha.

Yes I mainly mean couples who regularly (I hope) have sex together... is everyday an experiment, kink intense sex, or is there days or long periods of ‘normal vanilla’ sex

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By *alandNitaCouple
over a year ago

Scunthorpe

Variety is the spice of life.

The thing that is good about doing something different is that it isn't the same as normal. If you do it all the time, then it becomes normal... then you need to do something else for that "different-ness"

Cal

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It depends, some people its pure kink, others its a mix of both

Sometimes they barely make it into the room before the fun start,others we have a coffee and chat first

It all depends on the person and our mood at the time

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek


"There's no way I was going full on kink with someone I didn't know very well.

Tried it once and it was a huge mistake and one I'm not wanting to make again.

I think he meant, do people who meet regularly, always have full on kinky sex, or do they sometimes have vanilla sensual stuff.

Ooohhh that makes much more sense

Sometimes both in the same night. Variety is the spice of life after all

Maybe not worded well haha.

Yes I mainly mean couples who regularly (I hope) have sex together... is everyday an experiment, kink intense sex, or is there days or long periods of ‘normal vanilla’ sex "

I've not always been single ya know and that was varied but defo more vanilla type than kink

When I was single and meeting fairly regularly, see the first bit ^

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
over a year ago

North West

We vary. Depends on all sorts but we have kinky sex, vanilla sex and then with kink, depends how we feel.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends how we feel. We can be very full on kinky, but there are times when we come together with soft gentleness, and a slow sensual pleasure.

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By *ersey GirlCouple
over a year ago

Glasgow

Never had vanilla sex. It's just not us. There is always a bdsm element and I'm fully submissive so that is in every sex session. We don't do everything every time tho. Watersports and corner time for example is semi regular

R

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By *orthern StarsCouple
over a year ago

Durham

We have vanilla quite regularly as we have teenage children at home so we aren't able to let ourselves go.

We do spice it up when we do manage to have some time on our own.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I get what you mean OP.

No, as a couple we don't go all out for every sex session we have, we don't always involve toys and extra bits, we like to make love or make it a bit more passionate without all that too. Don't go all out every time, would kill me off haha!

Like to mix things up

Her x

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

No, we don't go full out kink every time, I don't dress up every time either. Profiles are a snapshot of people's sex life not the whole story

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By *inx666andThunderCouple
over a year ago

Macclesfield

Sometimes just normal sex can be the best most intimate pleasurable sex, like others have said it all depends on the day and how you're both feeling.

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By *rMrsBrightsideCouple
over a year ago

Newcastle

We mostly have vanilla sex and sometimes with a dash of kink added in. Our more kinky sessions happen when we don't have the kids around and when we have more time to indulge each other.

It's definitely more vanilla at the moment

Kx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For the first little while it’s vanilla sex then as the trust builds I start to push the boundaries and see how far kink they go

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

awww the dream of a regular sex life to be able to answer this

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends on the situation. I tend to have an ice breaker fuck with couples or people - just to get used to each other, but I tend to find people I can play with regular and I find the kinks and trust build from there x

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