FabSwingers.com forum: The choice is yours

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

So you have two opportunities to meet that night.

Both are with people that you have met before.

Both are reliable and have never failed to show when arrangements have been made.

One is stunning, has an electric personality and the sex is OK

The other is OK looking, doesn't say a great deal but the sex is mindblowing.

Neither is up for a threesome and neither is available the same week other than that night.

Who do you opt for ?

Not a trick question.

Just wondered what other people would do and what other things you would consider to help you make your decision.

(Am not showing off btw cos other than this week have had no real fun in weeks, and it's just typical of my luck for this to happen lol)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

option 2. but then we're shallow

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

depends my mood to be honest, if I was uber horny I would go for the great sex one.

if I was chilled, wanting banter and a good laugh with an added bonus of sex... the other.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

looks are no match for mindblowing sex lol

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

have fun which ever you choose..

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

Always the way innit? You wait ages for a shag then two come along at once.

I'd go for door number 2. I can get scintillating conversation any time.

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By *exki11enWoman
over a year ago

Bristol

I hope they don't read the forums!

It would much depend what kind of a mood i'm in, but probably go for number 2

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By *ouple in LancashireCouple
over a year ago

in Lancashire

number 2

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

think it would be the ok looking quiet one for the mind blowing sex.

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By *ovedupstillCouple
over a year ago

mullinwire

depends how horny you are, as has been said.

if you would rather have company than sex, then 1, but if you are after purely sex, then its a no brainer.

go for whichever will giv eyou what you feel you want on the occasion

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

I'm always going to go for number 1.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If I was horny number 2 without a doubt!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The mind blowing sex, definitely.

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

Whenever this has happened to me I end up with neither. As soon as I make the choice and let the other person know they tell me they have had a better offer. You then contact the other person who says something has come up.

Anyone got a name for this law of the universe?

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

Depends who asked first, if i arranged a meet with someone i wouldnt cancel to meet someone else, i would just meet them another night

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By *irtydanMan
over a year ago

Blackpool

number two i never get good lookers anyway lol

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

"Whenever this has happened to me I end up with neither. As soon as I make the choice and let the other person know they tell me they have had a better offer. You then contact the other person who says something has come up.

Anyone got a name for this law of the universe?"

The Third Law of Repulsion?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd meet the first option at 8pm. Nice steady shag then a quick shower.

Then I'd meet the second option at 9pm for a few hours of mindblowing non-speaking fun.

Coudn't do it the other way round cos I'd be knackered after the mind blowing stuff.

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

Anyone got a name for this law of the universe?

The Third Law of Repulsion?

Better than Sod's law that's for sure.

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

"I'd meet the first option at 8pm. Nice steady shag then a quick shower.

Then I'd meet the second option at 9pm for a few hours of mindblowing non-speaking fun.

Coudn't do it the other way round cos I'd be knackered after the mind blowing stuff.

Good plan!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"depends my mood to be honest, if I was uber horny I would go for the great sex one.

if I was chilled, wanting banter and a good laugh with an added bonus of sex... the other.

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+1

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

However, i now have 'what would you do' from team america in my head.... Thats gonna take some time to come out.....

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By *etillanteWoman
over a year ago

Mind blowing sexy any day

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's defiantly a mood and time issue! If I had lots of time it would be the decent convo and ok sex, if I was short of time it would be the mind blowing sex!

unless I was super horny and just needed a damn good seeing too!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mind blowing sex please.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Option 2 - and i'd tell option 1 that sorry, i've made plans but I know someone I think you'd be interested in meeting!

Happy to recommend - after all - sharing's caring - and you might get the favour returned some other time!!

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By *Ryan-Man
over a year ago

In Your Bush

Personality for me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Personality for me "

Lucky for u I have personality and I'm

A great shag lol

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By *Ryan-Man
over a year ago

In Your Bush

"Personality for me

Lucky for u I have personality and I'm

A great shag lol

Nothing like blowing your own trumpet Abbie. Come and play some tunes on mine instead

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Would probably choose option no.1 take her outside and tie her up to something like a tree and teach her what mind blowing sex is ... ! If she is not open to improving Or picking up her game .... I would go with option 2 from there on in ... No looking back !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Personality for me

Lucky for u I have personality and I'm

A great shag lol

Nothing like blowing your own trumpet Abbie. Come and play some tunes on mine instead

Oh it's what I am reliably informed my dear, and pass ur trumpet over I'm sat waiting to blow it

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By *Ryan-Man
over a year ago

In Your Bush

"Personality for me

Lucky for u I have personality and I'm

A great shag lol

Nothing like blowing your own trumpet Abbie. Come and play some tunes on mine instead

Oh it's what I am reliably informed my dear, and pass ur trumpet over I'm sat waiting to blow it

Toot toot

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

well i went for option 2

not because of the sex, but because that was the person i'd not seen in the longest time

see, i knew i wasn't half as fickle as you lot

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I'd meet the first option at 8pm. Nice steady shag then a quick shower.

Then I'd meet the second option at 9pm for a few hours of mindblowing non-speaking fun.

Coudn't do it the other way round cos I'd be knackered after the mind blowing stuff.

That's mans thinking

I can see you're one of them that needs watching !

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By *un_JuiceCouple
over a year ago

Nr Chester

Would normally opt for number 2. But with flirting chat and laughter more available and possible with more attractiveness I'll go with number 2 and enjoy the whole package

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Depends who asked first, if i arranged a meet with someone i wouldnt cancel to meet someone else, i would just meet them another night"

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Depends who asked first, if i arranged a meet with someone i wouldnt cancel to meet someone else, i would just meet them another night"

Nothing was arranged or set in stone with either. I am a good boy me.

Once arrangments are made, I stick to em

Only had one occasion where I had to let someone down and that was a genuine emergency.

I hope they believed me, but in fairness, if they chose not to then so be it. I know I wasn't playing games.

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By *ENDAROOSCouple
over a year ago

South West London / Surrey

I can get mind blowing sex with Mr B anytime...lol

So it would be option 1 for me everytime, not because they are stunning but because they have a personality and could have a giggle.

A good swinging evening to me is about more than just mind blowing sex...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I take Option 1 every time.

Because for me if their personality is electric the sex would always be better than 'OK'

90% of sex is in the mind (which is probably why I just keep imagining getting laid).

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