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By *icearms OP   Man
over a year ago

KIDLINGTON

Just a quick question here. When partaking in such threads do you truly wink/message everyone you'd like to interact with, or do you only go for those that you think you're suited to?

E.g there are some stunners on here that I would wink etc, but having read their profile I'm not anywhere near what they seek from the site. So I don't approach them.

I guess it may be a fear of rejection, which I already know is comming as I don't meet their requirements..

Any thoughts appreciated.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wink who I like the look of

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By *rumpyMcFuckNuggetMan
over a year ago

Den of Iniquity

In terms of winking I'll give it a go and if I get nothing back , no harm done .

But i rarely message first

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No harm in a wink

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Generally I'm like yourself, if I'm really not what there looking for then I see it as a waste of both our time. I hold no expectations though, it's just a bit of fun.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wink at pretty much everyone I fancy on the thread. Most likely nothing will ever come of it but I like to be open to all possibilities because every now and then something amazing can happen

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Anyone who takes my fancy....you never know do you? More to lose by not doing it at all.

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Nottingham and Stamford


"Anyone who takes my fancy....you never know do you? More to lose by not doing it at all. "

I can't imagine anyone not wanting to nibble on your bum.

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By *ancer36Woman
over a year ago

Stirling

I wink at those who take my fancy x

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By *ermite12ukMan
over a year ago

Solihull and Romford

I wink and message only those I might have a fighting chance with:

Usually the blind, those that have lost their faculties and those that are not too mobile....Paraplegics are very good as they can't run nor fight me off.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wink at those I fancy, if nothing else its made them smile to get a wink.

Many times for me those kind of threads have broken the ice with people even if its just to have a general chat.

My advice is to just go for it, get involved and have a laugh.

Her x

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Nottingham and Stamford

It depends on my mood.

Sometimes i read the profile for 100% compatibility.

Other times i feel more daring and go for it if come close.

They may fall for my amazing charm & wit.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

when i play, i generally go for people i fancy or get along with, or who share similar interests etc.

Like you OP, i wouldn't bother trying with someone who i knew i wouldn't be for (ie if they're someone looking for a blonde person... or a domme.. Like the total opposite of me.. If that makes any sense

Px

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Anyone who takes my fancy....you never know do you? More to lose by not doing it at all.

I can't imagine anyone not wanting to nibble on your bum. "

There are some that don’t!!!

I even got insulted this morning

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"In terms of winking I'll give it a go and if I get nothing back , no harm done .

But i rarely message first "

Didn't you message me first Grumpy?

I can't remember after 399

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Nottingham and Stamford


"Anyone who takes my fancy....you never know do you? More to lose by not doing it at all.

I can't imagine anyone not wanting to nibble on your bum.

There are some that don’t!!!

I even got insulted this morning "

Maybe a compliment from me would counteract it.

I think you're an amazingly sexy lady and I'd love to give you a big hug.

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By *rumpyMcFuckNuggetMan
over a year ago

Den of Iniquity


"In terms of winking I'll give it a go and if I get nothing back , no harm done .

But i rarely message first

Didn't you message me first Grumpy?

I can't remember after 399"

I think I did actually yes

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By *urora1912Woman
over a year ago

Norfolk East anglia

I wink who I think is hot.

Even if I have no chance

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Nottingham and Stamford


"I wink who I think is hot.

Even if I have no chance "

There's probably many guys who think they don't stand a chance with you as well.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wink and message and hopefully get a response

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By *layful HarlequinMan
over a year ago

iver heath

I’m in and good morning to you all

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Anyone who takes my fancy....you never know do you? More to lose by not doing it at all.

I can't imagine anyone not wanting to nibble on your bum.

There are some that don’t!!!

I even got insulted this morning

Maybe a compliment from me would counteract it.

I think you're an amazingly sexy lady and I'd love to give you a big hug. "

thank you.x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm in

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By *oreador8Man
over a year ago

Huddersfield

Nothing to lose from sending a wink... Sometimes you might get a surprise back!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wink at who takes my fancy when replying to wink/fab threads, I do scan over there profile to see if I fit their match,

A wink/fab is harmless I think and the profile said “there in” to partake in receiving winks/fabs so what’s to loose

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