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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Messages in your inbox I have 2

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

50 unread message lucky it's a quiet day

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By *ilkandhoneyxWoman
over a year ago

leicester

798 unread

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By *arte_Blanche_NECouple
over a year ago

Northern


"Messages in your inbox I have 2 "

One

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By *elloWoman
over a year ago

alpha centauri

2

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

3

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By *ongueFkYouMan
over a year ago

Bradford

1 lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I delete as I go, think I have had about 20 in the last hour

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

None

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

0

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By *usty kayWoman
over a year ago

Burnham

19 unread

Hate leaving them but I just don't get time

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By *UNANDNICEMan
over a year ago

Basildon

Only 5 tonight

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By *hite russianWoman
over a year ago

Nottingham

28

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By *ongueFkYouMan
over a year ago

Bradford


"28"
you are stunning xx

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ


"798 unread"

I could make it 799 if you would like

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

6

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By *ensuallover1000Man
over a year ago

Somewhere In The Ether…

An astounding zero. The silence is deafening.

I shall put on some Barry Manilow in compensation

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By *affron40Woman
over a year ago

manchester

107 unread.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

42.

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By *oeBlack4Man
over a year ago

Cambridge

2

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

2

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"107 unread."

Since your on crutches and bored , maybe you could read some ?

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By *r G888Man
over a year ago

south Wales

What is an inbox? I dont think I have that on mine

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"19 unread

Hate leaving them but I just don't get time "

You have time to read the forum tho

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By *imbobaMan
over a year ago

Glasgow

Zero

Just spent the last 2 hours answering then all.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I delete as I go, think I have had about 20 in the last hour"

Delete without reading ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

[Removed by poster at 24/03/21 02:16:57]

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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT

86

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

48

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By *ongueFkYouMan
over a year ago

Bradford


"86"
ufff you are absolutely stunning is it ok if I message you? Xx

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By *ngelLordCouple
over a year ago

Newport

None

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

825. Mostly from people miles away

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By *ongueFkYouMan
over a year ago

Bradford


"825. Mostly from people miles away "
wish I was a bit closer to you x

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By *ongueFkYouMan
over a year ago

Bradford


"None "
you would have if it let me message you lol OH MY GOD your pictures are just WOW! Got me feeling so horny! Message me if you want xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Unread? Non. Same as usual

*sings* Nobody loves me, everybody hates me, I think I’m gonna eat worms

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham

96

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You lucky bastard

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

11

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Unlucky for some..

13

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By *aughtyandhandsomeMan
over a year ago

button moon

Strangely enough I've 8 unread this minute

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

1 I must not be hitting the spot

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

[Removed by poster at 24/03/21 07:58:12]

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I woke up to 8 messages and they are all dealt with. I am quite organised yet I also have filters set to help keep the volumes down.

Her x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

[Removed by poster at 24/03/21 07:59:04]

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Zero, nada, zilch, fuck all. It’s probably a bit dusty

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By *ea monkeyMan
over a year ago

Manchester (he/him)

None. It’s a very regular thing for me since I’ve returned. No one wants to chat anymore!

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By *layful HarlequinMan
over a year ago

iver heath

Just checked still 0

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

73

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By *layful HarlequinMan
over a year ago

iver heath


"73"

Show off lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"73

Show off lol "

Ssshhh you

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By *eyond PurityCouple
over a year ago

Lincolnshire

We keep on top of ours - we have 3 but if gorgeous single females or exceptional males and beautiful couples want to message, we won’t argue

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By *layful HarlequinMan
over a year ago

iver heath


"73

Show off lol

Ssshhh you "

Officially Ssssshhhhed

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

308 xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"73

Show off lol

Ssshhh you

Officially Ssssshhhhed"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

5 unread in mine.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just doubled checked mine and its a big 0

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By *orthern StarsCouple
over a year ago

Durham

Zero

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By *layful HarlequinMan
over a year ago

iver heath


"73

Show off lol

Ssshhh you

Officially Ssssshhhhed

"

Still 0 # just saying

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I delete as I go, think I have had about 20 in the last hour

Delete without reading ? "

I don't need to disclose if I read them or not because it is my profile and my choice

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

85...J is slacking off and leaving me to do our fabmin lately...and I can't be fucked

Lu

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

None unread lol

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By * Lexi xWoman
over a year ago

stockport

447

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By *hortarseWoman
over a year ago

Norfolk

0 I got be doing something right

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough


"Zero "

You're always gracious in answering my messages.

Thank you. X

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By *ancer36Woman
over a year ago

Stirling

697 x

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough

zero - I read all messages, but only answer the ones that catch my eye

Or have pics of blue underwear attached.

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By *rumpyMcFuckNuggetMan
over a year ago

Den of Iniquity


"73"

Not 400 then

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

0

Filters are magic

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By *rumpyMcFuckNuggetMan
over a year ago

Den of Iniquity


"0

Filters are magic "

Do you want one ??

Message I mean obvs

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By *ex HolesMan
over a year ago

Up North

10 but they’re all cock pics I’d imagine so they’ll stay unopened

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"0

Filters are magic

Do you want one ??

Message I mean obvs "

You know how much quicker I answer messages these days

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By *rumpyMcFuckNuggetMan
over a year ago

Den of Iniquity


"0

Filters are magic

Do you want one ??

Message I mean obvs

You know how much quicker I answer messages these days "

Like lightning dear

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

None, zip, zero, nada, nought, null, 404 - message not found.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

0 unread and 0 in total

But this is pretty typical for me..

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By *unladx1984xzxMan
over a year ago

London

6 but replying now

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By *hristopherd999Man
over a year ago

Brentwood

None, nothing, zero zilch

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We keep on top of ours. Only 1 unread at the moment

Her x

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By *acha1TV/TS
over a year ago

Bolton

357 x

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By *ilverSwordMan
over a year ago

Belfast-ish

0

leaving that message icon light up hurt my brain

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

0. Tumbles blowing in the background.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

too many.. most of them 'im gna make u screem' txt spk bullshit from young lads a million miles away, that clearly can't read.

the ones i get from genuinely great people i like engaging with, are sorted straight away

Px

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By *assing Fancies xCouple
over a year ago

Sherwood Forest

All is quite on this front sarge zero.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

nil point

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

nothing. maybe i need some new pics

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By *lappyMan
over a year ago

Manchester

A big fat zero

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am experimenting today by leaving them from 10am to 10pm.

39 so far

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

42

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By *issmorganWoman
over a year ago

Calderdale innit

Currently 4 unread

I use lots of filters to keep them manageable.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

7

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By *xhib12Man
over a year ago

Blyth

6 but 2 are from the same person

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"50 unread message lucky it's a quiet day "

Not anymore I suppose

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Does my site supporter renewal reminder count?

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By *issMeSlowlyMan
over a year ago

Northampton

Zero

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

510

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Zero unread.

4 read

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A big whopping 0

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well. Your question's replies just proves the 'reality' of Fab...

No of Messages (on average)

Men: None. Occasionally 1 or 2

TV/TS: A couple or so.

Couples: A few.

Women: Eeek! I've lost count!

I'm not saying this is right or wrong or indeed anyone's fault (as it isn't) but its just the way it is on here. Has been from the start and I doubt it will ever change.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

596.

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By *oxyvixen99Woman
over a year ago

Newtownabbey

9 - I use the filters

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I delete as I go, think I have had about 20 in the last hour

Delete without reading ?

I don't need to disclose if I read them or not because it is my profile and my choice "

We were just trying to establish for these poor people on her that if people just delete without reading then it’s just a massive load waste of their time.

All our messages get an answer or it’s just bad manners

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By *wiftieeMan
over a year ago

near Glasgow

2

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By *orthern StarsCouple
over a year ago

Durham


"Zero

You're always gracious in answering my messages.

Thank you. X"

Thank tou. We really do try to answer all messages.

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By *leeperMan
over a year ago

Glasgow

0

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By *gent CoulsonMan
over a year ago

Secret hideaway in the pennines

1

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

1094 unread.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I delete as I go, think I have had about 20 in the last hour

Delete without reading ?

I don't need to disclose if I read them or not because it is my profile and my choice

We were just trying to establish for these poor people on her that if people just delete without reading then it’s just a massive load waste of their time.

All our messages get an answer or it’s just bad manners "

Good for you, try replying to hundereds a day, or simply read my profile

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By * Sophie xTV/TS
over a year ago

Derby

Currently 2 but purely as ive got my filters set well.

If i turn them off then it fills up quick with dick pics and the highly original 'Hi' messages to which I put as much effort into them as they have by sending them.....delete.

A quick read of profiles makes all the difference to everyone's experience on here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I delete as I go, think I have had about 20 in the last hour

Delete without reading ?

I don't need to disclose if I read them or not because it is my profile and my choice

We were just trying to establish for these poor people on her that if people just delete without reading then it’s just a massive load waste of their time.

All our messages get an answer or it’s just bad manners "

No it is or bad manners. Single women can get hundreds of messages a day on here, I am not going to spend time answering total strangers, when I could be doing something more productive with my time. It’s actually bad manners to expect a reply form an unrequested message. Do you reply to every junk mail letter you receive?

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By *all me FlikWoman
over a year ago

Galaxy Far Far Away

27 at the moment

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By *assing Fancies xCouple
over a year ago

Sherwood Forest


"I delete as I go, think I have had about 20 in the last hour

Delete without reading ?

I don't need to disclose if I read them or not because it is my profile and my choice

We were just trying to establish for these poor people on her that if people just delete without reading then it’s just a massive load waste of their time.

All our messages get an answer or it’s just bad manners "

wouldn't say it was bad manners at all, you don't reply to unwanted emails do you??? No one on here is ENTITLED to a reply especially if they have sent a message that hasn't be requested by the recipient.

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"I delete as I go, think I have had about 20 in the last hour

Delete without reading ?

I don't need to disclose if I read them or not because it is my profile and my choice

We were just trying to establish for these poor people on her that if people just delete without reading then it’s just a massive load waste of their time.

All our messages get an answer or it’s just bad manners "

Some people do, some people have to.

Everyone is here for fun, including those bombarded with messages. There aren't staff to deal with Fabmin

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I delete as I go, think I have had about 20 in the last hour

Delete without reading ?

I don't need to disclose if I read them or not because it is my profile and my choice

We were just trying to establish for these poor people on her that if people just delete without reading then it’s just a massive load waste of their time.

All our messages get an answer or it’s just bad manners "

Unfortunately there isn't a filter on here for location, the majority of my messages seem to be from people who live miles away. I tend to delete them without opening. It clearly states on my profile what I'm looking for and how I manage my messages, yet still people demand replies. Personally, I find it bad manners that people don't take the time to read a profile before messaging.

I honestly don't like coming across as rude, and I'm sure many people think I am. But it's absolutely impossible to politely reply to each and every message

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By *asilyled1Man
over a year ago

ogmore valley

Zero,same as yesterday.same as tomorrow. Quite like the peace and quiet

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By *indergirlWoman
over a year ago

somewhere, someplace

1265, I'm slacking big time keeping on top of them

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By *rumpyMcFuckNuggetMan
over a year ago

Den of Iniquity


"1265, I'm slacking big time keeping on top of them"

Holy Fuck

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By *indergirlWoman
over a year ago

somewhere, someplace


"1265, I'm slacking big time keeping on top of them

Holy Fuck "

Yup, I feel there may be a mass delete upcoming

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"1265, I'm slacking big time keeping on top of them"

*bulk delete* ain't nobody got time for that

Her x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

000000

And counting

I can't hack the pace

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By *rumpyMcFuckNuggetMan
over a year ago

Den of Iniquity


"1265, I'm slacking big time keeping on top of them

Holy Fuck

Yup, I feel there may be a mass delete upcoming "

I would too . Not that I'd ever get 5 let alone 1265

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

From 10am to 10pm I recieved 119

33 had read my profile.

I gave them a polite decline. 2 interested me.

The rest got bulk deleted.

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By *ocksareoffMan
over a year ago

Out n About

I did have one, now it's the regular nil poi

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mines completely empty ...... I feel proud xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"28"

Possibly a few more now

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh I have 0 at the moment

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Oh I have 0 at the moment "

That’s unread

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