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"A genuine question for the people are very open and don’t disguise their identities. Aren’t you worried if someone see it you knew or work? I guess not or you wouldn’t do it, maybe I just answered my own question lol" If they saw it they'd be on here to so what do you think they would do.... Out themselves? I didn't show my face previously but not too bothered now. A fair few at work already know anyway. | |||
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"I was recognised by one of the managers from a different branch who contacted me on FB before I had my face on show. He recognised my tattoos. People can be so easily recognisable from their wallpaper and location to furniture, to body parts. I spotted my ex in a group photo on someone else's profile..... and all I could see was his knee and calf. No scars, no stand out features. Of course not everyone will recognise you by a thumb or toe, but if ya really want to make sure, you need to blur the background or whatnot too." yes this | |||
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"I did on my last profile buttimes have changed & i dont want to be openly recognised. As for concerns over work, legally they have no grounds to do anything to you, giving its all consensual & in your free time (those workplace onces...well). Plus it does lessen the mailbox meaning i dont lose messages as much " It is not my workplace directly, it is my profession. There is a clause that is linked to the public perception. | |||
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"A genuine question for the people are very open and don’t disguise their identities. Aren’t you worried if someone see it you knew or work? I guess not or you wouldn’t do it, maybe I just answered my own question lol" No, if they’ve seen my face then they must be on this site too. Why be embarrassed? Everyone knows the reason we are on the site. It’s no secret | |||
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"Who defines public perception though? Its not like almost everyone uses dating apps... surely whatever happened would need to be a news worthy or police worthy incident rather than just on here, plus they have to be on here to see you so kinda puts them in same bracket & therefore same public perception....hit the complained with the exact same back. jeez, just about every adult has sex, with whom or doing what is no one elses business long as its consensual etc...i do wish they would stop the nonsense between sex life & everything else" I can't go into detail on here, but I checked with my professional body and I would lose my license. | |||
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"Jeez, you'd think that other adults would know better too, bet half of the rule makes are on here or likewise too. Not any of it is a crime...now. Just baffles me it does." Why does it baffle you that some folks don't want others to know how they go about their sex life? | |||
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"I did on my last profile buttimes have changed & i dont want to be openly recognised. As for concerns over work, legally they have no grounds to do anything to you, giving its all consensual & in your free time (those workplace onces...well). Plus it does lessen the mailbox meaning i dont lose messages as much " Yes they can. It counts as social media and bringing the company into disrepute. People have been sacked for being on here. | |||
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"Jeez, you'd think that other adults would know better too, bet half of the rule makes are on here or likewise too. Not any of it is a crime...now. Just baffles me it does. Why does it baffle you that some folks don't want others to know how they go about their sex life?" No, it baffles me that work places have any say over someone's life. Being on fab for instance is completely legal as is consensual sex regardless of type or kink involved or where it is found or with whom. Its a ridiculous clause. | |||
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"A genuine question for the people are very open and don’t disguise their identities. Aren’t you worried if someone see it you knew or work? I guess not or you wouldn’t do it, maybe I just answered my own question lol No, if they’ve seen my face then they must be on this site too. Why be embarrassed? Everyone knows the reason we are on the site. It’s no secret " Yes but there are very varied reasons to be on the site and some men have the view that if you are a single woman on Fab that you are available to everyone, anytime | |||
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"A genuine question for the people are very open and don’t disguise their identities. Aren’t you worried if someone see it you knew or work? I guess not or you wouldn’t do it, maybe I just answered my own question lol No, if they’ve seen my face then they must be on this site too. Why be embarrassed? Everyone knows the reason we are on the site. It’s no secret Yes but there are very varied reasons to be on the site and some men have the view that if you are a single woman on Fab that you are available to everyone, anytime " That’s true. I never thought of it from that perspective. Although to be fair, you could flip that. Every single guy on here IS available to everyone every time haha!!! | |||
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"Nope. We have no children to worry about. Neither of us have jobs where it could cause issues and we're not ashamed of being swingers or sexually liberated. Couldn't care less who sees my mug on here Lu " Yep I'm the same - no kids or job that would be an issue. It's caused no issues so far. Whoever has seen me on here and would judge me for it is on here too so pot and kettle | |||
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"I did on my last profile buttimes have changed & i dont want to be openly recognised. As for concerns over work, legally they have no grounds to do anything to you, giving its all consensual & in your free time (those workplace onces...well). Plus it does lessen the mailbox meaning i dont lose messages as much It is not my workplace directly, it is my profession. There is a clause that is linked to the public perception." Same for me. I have no embarrassment about my lifestyle choices but job can be put at risk by public perception and I have my mortgage to pay | |||
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"I did on my last profile buttimes have changed & i dont want to be openly recognised. As for concerns over work, legally they have no grounds to do anything to you, giving its all consensual & in your free time (those workplace onces...well). Plus it does lessen the mailbox meaning i dont lose messages as much It is not my workplace directly, it is my profession. There is a clause that is linked to the public perception. Same for me. I have no embarrassment about my lifestyle choices but job can be put at risk by public perception and I have my mortgage to pay " I am not losing a professional qualification that took me years to acquire and develop, for some nasty small minded little twunt to report me for spite. I am happy to share face photos to those I feel some connection or possibility, but not to millions 'just looking'. From a safety aspect, women have posted on here of men recognising them and approaching them in the street, and even following them home. | |||
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"It is a risk i take. I only started showing my face recently and if anyone has recognised me they have not said." And it’s a lovely face | |||
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"I have to say I’m intrigued that any profession would have an issue with it in this day and age. If the Armed Forces can be OK with a serving airman being nominated for a gay porn award, I’d have thought that we’re past that sort of thing. People’s private lives should not affect their professional life." I'm pretty sure some of the external (foreign) agencies we work with would take serious exception to such deviants being in contact with their youth. What is legal and what is sensible can be two different things. | |||
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"Worth remembering that anything you post online can easily be copied and used by someone else for whatever they want. Each to their own but imo its not worth the risks." No one will want to copy and use my photos lol | |||
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"Some of us have jobs/professions that can be affected by being recognised on here." i always wonder what sort of job you’re in there. Is it an issue with your employer or your clients? Anyway to answer the original question? Yeah maybe a little, but hey we’re all gear for the same reason I’d guess so why worry? | |||
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"Some of us have jobs/professions that can be affected by being recognised on here.i always wonder what sort of job you’re in there. Is it an issue with your employer or your clients? Anyway to answer the original question? Yeah maybe a little, but hey we’re all gear for the same reason I’d guess so why worry?" Education is one where people are rightly hesitant. | |||
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"I did on my last profile buttimes have changed & i dont want to be openly recognised. As for concerns over work, legally they have no grounds to do anything to you, giving its all consensual & in your free time (those workplace onces...well). Plus it does lessen the mailbox meaning i dont lose messages as much It is not my workplace directly, it is my profession. There is a clause that is linked to the public perception. Same for me. I have no embarrassment about my lifestyle choices but job can be put at risk by public perception and I have my mortgage to pay I am not losing a professional qualification that took me years to acquire and develop, for some nasty small minded little twunt to report me for spite. I am happy to share face photos to those I feel some connection or possibility, but not to millions 'just looking'. From a safety aspect, women have posted on here of men recognising them and approaching them in the street, and even following them home. " Absolutely the same and agree babe xx | |||
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"If someone you know see you here, is because is into the same things as you, so no shame at all!" People gossip. Nasty gossip. | |||
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"I've got to be careful for my job. I think. Otherwise I'd be happy to " Likewise. It's a shame I have to consider this, but as long as I am in this particular career it's safer to remain anonymous. | |||
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"A genuine question for the people are very open and don’t disguise their identities. Aren’t you worried if someone see it you knew or work? I guess not or you wouldn’t do it, maybe I just answered my own question lol" People I work with know im a swinger, so does my Mum aha. Honestly, I'm doing nothing wrong so I've nothing to be worried about. | |||
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"A genuine question for the people are very open and don’t disguise their identities. Aren’t you worried if someone see it you knew or work? I guess not or you wouldn’t do it, maybe I just answered my own question lol" I dont hide the fact I'm a swinger from people so nope x | |||
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"There's been a few guys I work/ed with that are on here and we all know about each other and have seen each others profiles, it's not an issue. It's not like I'm a member of an embarrassing website like 'i love the spice girls ' " What’s wrong with loving the spice girls? | |||
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" People can be so easily recognisable from their wallpaper and location to furniture, to body parts. I spotted my ex in a group photo on someone else's profile..... and all I could see was his knee and calf. No scars, no stand out features" To be fair he was the only smurf I’ve seen in a swing club so easy to spot. | |||
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"If someone you know see you here, is because is into the same things as you, so no shame at all!" Not necessarily, people join just to see what it's all about and have a nosey often ... | |||
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