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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Why is it so hard to be a stranger on this site?

I am a well educated man, I have quite a bit of experience, I can communicate on a certain level. I admit, English is not my mother tongue and sometimes I can’t express myself the way I would like to. Despite that, I don’t understand why most people here stop communicating with me when I say where I’m from, and some of them was very rude.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Where you from bud

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By *heVonMatterhornsCouple
over a year ago

Lincoln

Personal experience? It's fairly difficult to get to know a person without ever meeting too.

LvM

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Where you from bud "

Croatia

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Where you from bud

Croatia"

Nothing wrong woth croatia, take no notice,a small minority of people on here and in life in general have too much to say when its over a social platform.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Personal experience? It's fairly difficult to get to know a person without ever meeting too.

LvM"

I agree...but I always start with texting...after I introduce myself...puff...no answer, or I've been blocked...

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

Crewe ? What's up with Crewe ?

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

Maybe that's why I can't have the man I want........ I'm from Birmingham Those fucking anti brum bastards. ......

It's not me. It's where i'm from.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Crewe ? What's up with Crewe ?"

Don't ask me...I am only Stranger here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Personal experience? It's fairly difficult to get to know a person without ever meeting too.

LvM

I agree...but I always start with texting...after I introduce myself...puff...no answer, or I've been blocked..."

Lots of people get messages binned without reply.

Site rules clearing say no one has to reply.

Don't take it personally.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Where you from bud

Croatia

Nothing wrong woth croatia, take no notice,a small minority of people on here and in life in general have too much to say when its over a social platform."

Just this bud good luck

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek

If you're meaning on here, it's less to do with being from Croatia and all to do with being male!

The only blokes that don't get their messages deleted/ignored are the ones who don't send any.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe they think you are actually in Croatia ... not seeing it says Crewe and think you are too far away...

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Personal experience? It's fairly difficult to get to know a person without ever meeting too.

LvM

I agree...but I always start with texting...after I introduce myself...puff...no answer, or I've been blocked...

Lots of people get messages binned without reply.

Site rules clearing say no one has to reply.

Don't take it personally. "

You get me wrong. I exchange a few messages, and after I said where I am from...communication stops.

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By *ilfCrumpet9Man
over a year ago

Wirral

I know the feeling mate don't worry about it some folk are miss informed and shallow. But most on here are genuine good folk so don't be disheartened. More than welcome to message if you fancy a chat

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why is it so hard to be a stranger on this site?

I am a well educated man, I have quite a bit of experience, I can communicate on a certain level. I admit, English is not my mother tongue and sometimes I can’t express myself the way I would like to. Despite that, I don’t understand why most people here stop communicating with me when I say where I’m from, and some of them was very rude. "

Education doesn’t make for personality it makes for knowledge and I’d guess that most ladies prefer personality over education in the fab top trumps.

Best of luck op.

T

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Why is it so hard to be a stranger on this site?

I am a well educated man, I have quite a bit of experience, I can communicate on a certain level. I admit, English is not my mother tongue and sometimes I can’t express myself the way I would like to. Despite that, I don’t understand why most people here stop communicating with me when I say where I’m from, and some of them was very rude.

Education doesn’t make for personality it makes for knowledge and I’d guess that most ladies prefer personality over education in the fab top trumps.

Best of luck op.

T"

Personality...yeah, can you guess what kind of person I am just in few messages? I don't think so, no offense

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By *riving_Home_For_MimiWoman
over a year ago

Hampshire/Dorset

As long as you've been polite I don't see why it matters where you're from?

Maybe potential partners would be worried about language barrier face to face or cultural differences?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"As long as you've been polite I don't see why it matters where you're from?

Maybe potential partners would be worried about language barrier face to face or cultural differences? "

I am really polite guy, treat everyone with respect, particulary ladies

Language barrier? I was in Republic of Ireland and they English is really hard to understand. Despite this, I managed to gain some nice encounters. Cultural differences? I don't see any major differences between me and any Europian men or women. But I appreciate your opinion and thank you for it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why is it so hard to be a stranger on this site?

I am a well educated man, I have quite a bit of experience, I can communicate on a certain level. I admit, English is not my mother tongue and sometimes I can’t express myself the way I would like to. Despite that, I don’t understand why most people here stop communicating with me when I say where I’m from, and some of them was very rude.

Education doesn’t make for personality it makes for knowledge and I’d guess that most ladies prefer personality over education in the fab top trumps.

Best of luck op.

T

Personality...yeah, can you guess what kind of person I am just in few messages? I don't think so, no offense "

I think you can make a decision on whether a person is the kind of person you'd get along with in a few messages to be honest.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

"I think you can make a decision on whether a person is the kind of person you'd get along with in a few messages to be honest."

Well...It can be your personal opinion about someone after 2 or 3 messages, but it doesn't mean you are right about that person. I am talking about people who stops communicate with me after I say I am stranger.

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By *etite_delightWoman
over a year ago

BunnyLand

Are you sending your face pic along with those response? Maybe you are just not their type, if you are doing so!

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough

99.9% of guys on here find it difficult.

My advice - just relax, have fun in the forums and re-read what you've written before pressing that send button.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Are you sending your face pic along with those response? Maybe you are just not their type, if you are doing so! "

Oh, if someone says I'm not the type they're looking for, it's ok with me. I have my type, too

But I'm talking about people who's stopped communicate with me after I said I am stranger, after 2 messages. And there's lot of them here. That's the point.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"99.9% of guys on here find it difficult.

My advice - just relax, have fun in the forums and re-read what you've written before pressing that send button. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


""I think you can make a decision on whether a person is the kind of person you'd get along with in a few messages to be honest."

Well...It can be your personal opinion about someone after 2 or 3 messages, but it doesn't mean you are right about that person. I am talking about people who stops communicate with me after I say I am stranger. "

Maybe it's a language thing, I'd be a bit wary of someone telling me 'I'm a stranger' it's an odd way to describe yourself.

I said a few messages are enough to know if I'd want to get to know the person, it's about being right for me.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


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Maybe it's a language thing, I'd be a bit wary of someone telling me 'I'm a stranger' it's an odd way to describe yourself.

I said a few messages are enough to know if I'd want to get to know the person, it's about being right for me. "

Oh, I think I've introduced myself properly, like : My name is XY, I am from Croatia, looking for etc etc....

But it's not my first message to someone, it's third or fourth...that's what I'm talking about. I am aware that I can do some mistyping...but in my opinion, I don’t think there’s a reason not to talk to someone just because they’re not from your country.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


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Maybe it's a language thing, I'd be a bit wary of someone telling me 'I'm a stranger' it's an odd way to describe yourself.

I said a few messages are enough to know if I'd want to get to know the person, it's about being right for me.

Oh, I think I've introduced myself properly, like : My name is XY, I am from Croatia, looking for etc etc....

But it's not my first message to someone, it's third or fourth...that's what I'm talking about. I am aware that I can do some mistyping...but in my opinion, I don’t think there’s a reason not to talk to someone just because they’re not from your country.

"

I'd agree as would most people so perhaps that's not the reason but the only one you can think of, you'll never know for sure so as above, forget it and carry on

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


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Maybe it's a language thing, I'd be a bit wary of someone telling me 'I'm a stranger' it's an odd way to describe yourself.

I said a few messages are enough to know if I'd want to get to know the person, it's about being right for me.

Oh, I think I've introduced myself properly, like : My name is XY, I am from Croatia, looking for etc etc....

But it's not my first message to someone, it's third or fourth...that's what I'm talking about. I am aware that I can do some mistyping...but in my opinion, I don’t think there’s a reason not to talk to someone just because they’re not from your country.

I'd agree as would most people so perhaps that's not the reason but the only one you can think of, you'll never know for sure so as above, forget it and carry on "

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By *eoeclipseWoman
over a year ago

glasgow

Dude, dont take it personal, was chatting to a guy & planning to meet for a sd outdoor social...boom disappeared completely from site. Had already sent pic way before too. It happens & really its them missing out ....cos I'm fabulicious

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Dude, dont take it personal, was chatting to a guy & planning to meet for a sd outdoor social...boom disappeared completely from site. Had already sent pic way before too. It happens & really its them missing out ....cos I'm fabulicious "

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