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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Do you ever wonder what would have happened if you'd stuck to every diet you've ever started? I expect that, despite the fact I'd weigh no more than a dried leaf, much like today I'd still struggle to feel OK in any of my clothes. So technically, maybe being a bit fat isn't actually the issue....

What things do you wonder about?

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By *luebell888Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish

I often wonder what my life would have been like if i had moved to France to live with my french boyfriend. In those days we had no mobiles or internet and i was not wanting to leave my friends and family so declined to go when he asked. Think my life would have been so much better if i had been braver.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wonder what my life would be like now if I had stayed in the UK with my then boyfriend 15yrs ago.

I wonder if I would have caved in and had kids with him.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I often wonder why so few people don't seem to experience joy from living their life in the now

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By *naquest321Man
over a year ago

Carlisle


"I often wonder what my life would have been like if i had moved to France to live with my french boyfriend. In those days we had no mobiles or internet and i was not wanting to leave my friends and family so declined to go when he asked. Think my life would have been so much better if i had been braver."

Je ne regrette rien

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By * Lexi xWoman
over a year ago

stockport

If I had never moved up north, what my life would be like.......

Is my relationship making me happy......

Have I ever really loved a man......

Where has my self belief gone.....

Why can’t I stick to something that would potentially make me feel better about myself......

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I often wonder why so few people don't seem to experience joy from living their life in the now "

I’m guilty of wondering about the past a lot but always make sure to enjoy the moment. It’s crazy to think some choices in the past may have put you in a totally different place though.

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By *eyond PurityCouple
over a year ago

Lincolnshire

I've started to wonder if there's an alternative meaning to 'heavy cummer'. After a rather intense couple of days with K, where I imagined I'd have burnt off a gazillion calories, the scales told me I'd gained 5lb!

...so I wondered if there was such a thing as light cummers?

C

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By *heVonMatterhornsCouple
over a year ago

Lincoln


"I've started to wonder if there's an alternative meaning to 'heavy cummer'. After a rather intense couple of days with K, where I imagined I'd have burnt off a gazillion calories, the scales told me I'd gained 5lb!

...so I wondered if there was such a thing as light cummers?

C"

Featherweight jizzers?

LvM

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wonder sometimes what my life would have been if I didn't move down here a decade ago and stayed where I was..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I often wonder why so few people don't seem to experience joy from living their life in the now "

Sorry Yoda

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By *eyond PurityCouple
over a year ago

Lincolnshire


"I've started to wonder if there's an alternative meaning to 'heavy cummer'. After a rather intense couple of days with K, where I imagined I'd have burnt off a gazillion calories, the scales told me I'd gained 5lb!

...so I wondered if there was such a thing as light cummers?

C

Featherweight jizzers?

LvM"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you don’t stick to it it’s not for you simples

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
over a year ago

North West

I wonder what it'd have been like not to have become disabled 4 years ago and been able to be a "proper" mum

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

I personally don't think it is the issue. Until I was 18 I was dancing competitively and despite having the appetite of two men, I struggled to even reach 7 stone. Between 21 and 23 though I had a lot of health problems and with that on top of trying to obtain a degree while in and out of hospital, I went up to about 13 stone. I was cripplingly insecure at all those sizes when I was younger. I found body confidence partly through myself and going to clubs has helped me to accept myself. The liberation of being naked in front of others has been great for me. I'm still not totally comfortable in my body and I'm still trying to lose a little more weight but I know that won't bring me instant confidence as it never did in the past. Confidence has to come from loving yourself despite your flaws as you will always find some.

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