FabSwingers.com forum: Don't lie!

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Do u ever fall in love with someone from fab?

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By *moothdickMan
over a year ago

stoke

Not yet

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By *xtrafun4youMan
over a year ago

Dunstable

No not yet. Wishful thinking

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No.

But another interesting angle is... Would you still "use" them if they wanted more?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Have done yes and it was messy

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By *olden PoleMan
over a year ago

Kent

Not fallen in love but on a rare occasion KLTP gives a slight show of her face and my tummy gets flutters.

I do adore her

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

Yes, met my other half here seven years ago.

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By *heVonMatterhornsCouple
over a year ago

Lincoln

Yes

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By *aynLexiCouple
over a year ago

Bridgwater, Somerset

Yes

we met on fab fell in love and 4 years later still going strong

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By *abs..Woman
over a year ago

No.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"No.

But another interesting angle is... Would you still "use" them if they wanted more?

Use them?

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

Yes. We met in a dungeon thanks to Obifox and their social and are hoping to get married in two years.

And then I met another at a social.

Clearly I'm a fool for love.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

However I don't see it as this terrible thing to happen.

Particularly if it's mutual.

It's like any situation really, if you're being intimate with someone there's always some level of feeling and the chance for our hearts to get involved.

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By *mooth tongue 4uMan
over a year ago

edinburgh

No , not yet ,,,, but had some very memorable meets and lots of happy memories ,

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yes. We met in a dungeon thanks to Obifox and their social and are hoping to get married in two years.

And then I met another at a social.

Clearly I'm a fool for love."

I love this

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"No.

But another interesting angle is... Would you still "use" them if they wanted more?

Use them?"

They want love you give them sex. Or you tried to make things work but it doesn't, have you retrospectively wasted their time?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes and I am still very much in love with him.

Her x

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By *lint-EverhardMan
over a year ago

Perpignan and cap

My mate was a totally besotted by a stripper. It cost him shit loads in dances.

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By *oodgirlturnedNaughtyWoman
over a year ago

Derby

"Do u ever fall in love with someone from fab?

No, if I start to feel like I'm catching feelings, I don't see then anymore

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes.

Won't happen again

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes, we still are

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

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By *ea monkeyMan
over a year ago

Manchester (he/him)

Yep, I’ve met a couple of partners on here. Most recently, we met and now we’re engaged, been together for 18 months and very very happy

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham

Yes. It didn't last. I would be open to it again.

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

I don't see why it wouldn't/shouldn't be possible - just because of the underlying purpose of the site it's no different from anywhere else you might meet people you find a connection and chemistry with sufficient to form a lasting bond

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By *loss aka Miss JonesWoman
over a year ago

south coast IOW

I met my last partner on fab and we fell in love the minute we met. Spent 4 fantastic years together and he’s still my fb and best friend now. It’s not what I’m looking for but if it happens and it’s mutual then go with it.

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By *isAdventure69Woman
over a year ago

Hampshire

I've been smitten ... but not "in love" as such

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I already have! Never spoken to her, I’m too scared ha!

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By *iss DevilWoman
over a year ago

Bedford

Love is overrated and puts too many restraints on people. It's best to keep cool head if possible. Friendship and loyalty (but not exclusivity)- certainly yes. Love- no, thank you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No.

But I did with a guy I met in a club.

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By *luebell888Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish

"Do u ever fall in love with someone from fab?

No. Love is not what i am here for.

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
over a year ago

Reading

No i feel affection and strong like but it's not love. I think i would exit it if it looked to be heading that way. I have some wonderful men in my life thanks to fab.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No.

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By *isstinseltoesWoman
over a year ago

Calderdale innit

Yes, met my partner here over 5 years ago.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes, my last relationship began on fab. X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Cant say i have yet

Someone New by Hozier springs to mind for this topic

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Only each other

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No, something I'm not looking for on here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes, didn't intend for it to happen. Unfortunately it just ended, still hurts a little when I think about it.

Shes all loved up now, I'm happy for her but I avoid any contact with her.

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By *eoeclipseWoman
over a year ago

glasgow

I can certainly lust after people but love...hmm nope.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yes, we still are

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"No, something I'm not looking for on here. "

I was the same, it just happened. I certainly didn't want love from fab. As others have said, it's like any other meeting place and occasionally someone might come along when you least expect it and the feeling is very mutual.

It's life after all x

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By *ilkandhoneyxWoman
over a year ago

leicester

no way

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By *ilver_StarMan
over a year ago

Warwickshire

Every day!

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By *inkylipsWoman
over a year ago

Debauchery

No, I’ve met some great people and met them on numerous occasions but definitely not fell in love with them.

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

Well I'm kinda in love with someone on fab but he is my boyfriend of 5 years so you would hope so

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No and personally don't think I ever would allow myself either

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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago

East London

No, but I've had a couple of men from here tell me they love me.

I tell them it's lust.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope and I think many keep a purposeful distance with their meets to avoid it.

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By *hortarseWoman
over a year ago

Norfolk

Yes I have. Sometimes you get feelings you just got keep them under control.

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By *edeWoman
over a year ago

the abyss

I have started to catch 'feelings' before and so called time on our meetings as I knew it wasn't what he was looking for.

Can still chat as friends though and thats the important thing to me. Would rather save a friendship than ruin it for sex

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some times u can't help but get the feels when you speak to someone every day and long for the touch of a person and to be with them. Its a tough one as u don't wanna get caught up and find out they don't feel the same and it's easy to get confused with love and last.

Thats all I will say on that matter

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By *interfoxWoman
over a year ago

maesteg

No I haven't but I think I could.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes I have

and he’s just amazing

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By *pursChick aka ShortieWoman
over a year ago

On a mooch

You can find love in any areas of life so why should fab be any different.

If you are both happy with it and it hasn’t been forced onto another, then go for it, it is a natural feeling after all.

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By *tephTV67TV/TS
over a year ago

Cheshire

No, but to be honest I look for love elsewhere. I never rule anything out but I don’t think it’ll happen here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes twice lol might of said I fecking love you more than once after cumming heavy after a primal session HIGH FIVE!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yes I have

and he’s just amazing

I very much have and she’s incredible

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No but I intend to.

I will always be a swinger so I need to fall in love with a swinger, or not love at all, for I won't change who I am and go back to "vanilla" relationships

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes I have and it's been 5 wonderful years. We was definitely not looking for love as it's a funny situation for those that know us know why but it works for us. X

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek

Yes.

It ain't happening again, here or anywhere else. My heart is closed for business.

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By *wiftieeMan
over a year ago

near Glasgow

Yes.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The other thing to ask is can you fall for someone you have never even met?

I have been talking daily to one woman on gmfab now for over a year not always sexual stuff just day to day chat and I have developed feelings for her. Am I crazy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I did realise what a twat I was....all back to normal now

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By *icearmsMan
over a year ago

KIDLINGTON

"The other thing to ask is can you fall for someone you have never even met?

I have been talking daily to one woman on gmfab now for over a year not always sexual stuff just day to day chat and I have developed feelings for her. Am I crazy"

No not crazy.. its easy to fall for the persona rather than the person.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"The other thing to ask is can you fall for someone you have never even met?

I have been talking daily to one woman on gmfab now for over a year not always sexual stuff just day to day chat and I have developed feelings for her. Am I crazy

No not crazy.. its easy to fall for the persona rather than the person. "
the crazy thing is she has commented on the thread and I wonder if she means me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"The other thing to ask is can you fall for someone you have never even met?

I have been talking daily to one woman on gmfab now for over a year not always sexual stuff just day to day chat and I have developed feelings for her. Am I crazy

No not crazy.. its easy to fall for the persona rather than the person. the crazy thing is she has commented on the thread and I wonder if she means me

Ask her ?

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

Not in 10 years

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"The other thing to ask is can you fall for someone you have never even met?

I have been talking daily to one woman on gmfab now for over a year not always sexual stuff just day to day chat and I have developed feelings for her. Am I crazy

No not crazy.. its easy to fall for the persona rather than the person. the crazy thing is she has commented on the thread and I wonder if she means me

Ask her ?"
that would be brave

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"The other thing to ask is can you fall for someone you have never even met?

I have been talking daily to one woman on gmfab now for over a year not always sexual stuff just day to day chat and I have developed feelings for her. Am I crazy

No not crazy.. its easy to fall for the persona rather than the person. the crazy thing is she has commented on the thread and I wonder if she means me

Ask her ? that would be brave"

Seize the day! You can do it. Be brave

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The answers no for me.

I won’t be falling for anyone from fab as I wouldn’t date anyone from fab. I’m pretty good at keeping a handle on my emotions.

I don’t really believe in the whole you can’t help who you fall for saying. I keep men and meets at a distance from here.

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By *eyond PurityCouple
over a year ago

Lincolnshire

Yes...I knew from the months of chatting before we met we had something good.

Meeting kind of confirmed it was different and then subsequent meets just brought us closer.

We both weren’t looking, but we couldn’t deny our feelings...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"The other thing to ask is can you fall for someone you have never even met?

I have been talking daily to one woman on gmfab now for over a year not always sexual stuff just day to day chat and I have developed feelings for her. Am I crazy

No not crazy.. its easy to fall for the persona rather than the person. the crazy thing is she has commented on the thread and I wonder if she means me

Ask her ? that would be brave

Seize the day! You can do it. Be brave

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I'm sure seize the day is an avenged sevenfold song

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"The other thing to ask is can you fall for someone you have never even met?

I have been talking daily to one woman on gmfab now for over a year not always sexual stuff just day to day chat and I have developed feelings for her. Am I crazy

No not crazy.. its easy to fall for the persona rather than the person. the crazy thing is she has commented on the thread and I wonder if she means me

Ask her ? that would be brave

Seize the day! You can do it. Be brave

I'm sure seize the day is an avenged sevenfold song

Haha.

I just wouldn’t be able to help myself and ask. I ask any old crap that comes to mind ha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"No, something I'm not looking for on here.

It's life after all x"

So are you together ?

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By *VineMan
over a year ago

The right place

A little bit, yes! But only in a good way.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes we did! It wasn’t anything either of us intended and after a year of meeting on and off realised what was happening. Both of us terrified to tell the other, me trying to walk away from what I thought was complete madness. Thankfully took the plunge, opened up and now 7 years later we are still enjoying each other.

Mrs x

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By *inkySeeKinkyDoWoman
over a year ago

'tween PontyCarlo & CasVegas in West Yorks

Yes ive had 3 relationships from fab during my 9 years here and i couldnt imagine dating a vanilla person now...but sadly none lasted...not sure if its because im actually a horrid person or whether the guys ive fallen for are just not on the same page...either way its a spinster cat lady life for me now cos its just not worth the heartache of having to start over again

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By *iscean_dreamMan
over a year ago

Llanelli

I have once, had a 6 month relationship

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By *nliveneTV/TS
over a year ago

Selby

No , but who knows maybe one day that will happen . Of course she will need also fall in love for me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes, had a 5 year relationship (with a 6 month hiatus in the middle).

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Do u ever fall in love with someone from fab?

Nope. But I’m sure there’s plenty who have fallen in lust with each other.

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