FabSwingers.com forum: Sex with

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Lights on or off?

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *ensuallover1000Man
over a year ago

Somewhere In The Ether…

On preferably - the visual stimulus augments the passion

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *orraine999Woman
over a year ago

Somewhere

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *orseman 1959Man
over a year ago

worthing

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Off.

Tops on.

No talking.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *ocksareoffMan
over a year ago

Lincolnshire

Got to have some light, even if it's a few candles. so I can take in and enjoy seeing the women I'm with

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Definitely on. Looking into the eyes of someone your playing with, seeing the pleasure is a massive turn on

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

On! Preferably a lamp or something not the big light... Set the mood and all that.

Her x

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Got to have some light. A soft bed side lamp or candle. Got to be able to see what you are eating

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *isAdventure69Woman
over a year ago

Hampshire

I haven't had sex in the dark for probably 15 years perhaps even 20 ....

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *orthern StarsCouple
over a year ago

Durham

On. Watching is all part of it.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *ent and bratCouple
over a year ago

here there everywhere

Most definetley on, few fantasys can be played in the dark but outside of fantasy land you cant beat the stimulus of the sexiest body you have ever seen naked writhing at your every touch

Sorry drifted into a fantasy there as I was typing

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *orbidden eastMan
over a year ago

london dodging electric bikes

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *implynaughty1Couple
over a year ago

stockport

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Off.

Tops on.

No talking. "

Oh my

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *reat me rightWoman
over a year ago

Rotherham

Main light off in the room we are in, ambient lighting is way better than a harsh overhead bulb

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek

Mood lighting. I don't wanna be getting blinded by a bright light and squinting like I've just sucked half a lemon

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *liXbigMan
over a year ago

Wellington

On, at least most of the time

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *ensuallover1000Man
over a year ago

Somewhere In The Ether…

"Off.

Tops on.

No talking. "

And socks on to of course

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I need someone to stand by the light switch and turn it on and off constantly, yelling ‘Light goes on, light goes off!’ constantly. That’s why I’m home alone.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Dim lights or candles or fire place.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

On but not the big light

A small lamp or candle is enough. It's all about the ambiance

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends where she sits on the 1-10 scale

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lamp on or candles or even just natural daylight because I dont just fuck at night

Big light is just blinding

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not a bright hospital style bulb..but nice little sources of light here and there. Wall lamp or fairy lights or candles.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

However it comes.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Blindfolded!!! Not fussed

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I need someone to stand by the light switch and turn it on and off constantly, yelling ‘Light goes on, light goes off!’ constantly. That’s why I’m home alone. "

Plus I like saying constantly

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I prefer it with the strobe light on, it seems to give some Women full body orgasms.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Either

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *isspurplechesterWoman
over a year ago

Chester

If I’m blindfolded then I’m not fussed! But otherwise softly lit, definitely no interrogation lamp lighting!!

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Nottingham and Stamford

On , but she may want them off

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek

"I prefer it with the strobe light on, it seems to give some Women full body orgasms.

Oooo, that's me that is

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Nottingham and Stamford

"If I’m blindfolded then I’m not fussed! But otherwise softly lit, definitely no interrogation lamp lighting!!

Now - there's an idea.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *heVonMatterhornsCouple
over a year ago

Lincoln

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I prefer it with the strobe light on, it seems to give some Women full body orgasms.

Oooo, that's me that is "

Some of them may actually be seizures, so be careful if you try it at home!

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *elloWoman
over a year ago

alpha centauri

Depends on where I am ,

It's nice at night eithrr outside or indoors with the curtains open and the moonlight shining in,

Lights full on are handy so you can see where you're licking.

Dark room in a club is fun cause you can't see who you're touching.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek

"I prefer it with the strobe light on, it seems to give some Women full body orgasms.

Oooo, that's me that is

Some of them may actually be seizures, so be careful if you try it at home!"

It's 'my twitchy thing' .... or at least it was until I was 19 and took myself to get checked. Got hooked up with wires on my noggin and a flashy light. Then it got given a name

I made it to 19 years old with a 'twitchy thing' that my parents didn't even bother getting checked out!

I felt so loved and cared for.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Off in daylight, on at night !

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Low lighting

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *heNYCSausageMan
over a year ago

Everton

"Lights on or off?"

Depends, are we in IKEA? Otherwise on! Love seeing everything

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lights on or sexy subdued lighting, candles or small side light...

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Nottingham and Stamford

Maybe just a headtorch.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Maybe just a headtorch.

You going tunnelling?

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Nottingham and Stamford

"Maybe just a headtorch.

You going tunnelling?

Send in the canary first.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I prefer it with the strobe light on, it seems to give some Women full body orgasms.

Oooo, that's me that is

Some of them may actually be seizures, so be careful if you try it at home!

It's 'my twitchy thing' .... or at least it was until I was 19 and took myself to get checked. Got hooked up with wires on my noggin and a flashy light. Then it got given a name

I made it to 19 years old with a 'twitchy thing' that my parents didn't even bother getting checked out!

I felt so loved and cared for.

Sorry to hear that Princess Peach, I hope you have filled that void with lots of self love and care? I think a UV light would be more suitable then, especially with your beautiful eyes

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *arte_Blanche_NECouple
over a year ago

North East

On but dimmed xx

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

On.. maybe not really bright but I do prefer to see everything

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Maybe just a headtorch.

You going tunnelling?

Send in the canary first.

Makes sense, safety first and all that.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

On, unless we're standing at the window at night with curtains open!

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Nottingham and Stamford

"Maybe just a headtorch.

You going tunnelling?

Send in the canary first.

Makes sense, safety first and all that.

I may tie a plank to my arse too -just to be safe.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Nottingham and Stamford

"On, unless we're standing at the window at night with curtains open! "

Debenhams window??

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *mwirralMan
over a year ago

surrey

It depends if you woke up horny at 1am, then I rarely turn the lights on

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *ficouldMan
over a year ago

a quandary, could you change my mind?

I do eat my carrots , but must say I do like the light on.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Another for a bedside lamp on.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By * F 2018Couple
over a year ago

shropshire

"Lights on or off?"

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

On. Like to see that

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *oney and ReggieCouple
over a year ago

braintree

Definitely on

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Lights on or off?"

I prefer Dim lights or candles.. Can't go blind really.. Its not fun!

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Lights on or off?"

Definitely ON

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *aughty_Smooth_OperatorMan
over a year ago

Birmingham

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Dimmed

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *arakiss12TV/TS
over a year ago

Bedfuck

Flashing strobe effect, it's the only way. Especially if your bedroom is eyelevel to the top deck of a bus.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *reeneggsandsamMan
over a year ago

Perpignan and cap

On.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *ilverjagMan
over a year ago

swansea

Lights On for photos and videos, but I've known a few girls over the years who have been particularly self conscious who have insisted on the dark. A lady friend who took me to a place called Skinny Dippers in Brighton a few years ago would only play in the Dark Room for that reason.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *aomilatteCouple
over a year ago

Midlands

Soft and dim, or candles.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *he force is strongeCouple
over a year ago

stainforth

Definitely on,we have a multi coloured remote controlled bulb in the bed room

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Off.

A few candles.

Feeling our way.

Sensual, slow and delicious.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *crumdiddlyumptiousMan
over a year ago

99% of the time on, But sometimes for whatever reasons the lights off and the sex is slower and it heightens your senses,

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Deffo on unless it’s an arm chewer

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *arker secrets 321Man
over a year ago

West Bromwich

On want 2 look at her .

Admire her curves

See into her eyes x

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *melia DominaTV/TS
over a year ago

Edinburgh (She/Her)

Definitely on. I like to see the eyes of the victim beneath me...

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend

Candle light is good ... darkness enhances your other senses

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

On / Mood lighting. Their beautiful body deserves full attention xx

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Off with main lights. Maybe keep in the ambience led backlighting. Though most hotels not have this .

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Off.

Tops on.

No talking. "

Yes this. And a little bit of crying every so often and cake on the side table.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Both have their attractions, teasing in the dark is fun.

Candles win everytime though

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

On xx

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *eyond PurityCouple
over a year ago

Lincolnshire

On...got to be able to have eye contact!

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Definitely on

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Dimmed.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Either or both totally different sensory experiences

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *ho am IWoman
over a year ago

Mids

"On...got to be able to have eye contact!

^^ this

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *adame BWoman
over a year ago

C'est moi Boudoir

"I need someone to stand by the light switch and turn it on and off constantly, yelling ‘Light goes on, light goes off!’ constantly. That’s why I’m home alone. "

Would love to have passionate sex in a room with Clapper lights...disco time

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Lights on or off?"

On for me

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *eldomVanillaMan
over a year ago

London

Glitter ball and strobe lights on get the party started

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Day time don't need to worry night time deff on...

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Soft dimmed lights

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek

"Soft dimmed lights

Or I could just bend over, what with the sun shining out of my arse and all that

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *ySweetLadyWoman
over a year ago

London

On.

"Soft dimmed lights

This would be ideal at night.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *assing Fancies xCouple
over a year ago

Sherwood Forest

Off/on/dimed/candles/the light from the TV... we generally don't really have a preference.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *nliveneTV/TS
over a year ago

Selby

On please

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Definitely lights on. Our bedroom light is connected to google home mini. Unfortunately she doesn't understand when I ask her to dim the light to 'shag' mode!!! Useless.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *unmatt888Man
over a year ago

Duns

Definitely on!

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *VineMan
over a year ago

Just north of Bristol

I prefer on.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *ig_eric_tionMan
over a year ago

IPSWICH

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *ilverjagMan
over a year ago

swansea

"Candle light is good ... darkness enhances your other senses

Then if you have a fart in the flame it adds a whole new meaning to the term, "Candle in the wind "

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *j321Man
over a year ago

Huddersfield

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *alking HeadMan
over a year ago

Bolton

Makes no odds once the gimp mask goes on..

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *partharmonyCouple
over a year ago

Ruislip

On, but we normally do it in the daytime anyway.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *abamanMan
over a year ago

bromley

Always on unless it’s.. waking up in the middle of the night sex that you both barley remember but felt really good and felt like a dream

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *ich_ChesterMan
over a year ago

Chester

Always on

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

Post new Message to Thread