FabSwingers.com forum: Prick teasers

By *gent Coulson OP Man
over a year ago

Secret hideaway in the pennines

I know I have been away for fad for about 4 years, but it seems there are more prick teasers on than ever, several conversations where it's got to the point of fixing up a meet for post lockdown , then boom they delete and block.

Not that I am bothered, but it is a little frustrating

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its never happened to me. Maybe it's something you've said?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not heard that phrase since I was in school.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

People can change their mind. Doesn’t mean they’re a prick tease

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By *affron40Woman
over a year ago

manchester

Maybe you said something they didn’t like? Not necessarily a prick tease..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"People can change their mind. Doesn’t mean they’re a prick tease

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By *gent Coulson OP Man
over a year ago

Secret hideaway in the pennines

It literally was setting the date and that came from them not me

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

what are men that do this to couples called?

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By *gent Coulson OP Man
over a year ago

Secret hideaway in the pennines

"what are men that do this to couples called?"
cowards

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Prick teaser? Really?

Bit childish

Nobody owes you anything on fab,people can change their minds,as can you.

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By *ea monkeyMan
over a year ago

Manchester (he/him)

I think that it’s easy to blame others and call people time wasters or as you put it; prick teasers. The truth of the matter though is usually far less simplistic.

Most of the time, people don’t cut contact for no reason and if you’ve done your due diligence, they won’t be time wasters. Which leaves it as someone changing their mind.

Blaming the other person, without a degree of introspection, is usually missing the point

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Prick teaser? Really?

Bit childish

Nobody owes you anything on fab,people can change their minds,as can you."

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By *gent Coulson OP Man
over a year ago

Secret hideaway in the pennines

I wasn't actually having a rant, I know we all have choices, but when someone else sets the pace of the conversation and cuts you off in mid stream, it is a little annoying.

Hence I used the term.

Slate me for it if you will.

Rant over

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By *heGateKeeperMan
over a year ago

Stratford

Chalk it up to experience fella. It happens to the best of us

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By *rder66Man
over a year ago

Tatooine

People change their minds for various reason, they have that right to.

It could be something you said, it could be just a case that aren't that interested anymore.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"People change their minds for various reason, they have that right to.

It could be something you said, it could be just a case that aren't that interested anymore."

Pity some don't realise that on here

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By *heVonMatterhornsCouple
over a year ago

Lincoln

What if, and bear with me here because ita a little outlandish, they weren't *really* women you were talking to?

LvM

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By *gent Coulson OP Man
over a year ago

Secret hideaway in the pennines

"What if, and bear with me here because ita a little outlandish, they weren't *really* women you were talking to?

LvM"
that thought never crossed my mind actually.

Silly mistake on my part

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I know I have been away for fad for about 4 years, but it seems there are more prick teasers on than ever, several conversations where it's got to the point of fixing up a meet for post lockdown , then boom they delete and block.

Not that I am bothered, but it is a little frustrating"

I thought this was going to be a new sex toy for us men by the heading..

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By *heVonMatterhornsCouple
over a year ago

Lincoln

"What if, and bear with me here because ita a little outlandish, they weren't *really* women you were talking to?

LvM that thought never crossed my mind actually.

Silly mistake on my part"

It happens unfortunately, you'll just have to trust your gut. If the smoking hot eighteen year old, who looks suspiciously like your favourite pornstar, and just joined the site a week ago, is desperate to gobble your cock and gargle your gravy... I've got bad news

LvM

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By *gent Coulson OP Man
over a year ago

Secret hideaway in the pennines

"What if, and bear with me here because ita a little outlandish, they weren't *really* women you were talking to?

LvM that thought never crossed my mind actually.

Silly mistake on my part

LvM"

I don't go that low age wise, but get your point.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What are you, 12!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What if, and bear with me here because ita a little outlandish, they weren't *really* women you were talking to?

LvM that thought never crossed my mind actually.

Silly mistake on my part

LvM

I don't go that low age wise, but get your point.

We’re they very forward? Talking a bit racey? Chances are they’re not what they seem.

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By *gent Coulson OP Man
over a year ago

Secret hideaway in the pennines

What are you, 12!"
sometimes yes, it was childish and stupid I admit, and I shouldn't have had a rant.

Next time engage brain before opening mouth

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeah, I’m with you OP

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It’s called free will.

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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT

"Yeah, I’m with you OP

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By *manaWoman
over a year ago

Basingstoke

Personal choice OP

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By *urora1912Woman
over a year ago

Norfolk East anglia

Not that I am bothered, but it is a little frustrating

I thought this was going to be a new sex toy for us men by the heading..

Unlucky for you

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By *irty PrettyWoman
over a year ago

Cardiff

"It literally was setting the date and that came from them not me"

Did covid vanish while I wasn’t looking? You shouldn’t be setting a date.

And maybe she changed her mind because of your antiquated, sexist language.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not that I am bothered, but it is a little frustrating

I thought this was going to be a new sex toy for us men by the heading..

Unlucky for you

I know right.. damn

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What are you, 12!"

That’s what I thought.

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By *reat me rightWoman
over a year ago

Rotherham

So whats the reverse called? Have met the same guy quite a few times over the years, and chat intermittently when neither of us are meeting. Then he usually goes "quiet". Just started the chatty thing again to find, Friday night he was all for the most delicious filthiest of chat. Same night- about 10 mins later - zip, nada. I'm suspecting the wife got hold of his phone!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Attitude like that I would cancel too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"So whats the reverse called? Have met the same guy quite a few times over the years, and chat intermittently when neither of us are meeting. Then he usually goes "quiet". Just started the chatty thing again to find, Friday night he was all for the most delicious filthiest of chat. Same night- about 10 mins later - zip, nada. I'm suspecting the wife got hold of his phone!!"

See my thread entitled Men

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sounds like he was having a phone wank.

I never talk dirty for this reason.

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By *ornyinConwyMan
over a year ago

Conwy

I've had similar OP, even turned up outside where 1 woman on here was staying (after arranging a meet obviously), only to find she'd blocked me! Maybe a time waster, maybe nerves got the better of her, I'll never know.

Others just stop messaging, not from anything I've said I don't think.

Remember that as males, each female or couple we message might get 50/100 or even more messages off other males, so a change of heart is highly likely!

Just think, they missed out on a good meet, & move on

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By *assing Fancies xCouple
over a year ago

Sherwood Forest

I never get people that are in the mindset that anyone on here owes anyone anything (i.e. A reply, A face pic in return, explaining themselves and there choices) yes I get that it can be incredibly frustrating for some and we've been in the position where we've been ghosted ourselves but for God sake come on...... We are all adults so can we stop throwing the toys out the pram when we don't get what we want. Lifes a bitch and not all people conduct themselves in the same manner, take it on the chin and move on

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By *ersey GirlCouple
over a year ago

Glasgow

Loads of them OP. Maybe not engage in sex chat then you know who's interested in you. If a female initates the chat in a sexual way they most likely are just in it for the wind up

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not that I am bothered, but it is a little frustrating"

You say you aren't bothered, yet you post about it?

Something tells me it might be the way you communicate with them as this is itself is a little passive agressive.

Or as others have said they have simply changed their minds which everyone has the right to do so, even without explaination

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’d say you are bothered as you have created a post so say you are pissed off

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By *ersey GirlCouple
over a year ago

Glasgow

So it's something the OP has said. They just changed their minds. He's being childish. Yeah there's no way it's the more plausible explanation

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By *partharmonyCouple
over a year ago

Ruislip

You seem bothered enough to post a thread about it.

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