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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

When you look at a profile and think someone looks amazing, you are just about to message and then....

What do you see on a profile and think nope not for me!

So many times now my heart has been broken looking at a worldy then see them with a strap on haha I just cant be having that done to me

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

Dirty untidy backgrounds

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By *rMrsB.Couple
over a year ago

Barnsley

Long toe nails

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham


"When you look at a profile and think someone looks amazing, you are just about to message and then....

What do you see on a profile and think nope not for me!

So many times now my heart has been broken looking at a worldy then see them with a strap on haha I just cant be having that done to me "

Just because they have a strap on doesn't mean they'll use it on you

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By *luebell888Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish

Vulgar updates.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"When you look at a profile and think someone looks amazing, you are just about to message and then....

What do you see on a profile and think nope not for me!

So many times now my heart has been broken looking at a worldy then see them with a strap on haha I just cant be having that done to me "

Your heart has been broken looking at a profile, isn’t that slightly over egging it ?!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"When you look at a profile and think someone looks amazing, you are just about to message and then....

What do you see on a profile and think nope not for me!

So many times now my heart has been broken looking at a worldy then see them with a strap on haha I just cant be having that done to me

Your heart has been broken looking at a profile, isn’t that slightly over egging it ?! "

Perhaps...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

420 friendly or anything like that.

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By *aughtyandhandsomeMan
over a year ago

button moon

Up for anything instantly puts me off

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When my battery goes flat...total turn off

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By *eyond PurityCouple
over a year ago

Lincolnshire

Smoker

Bareback pics on a single guys profile

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

Some great pics and then some really awful ones, makes me question their judgement.

The thoughtlessness of some, who say almost nothing and prompt you to question them, also suggests someone who's not possibly think about what I'd need.

Anything aggressive or highly negative.

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By *heVonMatterhornsCouple
over a year ago

Lincoln


"When you look at a profile and think someone looks amazing, you are just about to message and then....

What do you see on a profile and think nope not for me!

So many times now my heart has been broken looking at a worldy then see them with a strap on haha I just cant be having that done to me "

So you stop having interest in a women because of her strapon? You know there is many bi women who use that with females, right?

For me it would be smoker or close up picture of their open butthole(usually with some dark hair around it)

K

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

But you can tell them about your boundaries and they don't have to use it on you, OP. Unless it's their deal or no deal type of thing.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Them hanging out of loads of different women.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Any profile that tells me to ‘JOG ON!’ if I don’t like [insert whatever it is they’ve got beef about], I’m not jogging anywhere, I’ve got my 10,000 steps in.

Extensive use of caps lock, stop shouting, nobody cares.

Narrow minded, Little Englanders, I know what I like and like what I bloody well say types, who think being rude is some sort of a badge of honour.

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By *gent CoulsonMan
over a year ago

Secret hideaway in the pennines

420 friendly or some other slang term for illegal substances

Pics of cum dripping out of their pussy.

Not attractive

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough

Normally if they they only meet 'fit' people.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Any profile that tells me to ‘JOG ON!’ if I don’t like [insert whatever it is they’ve got beef about], I’m not jogging anywhere, I’ve got my 10,000 steps in.

Extensive use of caps lock, stop shouting, nobody cares.

Narrow minded, Little Englanders, I know what I like and like what I bloody well say types, who think being rude is some sort of a badge of honour. "

I have to agree.

And it's mainly womens profiles that are guilty of these incoherent RANTS IN CAPS LOCK

As if the people that send the messages they don't want to receive have read the War and Peace length rant

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By *offiaCoolWoman
over a year ago

Kidsgrove


"Normally if they they only meet 'fit' people.

"

Depends on the individual definition of 'fit'

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Any profile that tells me to ‘JOG ON!’ if I don’t like [insert whatever it is they’ve got beef about], I’m not jogging anywhere, I’ve got my 10,000 steps in.

Extensive use of caps lock, stop shouting, nobody cares.

Narrow minded, Little Englanders, I know what I like and like what I bloody well say types, who think being rude is some sort of a badge of honour.

I have to agree.

And it's mainly womens profiles that are guilty of these incoherent RANTS IN CAPS LOCK

As if the people that send the messages they don't want to receive have read the War and Peace length rant "

Yeah, I didn’t want to say, but some women looooooooove the caps lock button!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Gaping pics.

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough


"Normally if they they only meet 'fit' people.

Depends on the individual definition of 'fit' "

Exactly. They don't realise how fit i have to be to carry 22 stone around all day.

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By *ablo minibar123Woman
over a year ago

.

Seeing 'likes to lick for hours' or 'can breathe through my ears' is an instant signal that the person isn't for me.

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By *ittyandtheboyCouple
over a year ago

Back of the bins.


"When you look at a profile and think someone looks amazing, you are just about to message and then....

What do you see on a profile and think nope not for me!

So many times now my heart has been broken looking at a worldy then see them with a strap on haha I just cant be having that done to me "

Bi/homophobic comments or transphobic stuff.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A couples profile with no pictures of the male at all.

Her x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"When you look at a profile and think someone looks amazing, you are just about to message and then....

What do you see on a profile and think nope not for me!

So many times now my heart has been broken looking at a worldy then see them with a strap on haha I just cant be having that done to me

So you stop having interest in a women because of her strapon? You know there is many bi women who use that with females, right?

For me it would be smoker or close up picture of their open butthole(usually with some dark hair around it)

K"

Haha I probably wasn’t specific enough, but if they are straight and have loads of pics of them in a strap on I probably would still feel less inclined to message as I don’t see a connection, dangerous grounds that

And I agree, don’t get the whole close up in holes thing lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Seeing 'likes to lick for hours' or 'can breathe through my ears' is an instant signal that the person isn't for me."

Breathe through my ears dear me haha

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By *toC Thats MeWoman
over a year ago

Sheffield

Been here before I know how this site works. Surely if you’re a serial joiner/leaver to me it says you don’t stick around xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Racism, misogyny and self centred-ness

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"When you look at a profile and think someone looks amazing, you are just about to message and then....

What do you see on a profile and think nope not for me!

So many times now my heart has been broken looking at a worldy then see them with a strap on haha I just cant be having that done to me "

A real messy background of a photo.

Also agree with the strap on part

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By *rder66Man
over a year ago

Tatooine

At the moment, everything.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Profiles with "Apply Within", are an instant no go for us, talk about over inflated egos.

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By *immybathMan
over a year ago

melksham


"Dirty untidy backgrounds "

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Racism, misogyny and self centred-ness "

Is there a lot of this? Fortunately I haven’t came across this often

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By *viatrixWoman
over a year ago

Redhill

Profiles that can’t tell the difference between your/you’re, their/there/they’re,

“of” instead of “have” ... “I could of invited you...” no thaaaaanks!

Photos with many different women. Don’t want to be added to the album, thanks!

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By *naquest321Man
over a year ago

Carlisle

When they mention they’re fussy and then you see who they’ve been with in the verifications.

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By *areasRockinghorsepooWoman
over a year ago

my happy place

Recent updates of "free now who wants it".

We are in a lockdown. I presume they mean covid when they say who wants it!

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By *areasRockinghorsepooWoman
over a year ago

my happy place


"When they mention they’re fussy and then you see who they’ve been with in the verifications. "

I also check this lol

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By *naquest321Man
over a year ago

Carlisle


"When they mention they’re fussy and then you see who they’ve been with in the verifications.

I also check this lol "

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By *isstinseltoesWoman
over a year ago

Calderdale innit

57 cock pics at different angles

I'm. Married/attached and she doesn't know

Not here to chat or exchange too many messages.

I won't swap face pics on here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No kissing !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wish I could find a woman with a strapon

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

God forbid there’s a dirty fingernail in there

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By *inkylipsWoman
over a year ago

Debauchery


"When you look at a profile and think someone looks amazing, you are just about to message and then....

What do you see on a profile and think nope not for me!

So many times now my heart has been broken looking at a worldy then see them with a strap on haha I just cant be having that done to me "

Well I have a strap on in mine but doesn’t I use it on every man I meet. You have probably missed out on some good women because of that naive notion

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By *oomarangMan
over a year ago

Chester


"420 friendly or anything like that."

Same here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A guy being out off wow

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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT

A bad attitude

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"God forbid there’s a dirty fingernail in there "

Haha I feel personally victimised by this one

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By * Lexi xWoman
over a year ago

stockport

No face pics

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By *riving_Home_For_MimiWoman
over a year ago

Hampshire/Dorset

Smoker

Any derogatory names of a woman like slut/slag etc.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Pretty much any derogatory comments about any one gender or ethnic group (surprisingly seen a lot)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Multiple meet pics,

fishnets,

body writing,

dirty backgrounds

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