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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Does everyone have a exhibitionist streak?

In the day and age of cyber sex, recording everything, amateur porn and cam shows, do folk still have sex for themselves? No showing off, no point proving just pure enjoyable private pleasure. Just musing.

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

I do but I'm curious about being watched. Obviously I've been seen having sex in clubs but I was always very absorbed in what I was doing and not paying much attention to anyone else.

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By *gent CoulsonMan
over a year ago

Secret hideaway in the pennines


"I do but I'm curious about being watched. Obviously I've been seen having sex in clubs but I was always very absorbed in what I was doing and not paying much attention to anyone else. "

Ditto, it's for my and my partner at that time though

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By *stbury DavenportMan
over a year ago

Nottingham

I have sex for myself and my partners. I'm growing to enjoy having a live audience, though — I don't look like much, so it can feel nice to demonstrate what I can *do*.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have sex, as I enjoy it a lot. Sometimes the trill of doing something different, like being watched makes the sex even better xxxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In the Facebook Instagram Tik Tok age, this question can be asked about any aspect of life.

Why bother doing it if no-one is watching.

*Like*

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've never filmed myself having sex or done it in a room with people watching.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I prefer intimate encounter, I’m more of a giver so the experience is more around enjoying pleasing whilst enjoying it myself too, don’t feel the need to involve others to enjoy it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Very much so, sex is private for me. Despite me having a few naughty solo videos on here (which is just a naughty turn on) when I have with someone it's just me and him, focused on each other.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Very much so, sex is private for me. Despite me having a few naughty solo videos on here (which is just a naughty turn on) when I have with someone it's just me and him, focused on each other.

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*Have sex with someone

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"In the Facebook Instagram Tik Tok age, this question can be asked about any aspect of life.

Why bother doing it if no-one is watching.

*Like*"

Sad state of affairs really.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes. Of course I enjoy sex for myself, I hope she enjoys it with me.

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By *uriousscouserWoman
over a year ago

Wirral

I've never filmed and never been watched by anyone other than whoever I was in bed with at the time.

Sex isn't performative for me, but maybe that's just because of my age?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've never been filmed having sexy or other than when playing with and as a couple been watched having sex.

I'm not sure anyone would want to lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Having sex in front of others in a club, IS having sex for myself.

It is a kink.

I get turned on being watched

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Having sex in front of others in a club, IS having sex for myself.

It is a kink.

I get turned on being watched "

In regards to cyber though, that does nothing for me.

I like to see my audience.

I also do still have private 1 on 1 sex x

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek

I'm not much of a fan of having people watching if I know they're watching at the time.

When we went to a club my ex loved it, so I indulged. What I didn't like was the sense that it was to "show off" because he wouldn't have the same sex there that we had at home (and we'd have a lot of different sex at home)

It was more "jackhammer" and pounding and didn't feel natural or right, I didn't feel connected to him at that time, but that he was feeling connected to his audience.

I have videos and photos that are natural and I'm happy for others to see those (all parties permitting of course) so it feels like I'm sharing a story rather than being part of someone else's performance.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Does everyone have a exhibitionist streak?

In the day and age of cyber sex, recording everything, amateur porn and cam shows, do folk still have sex for themselves? No showing off, no point proving just pure enjoyable private pleasure. Just musing. "

Both really!

Private enjoyment is fantastic - and exploring each other and having fun is great.

But there’s something nice about recording it for the flashbacks and memories. And maybe sharing that a little.

Not one for live action though. Yet.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Fun, pleasure.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If I am have sex no matter if it’s filmed private or people watching I am have sex for me and because I injoy it

Will say though sex for the camera and in front off people is different that my private sex

Yes I play to the crowed or the camera but I love all aspects off it

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

I only ever have sex for myself and the person I am with - even when I used to go to clubs a fair bit.

There were two occasions in that time I was "aware" of being watched but even so on those occasions it was still very much about me and the person(s) I was with - although one of them gathered quite an audience and left me feeling "in the spotlight" a little more than I was comfortable with

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Omg yes! I get so turned on with an audience. But I cum sooo much harder when there’s a connection and we’re in private together x

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By *luebell888Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish

I have sex for me and the man i am with but do not mind if folk wish to watch.x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We enjoy being watched sometimes...

Lu

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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago

East London

I don't have an exhibitionist streak.

The thought of someone who isn't part of my sex party seeing my boobs and stomach flop around, mortifies me.

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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago

East London

Oh, I did have sex with my buddy once while another of his buddies watched on Skype.

I liked that, because she wasn't a total stranger.

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By *andyblokeMan
over a year ago

birmingham

i have been videoed and photographed and tbh it doesnt bother me. i quite like it

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By *eyond PurityCouple
over a year ago

Lincolnshire

We have sex for ourselves and each other...I doubt we’d change in a club or in a room with others. I certainly won’t get all porn starry

We’ve done a couple of videos but they’ll never be shared with anyone else....they are for our eyes only.

I think C has an exhibitionist streak and enjoys the admiring glances and comments but I don’t think she cares when the action starts as she’s in her own bubble then....

K

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have sex for reciprocal pleasure. Sometimes I’m greedy and like things to be one sided often with my partner wanting the same kind of meet.

In terms of exhibitionism, I used to like being watched and recorded, I don’t mind so much but I just don’t think my body looks as good as it used to. Depends who is watching too I guess.

I do like photography anyway so taking naughty pictures and putting effort in to get a good shot is always fun!

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By *etcplCouple
over a year ago

Gapping Fanny


"Does everyone have a exhibitionist streak?

In the day and age of cyber sex, recording everything, amateur porn and cam shows, do folk still have sex for themselves? No showing off, no point proving just pure enjoyable private pleasure. Just musing. "

Its only recently that we started actively taking photos and video footage. Most of our kink play is for those involved only.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have always wanted to be in the room, in the moment when making love or even having a quickie.

I had a lover once who loved being filmed. Took a while but I got used to it.

Preference by far is in the room in the experience with lots of time and not to be disturbed.

Socks off for sure.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For the pleasure and for the escapism... I enjoy it just being me and a partner just enjoying each other in whatever way that maybe.

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