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By *ydia_Lovegood OP   Woman
over a year ago

St. Ives

Chatting to this guy on here, lots of banter, house on fire, we swap numbers, couple of days on WhatsApp, banter continues... Wake up and I'm blocked.. Oookkkayy... So message him on here.. Why the block? Asking for an explanation, something a grown up would have given is not unreasonable no? ... message unread for a few days then blocked on here too... I swear at no point did I send him an unsolicited fanny pic.. Maybe that's the problem.. Hey ho..we move...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe something you said ?

But even then, he should have at least told you why.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wife probably found out x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The fantasy became to real I suspect.

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By *ydia_Lovegood OP   Woman
over a year ago

St. Ives


"Maybe something you said ?

But even then, he should have at least told you why. "

I was expecting a Jean Claude Van Damme quote...

Me say anything inappropriate? I swear I was a complete lady.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

He spunked up

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It was probably a bloke pretending......, oh.

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By *ydia_Lovegood OP   Woman
over a year ago

St. Ives


"Wife probably found out x"

You may be right x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Thrill of the chase, his loss

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By *AYENCouple
over a year ago

Lincolnshire


"Wife probably found out x"

Almost certainly this.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Maybe something you said ?

But even then, he should have at least told you why.

I was expecting a Jean Claude Van Damme quote...

Me say anything inappropriate? I swear I was a complete lady. "

If you phone a psychic and she doesn't answer the phone before it rings, hang up.

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By *ydia_Lovegood OP   Woman
over a year ago

St. Ives


"The fantasy became to real I suspect. "

To be honest we were quite a distance away so probs wouldn't have met up.

If that was the reason then why not just say so... x

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By *ydia_Lovegood OP   Woman
over a year ago

St. Ives


"It was probably a bloke pretending......, oh. "

Pretending to be a man.. Hehehe...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's probably him, not you, as others have said, partner finding out, him getting guilt pangs, or scared by fantasy becoming reality, he might be game playing, just being a dick. Don't take it personally, move on and find someone else, plenty more angler fish in the deep sea!

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By *ydia_Lovegood OP   Woman
over a year ago

St. Ives


"Maybe something you said ?

But even then, he should have at least told you why.

I was expecting a Jean Claude Van Damme quote...

Me say anything inappropriate? I swear I was a complete lady.

If you phone a psychic and she doesn't answer the phone before it rings, hang up."

Air is beautiful, yet you cannot see it. It's soft, yet you cannot touch it. Air is a little like my brain.

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By *ydia_Lovegood OP   Woman
over a year ago

St. Ives


"It's probably him, not you, as others have said, partner finding out, him getting guilt pangs, or scared by fantasy becoming reality, he might be game playing, just being a dick. Don't take it personally, move on and find someone else, plenty more angler fish in the deep sea! "

I don't take it personally lovely. Believe me. Some people are just strange..

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By *ydia_Lovegood OP   Woman
over a year ago

St. Ives


"Thrill of the chase, his loss "

Thank you x

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By *unkym34Man
over a year ago

London

Maybe he is just really busy lol

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By *irtydevil666Man
over a year ago

bristol

The joys of fab.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Maybe something you said ?

But even then, he should have at least told you why.

I was expecting a Jean Claude Van Damme quote...

Me say anything inappropriate? I swear I was a complete lady.

If you phone a psychic and she doesn't answer the phone before it rings, hang up.

Air is beautiful, yet you cannot see it. It's soft, yet you cannot touch it. Air is a little like my brain."

I am fascinated by air. If you remove the air from the sky, all the birds would fall to the ground. And all the planes, too

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By *ydia_Lovegood OP   Woman
over a year ago

St. Ives


"Maybe he is just really busy lol"

Ohh... You made me chuckle..

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By *unkym34Man
over a year ago

London


"Maybe he is just really busy lol

Ohh... You made me chuckle.. "
I do try. Now where’s my block button lol

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By *ydia_Lovegood OP   Woman
over a year ago

St. Ives


"Maybe something you said ?

But even then, he should have at least told you why.

I was expecting a Jean Claude Van Damme quote...

Me say anything inappropriate? I swear I was a complete lady.

If you phone a psychic and she doesn't answer the phone before it rings, hang up.

Air is beautiful, yet you cannot see it. It's soft, yet you cannot touch it. Air is a little like my brain.

I am fascinated by air. If you remove the air from the sky, all the birds would fall to the ground. And all the planes, too

"

A cookie has no soul, it's just a cookie. But before it was milk and eggs. And in eggs there's the potential for life.

(good grief the man is a goldmine!!!)

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By *ydia_Lovegood OP   Woman
over a year ago

St. Ives


"Maybe he is just really busy lol

Ohh... You made me chuckle.. I do try. Now where’s my block button lol "

I beat you to it!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Maybe something you said ?

But even then, he should have at least told you why.

I was expecting a Jean Claude Van Damme quote...

Me say anything inappropriate? I swear I was a complete lady.

If you phone a psychic and she doesn't answer the phone before it rings, hang up.

Air is beautiful, yet you cannot see it. It's soft, yet you cannot touch it. Air is a little like my brain.

I am fascinated by air. If you remove the air from the sky, all the birds would fall to the ground. And all the planes, too

A cookie has no soul, it's just a cookie. But before it was milk and eggs. And in eggs there's the potential for life.

(good grief the man is a goldmine!!!) "

I know right

In the year 3,000, people are going to speak with sound waves. Don't think I'm crazy, the whales do it. Dolphins too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It was probably a bloke pretending......, oh.

Pretending to be a man.. Hehehe... "

It’s often the answer on here

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By *eeling0880Man
over a year ago

Pennines

Definitely his loss from what I can see? xx

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By *unkym34Man
over a year ago

London


"Maybe he is just really busy lol

Ohh... You made me chuckle.. I do try. Now where’s my block button lol

I beat you to it!! "
ouch

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By *eannaTV/TS
over a year ago

Cwmfelifach, nr Newport

I have this happen to me a lot, but I expect it especially when they actually read my profile and find out I'm not truly a woman, I will say it is most definitely his loss you look fantastic.

One thing I have discovered is that men's hormones tend to start increasing this time of year up to May and so their members think for them instead of their brains and like others have said here it's probably his partner had found out or he didn't have the conviction of his actions and ran off scared, needless to say there is something much better than him around the corner just for you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe he has a gf or wife so he didn’t want to keep having to message. Some guys are weird ...

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By *ydia_Lovegood OP   Woman
over a year ago

St. Ives


"I have this happen to me a lot, but I expect it especially when they actually read my profile and find out I'm not truly a woman, I will say it is most definitely his loss you look fantastic.

One thing I have discovered is that men's hormones tend to start increasing this time of year up to May and so their members think for them instead of their brains and like others have said here it's probably his partner had found out or he didn't have the conviction of his actions and ran off scared, needless to say there is something much better than him around the corner just for you "

Aww... Thank you sweet

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By *stbury DavenportMan
over a year ago

Nottingham

Given how aggressive and unpredictable men can be, how would we ever know the difference?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Given how aggressive and unpredictable men can be, how would we ever know the difference? "

Or how nice, kind, loving, clever, brilliant parents etc they can be!

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By *stbury DavenportMan
over a year ago

Nottingham


"Given how aggressive and unpredictable men can be, how would we ever know the difference?

Or how nice, kind, loving, clever, brilliant parents etc they can be! "

Amazing they can find they time when they're busy being 85% of arrests and 95% of the prison population.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Men hormonal ? ...............no we are fucking not!

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By *ea monkeyMan
over a year ago

Manchester (he/him)

Hmmmm...

Yes, guys can be hormonal, it’s called being human

In terms of your specific situation, it sounds like maybe he got caught texting and killed it? That’s my cynicism talking though.

I will say that there are a lot of double standards on this as a guy in your situation would get a lot of ‘you did something wrong’ or ‘they can cut contact at any point for any reason, that’s their prerogative’.

Perhaps the question should be more; at what point in a conversation does the other party owe you an explanation for cutting contact? When does it become ghosting?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Men are deffo hormonal

In my experience, moreso than women

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

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"Men are deffo hormonal

In my experience, moreso than women "

Agreed. Men are grumpy, prone to mood swings, hysterics... all the commonly attributed to women hormonal behaviour.

Anyway, people change their mind all the time. That's ok. It might be down to hormones, it might be due to wanking and losing interest. The only way of knowing is by asking directly and if that's not an available option, just move on.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes.

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By *heVonMatterhornsCouple
over a year ago

Lincoln

Definitely.

LvM

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You said something triggering or off-putting.

You said something but not quick enough for his taste.

You said something but he didn't know how to reply.

You said ...you see.. could be anything. And you don't need to worry

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By *ydia_Lovegood OP   Woman
over a year ago

St. Ives


"Hmmmm...

Yes, guys can be hormonal, it’s called being human

In terms of your specific situation, it sounds like maybe he got caught texting and killed it? That’s my cynicism talking though.

I will say that there are a lot of double standards on this as a guy in your situation would get a lot of ‘you did something wrong’ or ‘they can cut contact at any point for any reason, that’s their prerogative’.

Perhaps the question should be more; at what point in a conversation does the other party owe you an explanation for cutting contact? When does it become ghosting? "

I totally agree with you regarding the double standard re men and women.

I guess I just treat people how I wish to be treated and apply my own standards therein.. If I've lost interest/ changed my mind I always, always tell them.. I've never ghosted anyone because I know how hurtful it can be xx

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By *ydia_Lovegood OP   Woman
over a year ago

St. Ives


"You said something triggering or off-putting.

You said something but not quick enough for his taste.

You said something but he didn't know how to reply.

You said ...you see.. could be anything. And you don't need to worry"

Thank you lovely. I'm not worried. It's his loss

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Given how aggressive and unpredictable men can be, how would we ever know the difference?

Or how nice, kind, loving, clever, brilliant parents etc they can be!

Amazing they can find they time when they're busy being 85% of arrests and 95% of the prison population. "

Which is still a small part of the population?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm not sure if the way this person acted was due to hormones, but yes, men are hormonal, it's called manstruating

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nothing to do with the question but the male hormone cycle is 24hrs vs a females of (aveage) between 28 and 35 days!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

He got fanny fright.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Wife probably found out x"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Swinging with my previous partner, we found more often than not that guys would get 'fanny fright'. I think for a lot of men unfortunately that when the fantasy becomes reality, they scare themselves out of meeting. Take care and stay safe x

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

Send the pic to me, OP

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By *oomarangMan
over a year ago

Chester


"Wife probably found out x"

I was going to say the exact same thing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wouldn’t say hormonal as such with us guys but we do have some strange thought processes. It sounds like in this instance the wife found out or he’s been chatting to a few different ladies and he’s clicked with one and just not done the gentlemanly thing and said so. Bad form on his part that’s for sure.

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