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"Nope. Some on here just induce eyerolls
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"I kind of like... people. I don't subscribe to this "alpha" stuff and usually swerve those who do." Leaving the labels out of it, men tend to display dominant behaviours to attract women whether they are consciously styling themselves as an alpha male or not. From your response, I'm guessing you find this rather | |||
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"Oh beta males are far more fun... They are the freaky ones.. "Is that because, Clark Kent-style, their beta exterior conceals an inner virility? | |||
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"What about Random Twats ?? Where do we fit in ?? "Random twats - classic alpha behaviour  | |||
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"What about Random Twats ?? Where do we fit in ?? "You sneak in under the radar  | |||
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"Nope. Some on here just induce eyerolls
Be genuine, be humble, be kind." yes!
I'm attracted to masculine men - but they don't peacock or compete.
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"The last "Alpha" I was with, was nothing of the sort. He was a scumbag and a coward." I had ‘Fairytale of New York’ ringing in my head when I read that. | |||
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"The very concept of ‘alpha’ males has be debunked as a concept within humanity and within wildlife as a whole. I’ve found that men who claim to be alphas are using as an excuse to be assholes. People can see this as a competition on here but in reality, it’s far more nuanced and complex. This isn’t a race and there isn’t a prize" Agree with your 2nd and 3rd points but I'm not sure that the alpha male concept itself is flawed as a way of analysing group dynamics. | |||
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"I’ve decided I’m gamma. Gamma for a laugh. " Keep trying Steve, you’ll get there. | |||
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"I’ve decided I’m gamma. Gamma for a laugh. " I don't see the Hulk smiling much... | |||
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You sneak in under the radar "Cunning me  | |||
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"I’ve decided I’m gamma. Gamma for a laugh. Keep trying Steve, you’ll get there."  can I blame the magazine? | |||
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"What about Random Twats ?? Where do we fit in ??
Random twats - classic alpha behaviour " | |||
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"I’ve decided I’m gamma. Gamma for a laugh. I don't see the Hulk smiling much..." Hulk? | |||
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"The very concept of ‘alpha’ males has be debunked as a concept within humanity and within wildlife as a whole. I’ve found that men who claim to be alphas are using as an excuse to be assholes. People can see this as a competition on here but in reality, it’s far more nuanced and complex. This isn’t a race and there isn’t a prize" Study animal behaviour and there is absolutely a prize and the mating game is animalistic the female being the prize. Would a beta male lion have access to the pride? Being an alpha is not about being a braggard but a combination of qualities than women , often subliminally crave. The meek shall absolutely not inherit the earth. | |||
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"Oh beta males are far more fun... They are the freaky ones..
Is that because, Clark Kent-style, their beta exterior conceals an inner virility?"Nope. The beta males, stand quietly in the corner of rooms. Happy and content in their own body. Their subdued quiet confidence seduces individuals to them. They are the geeks, nerds, engineers, software developers with the hidden the kinks.... | |||
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"The very concept of ‘alpha’ males has be debunked as a concept within humanity and within wildlife as a whole. I’ve found that men who claim to be alphas are using as an excuse to be assholes. People can see this as a competition on here but in reality, it’s far more nuanced and complex. This isn’t a race and there isn’t a prize Agree with your 2nd and 3rd points but I'm not sure that the alpha male concept itself is flawed as a way of analysing group dynamics." I did a little research the last time that I was involved in one of these threads and discovered that the concept of Alphas is a flawed theory. Group dynamics are more complex than originally thought. Even in nature, they don’t exist | |||
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"The very concept of ‘alpha’ males has be debunked as a concept within humanity and within wildlife as a whole. I’ve found that men who claim to be alphas are using as an excuse to be assholes. People can see this as a competition on here but in reality, it’s far more nuanced and complex. This isn’t a race and there isn’t a prizeStudy animal behaviour and there is absolutely a prize and the mating game is animalistic the female being the prize. Would a beta male lion have access to the pride? Being an alpha is not about being a braggard but a combination of qualities than women , often subliminally crave. The meek shall absolutely not inherit the earth." Cool... Except we’re not animals and that sort of stuff is balderdash | |||
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"I bum alpha males cause I can "I bet I’m beta at it | |||
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"I bum alpha males cause I can I bet I’m beta at it " | |||
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"The very concept of ‘alpha’ males has be debunked as a concept within humanity and within wildlife as a whole. I’ve found that men who claim to be alphas are using as an excuse to be assholes. People can see this as a competition on here but in reality, it’s far more nuanced and complex. This isn’t a race and there isn’t a prize Agree with your 2nd and 3rd points but I'm not sure that the alpha male concept itself is flawed as a way of analysing group dynamics. I did a little research the last time that I was involved in one of these threads and discovered that the concept of Alphas is a flawed theory. Group dynamics are more complex than originally thought. Even in nature, they don’t exist" Hierarchical groups exist in humans and animals though and status is experienced at a biological level in the nervous system. I don't think that is in doubt even if the alpha male terminology is simplistic. | |||
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"Is there a third option?" Well there are omega males out there but I wouldn't say that they are a realistic option | |||
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"The very concept of ‘alpha’ males has be debunked as a concept within humanity and within wildlife as a whole. I’ve found that men who claim to be alphas are using as an excuse to be assholes. People can see this as a competition on here but in reality, it’s far more nuanced and complex. This isn’t a race and there isn’t a prize Agree with your 2nd and 3rd points but I'm not sure that the alpha male concept itself is flawed as a way of analysing group dynamics. I did a little research the last time that I was involved in one of these threads and discovered that the concept of Alphas is a flawed theory. Group dynamics are more complex than originally thought. Even in nature, they don’t exist Hierarchical groups exist in humans and animals though and status is experienced at a biological level in the nervous system. I don't think that is in doubt even if the alpha male terminology is simplistic." Just that statement though, "Hierarchical groups exist in humans and animals though and status is experienced at a biological level in the nervous system" doesn't say anything functionally useful. It's oversimplified to the point of having zero real benefits... just saying groups have an alpha is even more reductive. It's a complete waste of time and people who claim the term (unironically) are very easy to dismiss... as TeaMonkey says, it's a term co-opted by insecure people who want to act like assholes. | |||
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" Just that statement though, "Hierarchical groups exist in humans and animals though and status is experienced at a biological level in the nervous system" doesn't say anything functionally useful. It's oversimplified to the point of having zero real benefits... just saying groups have an alpha is even more reductive. It's a complete waste of time and people who claim the term (unironically) are very easy to dismiss... as TeaMonkey says, it's a term co-opted by insecure people who want to act like assholes." I rarely say anything functionally useful. I aspire to mere ornamentation | |||
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"I always think those who say they are, aren’t. " But their mummies think they are special. | |||
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" Just that statement though, "Hierarchical groups exist in humans and animals though and status is experienced at a biological level in the nervous system" doesn't say anything functionally useful. It's oversimplified to the point of having zero real benefits... just saying groups have an alpha is even more reductive. It's a complete waste of time and people who claim the term (unironically) are very easy to dismiss... as TeaMonkey says, it's a term co-opted by insecure people who want to act like assholes. I rarely say anything functionally useful. I aspire to mere ornamentation "That's an aim I can support | |||
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"I think anyone who knows even the basics of evolution would be surprised to learn that competitive hierarchies don't exist in every sphere of human behaviour, or that home sapiens are not animals ! Of course they do, and we are, and given the extreme gender imbalance on Fab its actually a very interesting place to observe the online expression of such traits as alpha/beta masculinity." Pseudo anthropology Take a look at anthropological research and zoological research | |||
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"I don't believe in alphas and betas. I believe in men who are secure in their masculinity, men who are insecure in their masculinity and feel the need to make a show of it and men who are insecure in general. In answer to your question, no men rutting for dominance to "out alpha" each other is not attractive at all. I'm far more likely to be attracted to the guy also smirking in amusement with me at the sidelines. " How do you define ‘masculinity’? | |||
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"I don't believe in alphas and betas. I believe in men who are secure in their masculinity, men who are insecure in their masculinity and feel the need to make a show of it and men who are insecure in general. In answer to your question, no men rutting for dominance to "out alpha" each other is not attractive at all. I'm far more likely to be attracted to the guy also smirking in amusement with me at the sidelines. How do you define ‘masculinity’? " Do you say ‘ooh! tea!’ or ‘yurrgh, tea’? | |||
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"Quietly confident is a good thing "How about noisily insecure? | |||
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"I don't believe in alphas and betas. I believe in men who are secure in their masculinity, men who are insecure in their masculinity and feel the need to make a show of it and men who are insecure in general. In answer to your question, no men rutting for dominance to "out alpha" each other is not attractive at all. I'm far more likely to be attracted to the guy also smirking in amusement with me at the sidelines. How do you define ‘masculinity’? " It doesn't really matter how I define it. It's about whether the men think they're "masculine enough" or not. | |||
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How about noisily insecure?"Haha at least you're owning it | |||
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Those guys would laugh at you if you called them ‘alpha’ males, because they were just one of the lads and would always have your back.
Those were the Men I emulated they were anything from 5’6 to over 6 foot tall, brawny and intelligent. You’d pass them on the street and not give them a second glance but when the shit went down, they stood up.
Alpha males, what a load of bollocks | |||
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"Met some real ‘tough guys’ in my life, those who do lead in battle, no fear and get on with the job. Often end up in the special forces or forgotten in the ranks at the level of sergeant or sergeant major. Not one a medal chaser just excelled at being a soldier. I was at best two levels down.
Those guys would laugh at you if you called them ‘alpha’ males, because they were just one of the lads and would always have your back.
Those were the Men I emulated they were anything from 5’6 to over 6 foot tall, brawny and intelligent. You’d pass them on the street and not give them a second glance but when the shit went down, they stood up.
Alpha males, what a load of bollocks "The military is one of (if not the) most rigidly hierarchical spheres of life as I understand it. What you say about the importance of esprit de corps in battle makes sense but command and control structures require some to give orders and some to take them. Are you saying that those who assert dominance over others are not the ones giving orders in the military? I'm genuinely interested to know even if it's a little OT. | |||
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"Met some real ‘tough guys’ in my life, those who do lead in battle, no fear and get on with the job. Often end up in the special forces or forgotten in the ranks at the level of sergeant or sergeant major. Not one a medal chaser just excelled at being a soldier. I was at best two levels down.
Those guys would laugh at you if you called them ‘alpha’ males, because they were just one of the lads and would always have your back.
Those were the Men I emulated they were anything from 5’6 to over 6 foot tall, brawny and intelligent. You’d pass them on the street and not give them a second glance but when the shit went down, they stood up.
Alpha males, what a load of bollocks
The military is one of (if not the) most rigidly hierarchical spheres of life as I understand it. What you say about the importance of esprit de corps in battle makes sense but command and control structures require some to give orders and some to take them. Are you saying that those who assert dominance over others are not the ones giving orders in the military?
I'm genuinely interested to know even if it's a little OT."Orders are one thing, but carrying them out is often left to NCO’s or junior officers. It’s not that these guys has dominance over you, but more that you trusted their experience and knowledge, to get you out of any shit you happened to walk into. I suppose in the Military it’s easier to see those who are natural leaders or have the ability to be calm under pressure. The so called ‘alpha’ of the pack in the military are often just ordinary guys who excel at their jobs. Which means following the orders from above but doing it with the best interest of the Regiment and the men they lead. I hope that makes sense | |||
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"Met some real ‘tough guys’ in my life, those who do lead in battle, no fear and get on with the job. Often end up in the special forces or forgotten in the ranks at the level of sergeant or sergeant major. Not one a medal chaser just excelled at being a soldier. I was at best two levels down.
Those guys would laugh at you if you called them ‘alpha’ males, because they were just one of the lads and would always have your back.
Those were the Men I emulated they were anything from 5’6 to over 6 foot tall, brawny and intelligent. You’d pass them on the street and not give them a second glance but when the shit went down, they stood up.
Alpha males, what a load of bollocks "100 % I was with the 82nd. Watched pretty boys with all the aspects of " Alpha" males max PT test pretty AF. Freeze at initial jump and us females jumping no problem. They where more concerned with their vanity. Same in combat seen it watched the repercussions. Give me a partner who has all around better performance then just muscle. | |||
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"I kind of like... people. I don't subscribe to this "alpha" stuff and usually swerve those who do. Leaving the labels out of it, men tend to display dominant behaviours to attract women whether they are consciously styling themselves as an alpha male or not. From your response, I'm guessing you find this rather "That kind of behaviour repels rather than attracts. | |||
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"Met some real ‘tough guys’ in my life, those who do lead in battle, no fear and get on with the job. Often end up in the special forces or forgotten in the ranks at the level of sergeant or sergeant major. Not one a medal chaser just excelled at being a soldier. I was at best two levels down.
Those guys would laugh at you if you called them ‘alpha’ males, because they were just one of the lads and would always have your back.
Those were the Men I emulated they were anything from 5’6 to over 6 foot tall, brawny and intelligent. You’d pass them on the street and not give them a second glance but when the shit went down, they stood up.
Alpha males, what a load of bollocks
100 % I was with the 82nd. Watched pretty boys with all the aspects of " Alpha" males max PT test pretty AF. Freeze at initial jump and us females jumping no problem. They where more concerned with their vanity. Same in combat seen it watched the repercussions. Give me a partner who has all around better performance then just muscle."It’s always the quiet ones, who get on with the job that you end up respecting. Never went into battle myself, the closest I got was in Northern Ireland patrolling the streets. But I saw a riot or two | |||
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"Met some real ‘tough guys’ in my life, those who do lead in battle, no fear and get on with the job. Often end up in the special forces or forgotten in the ranks at the level of sergeant or sergeant major. Not one a medal chaser just excelled at being a soldier. I was at best two levels down.
Those guys would laugh at you if you called them ‘alpha’ males, because they were just one of the lads and would always have your back.
Those were the Men I emulated they were anything from 5’6 to over 6 foot tall, brawny and intelligent. You’d pass them on the street and not give them a second glance but when the shit went down, they stood up.
Alpha males, what a load of bollocks
100 % I was with the 82nd. Watched pretty boys with all the aspects of " Alpha" males max PT test pretty AF. Freeze at initial jump and us females jumping no problem. They where more concerned with their vanity. Same in combat seen it watched the repercussions. Give me a partner who has all around better performance then just muscle.
It’s always the quiet ones, who get on with the job that you end up respecting.
Never went into battle myself, the closest I got was in Northern Ireland patrolling the streets. But I saw a riot or two "It's the truth when it comes down to who got your 6 give me the audie murphy type. F*uck your pretty boys. Vanity don't mean s* it. | |||
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"Met some real ‘tough guys’ in my life, those who do lead in battle, no fear and get on with the job. Often end up in the special forces or forgotten in the ranks at the level of sergeant or sergeant major. Not one a medal chaser just excelled at being a soldier. I was at best two levels down.
Those guys would laugh at you if you called them ‘alpha’ males, because they were just one of the lads and would always have your back.
Those were the Men I emulated they were anything from 5’6 to over 6 foot tall, brawny and intelligent. You’d pass them on the street and not give them a second glance but when the shit went down, they stood up.
Alpha males, what a load of bollocks
100 % I was with the 82nd. Watched pretty boys with all the aspects of " Alpha" males max PT test pretty AF. Freeze at initial jump and us females jumping no problem. They where more concerned with their vanity. Same in combat seen it watched the repercussions. Give me a partner who has all around better performance then just muscle.
It’s always the quiet ones, who get on with the job that you end up respecting.
Never went into battle myself, the closest I got was in Northern Ireland patrolling the streets. But I saw a riot or two
It's the truth when it comes down to who got your 6 give me the audie murphy type. F*uck your pretty boys. Vanity don't mean s* it."Sorry folks when someone say alpha males my blood boil. No such thing seen and served with females that have more fortitude. | |||
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"In the human world I think "alpha male" tends to be a self-described term and usually one that has not a great deal of bearing on anything attractive. We all know the type - brash, arrogant, loud, have to be the centre of attention, self-righteous, never wrong and more, are all terms that could be applied to anyone describing themselves as "alpha". As a side tangent - is there a female equivalent I wonder? " Of course!! I see more female peacocking than male around here | |||
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"Met some real ‘tough guys’ in my life, those who do lead in battle, no fear and get on with the job. Often end up in the special forces or forgotten in the ranks at the level of sergeant or sergeant major. Not one a medal chaser just excelled at being a soldier. I was at best two levels down.
Those guys would laugh at you if you called them ‘alpha’ males, because they were just one of the lads and would always have your back.
Those were the Men I emulated they were anything from 5’6 to over 6 foot tall, brawny and intelligent. You’d pass them on the street and not give them a second glance but when the shit went down, they stood up.
Alpha males, what a load of bollocks
The military is one of (if not the) most rigidly hierarchical spheres of life as I understand it. What you say about the importance of esprit de corps in battle makes sense but command and control structures require some to give orders and some to take them. Are you saying that those who assert dominance over others are not the ones giving orders in the military?
I'm genuinely interested to know even if it's a little OT.
Orders are one thing, but carrying them out is often left to NCO’s or junior officers.
It’s not that these guys has dominance over you, but more that you trusted their experience and knowledge, to get you out of any shit you happened to walk into.
I suppose in the Military it’s easier to see those who are natural leaders or have the ability to be calm under pressure. The so called ‘alpha’ of the pack in the military are often just ordinary guys who excel at their jobs. Which means following the orders from above but doing it with the best interest of the Regiment and the men they lead.
I hope that makes sense "Thanks for sharing your experience | |||
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"In the human world I think "alpha male" tends to be a self-described term and usually one that has not a great deal of bearing on anything attractive. We all know the type - brash, arrogant, loud, have to be the centre of attention, self-righteous, never wrong and more, are all terms that could be applied to anyone describing themselves as "alpha". As a side tangent - is there a female equivalent I wonder? Of course!! I see more female peacocking than male around here "Peahenning perhaps? | |||
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"In the human world I think "alpha male" tends to be a self-described term and usually one that has not a great deal of bearing on anything attractive. We all know the type - brash, arrogant, loud, have to be the centre of attention, self-righteous, never wrong and more, are all terms that could be applied to anyone describing themselves as "alpha". As a side tangent - is there a female equivalent I wonder? Of course!! I see more female peacocking than male around here
Peahenning perhaps?"That’s the one... | |||
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"In the human world I think "alpha male" tends to be a self-described term and usually one that has not a great deal of bearing on anything attractive. We all know the type - brash, arrogant, loud, have to be the centre of attention, self-righteous, never wrong and more, are all terms that could be applied to anyone describing themselves as "alpha". As a side tangent - is there a female equivalent I wonder? Of course!! I see more female peacocking than male around here
Peahenning perhaps?"Logical...I like it | |||
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speaking truth's. I don't have a cock otherwise I would be scratching my balls trying to figure out this post. | |||
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"I don’t know if alpha males exist, but if they do they certainly wouldn’t use the forums." Most alpha comment yet | |||
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"I don’t know if alpha males exist, but if they do they certainly wouldn’t use the forums." Pretenders do | |||
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"I don’t know if alpha males exist, but if they do they certainly wouldn’t use the forums." You have a hammock and a yurt? You have a hammock in your yurt!!! | |||
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"Met some real ‘tough guys’ in my life, those who do lead in battle, no fear and get on with the job. Often end up in the special forces or forgotten in the ranks at the level of sergeant or sergeant major. Not one a medal chaser just excelled at being a soldier. I was at best two levels down.
Those guys would laugh at you if you called them ‘alpha’ males, because they were just one of the lads and would always have your back.
Those were the Men I emulated they were anything from 5’6 to over 6 foot tall, brawny and intelligent. You’d pass them on the street and not give them a second glance but when the shit went down, they stood up.
Alpha males, what a load of bollocks
100 % I was with the 82nd. Watched pretty boys with all the aspects of " Alpha" males max PT test pretty AF. Freeze at initial jump and us females jumping no problem. They where more concerned with their vanity. Same in combat seen it watched the repercussions. Give me a partner who has all around better performance then just muscle.
It’s always the quiet ones, who get on with the job that you end up respecting.
Never went into battle myself, the closest I got was in Northern Ireland patrolling the streets. But I saw a riot or two
It's the truth when it comes down to who got your 6 give me the audie murphy type. F*uck your pretty boys. Vanity don't mean s* it."Semper fidelis | |||
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"I see 'alpha male' and think of Monkeys People just need to be themselves, nothing more, nothing less" Tea Monkey was once named as an alpha male to be fair. | |||
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"I don’t know if alpha males exist, but if they do they certainly wouldn’t use the forums. You have a hammock and a yurt? You have a hammock in your yurt!!! " Thank you for reading my profile, it means a lot.  | |||
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"I see 'alpha male' and think of Monkeys People just need to be themselves, nothing more, nothing less Tea Monkey was once named as an alpha male to be fair. "Who determines who is alpha and who isn't? Not sure it is a term I would associate with humans necessarily Like I say it is a primate in a zoo type description. | |||
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"I see 'alpha male' and think of Monkeys People just need to be themselves, nothing more, nothing less Tea Monkey was once named as an alpha male to be fair. "Must have been by folk who hadn’t met him... giant softarse!!!! | |||
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"Met some real ‘tough guys’ in my life, those who do lead in battle, no fear and get on with the job. Often end up in the special forces or forgotten in the ranks at the level of sergeant or sergeant major. Not one a medal chaser just excelled at being a soldier. I was at best two levels down.
Those guys would laugh at you if you called them ‘alpha’ males, because they were just one of the lads and would always have your back.
Those were the Men I emulated they were anything from 5’6 to over 6 foot tall, brawny and intelligent. You’d pass them on the street and not give them a second glance but when the shit went down, they stood up.
Alpha males, what a load of bollocks
100 % I was with the 82nd. Watched pretty boys with all the aspects of " Alpha" males max PT test pretty AF. Freeze at initial jump and us females jumping no problem. They where more concerned with their vanity. Same in combat seen it watched the repercussions. Give me a partner who has all around better performance then just muscle.
It’s always the quiet ones, who get on with the job that you end up respecting.
Never went into battle myself, the closest I got was in Northern Ireland patrolling the streets. But I saw a riot or two
It's the truth when it comes down to who got your 6 give me the audie murphy type. F*uck your pretty boys. Vanity don't mean s* it.
Semper fidelis "Damn it I was army not a crayon eater aka marine lol. But respect anyways and thanks. | |||
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"I don’t know if alpha males exist, but if they do they certainly wouldn’t use the forums. You have a hammock and a yurt? You have a hammock in your yurt!!! Thank you for reading my profile, it means a lot. "I won’t lie - I was drawn to your profile pic, initially, but I liked what I read. | |||
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"I see 'alpha male' and think of Monkeys People just need to be themselves, nothing more, nothing less Tea Monkey was once named as an alpha male to be fair. " | |||
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"Met some real ‘tough guys’ in my life, those who do lead in battle, no fear and get on with the job. Often end up in the special forces or forgotten in the ranks at the level of sergeant or sergeant major. Not one a medal chaser just excelled at being a soldier. I was at best two levels down.
Those guys would laugh at you if you called them ‘alpha’ males, because they were just one of the lads and would always have your back.
Those were the Men I emulated they were anything from 5’6 to over 6 foot tall, brawny and intelligent. You’d pass them on the street and not give them a second glance but when the shit went down, they stood up.
Alpha males, what a load of bollocks
100 % I was with the 82nd. Watched pretty boys with all the aspects of " Alpha" males max PT test pretty AF. Freeze at initial jump and us females jumping no problem. They where more concerned with their vanity. Same in combat seen it watched the repercussions. Give me a partner who has all around better performance then just muscle.
It’s always the quiet ones, who get on with the job that you end up respecting.
Never went into battle myself, the closest I got was in Northern Ireland patrolling the streets. But I saw a riot or two
It's the truth when it comes down to who got your 6 give me the audie murphy type. F*uck your pretty boys. Vanity don't mean s* it.
Semper fidelis
Damn it I was army not a crayon eater aka marine lol. But respect anyways and thanks." | |||
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"I see 'alpha male' and think of Monkeys People just need to be themselves, nothing more, nothing less Tea Monkey was once named as an alpha male to be fair.
Must have been by folk who hadn’t met him... giant softarse!!!! " Now you know he was it has to be brought up in every alpha male thread. | |||
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"Call me anything you want to baby Hello anything you want. I'm Mrs KC, nice to make your acquaintance "You need a f KFC now I am hungry. | |||
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"I see 'alpha male' and think of Monkeys People just need to be themselves, nothing more, nothing less Tea Monkey was once named as an alpha male to be fair.
Must have been by folk who hadn’t met him... giant softarse!!!!
Now you know he was it has to be brought up in every alpha male thread. "Makes me howl every time I think of it now!! Another thing to do his head in with!!! | |||
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"Call me anything you want to baby Hello anything you want. I'm Mrs KC, nice to make your acquaintance "And I know I’ll make you happy with the one thing that you’ve never had | |||
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"Call me anything you want to baby Hello anything you want. I'm Mrs KC, nice to make your acquaintance
And I know I’ll make you happy with the one thing that you’ve never had"*Claps hands* ooooooooooo tell me more, soldier | |||
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"I see 'alpha male' and think of Monkeys People just need to be themselves, nothing more, nothing less Tea Monkey was once named as an alpha male to be fair. "I can better that...Genghis used to be insistent I was..and he wasn't joking either | |||
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"I see 'alpha male' and think of Monkeys People just need to be themselves, nothing more, nothing less Tea Monkey was once named as an alpha male to be fair. "I remember that! Wasn't City also pronounced an alpha male? | |||
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"I see 'alpha male' and think of Monkeys People just need to be themselves, nothing more, nothing less Tea Monkey was once named as an alpha male to be fair.
I remember that! Wasn't City also pronounced an alpha male?"Yup! Ghengis, City and myself on a thread like this. It was hilarious! If anyone ever needed evidence that the concept is rubbish | |||
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"The last "Alpha" I was with, was nothing of the sort. He was a scumbag and a coward." that about sums up a so called alpha male. havent met one yet that isnt a bully and all bullys are cowards. | |||
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"The last "Alpha" I was with, was nothing of the sort. He was a scumbag and a coward. that about sums up a so called alpha male. havent met one yet that isnt a bully and all bullys are cowards. "Bully's until their vanity is on the line. Biggest cowards I have ever seen. | |||
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"The last "Alpha" I was with, was nothing of the sort. He was a scumbag and a coward. that about sums up a so called alpha male. havent met one yet that isnt a bully and all bullys are cowards.
Bully's until their vanity is on the line. Biggest cowards I have ever seen." | |||
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"I am a self proclaimed alpha male: spank me, I dare you!" Ah bless you... | |||
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"I am a self proclaimed alpha male: spank me, I dare you!" With pleasure. | |||
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"I am a self proclaimed alpha male: spank me, I dare you! Ah bless you... "Show me your guns, Mancs! | |||
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"I am a self proclaimed alpha male: spank me, I dare you! With pleasure." You’re brave! | |||
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"I am a self proclaimed alpha male: spank me, I dare you! With pleasure. You’re brave!" For a non-alpha. Looks like he has a very stackable arse. | |||
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"*Looks like you have a very smackable arse*" Are you stuttering in fear or fighting your autocarrot? | |||
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"*Looks like you have a very smackable arse* Are you stuttering in fear or fighting your autocarrot? " Overly excited at the spanking your arse. | |||
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"*Looks like you have a very smackable arse* Are you stuttering in fear or fighting your autocarrot? " But that autocarrot does seem determined to get involved toupee. | |||
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"I am a self proclaimed alpha male: spank me, I dare you!" Rather double tap | |||
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"The very concept of ‘alpha’ males has be debunked as a concept within humanity and within wildlife as a whole. I’ve found that men who claim to be alphas are using as an excuse to be assholes. People can see this as a competition on here but in reality, it’s far more nuanced and complex. This isn’t a race and there isn’t a prize" Exactly, people have a very odd idea of what an alpha male entails. Also those who call themselves alpha, generally aren’t ! | |||
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"The very concept of ‘alpha’ males has be debunked as a concept within humanity and within wildlife as a whole. I’ve found that men who claim to be alphas are using as an excuse to be assholes. People can see this as a competition on here but in reality, it’s far more nuanced and complex. This isn’t a race and there isn’t a prizeStudy animal behaviour and there is absolutely a prize and the mating game is animalistic the female being the prize. Would a beta male lion have access to the pride? Being an alpha is not about being a braggard but a combination of qualities than women , often subliminally crave. The meek shall absolutely not inherit the earth. Cool... Except we’re not animals and that sort of stuff is balderdash " We are not animals? Wow now that is balderdash | |||
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"Nope. Some on here just induce eyerolls
Be genuine, be humble, be kind.
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I'm attracted to masculine men - but they don't peacock or compete.
Quietly confident is sexy " | |||
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"Some alpha males are respectful true gents x " They are indeed | |||
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"I don't believe in alpha males as being a meaningful concept. But if I did, surely an alpha male would be so secure in himself and so confident that he wouldn't even feel the need to label himself that way. "look at me I'm an alpha!" doesn't seem very alpha. " The alpha male paradox | |||
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"Well, I am only interested in epsilon males. Does this seem strange? As strange as "alpha" or "beta"? That's because it is, not only using two random letters of Greek alphabet but because the whole concept is entirely false. It is based on a inaccurate conclusion of a study of volves which was denounced by the author later except the concept has taken a life of its own and nobody wanted to know that it is false. They were not "alpha" volves, they were parents. " Are we talking wolves or voles .. | |||
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" Except we’re not animals and that sort of stuff is balderdash " I disagree but would be interested in your evidence as to why we are not animals? Mr | |||
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"Alphas don't compete - they simply exist. " | |||
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"Alpha males rule the pack..." Yup a 6 pack and a bag of pretzels. | |||
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"I love Sigma Males. They never have the need to label themselves, blaze their own trail and are secure in their masculinity. The only downside is these blokes are so so rare and can't be seduced or cajoled "I know but at least you'll have fun talking to me | |||
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"Oh beta males are far more fun... They are the freaky ones..
Is that because, Clark Kent-style, their beta exterior conceals an inner virility?
Nope. The beta males, stand quietly in the corner of rooms. Happy and content in their own body.
Their subdued quiet confidence seduces individuals to them.
They are the geeks, nerds, engineers, software developers with the hidden the kinks.... "And hands down they are the most fun, and the best in bed... Honestly they are the ones who research, research, research... | |||
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"If I group up some beta males, we can organise a footy match against them. I’ll go in net. "I will be Ref. | |||
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"If I group up some beta males, we can organise a footy match against them. I’ll go in net. "I refer to my previous post - I'm left-back. | |||
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