FabSwingers.com forum: Blocking people

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Has anyone else had the experience of being blocked just because they have fabbed a pic on here.

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By *ex HolesMan
over a year ago

Up North

Probably. I don’t check nor do I care

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By *ablo minibar123Woman
over a year ago

"Probably. I don’t check nor do I care

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By *heVonMatterhornsCouple
over a year ago

Lincoln

I've been blocked by people I've never interacted with. I wouldn't take it too personally

LvM

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Has anyone else had the experience of being blocked just because they have fabbed a pic on here. "

Its a common complaint from men. They get blocked for fabbing pics, winking, sending friend requests. Sometimes even looking at a persons profile more than once.

Just take it you dodged a bullet. They probably put cream on scones before the jam. You dont want to meet folk like that. X

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By *ablo minibar123Woman
over a year ago

I imagine people block me for all kinds of reasons, just saves me wasting my time.

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By *indergirlWoman
over a year ago

somewhere, someplace

"I've been blocked by people I've never interacted with. I wouldn't take it too personally

LvM"

Snap

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By *isAdventure69Woman
over a year ago

Hampshire

"Has anyone else had the experience of being blocked just because they have fabbed a pic on here. "

Not that I know of , but I'm aware that I have been blocked by people I have had no interaction with at all .

Don't worry about it , they must have their reasons ...

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

To be fair im not fussed just wondered if it was a regular thing on here as comes across quite petty

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Has anyone else had the experience of being blocked just because they have fabbed a pic on here.

Its a common complaint from men. They get blocked for fabbing pics, winking, sending friend requests. Sometimes even looking at a persons profile more than once.

Just take it you dodged a bullet. They probably put cream on scones before the jam. You dont want to meet folk like that. X "

You should put the cream on the scone first then the jam

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Loooooooads of times. I don’t worry about it. Why would I chase someone who isn’t interested in me? It’s a natural filter.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have probably been blocked by it doesn't bother me. It's all part and parcel of being on fab.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Welcome to the weird n wonderful world of fab

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek

"To be fair im not fussed just wondered if it was a regular thing on here as comes across quite petty"

How do you know that was the reason?

They could have looked at your profile having seen you'd fabbed a pic of theirs and off the back of that, perhaps discovering you've nowt in common or you were their brother and they thought "ohhhh fuck fuck help!" they hit the block button to prevent future comms.

Some people block everyone they're not interested in fucking, some block people in their local area as they don't swing on their own doorstep, some block because they don't like the profile name, some don't block anyone at all.

So many reasons, some of which you may not have thought about, many of which aren't personal to you, but personal to the blocker.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Has anyone else had the experience of being blocked just because they have fabbed a pic on here.

Its a common complaint from men. They get blocked for fabbing pics, winking, sending friend requests. Sometimes even looking at a persons profile more than once.

Just take it you dodged a bullet. They probably put cream on scones before the jam. You dont want to meet folk like that. X

You should put the cream on the scone first then the jam "

Thats probably what im doing wrong as always put the jam on first lol

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By *luebellRacerCouple
over a year ago

Shropshire

We block a lot of local people, rude messages, any drama... we haven't got time for it.

We're here for fun, happiness and sexiness.

Filters and blocks are made to enable that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've been blocked for not replying to a message quick enough and for sending a message to a regular profile viewer...

Everyone has their reasons...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I block people I have never had any interaction with them, mainly if they live too close

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wish more people would block me

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"To be fair im not fussed just wondered if it was a regular thing on here as comes across quite petty

How do you know that was the reason?

So many reasons, some of which you may not have thought about, many of which aren't personal to you, but personal to the blocker."

So basically for any reason then

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Been blocked more times than I care to remember.

Move on dont worry about it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Has anyone else had the experience of being blocked just because they have fabbed a pic on here.

Its a common complaint from men. They get blocked for fabbing pics, winking, sending friend requests. Sometimes even looking at a persons profile more than once.

Just take it you dodged a bullet. They probably put cream on scones before the jam. You dont want to meet folk like that. X

You should put the cream on the scone first then the jam

Thats probably what im doing wrong as always put the jam on first lol"

I would block you just for that reason alone xxx

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By *inger_SnapWoman
over a year ago

Hampshire/Dorset

I don't even look at who's fabbed pics, I only block if they keep sending messages and I'm not interested.

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek

"To be fair im not fussed just wondered if it was a regular thing on here as comes across quite petty

How do you know that was the reason?

So many reasons, some of which you may not have thought about, many of which aren't personal to you, but personal to the blocker.

So basically for any reason then"

Exactly.

It ain't worth fretting over. Just accept they had a reason which to them is very valid

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By *am101aMan
over a year ago

swad

I sometimes block folks if they show no interest, or if I dont fit their requirements as detailed on their profile. Why? Because I dont see them in searches so I know I wont bother them further!

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By *luebell888Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish

I am not in the habit of blocking people. I only block if they are very rude. I have blocked about 25 people in 4yrs.

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

BLOCKED!!! #youknowwhoyouare

The main reason is not laughing at my puns in the ‘cabbages are king’ thread.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wouldn’t worry just move on they have a reason could be anything...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I dunno why I get blocked

It's not something I worry about either

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"BLOCKED!!! #youknowwhoyouare

The main reason is not laughing at my puns in the ‘cabbages are king’ thread. "

Hahahaha, brilliant, I don’t know how you do it, quite, quite brilliant.

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By *itty9899Man
over a year ago

Craggy Island

Small world problems.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe if you think about it you'll understand why. Starting this thread won't help you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Aren't there rules about publically talking about someone who has blocked you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"BLOCKED!!! #youknowwhoyouare

The main reason is not laughing at my puns in the ‘cabbages are king’ thread. "

I hate cabbage

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If u can't see a profile but know they are online does that mean that person has blocked u? I cant see them at all or search for them however someone else can see them.

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

"BLOCKED!!! #youknowwhoyouare

The main reason is not laughing at my puns in the ‘cabbages are king’ thread.

Hahahaha, brilliant, I don’t know how you do it, quite, quite brilliant. "
haha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Has anyone else had the experience of being blocked just because they have fabbed a pic on here.

Its a common complaint from men. They get blocked for fabbing pics, winking, sending friend requests. Sometimes even looking at a persons profile more than once.

Just take it you dodged a bullet. They probably put cream on scones before the jam. You dont want to meet folk like that. X "

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By *aunchy RaccoonsCouple
over a year ago

Exeter

We seem to get blocked if we ask "have you read our profile?"

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By *oxyvixen99Woman
over a year ago

Newtownabbey

No idea

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I block people I have never had any interaction with them, mainly if they live too close

Same here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've never understood why people get annoyed or upset or think it's petty when someone blocks that they haven't had any interaction with other than a wink or a like.

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By *adyBugsWoman
over a year ago

cognito

"To be fair im not fussed just wondered if it was a regular thing on here as comes across quite petty"

Sometimes people just block people they know they’ll never be interested in, saves wasting each other’s time later if you did message.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It happens, I dont care

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"To be fair im not fussed just wondered if it was a regular thing on here as comes across quite petty

How do you know that was the reason?

So many reasons, some of which you may not have thought about, many of which aren't personal to you, but personal to the blocker.

So basically for any reason then"

Our block is to filter out anyone we don't match with, not just people who do something wrong. There are flippin' loads of people on here. The less unsuitable ones in our searches, the easier it is to find people who match.

I'm certain people do the same to us and I don't take it personally. Or whinge about it

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

No idea. I don't check who has blocked me or who hasn't.

If someone wants me to know they'd have to tell me.

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

"No idea. I don't check who has blocked me or who hasn't.

If someone wants me to know they'd have to tell me.

I am telling you

With this lovely Haiku

Never see me again

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

"No idea. I don't check who has blocked me or who hasn't.

If someone wants me to know they'd have to tell me.

I am telling you

With this lovely Haiku

Never see me again "

I just checked it out

You are a big lying shit

Block-ed I am not

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

"No idea. I don't check who has blocked me or who hasn't.

If someone wants me to know they'd have to tell me.

I am telling you

With this lovely Haiku

Never see me again

I just checked it out

You are a big lying shit

Block-ed I am not"

My big throbbing cock

Was what you got when

You looked at me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Been blocked for saying a joke/having a sence of humour.It did make me laugh more though x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It makes me laugh that people take being blocked so personally!

If I’m not interested in someone I may block them, so I don’t come across them when I search and so they don’t was the their time messaging me again. It’s not a negative, it actually makes things easier for both.

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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT

"Probably. I don’t check nor do I care

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By *tephTV67TV/TS
over a year ago

Cheshire

I’ve been blocked and blocked back. It’s not personal in most cases, however in some cases it’s truly personal as I don’t like that person

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Been blocked for saying a joke/having a sence of humour.It did make me laugh more though x "

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By *ultry SuccubusTV/TS
over a year ago

London

"Has anyone else had the experience of being blocked just because they have fabbed a pic on here. "

Yes. For fabbing a halloween theme pic of a Male.

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By *orthern StarsCouple
over a year ago

Durham

No idea.

We don't give a hoot if someone blocks us. It's their choice and doesn't bother us.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes many a time....I'm far too old or ugly etc etc etc....like a give a flying fuck

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Has anyone else had the experience of being blocked just because they have fabbed a pic on here.

Its a common complaint from men. They get blocked for fabbing pics, winking, sending friend requests. Sometimes even looking at a persons profile more than once.

Just take it you dodged a bullet. They probably put cream on scones before the jam. You dont want to meet folk like that. X "
Really? Blocked just for fabbing a photo? I have no idea if I have been blocked by anyone but I'm sure I have. I fab pics all the time... Its not a come on.. Its just being nice and appreciate the photo. Anyone who blocks that is certainly a bullet dodged.. As for cream on Scone before jam '. That's unforgivable.. I would block someone for that too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

But I know that you’re sad

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By *partharmonyCouple
over a year ago

Ruislip

"Has anyone else had the experience of being blocked just because they have fabbed a pic on here. "

How would you know if that's the reason they blocked you? You have no way of confirming that do you?

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By *entleman JayMan
over a year ago

Wakefield

I block people. When they tell me they are not interested I bock them to remind me not to bother them again. I’ve not thrown my toys out of the pram.

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By *oddess NailaWoman
over a year ago

London & Edinburgh

If I’ve blocked someone without any interaction it’s usually because I’ve read their profile or seen a post that’s incredibly off putting, rude or insulting etc or I’ll block if I know who it is and want to avoid recognition.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I block men who obviously didn't read my bio and are simply objectifying me, why bother indulging them when they haven't bothered to note my preferences.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've been blocked loads by people. I just assume I'm not for them. I've even had people who've blocked me, then come up and chatted to me at clubs/parties.

People have so many reasons why they block other's. I tend not to take it personally

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Life is too short. Carry on.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I dont know if Ive been blocked so dont really care.

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By *uyfrombristolMan
over a year ago

Bristol

I occasionally block people who have have limits on whom they will accept messages from, but only a few so far. I kind of accept the same will happen in return if someone isn't interested in you.

Where it becomes annoying/rude is if you've interacted. In that case it's only right they say you're not for them, but most people are cowards.

I've noticed that during lockdown there are far more profiles that set up and never sign on again, or join, have a few messages, then get booted. It's shit, but pervasive.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've been blocked by a woman for trying to defend her against nasty comments a couple were throwing at her. Lucky for her she had the forum whiteknight to defend her also as she obviously didn't want another female to support her.

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By *uyfrombristolMan
over a year ago

Bristol

"I've been blocked by a woman for trying to defend her against nasty comments a couple were throwing at her. Lucky for her she had the forum whiteknight to defend her also as she obviously didn't want another female to support her."

Your profile pictures: Oh my

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